熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
8 ]- [7 U$ q1 @- m! F5 }' h; ^好唔鍾意呢種感覺
# F3 e( j5 _* c9 _" w琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
2 i% J1 s- |2 y7 |; K8 t個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
/ n- d! g. G4 x  K# v2 Q1 F& i" Q覺得好空虛/ X& U' G: z' ?. v6 V
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
: e6 S% M- m& f) x) C  G0 z卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己3 J% Z7 g2 ~& q" ?
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?& Z: Y0 }: n* u3 {# D

7 d# ]8 t+ d9 G[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
4 }6 {. K5 u0 U2 z但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺/ j" t; q7 @8 J% [0 P
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,  Y* {5 n6 c' n. a6 f1 h
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙# \5 t% x  z  \6 A! u4 _" N
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:$ V% s9 m/ B/ p8 N" s
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.7 Y, R' o- |3 V* o- W( e2 [) g: Y
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞../ x' s( R1 I/ l6 I( h: D
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
2 G' D1 B1 S" I$ a- I總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
3 P, j, B& g1 V1 q2 G& ~其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
; ^2 E* {* r* t. V+ y+ J所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
8 D2 R- Y9 G  g. \; [日日有車站,4 N% ?2 b$ P; V, {/ v
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
1 _6 x$ }$ n8 p如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?# D% C/ X" ]; c+ ]) }
好唔鍾意呢種感覺: e3 V/ l9 J2 H/ O" P
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
8 e- l. g4 t! D個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
; F/ k( j$ W# {" E覺得好空虛
3 O3 t% Y+ O- B) [. P, `+ |其實早幾次都有試過係咁
  W$ @  b: P& u5 U" }, i卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
% D1 d" N% W0 A) h- X% V. w6 ?用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?2 p. P: e% N4 s% t: u0 y# [

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
4 `! s  b/ p) G! Q1 D) _! k- P唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.# _0 L3 z- k4 o- t
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.& {6 p) Q& ~8 h. D* V& `" V0 J

. f" S$ m# R3 m$ P% y7 h" @People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
. e  k8 A8 |, W" L8 A4 I9 E# {$ Sa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long+ f# S8 o0 G6 I2 w
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
5 ~( H; G2 m* O: B  B/ p- I& V  Y* sc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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8 L0 o4 d3 e/ D4 }Just another thought on lonliness:
: n# `/ |2 O6 @& }. j4 O3 c  I, sLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
6 _- h& q5 a. `1 h& o% qBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～/ W. v3 d6 U* f0 j
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺$ H0 z4 @8 E, a& S+ Y8 p. ~7 X
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影$ ]5 G3 {' R5 r- Z. R; {
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～0 g/ L6 W/ U0 x2 j4 v" x
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
' F) m% T) F! d0 H; S很少會超過一天～
' T( h4 v" l4 b8 a  T- n9 H5 a要期待更好的明天呀！