熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
( {8 Y4 L8 N) K; y6 H好唔鍾意呢種感覺
8 N& A5 N; c+ Y琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
1 B2 e- x/ u4 [: X個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
9 h0 s0 t2 [& {, G6 t覺得好空虛9 F- c2 f9 v9 D+ b
其實早幾次都有試過係咁$ S' d& z" r0 w$ S7 ^8 x0 l
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
& h4 q8 D9 O4 M, |9 S5 M用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?! h3 l9 H2 @9 [4 R! I4 }6 C- N4 h: i

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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,& D* f: y! D$ e, N, s
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
. K  w6 u8 Q! i( w$ ~$ q" N7 o熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,) k, X' x3 ~  T/ N/ E4 r: v, J
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,; n9 {" ~1 H5 B  ]
日日有車站,
1 [8 \$ F5 G; }8 @有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
( ~  ]( F3 D' o! u你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
" k8 }2 l2 ]$ u/ w  d( M如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
6 j1 D# v; l: K+ S7 C) \9 p感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
5 }. C! v/ R) K. M% C- f玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.3 q- n8 F  D# S0 J: y" U
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
0 f% ]7 `9 a2 G& q1 h$ M其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
) \6 M7 p0 I& K1 _) m' E  L; G! y所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
, ]( V. Z) P. @/ e6 {% V日日有車站,
  c2 U7 L7 L1 y- S有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:3 ]) n; y" ^1 O, V2 {) |5 ~
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?& e- ?0 R4 M/ \2 W
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
& k( l) J$ E, P9 L( D琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
" L: @9 e) M) {$ ^4 N# D, q( t% ~個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
7 H0 d# n- N5 w2 ]& i% f覺得好空虛2 ?8 f8 z5 F8 k  M
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
9 z: K  ?( ], a  p卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己6 F5 U0 x7 H% Q8 \/ l# q
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?! m1 B6 |) S0 H6 {1 [$ t

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5 q( ~  l4 s- b1 g這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
! {7 N- @3 o. A唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
4 j0 N/ K5 T: H9 V' I1 C- R有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:0 g3 q5 ]& q5 b7 W6 U+ {5 k
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long: h$ `" y2 L' V( M0 x# r0 x
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
1 V3 n2 V+ w3 d6 i3 n+ L# _' F9 Qc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
/ P3 N" @; a, ~8 C$ {Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
3 H9 j) c6 a- \! ^: PBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～# e" M; H3 H; O- t# ~( o
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
( {# e0 h+ c6 |就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
( f2 }. @2 ?% ?或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～2 L: P( V" C8 S+ _0 W# }6 Z$ z3 |1 t
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
( N/ c. g2 y8 }+ _( J/ o$ o( y; s. o很少會超過一天～
& k& \0 m) p( @1 i/ u要期待更好的明天呀！