熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?! O+ I8 }3 d5 o! |
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
+ b# q# K. m2 e琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心- Z! |# L, f5 {, L
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
2 u4 l* \8 u. g% {! O. W, Y覺得好空虛. v7 N6 A" c& k, W- a' d) _
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
4 t) Z% B  C: I! V1 f5 Q- {卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己; ~5 l# i: u8 u! Y, X: d
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?# U* U7 l, G( f. W, c! U
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,9 u& C1 l( f$ W9 H
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺4 i6 `8 b! Z3 o7 k4 x" o/ h* l
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
# C$ d0 l5 R) Y6 g' j所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,; U( _+ Z/ f, W8 \7 v! {" ^- w6 p' J' k
日日有車站,
# `" g( t0 v8 S3 i有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙# L' ~$ ^' Z' b5 H
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
0 _% H& D' f+ m. [2 _4 w如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
* R, {+ d- X- F感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..! M3 v; D; \" g: f3 d& O; p
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.. E- w$ n3 K) y" F4 }) L
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
, e4 K: K1 I9 f/ e2 |+ F& x其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
' Y2 t0 R) s/ e# F% X- d9 h8 h所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
& _: U' _8 t( H& e' B3 R2 g7 w日日有車站,; W" ^* L, F: n0 u9 t) X
有目標!

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rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:! D; o. l8 w8 H  b; v
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
7 a5 e& S2 U: `% d7 F好唔鍾意呢種感覺$ ~8 |% K' l; I$ o$ I
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
# q& \  n& T. B/ |8 u個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
' N( N! T* Z+ b5 r2 M" b覺得好空虛1 @( O2 b( J) C- C5 w
其實早幾次都有試過係咁0 x, J! r. y8 r! k1 s
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
* x1 x/ ^6 g# j用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?: K) |4 R! x# }, Z. |! B- p# Y5 V

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
) x# f; f4 K4 Z- ]* k9 E5 K+ }6 i唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.% `. L' y) \: j3 g4 Q; G4 J
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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& ~- {8 F1 z. QPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:% Z  i$ F9 A( g9 B" u0 U
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long  j8 k. `7 z6 q6 R' y% |
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone." n7 b, |6 }, |$ q- T
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.( Q& [5 A4 a5 s: q2 {" e+ n# T

+ ]0 L) ]" a0 }9 n7 p' C1 YJust another thought on lonliness:
" d9 i5 d; \( x% J6 H! s+ y- d& ~+ bLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
' S$ y+ s# o' ^" Q7 tBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～& [& g5 a' J* T4 S' `
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
4 x# ^" B1 A/ V) x0 I就好似睇完一套好睇的電影  k  s/ M6 W! C/ s7 `5 {, D
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～4 ^% {0 \, y! E+ m  T2 J) Z
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉  e3 Z7 Q; H, M& Y
很少會超過一天～
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