熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?" n8 g0 b. x  a( D# D9 g
好唔鍾意呢種感覺5 N  Q8 S$ j% }" k
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
/ a# O1 Q9 N- m* o# G) _& }: K/ e個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣, i; A7 t' b3 G# P
覺得好空虛
2 u) ~/ C) ]* E3 c4 q其實早幾次都有試過係咁
" E( M9 U. o( p: e卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己3 H5 n: D+ c, k& y
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
8 g! L" p) r6 L+ O0 t但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
9 y; ?9 F! l, p熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
0 m) h0 M' D, Q7 e所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,0 f% ?4 D' B7 h! V' {% u) o
日日有車站,* s( v2 m( G6 Z$ ?( k6 X; p: J
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙$ l) U; J0 K( h) v( `9 d  Y3 o! J
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
1 I6 C$ c, M, N如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
3 N7 ^! {& q4 K& H  f4 q6 ]- u( c感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..8 N7 ^' U9 }$ N7 y& C& n1 m! |& T" ^& D
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.$ o0 O! V# G) j. y* I" ]' F3 U( f6 ]
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
; |) U4 \" i% a' W1 l7 x其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,5 J6 }" D' ~' i
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
& _( Q2 O4 J' G; @$ V( Q& _日日有車站,. R! m8 |* I0 b
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
- j7 U- c" U/ [* r如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?5 }! |# y& T  u: O. M: Z, h5 f8 J
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
) a, X. B/ d& _( H# C* L琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
) A  C, {( H- I3 l! }$ O0 V個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣7 j; C% m. B: G
覺得好空虛
/ z( R. ?% U" Q) |; L$ Y其實早幾次都有試過係咁: e, z/ r% \& f( t
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己/ U% l6 w1 P9 j* `+ n9 D
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?" h; J2 v: _" a8 P# e& e

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.5 N7 i; i( s: v5 m7 N' ]0 U
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
7 w( P& q7 t/ F$ O, t有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own." w. X  _* H; O/ L; m' w9 C4 u

! K$ X  n7 u. P9 k1 G4 FPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
5 J- O. C& v, m; g: U* F, D, \a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long+ n8 J* u, H6 e! W+ ~9 W
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.. b3 U! W) M; ~4 o- x
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.! i; f& |; M' l2 Y4 k
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Just another thought on lonliness:
8 o1 X9 Z2 x/ }. YLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....! N2 s$ g+ P0 W$ f8 W3 r
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～* I' ~& q9 _6 @. v. y
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺$ R+ d1 J$ p+ b! P
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影; ]) E: \2 N8 e
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
# N+ n+ U% y4 h% H3 G! f空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉4 p9 ~4 v$ Q6 h: W
很少會超過一天～+ c# i) i4 x3 }  z& B
要期待更好的明天呀！