熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?$ `+ p8 k# a7 ]" B% c! X! \/ _/ K
好唔鍾意呢種感覺, S" W% `& }6 g/ G7 l" u
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
+ r+ ?- D* }( T: L% j0 J個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
3 o# G5 g+ F: J/ h: q1 u覺得好空虛* z. ^! h; ~$ `9 A' [. F
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
1 o, G! s9 y& ]9 K/ m& B卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
. A" U; o5 ~8 j1 q用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,1 i" G1 @2 H2 ~1 O
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺( E$ F5 _4 c! j8 {" |. y& U
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,& \9 x" g; b( q' x. ^; o
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,5 O- v/ s# a$ `* b# G+ s( n
日日有車站,+ x- w; z2 T. E) g2 v8 o! _. p
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙) f, y( B1 y0 M) i/ O
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
/ Q* K  Z1 W: L6 R  ~% u如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
9 B8 j, ^% n! `! i9 M' y+ {感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..% d5 d2 x$ S- b
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.! f2 Z, S; C1 u' E
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
, V5 v. W8 p; R$ V# W其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
8 U5 d8 N: u2 g+ O, p所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
' K' l8 K2 w, C$ U& \# i5 Q6 Y日日有車站,
1 F8 X* o& K' |( Z" O2 ]; }有目標!

4 S1 t3 X2 O6 E8 b9 s- Q- Y! E" Gwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
1 M. d  a9 x0 Z2 M; Z5 v如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
1 _4 q& L- S1 w( ~3 g! {, X1 B好唔鍾意呢種感覺$ G' T/ M9 P. P
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心1 v" y& N; S3 F3 A% M
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
: x! @" Z: @  [1 M2 A覺得好空虛7 Q9 T! B! Z1 ]6 L  w6 H* O- J
其實早幾次都有試過係咁' o! l% k: R8 f. \1 s* {. p
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
3 p) K0 N/ }4 k# p用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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3 `, d  X/ j$ q' `5 }這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.! S8 ~  R( c' `
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.% e. H/ z4 Y: _5 f8 j
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.! }1 o' I1 S9 ?- t" T6 w

/ B/ [6 \* A: p9 cPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
# v3 y2 j% u: T0 D6 l; p0 F! ta) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long, N  R) k& t) Y% H5 l
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.  }8 R1 b6 u+ R: R) g
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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' ]/ `! k2 ~, \- MJust another thought on lonliness:, O! s+ H& @2 S; w0 R
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time...... m  b- w( ^, a0 }+ H  V
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～+ h- K! f" F. d
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺- o1 F4 f( }9 T1 l1 W# M
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
- ~& E4 Y7 ^3 k( E' }或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
* s0 ~; C  Z) n: M) o% l* `5 d空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉6 |  }& x3 u0 b  C$ y2 O, N
很少會超過一天～
% j: K+ ^" b6 u! Z要期待更好的明天呀！