熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
( _2 m6 A) T+ o0 V. @9 {好唔鍾意呢種感覺7 k/ u6 r9 v; P! a: ~2 C; i# d& I
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
6 {4 Q1 ~" O  @0 U1 x) e個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣& s. Y, h( Z6 ?+ m0 n, d5 D% x4 p
覺得好空虛# I  R- n- @+ y+ Q# \1 i; V
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
: v5 `2 H! w+ v卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
) D+ Q; Z+ M" K+ _: y. j. |' v2 r5 w% I用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,  X' i% F% b9 a& |# b# Z/ R* W: h
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺, {; _$ l2 j0 C0 d" d
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
% X: n" d" i4 \, F7 M# |% t所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙7 I' r0 L9 L/ l! F+ i3 r
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:/ K8 u) J4 b  p* o, s
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

0 I5 P- q5 G5 l; U7 k! @# |6 u  N我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
! e3 e( K9 M' U) s. [感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
! A6 E' m7 M7 L9 d% p玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.0 C/ v4 F8 L  C; E
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
  V- t: n+ b' W- m, `1 {8 G其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
; p' o1 g+ H/ f9 e/ }8 F所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
7 @4 b/ M! V) d# M& X" b' f; R  m# `日日有車站,& `: d& q! r( r$ g# @. w
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
, W: \/ O' U; ]2 b6 V& k5 h如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?& J" [7 G4 K+ M' E. s6 H
好唔鍾意呢種感覺! G" v1 g+ {9 C/ l: O7 l6 b$ w# k* Q
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心: z5 ~0 ~: @" T: c9 R
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣) {& J; |% G! j0 F5 J5 y: n
覺得好空虛2 R( t7 i- I  ]
其實早幾次都有試過係咁" i; U( v4 W& n1 ]+ D, i* H
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己' N" ?. R0 M- Q- R" N! ]
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦." j8 M& B# j" [2 Y" S1 |8 E
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
0 X6 E, Q( j. C有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.' m0 e% k1 S: ^- u
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:- B- v. q* ^5 b! }' n
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
0 n! e2 x% m% b5 \3 Fb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
% d" K7 q$ l' d4 L0 h6 [' I% Ic) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
# D2 p0 {1 j, `% iLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
9 h  X% O* f  E. b* u) W$ E/ P. vBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
! t- w7 M1 e( w# j& u3 E我會有一種十分空虛的感覺7 j7 @9 X3 X( Y, Z( o9 H# O
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影% v8 `' ^0 M# I1 G' M0 `
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～7 u7 Q9 j& I9 T8 S) }6 T) w9 ]
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉7 U9 ?! [& F" f& W# n: y
很少會超過一天～! o4 p6 i% X. I: W8 {7 U
要期待更好的明天呀！