熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?6 T% m( x9 G  ?4 `( ]  ~, `
好唔鍾意呢種感覺, L$ K" y2 r# [$ |2 H. t
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心' N. K! V& `3 D2 d  a3 o
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣  x& m' M9 w0 r+ g) ?" e% ~9 ~% q3 \
覺得好空虛* |3 U7 b% w- ~; `
其實早幾次都有試過係咁/ H- A! n9 O' Q& p6 u- E6 O( P& k* Q
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
! J* J8 z. {; [. t) Z用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?7 {# i5 T+ t, I/ B+ Q- [4 l

" Q- [* f+ o+ T; Q( I[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,( O" v0 z. O+ m- k- o- w
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
+ I. t2 Q' W1 p熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,4 V( B2 A, V$ B+ @2 O0 A
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,/ x/ o+ V" J& G  k
日日有車站,# f% ~% g3 y: v- b' K8 ~
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙: t0 |+ Z0 x0 A
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:0 s2 [1 P( v, i1 L, k) S
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
. k" _+ F; r# W7 N  |3 i  }6 X, l感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞../ U6 H9 l# h( u: y( ]$ V& ~
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.) k: b3 d/ z2 H; q% S
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:+ j1 @5 `0 p' P+ ]
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
) c  p' ^* C: n3 b所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
  f) ?# r7 m& _+ Z1 K' Q日日有車站,
7 U1 P7 V1 \9 ]& \有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:6 e/ S6 |! |4 X- h, F
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?) u# t0 g( @% c* `; g* p/ |4 S
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
6 H8 m5 O7 H" v& y+ B琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心" v1 c5 w$ J, ~
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣, M9 a1 q* r: ~" Z. a, S0 z/ ^
覺得好空虛. }+ t. s1 o/ K; s0 `% e% }
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
! p; x( X6 G0 \7 P2 T* J  O0 P卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己2 ?% B/ k4 s( h4 y0 [
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?5 H! Q5 C  n9 c  Y7 }2 N9 J

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0 Z% v) b% O) n) \% ?" ^& M7 s這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.& E, d5 a* e; Z. s% o
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.; p" _& o- e8 A3 f+ f5 u5 N
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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/ x: y8 c5 A2 e( l* @# pPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
3 H9 K9 d1 I  E7 \) n- ~. I0 Ha) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
/ L/ s' v, G/ f; I3 Pb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.4 S$ {& R/ F7 [1 e5 w% K
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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! w1 V& M% x; ~1 D/ s) d# M* mJust another thought on lonliness:
4 ]; \: u& }( X0 x; tLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....4 S% e' A! R! `+ o! V7 r: h( b
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～6 B7 _1 p7 @3 ?; L, m* ], L
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺5 N3 p9 p, |! f9 a) x  Y4 d! j3 F
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
% i) b% w  Z: X2 D或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～. X( ?! ?  f8 z5 Z+ \- Z7 v
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
# h7 L4 Q6 H+ S" n/ f9 T2 G很少會超過一天～
% |1 E; }! A2 w& d要期待更好的明天呀！