熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
: u4 g5 R3 J' V  @) P& V好唔鍾意呢種感覺- ?& ~* `7 n: L6 h6 U0 Y; \
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
3 l1 S0 E: i/ f# ^& o個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
2 H/ T  B9 {! K! |覺得好空虛
+ ]) k* s- U* U  j1 S3 g- S1 ?, V: @其實早幾次都有試過係咁4 f- Q: n/ ^* K: x" x* `( C, u
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
  F+ Z" V9 |8 l) [* o5 K用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?9 x" F6 Q4 \, M3 ?( l5 j
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,/ C- ~3 y( F& I  t, \/ c! `
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
0 F3 P2 }$ y1 c8 g2 }& f2 r熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
8 Q2 K( z) p! T$ R  e* ~所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
( y, M1 J& }. M  [7 C- F' m日日有車站,; V4 t9 U7 P" o8 _% L$ M2 i
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙/ U+ D* B) }% n& Y% `  i
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
0 ^+ c2 _; Q. l1 }6 x& `4 K如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
' L/ t5 p" b* [7 h9 E9 T( A感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
( g2 a9 R9 e: B1 m/ q- I3 V玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
" x% t) u4 ]. [6 X* I' A" _總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
; @+ n( I9 x* s$ F( v其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
1 g  u! \9 Z8 K( j/ y6 O+ b9 Z所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
& e  B% f( M" r$ }+ _' P( Q日日有車站,$ H* x& e: p: t
有目標!

3 o: ~# j* ?) r5 [5 }what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
1 s* a6 i5 `7 i+ t5 \# f" B% @如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
; M6 z# p: J8 ]3 y' u好唔鍾意呢種感覺( U" |8 X4 _! o: u! Y
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心3 ~) R( v4 f3 `3 s
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣8 u. h9 B+ g& |6 P/ ]
覺得好空虛
! E7 K9 N7 c, v" D其實早幾次都有試過係咁2 o  X  D$ y& x8 J, E, `
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己# d5 y6 q* Z$ L+ L( u5 B
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
2 q! m$ c6 C: `0 T+ K/ `唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
- i; I4 G7 \# u( Z. d有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.9 T$ N) n3 L6 n* `8 x7 p, g

# n1 [0 J) U7 C$ r& G0 o; LPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
9 r6 B3 F- f. f. Q5 q" pa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long- o/ G& x% s' X1 U! A6 ^
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
7 _3 K7 j5 y2 Y/ |c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.2 t( C8 L: Q& O; U

: \0 W& Q# E, [1 V( ^5 PJust another thought on lonliness:+ \- B- L5 Q+ B, \' Q) n, S
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....7 ]% ^" G0 {# `+ g/ d' B
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～9 Y8 f, V* y' y5 \  T
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
8 h' Q" s  r9 l- b0 Y就好似睇完一套好睇的電影4 X6 p  ^8 p5 S: u1 A8 l2 h9 i
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～3 @, G! q$ G  A9 t5 A! b! v
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
3 C: O/ J& i+ b- U3 Z; Y% v很少會超過一天～, t4 O2 M9 a! K; Y/ U1 j
要期待更好的明天呀！