熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
% ?5 q4 k, i- e' G3 d  v" @好唔鍾意呢種感覺
7 t& v8 Q' e0 B. w5 K: A3 S9 A琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心+ R& Y. _) y: I* t( J3 O& K
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
3 `% J' }) V$ x1 k* |* k覺得好空虛
- T- {  L5 n1 ]$ E7 F其實早幾次都有試過係咁
! `' x8 [* g2 k1 D' I卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
- J/ M: ?% u( D用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?# _: t' }. M3 X$ h; E

# _! j7 `; O0 L, U7 r. x[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,) A0 |) t1 o1 p+ b
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺7 |7 |3 d; s# S( k, ^
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,8 k* ^# R0 d2 Z  d( T8 D
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,) z( N$ m0 e# `" F4 x
日日有車站,
4 ]3 `  z! d6 z" _, q6 f6 g有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙, `% V& Q" o' ^
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:  M2 R% [2 a* N5 p
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

# ]2 D+ E  f1 E% R, R/ B4 C我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.. u" a0 J5 k; X: h4 p2 H" y6 T
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..6 [$ Z; d2 B# {  V/ {  v
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.0 I6 A" e; l9 q: D% J
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:# u- H: t# u& i& S( j6 a7 N
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,) t' f( ~& I  @% _
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,3 N. E1 ^" U9 u: a/ k
日日有車站,% F( |/ `6 x3 `2 |6 B+ f7 P
有目標!

* o$ L& @+ y1 ?3 z+ x5 j0 twhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:* q# j9 O/ S+ R( q
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?$ ]" h0 H+ F; Y: X5 G- q( k
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
. O& I1 r/ W; W$ I& i( U琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心: ]3 u# v5 h* @) ~8 G
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
4 @1 X+ h! n5 `- ^' o4 ?( B' `2 w覺得好空虛
& ^8 ]" m2 q" I- @. c其實早幾次都有試過係咁
/ T" G/ u1 O$ B. z$ @* Y卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
2 f5 X& }4 u4 m用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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# r/ z3 X. {$ j9 M6 g這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.% _2 Z( Q8 h# M; V" c. v
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.% W; A( F1 n8 C) V1 Q$ Y
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.! E4 t7 W0 D2 j. G
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
) {2 [( j) W& T; f/ Ca) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long0 O; @' b' q) G* z- @8 B
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.% P) W# l8 i7 T+ u5 w7 M9 y% J$ e
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:" a" _* g( u3 n% F* _: Z% E
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....$ I# `9 ~4 X* V$ P3 Q* z
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
  {/ y5 ?% Q5 X: Z我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
' u5 R6 q5 z0 q/ }/ q% U4 b就好似睇完一套好睇的電影: V& Y" t$ b7 G: r1 S
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
8 b% M, @  w4 c. P3 [% q+ M/ m空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
- S6 \% [' I* U: ?1 F, r很少會超過一天～" I$ c6 T' l# b9 y! P3 [
要期待更好的明天呀！