熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
7 ~& l' m$ Q8 {  y好唔鍾意呢種感覺  G% `% ?2 t, U1 m0 Z; m$ D
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
4 m4 w( @3 c+ B個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
/ K( A, p; y! T; M( M% r覺得好空虛
" v% E; Q& s" E' S3 l其實早幾次都有試過係咁
# V6 k- \' ?6 r- U* h卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
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" A9 }  E4 h% l0 \* I; R[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,) |' v. E- b: n' }; [
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺, ?+ ^  g' x* p1 k. g
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
3 c+ h8 g, M0 n* a! Q" @7 _所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
5 n9 x1 N. W5 g4 ]日日有車站,, R# |4 T" G* I& |1 u% \
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙0 A* _- L& ~* s8 L' y4 ~
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
/ ~9 Z# D9 T7 c1 Z+ n( k如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

5 H6 ?6 _, j9 W/ H# C+ V9 L我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
) c* ^5 n1 `6 @3 K, F  p感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
8 @3 J/ p* r/ N/ F' L* N玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.# m- H9 `1 P+ t" k( X
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:* s2 Z- e) y5 Y5 I5 m
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,( T, M* u" N  `  r) E3 c
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
, X8 q; K( @$ {; g- H' [日日有車站,
$ a1 r0 w5 W# \, ?有目標!

9 O3 E; t# F8 O4 q- R6 ?8 Ewhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
/ Q. p+ F9 |) r* P. B( b0 @如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?) _5 h; L' o1 L$ Z
好唔鍾意呢種感覺7 x- q8 T4 J5 L
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心6 ]* p' q9 O$ \/ t0 H  M2 H# V
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
; l2 d" n) ?8 y6 G覺得好空虛, l- p" y" r. _# K
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
. z" c2 A; D0 l3 b( N卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己$ B- n: l  }% j+ |" X% |- Y! l
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?7 K2 ^$ {( R/ D1 ~; n) z

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
2 k6 ?6 s0 \5 a5 s8 i9 [& u7 `唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
  ~; P* N5 I9 n: q# H" Z有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:8 J, Q3 D3 T) Y2 ^
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long1 O! e( i" d& N, Y
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
7 w2 E$ M( r; }3 n: G1 n1 ~c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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: R7 i: |( N4 h& F8 T; E' QJust another thought on lonliness:
! C$ }( ~/ @$ Z* W; g, i! WLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
# s- T7 B+ N3 a, w! vBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～( c! E  B" Z2 Q) L
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺6 ]# v7 `9 G' i' U# g, J
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影6 Z. `0 }2 y) J7 v! [
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～7 {, _. j- j# k: K! X1 K
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉2 U2 ]) Y1 d  ?: @1 q! o+ H
很少會超過一天～( E3 @5 N) Y9 b6 D0 ~8 M1 c' ~
要期待更好的明天呀！