熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?" g6 m$ J( G( _8 i; a
好唔鍾意呢種感覺2 _% v7 J. q. P/ Y4 E
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
( _# a' T8 T: R8 O個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
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4 _, X: K+ `6 ]  U# U其實早幾次都有試過係咁
: N1 n. w6 V; r' E, f$ L( R" J卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
: x! O6 D' p6 \1 y3 L用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,9 c2 X$ u& w- i) [- o1 e6 T6 r5 H
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺( w3 z( q0 c4 R  z* P
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
% D2 m6 f( W1 T- G( i所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,) J9 c" ^" A) w) S7 G7 L
日日有車站,# J/ r7 I" h, B5 J) j
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
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markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
5 ]% K5 D5 r9 D; ?( N- t如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
" Z' g8 l  r% V- a  _/ g感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
' w) v: O( ]: ?. x0 U* w! F玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.& j, }) L- i6 H  D. P9 O. }
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:" U3 G( y2 h" u' }. B" t9 |! @1 p
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
# ^+ y' O# Z8 }0 q所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,' N7 ^5 G" S: `9 s& j
日日有車站,2 N! H+ E! J& y* b: _# Y. H
有目標!

0 l/ }. T4 ]6 c9 p5 p- vwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
- t1 T, a; K: e/ d如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
2 V6 ~% p: ~# e; r, N好唔鍾意呢種感覺
& ~; D; j& q) @# c% H! m琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
* {4 E  G9 k% {  ]/ S5 u1 ?個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
# A  P9 o. ]# A' ^6 E覺得好空虛
9 A; U8 M: n( j# L7 x4 r其實早幾次都有試過係咁6 X; e5 \3 [+ y. p3 W
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
6 m: H; E4 ]! V用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.2 B5 f5 t$ c6 D2 K. W
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
2 j3 r* u4 O6 t有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.8 i; G* F8 _9 v0 z# x7 y1 _* o  e
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
. F9 {& z5 X0 }* fa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long7 q. k6 D& y+ y* \* e
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
- l% x5 l( r* g' Tc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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$ d0 @& Q' y4 {$ k( Q+ I0 m: y9 NJust another thought on lonliness:; g/ v2 H* q- i/ R' q
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
1 ?! y7 u9 R& {But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～$ |- d4 D2 c+ b# v) J* y. O
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺: [% v1 J  A4 p% Y
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
7 j$ U. w  W; w. R7 D% V或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～$ B( c# F3 `" R% G5 n3 r
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉4 k/ M7 _+ Q6 U* y: d( @/ V
很少會超過一天～
# i* J& h6 W! T7 O3 ^4 X要期待更好的明天呀！