熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?& X* I3 X4 n7 Y, S: H  p% _$ k$ N
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
8 c. _. W8 ^3 H琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
' A. {1 t, G& Z0 h1 K個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
, ?& I$ _' p+ t4 B/ V4 ~覺得好空虛. G9 M. x1 i: I: b  O8 v. z8 d
其實早幾次都有試過係咁5 l4 P& j( X, Z! n- M5 _: I7 v
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己& L8 G% l; d& v- H4 v5 b9 V. O9 {
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
' y* Y' f- K9 z4 E) c, b但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
5 L$ s0 @. N* h% i熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,& \- k! a7 w! H. Q& L( E7 H+ a; m
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
; u  o" A' l' e! W' n0 f日日有車站,
6 G. R) X  B+ c有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙+ w* q7 S: k2 G. j1 R
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
+ @* x/ a3 X. y3 c6 {7 j# H如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

8 h% {' k, z8 q+ A9 v) ^我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
3 g7 A# l9 E6 I4 q' X+ e/ e0 w感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..0 y! B, e( b* {5 s- ?& L
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
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本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:, h* a* o6 P" w3 ?8 ~# Q
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
1 u' }# V3 E4 W) H9 @所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
( o2 }3 R0 |; v  j5 r日日有車站,
7 T8 ]: `& e$ \7 g! [9 `% q: f有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
3 ~6 |% {' W$ Q- P如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
/ V4 t7 v" |# N5 r2 i& _. [好唔鍾意呢種感覺9 l! ?3 ^: ^8 y7 u6 o. m* N
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
0 O6 G& {6 y8 P個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
6 X; h. v6 H- x* R  W9 t: X4 i覺得好空虛5 i* I3 }- {: K( C
其實早幾次都有試過係咁% o" V3 U1 B% k
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己( O) x( T3 D( v1 Z! h
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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3 q4 f$ ]8 z* i0 g# O( u這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
$ [$ W  U4 c2 }9 Y3 @: F唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
" l5 n0 P: F% o+ |, Q  [$ t有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
1 S' W, V+ A3 n' S, J. d, ta) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long. l, |  J, I1 E( q9 m. v+ M: q$ G
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
  \4 R2 p) o1 l4 ^c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
+ L/ B+ P! V0 _; M; o: \2 TLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
# C7 X8 P2 s1 QBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
  a# l1 }$ X8 ]# m6 p我會有一種十分空虛的感覺! G6 s( Y9 _; N4 s! t
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影. x6 K6 Q8 N! u" |5 e' A
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
5 k" U+ g# r- p, `' A" p1 ~& V' ]空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉0 F$ d. i. d8 J% Y
很少會超過一天～+ `$ G% I4 |1 M$ d* g& S
要期待更好的明天呀！