熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?1 E9 S. y) l; H3 L4 X" W$ k
好唔鍾意呢種感覺# W* L! g$ T0 C& H
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
) R, N( S: T* _0 V# K9 r) F個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
( D& `7 C) f  v: _覺得好空虛
' s6 v/ ]) }4 Z1 K; i其實早幾次都有試過係咁
% J( W3 ~; g6 l/ M+ k$ d; v2 x$ x3 Q5 f卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己( l" J2 Z6 p0 Q# _. l/ s) t( l
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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# P6 K7 L* z+ O% _[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,( ^$ g) c0 T+ I
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺+ F0 W& Y; ^# M5 ^0 ?
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,0 ]1 A8 W( X+ x
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,; W, `( ~. I/ f" M
日日有車站,
6 T% m9 F, Z) f" |有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
2 H# P% m0 s; z' }/ O4 t" p你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:4 T) N" ~9 P% g# M! X  e; O$ x4 i$ G
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

# N/ c0 Z; q7 k$ m' G我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
' v0 J8 k; J: ?2 j! o' j感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
; v6 p. H8 G8 ~5 Q* o  r( F9 U9 ?玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.* g% O% ?1 {% t& W0 d! d
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
3 U* u% j5 j8 [6 \$ Z其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
% I/ p+ {* d! ?1 p所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,* Y6 y/ G9 d/ E# k( R1 E+ z
日日有車站,
/ [" G) o1 ?# |有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
+ M7 o7 O+ g0 H: d% I; g如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?  I! G8 |0 D) m) W% h% e5 T$ U
好唔鍾意呢種感覺2 W2 B0 q0 L5 y; d
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心5 x* [6 P# K* d' y2 W& f
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣& w8 f4 ]7 C6 T+ |0 X( d; `& G9 ]: E
覺得好空虛
6 h, |/ \# r8 ^0 f& X6 C; I6 \/ K其實早幾次都有試過係咁
) M+ g  o& x3 u& m5 v5 h4 L) R卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己7 f9 K4 S' n7 ?/ R! r8 J3 a
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?; H2 c9 B, C5 Z& u

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8 C+ U8 g2 c/ X; z+ w這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.5 G2 U( j$ _2 C
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.  y: R8 m# m2 `0 C( ], Q
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
9 a. P6 m; v& [% da) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
6 i0 ]7 q8 _, W- b' [! Jb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
$ k3 l1 [8 e4 o5 O* Q( @: O7 Xc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.6 s. p) g  L- b) S" X5 j/ L( E

* C9 L) j# {. A9 [Just another thought on lonliness:8 F8 _9 P( G+ S9 n1 h$ U+ a1 n
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
) N8 w1 M' b0 V/ Z0 j+ d% i' dBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
1 g+ y) |: _0 R我會有一種十分空虛的感覺: \( b& o+ i6 e1 |
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
- I; G# |# [. x3 `4 R或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
+ a0 F# X# r% X& P& w! I9 z# ]5 p空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
( F, J0 [8 i) R/ e7 e很少會超過一天～8 |/ M% P/ s; d8 t( F7 j
要期待更好的明天呀！