熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?& H" E1 X& F6 b. M" f% H3 s8 Z% l; F* x
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
/ l4 `; V% m3 [% y: ?% t: a+ I. q琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
( u% _) y( V4 }# \個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
5 A' o: o% c4 ~! @2 B& X覺得好空虛
! ~3 Y0 O9 _/ N其實早幾次都有試過係咁
) b- }' }! n8 |) L) m+ Y; d5 S1 e卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己5 ~  T: H' k2 Q! S1 _4 S! z+ b
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
9 W* \! L' G9 n5 C  a/ F7 B( O# {但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
: p* k$ R' y6 w$ H熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
+ r. b6 ?% ~! ?( ~! b所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,) S: G" `7 O( F0 i. b
日日有車站,% |2 D) B. w3 d; Y2 n
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
( `: B# U) B' ^  s8 J; T你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
4 G) r& u, w( i, }; B如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

/ C5 o  U+ Q% I8 u( O" {4 V我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
7 C3 m1 P- i  g! y. m; U感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..9 N1 g$ G2 T% I$ b; J9 L
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.# W! z9 h2 x, w* i: `7 K) n1 D
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
% C5 C1 [# t* x6 ]2 E( k其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
6 B5 S* |  K! v4 ?. U3 `所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
# a0 _9 \1 x8 J0 T3 T4 I7 {  `9 Z日日有車站,+ j5 g; i- p2 w% |0 s) W& o
有目標!

" Q$ d: m* \% \what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
9 r2 h8 l9 Q: e! u% s# v如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?' Z9 d0 a2 k5 G. W0 O
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
# H- V9 N; C" @1 G2 a' Z/ j! f9 X琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心% b! @; t# Y/ Y' g! G8 |) j* X
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣/ h& H; g7 h4 ^1 ~/ {+ {
覺得好空虛2 L; i  A& v: |8 B5 [- b
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
2 d0 C* x2 p$ F, |, H卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己$ j( z0 Y! k( X  v
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?. }: v# {* {( H

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" t. i" {# A0 b# o, |這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
2 j- O" F6 y4 k: ]唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.8 |, S6 W* T& @" V
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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: f  A- ~/ V" X- k  g  x; pPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
! I( q7 W8 a5 K. y9 f* D2 }a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long9 d. r) ]4 A8 |7 }) z8 F
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.( G3 r  f' p8 p& D# C  e
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:" b; b/ K9 v, J! g8 c
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....3 _0 o' m. I6 ~* J- J
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
9 a- i1 T* }! T' @0 f% @我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
4 \% U6 U! ^3 E- ]5 j( u" D就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
1 u$ S; y/ g- I$ A' u- _或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～/ c8 E+ ]$ w3 y
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉  J3 G* g7 q" l: ]2 p& ]: b3 M
很少會超過一天～( t+ |( b2 d" Z6 l
要期待更好的明天呀！