熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?( l$ T: N$ l) M6 t/ ]- H
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
9 B0 P+ d6 @6 o琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心5 H+ x8 O. `2 I
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
& t) f* S* C$ J! }% N' A+ v覺得好空虛, a, [% j+ l2 n8 I/ \
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
" A& {) F/ z( B' M0 K卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
+ m$ \9 E$ K: r% U) f  p1 A4 V用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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9 @& c( T1 k) I3 _[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,: L0 [6 k. s- H+ c: c1 W
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺. {  r+ ~; i8 N
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,/ k6 ~2 s& N9 I* E' |: Q
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,4 ?" a% \% L( J: V$ \7 M% R
日日有車站,
4 e. r" a2 y5 E# ]# P' `1 \有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙# Z. Q) J7 g# _8 K1 \2 F
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
  D; Y' ^/ M# {& j( B如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

' D4 i9 F/ Z2 L6 p7 i( b我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.$ w$ @3 ^& l1 c* }
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
' c# `( |  |+ `- k! F2 v玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.( D: M& F% a7 o% |4 V
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
. X4 c" |( @, B# X/ @7 r4 R, i其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
# X6 t6 t8 G. @- t所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,# j  O- x/ ~" e; J
日日有車站,
; Q2 C' A- T5 w# }  O: V* H有目標!

8 |1 p$ {) |. Q5 pwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:% K- s0 l, R* I2 i
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
9 |! g( {& r2 Q0 G* y/ M# M* X好唔鍾意呢種感覺9 _! {5 a( X( I& d1 M
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心1 z- S# l- C* }% z( b! O
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣( l* Z% Z- W$ b. x$ ]
覺得好空虛/ {& Z* ~  e" ^7 r. G1 @8 C2 D
其實早幾次都有試過係咁- r' r* S7 `( H' u3 Z# N- O
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
, m9 [' T+ {  f% ?( |: K用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?2 C7 o4 C6 d/ Q

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/ T+ z+ f8 k5 S+ x. q% `! ]9 B這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦., W/ r9 j: H7 \- n. `) N! J
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
' _5 t, y% m6 y+ i9 [( v. U1 |; B有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.( @: d+ m. A3 l) }8 C. l+ X

) w- r# F% C3 T9 K$ N6 t- b, g' IPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
# o' x& M; J+ U- L; La) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long4 q7 d1 J6 B0 ?; C! L( j
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.7 T9 N( t2 A+ Y4 I4 Z' B
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.; d2 g+ n% K3 m) r2 q8 F& F

. s0 w9 Z" x3 ?) i+ T# f+ V3 \Just another thought on lonliness:) m/ z* O& G! U, Y2 L" L
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
9 {7 n0 @8 v" c0 P9 mBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～5 n. t* j/ z5 z! S
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺3 [4 b3 l3 W; c2 R/ |
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影9 q% J4 i( @' E+ w5 @( Y
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～& Y; g- g. N8 z
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉4 }- E, S! z  e: G3 A  m
很少會超過一天～
# ?4 v& ]4 x6 r- D' j0 e" G4 ?( [, i要期待更好的明天呀！