[愛情診療室] i want 2 die......

sina_usa

why he suddenly ignore and evade me....
i know he has gf...
but we know we like each other
and we hv good time b4..
we haven't seen and talk for 3 weeks

bt i still see he and his gf 2gether sometimes..
bt when he saw me he justl walk quickly..
i talk 2 him on msn ...but he ignore me..
wt's wrong with him??????

if he wants 2 give up
why he didn't say any words??????
i don't understand.

ng.......m i stupid??

plz help me..

[ Last edited by sina_usa on 2006-5-12 at 03:51 AM ]

自護

雖然我唔太明你地既背景，不過就咁睇你呢篇野寫既野，我大概都估到個男仔係點諗。

話你知啦，我以一個男仔角度黎睇，邊一個唔想有齊人之福？尤其係遇上你呢隻咁蠢(抱歉，我知語氣重左d，但真係希望你知道自己發生緊乜事)既女仔，又點會唔呃得就呃呢？

好明顯佢只不過當你係水泡、備胎或者係明符其實既『第三者』(即係你想要乜都係第三先會得到既人)。你話你知佢同你雙方都愛對方，冇錯，係，可能佢真係愛你，但唔夠佢愛佢女朋友呢！同埋作為一對情侶，愛既付出最重要係對等，我唔知你雙方既關係係點，不過剩係而家睇呢件事都知你愛佢多過佢愛你。

佢忽略你，講真有好多可能性，一係佢真係好忙，唔得閒住；一係佢搵緊第二個人，唔可以俾你知；一係佢想玩驚喜，等你等到佢心急時再出黎。其實你與其估佢點諗，不如真係面對面同佢講清楚啦，男人係要迫先至會表態，你係MSN又好，寫信又好，係我都唔理你啦，反正你本身係第三者，冇左損失都唔太大。

我唔係想教你同佢分手，不過你作為女仔好應該識得保護自己，唔好再陷入一段似是疑非既關係入面喇。建議你盡快同佢講清楚，始終作為第三者本身已經有問題。

送你一句：『本來無一物 何處惹塵埃？』

[ Last edited by 自護 on 2006-5-12 at 04:42 AM ]

CopperRed

因為佢連善後工作都費事做，始終詳情我唔清楚，不過大至上佢係個D玩完人又唔想有手尾跟既人，就算當你地齊個時好開心都好，既然你知佢有GF，所以要發生既始終都會發生，唔可以話你蠢既，只不過當你同佢一開始既時侯可能以經係一個mistake，如果你重要堅決咁錯洛去就真係蠢啦，何不抽身離去，佢雖然冇親口講同你了斷，但係佢既所作所為我相信更比佢既一句說話黎得更真實，可能佢同你講分手反而令你地有機會再錯多次，太多可能性嚕，希望你可以盡快忘記～他日找到如意朗君吧

BOYDWAN

easy, he shirked.
the worse way to say good bye (or break up in your sight, maybe....) but according to his act, he quit.
don't be silly, if a man really loves a woman, the aforesaid things you talked abt won't be happened..........
sweety, time to wake up.  
you've got a long way to go and many worthful things still waiting for you in future, trust me~

sina_usa

thank you so much
i understand now
i won't love him anymore

although this is my first time ,,so its quite hurt,,
bt i believe i will find my Mr. Right someday..
thanks anyway><

homan~

Originally posted by sina_usa at 2006-5-12 06:55 AM:
thank you so much
i understand now
i won't love him anymore

although this is my first time ,,so its quite hurt,,
bt i believe i will find my Mr. Right someday..
thanks anyway><

add oil!!

you can think this love is a practice........
that prepares your prospect of love in future,

this experience must be invaluable in your life,
you will learn a lot from it...........

when you review your life sometimes in future,
you will definitely discover this love develops your skill and insight,

Add oil !

'nice'

Originally posted by sina_usa at 2006-5-12 06:55 AM:
thank you so much
i understand now
i won't love him anymore

although this is my first time ,,so its quite hurt,,
bt i believe i will find my Mr. Right someday..
thanks anyway><

你明就好啦,
因為一開始你就已經錯左,or俾個男仔誤導左,
first time雖然係痛,係傷,係bad memory,
but it all gone, and go forward,
you will find your true love and your mr.right someday,
love is around you, your fd and your family, and US !!

tristans

哈哈, 各位真熱心
好彩sina_usa 醒得快