熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
5 U% l: @/ |3 D" W, \+ `/ t* {1 D好唔鍾意呢種感覺. V& q4 @2 `5 s+ ?
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
9 F7 {0 z0 C2 ^& n個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣, v# `4 b, [1 _6 d6 g& w& p
覺得好空虛
! r2 Q+ G1 r4 {/ G1 p' L& Z其實早幾次都有試過係咁
; K: o, @8 u) i: b, I/ h1 z卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
" K) _( C2 r' @+ u3 b; g6 }用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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2 ~6 e+ T' O( z[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,( i! p" N3 Y) k! K# f* @: F
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺; }( u3 C$ H: c  V
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
- g/ N" [4 Q5 @) [0 t. X* g所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
  p1 s3 c5 b$ C( Y" q! \! ~- b日日有車站,
; H: _5 l0 E: _3 a5 d- `# W有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
5 x! {$ C* \2 @你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
2 S( P$ D5 \& m5 A如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

% ?: A5 P. \% r0 B' E' ~我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
7 B3 s9 u4 O7 c% G  x感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
4 |9 }. }4 K" `玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
: `* A* M7 A+ Y# q2 M: G總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:9 U+ y% ~* L/ w: d' q% S$ L
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,( ~$ M/ f% S# M6 Z, r: i
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,, _$ v0 d. j$ l: u& c  Q
日日有車站,9 J4 j& f" e' S" V# E  e5 ^
有目標!

" j7 }) M+ t5 Q8 x& Lwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
/ J9 ]1 Q7 a2 j3 j- `0 [$ m如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
. W' u0 b0 ], n好唔鍾意呢種感覺% T' ^5 Z7 O- V. `
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
+ J! @( n. s, M) Y! \) h& e個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
, Y/ Y- S. S9 c, V) T$ {3 F覺得好空虛$ p0 s% i, C" @( A
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
" |1 r; v1 j# X' e: L卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己* P) B0 l2 B" T  c# I
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
9 b; f( S. N' R' o' Z唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.% C, N$ n7 `  r5 u; C2 O& x6 Q
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.& E' U% [# t7 N
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:1 S+ s7 k) \5 i1 ^
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long3 e: \. n! V6 _
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.$ C9 @& t# N0 W, Q. g: [# o
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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( P* ~# L: Q8 t- p2 n& NJust another thought on lonliness:6 J7 |$ ]- F4 `) g" A& _( l" D
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
0 P- E% q. z$ |6 E' qBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
+ R. p* S0 u( ^* [, c1 x, e我會有一種十分空虛的感覺& K8 \; _) s" R' z' f! T% Q
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
/ s# t, @& A& E$ W1 S2 `或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～8 u( t8 j1 J0 N* z% a0 F6 v
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉9 u$ t1 l) K* G" N$ [2 }! P
很少會超過一天～
  G% o8 C% F) n$ q( H要期待更好的明天呀！