熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
- q2 c: V& k. H. u" m0 J& o% |5 S9 ^6 Y好唔鍾意呢種感覺
& l3 `4 p& c9 |# {2 S! W: R琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心0 j9 Q, f% ?2 t/ g; R4 W5 N
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣8 K# {' X+ e0 i( y9 L; I
覺得好空虛
7 n! s/ D2 V$ d. e其實早幾次都有試過係咁
2 r8 K" u, S- A: Q卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己& ]2 D! z+ ?' O/ T2 u( d9 _
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,! S% x! O0 U9 P5 |. s
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
2 s. l. s) x7 r, X! q/ v! ~* d熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,& O7 V0 P1 i+ a. q
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
7 Y- n$ E1 P: T' z你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:$ ?6 R* f1 u# {
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
6 f/ Z7 M+ ~/ |/ Y$ x9 I感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
8 G/ Y$ I. I! Q2 `: E7 ?玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.# A8 G5 B6 C, k9 d# n
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:, X+ E. c: I; \1 h
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,' R7 J5 j% e" K
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
5 ^5 X( i+ }8 C7 E4 S4 J+ C; j; ?日日有車站,$ h  E' y6 k, X* ~1 b
有目標!

6 E" c4 I, c5 c: ~6 D2 [what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:) L+ i2 B* Y8 k
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?9 v9 H  C: H8 s6 t, u& Y* s) P
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
* Y) \: @# p; T4 ?! f1 K) U6 J琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
3 `5 a7 A' Q6 z/ P個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣3 E" D; `! O" U& i$ C* n& T
覺得好空虛
' `  |: r! u6 H4 h3 H  x6 n$ q6 C其實早幾次都有試過係咁6 |9 v: W  K' T  a  i) B% a
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己. O& Z( i. E+ W6 B" M% g. i: t
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.9 F8 q; e0 h, X1 |+ ?" A9 C7 r
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
; P0 P9 a) y+ W有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:9 I( G7 ]% K" W$ y* f- C
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long- B: ~. ^/ t5 Q+ ^9 P
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.5 `' I3 s8 z; W. B7 w
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.: f. Q3 G) I; q" V3 d
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Just another thought on lonliness:/ b( f6 ?% }: F6 X- @
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....; U7 w  J2 E2 [6 Y
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
* U" M) N4 C( p: N5 _我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
$ k; r' I7 `8 P- E) W  Y就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
0 s$ k+ P) I' ~7 k$ p0 x6 A或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
* C) \" ?; C3 n空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
- H) u1 Z1 r8 @3 |  w( I很少會超過一天～% B; I5 Q6 i, Q$ P, p, d/ n
要期待更好的明天呀！