熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?! t1 r  q. l# v1 m  S& p
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
) A/ [2 J, S, e  ^琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心1 a4 E; g4 r! c4 f  F$ a; l
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
! ?2 W* B: L- a4 W4 q% ?覺得好空虛& a7 Y- W6 ]: O9 Y
其實早幾次都有試過係咁! l' b$ b; k) o% }' L3 @0 K% o* W
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
: _/ j% O1 P5 c+ V7 ^用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?0 Z# I- D& t' p0 }% X. e

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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
0 I$ U6 p" {! g$ ^但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
9 U) R' \9 @% A# `& d- |熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,' |* z, |# J) A' i
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,) ~3 G4 F9 @, a# b5 A& m
日日有車站,
8 L) ]. V. P  U! J$ \  _有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙& e: X0 O5 D0 A# E9 \$ T* i% `
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
. s6 p2 B, m' M. a0 @如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

7 S' w5 ?# Q* S: R1 R9 P" J我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.$ O( Z8 A8 T/ H6 j+ ?# O6 ^
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..- g) i  F5 @0 }' b+ {* ^1 `
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
: \) }7 V% K( e5 u3 K. _/ B8 v, ]總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
; g8 h3 ], s( l6 ^% B5 o其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻," f8 q3 X% C3 R- I
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,2 y2 G) p# X7 v* m) @9 R3 |1 \: g+ p
日日有車站,
' O+ N$ E6 T% z- h3 ^  K: X有目標!

4 k& C% ^$ J* J/ _' \; j9 Cwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
* [  o/ v/ ^7 ~. q如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
$ Y( Y+ ~# D5 ]- K) p好唔鍾意呢種感覺5 N- t6 ^8 X  Q
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
" D4 m4 x* G% v* I個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣: r, F1 t4 Z- N6 M
覺得好空虛
/ G# n8 m8 n9 W& x其實早幾次都有試過係咁, r4 l$ \, ?9 ?' ?5 @% {! O( }
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
# \4 Z% z( Q0 H" q2 u  V$ D& t' b. v用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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3 ]6 X) V' v" G! r$ M; u& ~這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.% Q/ J( K; a! P- N
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.$ W7 ^( k9 `- X) e8 ^5 B
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
6 }# ^: w6 c8 Z; H0 W. ta) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
; i. K1 ^5 U! J' k' r# r" h7 zb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.9 ^5 [5 \* w6 _1 ?1 \
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:+ H" B- g: A& o; q& K
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....$ y: X1 k' w% E, P' C
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～8 i+ t2 x, N! ^( g5 }
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
) K3 b" `' |3 j7 }. E就好似睇完一套好睇的電影' g4 W" |  ?1 C1 w: y/ U0 Z
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
2 m( W+ S6 j# E  c空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
# v6 j- D- f( R很少會超過一天～. k$ A) b$ E1 R4 V; e) ^
要期待更好的明天呀！