熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
% H5 M  G" R9 m5 o# h( a/ @好唔鍾意呢種感覺) o8 H# u; O" d1 \- j* [
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心' W- R8 }, t. y* ^  \
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣  ?) q, M! t3 [7 v* o. b6 M
覺得好空虛
5 N7 B5 i/ i2 s9 f+ d7 j$ U5 @其實早幾次都有試過係咁* q* a, ~* k4 w  h% z
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己4 ?6 D- D0 {, ?! M& H- E
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?! u( w! s1 y* w9 e
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,! o* k9 Q% e$ w
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺( k; w+ `: o$ }4 }/ g
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,4 A! R8 f+ |  n$ |8 C
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
) t. q' x. ^6 t2 L日日有車站,! ^+ f) z: Z2 C, x4 k
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
3 ?  k2 H4 E5 H, @. ^  ~- d) q你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:8 f  \) @  z3 N1 n7 i
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

/ j5 k1 R! E) ^1 A/ Z! i3 P3 ]我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
& M; R. a! r3 ]$ o  s, C感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
- S' k& C; M( }  Y玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.) ^. x+ w4 ?- z$ O. M0 K
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:. k; m- R* H; c
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
3 [3 b5 v. \" y( {所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,$ M& h/ U8 j1 l9 Z- a+ I% S
日日有車站,0 c( Z! V2 q+ Q
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:. y/ s. N, [2 T* x: {& D5 a' M
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?' X  ]3 E# y. R3 i
好唔鍾意呢種感覺! t1 Q' d# M' D& n! U! Q
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心9 ~/ h6 o) _6 H2 L7 ?; O
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
' i/ r. S7 H- t6 T覺得好空虛/ ?* N( V  X2 K8 X# z
其實早幾次都有試過係咁6 E6 J" ?" j" E+ V
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己( A$ o% r$ f1 \) r# y  o
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?1 M# S' C3 n3 }0 G: ]* a) d( }

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
4 R9 o/ _+ r" N唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
6 f5 |; l1 D* j4 w+ d/ @有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
/ w8 Z* {+ `( E$ o4 N/ t0 S5 na) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
/ `" N0 j4 M$ b/ n1 l. v# N, ]5 Tb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.* B) C6 m6 E- r. J7 h, i
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:/ u% b9 B4 ?0 @0 B
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
, n' }# N% E- o( ]# mBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～+ n* S' p4 ]( V  U/ |
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺0 {  Y1 H- v$ H2 Q
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影7 W* l: n' j' g7 w1 D- C
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
/ ~) J% |7 @- ^) v% ?空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉  j1 v% C3 M- c7 Q6 V/ k
很少會超過一天～
( ?' [3 S8 }3 |  _8 W4 F1 l要期待更好的明天呀！