熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
* X# W$ W; W! B* P* t4 A好唔鍾意呢種感覺. F  ^$ e2 U7 p# n" J
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
4 H+ C6 u" F+ G個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
4 L5 @" ~7 g: m/ H/ k3 ?+ G" ?+ u覺得好空虛
  S, `) U5 V0 [其實早幾次都有試過係咁7 E7 h1 s; J; X3 j# D4 V
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
/ I- o% o  k3 a1 B2 X用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?9 E0 O4 z( [. {. ?  w/ M' W: ?) }
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
% H; {1 J( g5 w; L, L, b8 Q但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
2 Z* Q4 ~( c, z+ l% N熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
2 @+ y8 s9 W# Z0 g% ^所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,1 b1 q" j! Z5 j- R3 q' \; g
日日有車站,
) t8 [* J1 |3 A7 e! I6 x有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙7 H' p/ x+ e7 T. I9 b, |' o- l
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
: K& q4 \0 O! H7 X1 T1 `2 @' k如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

& N' k" [3 G4 _- n) V% b我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
9 V" k1 o) `! a* i1 k' b" l; b0 C感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
# t7 n$ R2 L; ?9 _: B0 h) h. W. ?2 @4 o8 O玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.- I0 i. o( P' O/ ^
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:; t# S5 O1 A) r
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
& p+ t. N7 r: b8 ^5 Z所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
$ D9 ]" @; I) J日日有車站,
+ t* b) y8 t8 {) \有目標!

3 {' q8 R& c( A6 Q" Zwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
# Y$ X* G/ G7 c! b" o) |如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
' `" l3 z8 S# G% _0 a: ?* {好唔鍾意呢種感覺- d8 F+ R# o% B3 \; S
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心" o& ~6 s0 y: t  W$ j/ k
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
2 G% x. t! p! o$ F% L: F2 F. e覺得好空虛
! s. d0 j% h) P6 ^1 s! I# G其實早幾次都有試過係咁
! ?: i& j  Z. Y, d: L+ k, t# V卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己' Q2 x, K* D$ ^$ b4 F
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?. `9 `$ z% U6 l5 Z; m; e

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5 ]4 k1 _0 r2 i9 G- l% @這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
7 {3 t! M* L* n9 k1 N% V8 s唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
+ V0 @/ O0 k1 \: x3 Q8 t有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.4 [; ]/ ~7 ^) N( C; M( v2 Q# k
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
" W) a% {9 \% W( Va) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
: n" Z) ~6 }" Q3 h# {b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.6 F6 N# O8 V4 W
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
& R2 C0 N7 {7 s* K  S( }Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....4 c6 \( L8 _; T. B  T2 H
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～) U2 m" I, d, ]" S2 g
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
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或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
+ P" h$ U1 h% ]0 c8 Q/ n- m空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
! H9 V2 k( X; d很少會超過一天～
" I2 f4 x2 z5 Y' l0 ~! w) N要期待更好的明天呀！