熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?: y/ u5 K8 X; ~1 q
好唔鍾意呢種感覺) l6 F) c8 V( ~) e2 ~% N6 q
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
0 E9 l0 t" I2 z- }個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣* _2 d  E0 c% N/ C, m# `
覺得好空虛3 `6 x0 h' h" \0 b' l; m
其實早幾次都有試過係咁* {1 E" g1 F$ Z' n" P" c! K
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己$ p. x  C6 ]/ s7 W  [1 P. [5 {, o9 X/ \
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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3 F$ u( J9 @6 P, T- d[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,' j8 @* L+ w: C: s
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺: R1 v! y6 r. h$ ]
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,( Z& K2 W/ ?. J, F2 Z9 D# c
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
$ I+ |" Y1 Y2 J7 [/ W% E; P日日有車站,$ u" \0 `4 \1 _( z
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙( J$ S! p) ?+ `2 e- h8 |4 [, }
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
  ?/ W, y$ V8 t7 C+ i( O, ^如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

* l& ?! P7 w) \" d6 D4 m, `1 P我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
2 P' l  p$ V  e( G感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
3 ?) |8 ^! [3 `7 }" @. p; @玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
/ ~0 s- \6 V) q  i總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
& B1 U2 j, ?! X8 G, M其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
# K5 q0 a# g9 Q! a/ t+ w/ f所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
, f& B, F4 ?/ f7 X/ Q. H, _& f0 x日日有車站,  u4 r' l6 }9 I" G0 L/ H, ?
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
: G* G" R* h5 O8 |; M2 z如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?; D5 k2 L$ t$ a8 n0 X4 ~. X8 f+ a* A& D
好唔鍾意呢種感覺$ v! A9 a/ ?, }- D& p
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
) f7 z& h9 ~. @( z* C- {6 |個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣, ^; ^8 j- X# X% m9 A
覺得好空虛
/ C/ `1 s5 ], r0 I& E6 }. R其實早幾次都有試過係咁
) y, k/ E8 [: c: T0 f卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
0 [  ^+ v; D" X2 K" m& E% G% c用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
. \7 F+ f5 ~/ F9 d唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
) v3 r' X3 D  c4 ?. f: w: k有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:! B# U/ x2 _$ v' v% v  Z
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
0 Z/ s2 A1 |5 L. N$ n4 _b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
6 y+ ?+ |1 r, n  y, D  s7 Yc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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. \& ~" N8 B; y$ N/ o( _Just another thought on lonliness:
' Z, G/ \0 g$ [+ v: l8 b9 [Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
+ m9 C) B5 R  F1 sBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
) \' d& D* z0 T. ^1 ^8 T. U( |我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
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或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～+ I+ G1 G2 Y+ P, y' Q6 ^
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
/ G: y7 d6 ?; \3 u5 m很少會超過一天～* v1 x) |" U2 r
要期待更好的明天呀！