有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...

Charcoal_henry

有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...
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感情太豐富一受打撃果陣真係會好辛苦...: t7 u+ F5 P6 Z: `: `1 P1 |
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any suggestions?

迪達拉姑

哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔理智..樓主分享多d你實例同個人心境黎睇下我地似唔似..( X0 K6 `3 e, ~" F* r/ F+ Q
我諗個性自細培養..我諗..對感情唔重視..就可能係想獨來獨往..最好好似流川楓咁..
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john01daly

Anyone can help, I also want to know.

Charcoal_henry

Originally posted by 迪達拉姑 at 2008-2-17 03:06 AM:" i: M% K0 y- a) y; _, r
哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔...

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good to hear that someone has got the same feeling with me
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唔係好想講experience...
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不過我自問都係一個性情中人, 好唔捨得一D曾經擁有既野 eg. school life, relationship with gf, close friends etc..... u4 C. M* z8 Q( g% k# [6 i! W

/ J, s. L- ~) ]  |4 t7 t% H我唔係想做獨行俠, * e* K& X. J3 R+ }. e8 ~
只係想知道點樣先可以令自己對人與人之間既感情(no matter love or friendship)睇得開D...

escalation

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: J  }+ Q+ w9 Z" u5 t我自己曾經都好似你呢類人, 十分熱情和感性, 而且鍾意用"性情中人"自居, 其實呢種態度只係唔成熟既表現. 當然, 人地唔會咁好心點醒你, 就算點你都未必醒.# g5 E' Z( K' |: p. V
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解決方法: 好簡單, 多經歷一些挫折, 你慢慢會開始"化", 心態亦漸漸穩重起來. 呢個過程好奇妙的, 好難形容, 總之, 你經歷多左, 好多野會在你意料之中, 就唔會再比D小事情小變化影響你情緒.

自由神

Originally posted by escalation at 2008-2-17 08:35 PM:
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我自己曾經都好似你呢類...

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係呀！
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