有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...

Charcoal_henry

有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...
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; d0 {' C6 n2 U& c) c* e, k感情太豐富一受打撃果陣真係會好辛苦...; ]- d% f4 Z- \$ I7 c) Z4 Q
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any suggestions?

迪達拉姑

哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔理智..樓主分享多d你實例同個人心境黎睇下我地似唔似..
% v9 g0 B2 q4 Z我諗個性自細培養..我諗..對感情唔重視..就可能係想獨來獨往..最好好似流川楓咁.., F% }% \/ w9 g& D* I! Z0 ~2 A
咁樣學下功夫,多做事小說話小胡思亂想..嚴重d睇心理醫生./吹眠..純粹個人意見..

john01daly

Anyone can help, I also want to know.

Charcoal_henry

Originally posted by 迪達拉姑 at 2008-2-17 03:06 AM:
2 e1 f* j! Y+ q  ?4 [哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔...

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good to hear that someone has got the same feeling with me( X+ z% \0 |* L$ K( N' C3 n. N' T2 E/ b0 G
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唔係好想講experience...
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不過我自問都係一個性情中人, 好唔捨得一D曾經擁有既野 eg. school life, relationship with gf, close friends etc..../ i7 `2 W, z$ Q$ {. |+ \: l
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我唔係想做獨行俠,
, Z. g- U" A+ l# L只係想知道點樣先可以令自己對人與人之間既感情(no matter love or friendship)睇得開D...

escalation

個人分享:
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4 J6 E4 c. Q) A+ E) y我自己曾經都好似你呢類人, 十分熱情和感性, 而且鍾意用"性情中人"自居, 其實呢種態度只係唔成熟既表現. 當然, 人地唔會咁好心點醒你, 就算點你都未必醒.8 T  c1 x& p3 C% V5 c

  m  Y1 m- x4 E% G) A解決方法: 好簡單, 多經歷一些挫折, 你慢慢會開始"化", 心態亦漸漸穩重起來. 呢個過程好奇妙的, 好難形容, 總之, 你經歷多左, 好多野會在你意料之中, 就唔會再比D小事情小變化影響你情緒.

自由神

Originally posted by escalation at 2008-2-17 08:35 PM:
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我自己曾經都好似你呢類...

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