熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
4 M$ A  |/ z  q, @好唔鍾意呢種感覺: g" @: c; p- ?& H' m* L+ ~
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心3 g1 Q  u0 \( w, C* a, C
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣7 x2 f+ w. M5 H0 ^" l
覺得好空虛
1 P0 Q4 c8 s1 K其實早幾次都有試過係咁
7 s. x; C8 l* P0 k, n/ |卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
3 Y% b5 S; o3 S0 f0 \5 q( N: y- ?5 y用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?6 V; @7 i' P# m- T

0 o5 Z4 D2 z* N$ g( o, ~: U, t[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
0 G4 T# Z/ b! }/ }! B4 _但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺! S, ?! L* b- g8 q6 h" O( _
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,% q$ H& D) Y! t8 U- P( a8 P# [
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
" V& A5 K4 n& [% R6 `9 _9 c: H日日有車站,2 |1 D0 b2 `! ?& ^
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙1 }. p6 G* V( X- i; }
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
+ w6 \  a) ~  d  ~, c% C+ v  ]如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

' c9 s# i* X8 O4 @( f! u我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.  z) b* x# ~4 T6 ?, @: b5 S
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
* ^- e( }" Y  N  l/ M9 J. Q! i# R0 H玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.5 F& q/ D& m* A  Z
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:/ q* a- G; C# v* D/ I+ C& D" A
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,4 S, c) |, Q# L/ h+ i+ L
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
; T6 V# i/ x! q日日有車站,1 ~5 ]" I9 R/ ^- O
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:4 l# o' U0 m. `7 L& F0 u
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
6 k1 ^% c5 _. p* R好唔鍾意呢種感覺
5 m3 H* _! g5 B- C+ o6 _5 D# h琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
1 }& {; w0 n" Q+ M  o. V) ?  }$ T+ @個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣! A( p- @% T+ m; }: U
覺得好空虛
: A" |2 q9 B0 |$ |/ J, G其實早幾次都有試過係咁
) V3 `- t2 C. L5 s2 e卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
" ]4 w  \1 |. `2 d用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?* k: ?- H7 K1 h8 {8 [

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
0 ?. @' N) j- D唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足./ |' l! R, c: c
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:7 \) h. M! W: i/ J+ [% z- @( N( l+ ?
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
- e2 O. v& i* M, Fb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
, `) Y/ A: K8 rc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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2 o4 N( m# M9 J2 o1 k* e/ CJust another thought on lonliness:
1 b7 E5 |' v. Z/ P0 g( [0 o4 R+ RLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
" `# q( o% T. \& X$ n( mBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～$ E/ D  J9 ?' Z; l
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
( M% `% s) q! ]4 G' u就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
  {- x- s+ o/ }3 \; s( A- l1 j或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～( L& P- S: j9 N; k1 g) v2 T/ ]
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
+ ]: g; _- U- y: N9 O$ \% q很少會超過一天～
, F9 e4 J/ V# I3 Z* D要期待更好的明天呀！