熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?8 ]! X- h3 ]4 |6 I
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
, D$ B; J3 b. A% o3 {  M& V琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心- K& w' _- N( v& e! k
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣' V6 C: C( l. I9 l
覺得好空虛
' O' D2 M. m6 B4 f- i% {其實早幾次都有試過係咁, y/ ^/ {7 V8 G% L4 S3 K# H* z9 W3 v
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
% {, W: K+ P: a3 ~3 S6 b8 r7 W5 ?用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,5 ^. Y/ S# Y( A" I) I
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺, Y: j4 n4 R5 P1 ?. G
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,8 d& M6 t& D1 \& M% o* D( w8 m* l
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,% j/ G; d* `5 U- B! _) y
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙$ b/ U) e" a  V7 o1 p; l) \
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:; h8 r; @! W) B" f, f1 O
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
5 {, O2 i, \4 T4 o" W" k感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
; [2 s5 {2 l) e# a  l. o' Y玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
# I& {$ q8 {! @0 O總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:/ a: K8 `* S) K
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
& p' h; l- u$ N7 ]; d6 D2 q: T4 |所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,) V+ \, @' x/ [  {) U+ K( h  r. u
日日有車站,' c* |+ {& H' h9 _& B3 o) o
有目標!

. B" i/ [( ]1 t+ Q; lwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
3 ^2 P! @9 N* R4 k, ~如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?2 [0 O! q: h1 n" l+ A& I) e2 {
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
% M: a7 B1 p" V* B& ]8 C琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心7 q/ K* g( E8 e2 m* f9 |/ ^; D- _
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣# F  @7 W: C0 m) [3 b
覺得好空虛
& q+ m/ C! a& B其實早幾次都有試過係咁
5 s. b  `5 L, A% c1 ?卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己# g3 d1 O) l6 {
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.: [+ t; T+ S/ Z  I- \
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.8 o9 {1 `# W* P& f9 C* T" L( ?
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own., v2 s* \4 ^/ q; K3 {2 d; q
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:3 _" I5 j% s0 a  }8 H; B" a
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long) e  @& `2 {6 [' @8 d% x5 w; q
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.- a6 |( [6 T6 {
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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5 A3 c0 b5 y" N- z' {3 tJust another thought on lonliness:. C  V4 ]* \5 I( P+ Y9 D9 L4 a
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
$ B6 r8 s" {7 ?, E, r) q+ F6 J1 ?But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
4 F( r; Y" B7 U: D0 a! x我會有一種十分空虛的感覺# T6 X0 f3 O4 S) j4 n
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影9 H" Q+ `8 Q3 @# a" a
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
$ R; M4 H) F1 A# ?' l' a空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉4 A& ~4 p- |; p# `9 K% z4 I  G
很少會超過一天～
: Z3 }2 c! G: N5 S$ P0 s* _要期待更好的明天呀！