熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
2 e: ~% o8 s( E2 }6 e- P, z好唔鍾意呢種感覺
& y* a. O& o$ Q* H% R琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心9 r% O! f  M6 u$ b" A
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
" e: i# @3 Y' e覺得好空虛
1 V. ]4 E2 D1 w0 K6 X6 I$ Q3 {其實早幾次都有試過係咁/ r) v0 J+ r+ K- m6 E/ [- o
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
. M* Z# o" [( c4 Q4 h; P用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
- r. O& b+ n# ]但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
! S! u% }* Q0 v0 \; L熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
0 A$ M6 q8 ^. M* J; J2 S1 o3 W所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
2 h8 B- I5 ^% B2 R. d$ U日日有車站,
& K* E# y) o. I& m6 g有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙  |7 Y4 n) g% G
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
( {0 n+ f: V+ S+ k如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
3 F; o- r7 \5 L; |' z感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
4 l% u- P* _) t% Q/ C5 M& ]玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
( K: Y! Q% l/ m總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:7 p, D9 j# K  j, I  N4 k) Y; X1 N
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,! j# _! _7 E$ p. h0 |  U
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,4 P! q7 w7 l# t9 _
日日有車站,
4 i& J* `) b7 y8 J4 G有目標!

7 c% k. ]/ ]- v2 g9 W3 o. bwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:' e' c. Y+ b' }6 f$ t6 f: M
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?4 Y& ^" X+ C! @5 u
好唔鍾意呢種感覺& l0 Q- j* G0 H+ v, V+ r8 z7 l, p  l
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心$ o1 {8 o0 }* W; U3 i- b+ B
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
0 l* |- U; S, t# N- l' c$ k覺得好空虛" |9 `. D+ K9 H
其實早幾次都有試過係咁% F, p" X4 q9 K/ J8 J! ~
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己9 W  c( r& l3 ^) Y) i
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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5 X7 n/ A& f& x& I( x# A4 V這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦." H% Y+ t6 H- i3 w
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.3 K5 I/ h2 a- w4 J8 ~/ s) q
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
/ K0 L9 c, k8 [) z4 sa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long, @5 _6 d" [3 l* n
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.5 y: M; p/ t2 P- V
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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$ |9 ~8 j$ P% mJust another thought on lonliness:# J+ w# |- e0 C1 Y1 c
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
) _9 A; y) v+ t: }# l0 g5 ~But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
5 i+ Y0 \0 P0 y+ W% t$ x3 u- T我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
! A6 W3 _& L9 d9 P就好似睇完一套好睇的電影( x. S+ D+ G  b  d  r
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
- A) S, z( N8 n3 i  @1 h: q4 q# d2 a空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉7 `+ D- c/ e2 k: ^6 C% {
很少會超過一天～
( k7 m  r2 b9 L% Z; J要期待更好的明天呀！