熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?( V# q7 G' u- D# Q/ J& m
好唔鍾意呢種感覺; ~" j4 W  b, X
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
6 O4 n: [/ ?8 a3 W個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣9 T7 t' p' o6 _+ \, S: y
覺得好空虛
* g2 f* c7 t4 [# p其實早幾次都有試過係咁
( i6 L, u2 r7 c卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
* o; ~4 g; @( K  z& R9 H用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?% G  R: q3 @1 {- l7 q" y1 V) j$ C

6 L1 D, j  i0 f' }1 h' }[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
4 c- X$ i4 m% P' d. y但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺9 B5 @2 W6 T8 P  E% C
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
- I, B2 T7 I( [9 J2 r8 r所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
% E( M/ O- t; m日日有車站,
- _4 Z/ f+ b  [- `8 W3 R0 `有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
1 i: h* `/ y3 f8 G) _) F你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:. P& v% d: R9 G( Z7 J+ \# e) L
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

/ e, l: J0 J) m2 A我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.: ?5 _9 l4 D# r6 \
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..4 j' D8 v9 [9 s- U+ x4 B6 H9 q
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.3 n* R  W" F, Q: H/ x1 a
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:6 a9 K) o# P8 t8 s( D
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
9 ~+ V) N! p0 s$ p: W9 \4 |所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
. i4 c9 \8 h& _( e, l1 q日日有車站,
) y  W$ d! T. Z有目標!

) _4 b4 t' R8 J1 A4 l) g( Kwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
2 `" m6 M# I2 U" A如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
: M. C/ n& P. J% Q2 n好唔鍾意呢種感覺
4 Y: Y7 `$ o2 T6 c2 A琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心  l* M& _7 D6 p+ D. q1 l7 q
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣$ Z# Y6 x" B( O9 \. a" a% p
覺得好空虛: Y0 s" b$ Q6 }# B* }. N9 J
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
  R4 m  r) U$ w# v卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
) v9 ^+ }& q7 G6 B用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
' B! e  Q2 O- p

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.) W4 Z% C  f6 W4 ]& d
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
7 ]+ c. a. H$ K+ G8 S$ O有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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  `8 I5 D' d4 l! xPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
/ l4 Q" X: ]+ n- ]  C9 va) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
4 N! m' w. o- T/ Lb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
5 J, t" y0 D: S  H. X* {0 g5 Pc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.7 m* J8 ~' h- b9 k# w

, B' {' i% L* y3 L7 p' CJust another thought on lonliness:
- h" W. a% Z1 H+ A9 tLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....' P+ x/ K4 Y) a5 _6 d$ z
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～! l: \1 g5 ]# B1 ]- n) }5 _
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺( O8 J9 ]  a3 ?/ o5 \4 C4 ^$ s( o
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
; Y7 Y- d, l3 M' n" l# i- @# n或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～3 j) t  t, ]+ @" s- W6 \0 a
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉& F* h0 w$ a9 H' Z: d8 l
很少會超過一天～/ e1 Z7 q4 j3 n, L1 O* Z; ?' W
要期待更好的明天呀！