熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?  L* E6 h" [3 |' U9 S
好唔鍾意呢種感覺. o8 B  _  R( [8 H' k
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
& E& E3 `% g4 p$ R! {% i! h% f個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
1 n) ]% Q( x2 o1 O" Y5 L覺得好空虛# [# S, y: |- G# e. ]7 i  d
其實早幾次都有試過係咁# u4 }- b3 ^7 N5 |# L4 p5 @
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
' H3 \/ b% ~% |% m% d用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
5 V0 L' G. ^: y  J0 @但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺( U( `5 E+ X3 R8 c% H5 H6 S
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
, h* d4 ~- ?' D% ]: |8 J* E所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,! P. T) G: P  D2 e; C0 g- b
日日有車站,
0 \$ E  E$ N4 R1 r' `2 D有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙! H5 [3 [, c; z. X, }: \4 O" p
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:% ^: x9 \' d. I! h, [& U% d
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

( I& U' i" p& X, w  x4 u  v我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
& F  y! k; V6 ?" S感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..5 p: G4 ]' }. R1 z
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.: \* R, Q+ P9 J% G* e2 r5 q* H3 R
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:$ Y2 k* A3 u+ w- @: \2 {1 w
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
9 N1 H9 D& v3 t所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
8 b9 u6 v& o; b) \0 [$ D日日有車站,7 N0 o8 K/ N  ]3 k6 K1 o
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
5 |( h+ A) V+ ?) ?2 q4 T1 [如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?3 i$ C0 r2 F- P9 ]; ~5 \" n
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
, [$ W& Z$ r4 z6 x% x琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心$ S; S$ P! @, G4 a6 y6 |' C' Y
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣, ^% M( X8 A! U3 g# Q
覺得好空虛0 ~& O& E3 T0 M. I, J
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
8 O# a! j. y9 d+ ~/ r卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己* \7 M9 m% Z, G3 ^
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
& [, V& ]% q( x; y* e3 s% g8 j/ Y1 H

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% a9 z! I  A- ?! c4 \這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.8 X/ {- O: O" D( J, F( [8 `4 {
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.% P2 V5 b5 o* y/ h- H
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
0 J+ ~) ?4 b- E, w6 {% va) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long# \7 |1 ]4 M  Y9 F# c7 n" b" `
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.$ x" d! E2 h1 u! M9 i7 x) J" |
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.8 j" q0 w. B! I

6 F/ @8 v. r+ J- a' ?5 l% M1 bJust another thought on lonliness:2 ?# V' x. @% b7 _
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....) q' p4 c0 _5 c  X- @
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
% d' T7 Y& C- t# H/ x. m& {7 E5 ~我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
- v& ^3 \* e" P0 {" Z7 a就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
7 ?! F9 l) t, s8 G: O或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～' n2 F( r( H; n- a" p9 h
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉( H& O0 R5 j/ a. ~$ b0 T9 m
很少會超過一天～
/ G5 ~/ I( K, J  G  P; \要期待更好的明天呀！