熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
4 S+ y+ }# f; x7 Y0 b  l好唔鍾意呢種感覺2 A! n' Y# Z/ {: w8 |2 C
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心$ r3 }) Z4 W9 s8 p0 D* K
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣2 X- b$ r; ]2 y, V/ Z* E: U+ d- u
覺得好空虛
6 `& p. A& J+ C. G4 w其實早幾次都有試過係咁8 S6 |8 }, Q4 ?
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己) j! Y- Z! O* A4 o) l4 v; |
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?* z( v. U) E. m

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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,% C6 `1 i2 c2 ]2 a
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺- \9 F- s0 c; q5 a9 e) S7 Z
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,5 X! \- W; Q! k9 ]
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙. w2 B6 [- b8 W9 k+ I' J
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.! M2 g# |) C) {4 u
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..( ~( R  X5 U( O& `, K
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
" \% i( \4 u; K7 @% s" l& `1 u總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
! V1 O" {$ C, {9 U# Z1 @其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,2 E& f6 M, }. R2 p" M' z
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
6 ^& v& N4 Z2 T3 _; V/ P& B日日有車站,0 ]. {8 I6 f, G) ^% M; ^# j& q
有目標!

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rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
0 [" B% l( W) I. a- g0 v如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?" B, O$ \4 c( b* r0 m4 j
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
& ]! c9 o+ `0 a3 w琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心/ {% N1 ]$ W- {9 o9 R+ x6 E
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
4 j- O/ |7 I, t3 @7 O覺得好空虛6 {3 I2 `8 x( q. J
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
# o5 b* k% w( L6 }: z卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
% f/ r6 G4 l! e0 @9 G: i用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?- ^. m0 J7 h. y8 X

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.9 t% G6 @  d# }" N. e
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
! j2 Q5 w9 q. c4 w有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.5 P' Q% @# i! C- B
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:! D6 j4 T8 |/ d1 L/ G
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long3 N, k! e0 o9 g3 B, c- z4 N. d
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.$ }# X* M+ M) p6 j- D
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
5 r# [" c& o, }( A: z; `5 C+ CLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
6 b% D' R& }6 |! PBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～5 o9 p7 g& p4 g: i5 ^2 I1 E7 b
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
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或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～8 b7 S7 g7 Q5 D
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉9 U# \2 e" J- [0 d2 p( t
很少會超過一天～
0 e3 [4 `& v0 F. Z* q3 w# D要期待更好的明天呀！