熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?8 J) y8 S8 r# P6 w, G7 I2 _+ h! u
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
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個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣/ z' a& F% x4 K8 d+ H" X; X0 m
覺得好空虛" ^& @7 t2 Z( a9 Q
其實早幾次都有試過係咁) o% i' B5 N1 H) D9 S% h
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己6 H# Z3 |( B9 X; |0 O
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?3 k: H; Y. I! ^+ [

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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,/ o# l. Z- l) r. f# S+ _
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺  @2 Z" j# I6 ^% ?: q/ [; |8 T
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,* u( w: {8 J# q: s5 Z0 d
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,' t2 U: Z- U8 ~& u* m
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙  o) X2 B. }, J/ c: [& I+ T
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:$ w# V% ^, {& [" G  b! f) H
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.: q- u1 j  \9 d7 X
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..4 ?0 \% H* i5 Y1 F* G7 S
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.  Q5 b. i8 M/ S' C- h' H- K# ]- y
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:7 b. v3 l: m, G& r
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
; v' y. M: J' @; p, }所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,0 i2 ~# q7 B; l% \+ j% a6 X) g! M7 q
日日有車站,
6 s5 X2 t' w4 P2 A" H8 L有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
& a! }( a! c9 M* b  d如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?! V6 f+ C7 I) |! c
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
! b$ o2 Z" L; @. D2 B琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
, ]9 |; i2 H( \/ w個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣1 O$ `1 S. a* F! B% a2 d8 E
覺得好空虛
* V% i; g" z3 n0 P2 x% z其實早幾次都有試過係咁
9 z) h# x1 l& P9 A' g7 V卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己7 |& S" E0 t9 v' o" n
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?; m- V* W: M* b7 w* x& |& `

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.* q' K& M& z$ f# C8 e, P
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.  x0 @' [5 Q* |9 y6 d& D! _
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
: `8 B) R  W( H7 f3 _7 n0 Ha) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long5 K) b3 ~) @, W+ s6 V$ x  M
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
8 R  u! I) u( q% e5 N$ T9 d! rc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
8 z$ h, j, E) X' _; w% |Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
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遊戲

真的啦～
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就好似睇完一套好睇的電影6 Z/ r# I3 X  O0 f5 L$ w
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～( U& U6 B1 w& H2 [$ L( P
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
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- K1 H+ Z' E/ l; e/ n要期待更好的明天呀！