有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...

Charcoal_henry

有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...
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感情太豐富一受打撃果陣真係會好辛苦...1 R) ~6 j4 t! b0 E0 l
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any suggestions?

迪達拉姑

哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔理智..樓主分享多d你實例同個人心境黎睇下我地似唔似..; r% U$ O/ I' R9 N0 [: g
我諗個性自細培養..我諗..對感情唔重視..就可能係想獨來獨往..最好好似流川楓咁..
. X! K" q* q) ?# ]咁樣學下功夫,多做事小說話小胡思亂想..嚴重d睇心理醫生./吹眠..純粹個人意見..

john01daly

Anyone can help, I also want to know.

Charcoal_henry

Originally posted by 迪達拉姑 at 2008-2-17 03:06 AM:3 B: l) H1 f: Y2 k! o& ~) A
哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔...

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8 m  E4 M4 v, c! b$ W3 h- t0 U* jgood to hear that someone has got the same feeling with me6 I6 J# a6 L2 U) }! u" ^

$ ^0 R6 [; k0 X! D. V: O. o唔係好想講experience...
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不過我自問都係一個性情中人, 好唔捨得一D曾經擁有既野 eg. school life, relationship with gf, close friends etc....- C8 Z  x! m5 l: G4 G! p
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我唔係想做獨行俠, ; c; U* z! o0 c$ b
只係想知道點樣先可以令自己對人與人之間既感情(no matter love or friendship)睇得開D...

escalation

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  v( W; ]- Z: ]$ d% R2 z" p% O我自己曾經都好似你呢類人, 十分熱情和感性, 而且鍾意用"性情中人"自居, 其實呢種態度只係唔成熟既表現. 當然, 人地唔會咁好心點醒你, 就算點你都未必醒.9 ?0 }; G0 O8 u' `/ O

2 U- Q0 \9 S, B解決方法: 好簡單, 多經歷一些挫折, 你慢慢會開始"化", 心態亦漸漸穩重起來. 呢個過程好奇妙的, 好難形容, 總之, 你經歷多左, 好多野會在你意料之中, 就唔會再比D小事情小變化影響你情緒.

自由神

Originally posted by escalation at 2008-2-17 08:35 PM:* V7 a5 l! A3 C
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我自己曾經都好似你呢類...

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