有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...

Charcoal_henry

有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...
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1 _' K3 [* x- h( ^; y! p+ [0 b感情太豐富一受打撃果陣真係會好辛苦...- t! g6 ~/ ?+ i8 I- X4 p. c
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any suggestions?

迪達拉姑

哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔理智..樓主分享多d你實例同個人心境黎睇下我地似唔似..
: ]  E3 ]  Z/ y# P我諗個性自細培養..我諗..對感情唔重視..就可能係想獨來獨往..最好好似流川楓咁..1 N0 I. q" P4 q
咁樣學下功夫,多做事小說話小胡思亂想..嚴重d睇心理醫生./吹眠..純粹個人意見..

john01daly

Anyone can help, I also want to know.

Charcoal_henry

Originally posted by 迪達拉姑 at 2008-2-17 03:06 AM:( x- p$ X$ n$ C3 Z4 z+ ^
哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔...

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  |. F! B* o! i7 c: O3 Ngood to hear that someone has got the same feeling with me
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# L& [0 O" F+ I) N/ O; g唔係好想講experience...
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不過我自問都係一個性情中人, 好唔捨得一D曾經擁有既野 eg. school life, relationship with gf, close friends etc....
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5 C) b  d0 Z  b8 ~5 j# S我唔係想做獨行俠, & D* w* [+ V8 ^8 e9 M0 K6 Y& ?% R% t
只係想知道點樣先可以令自己對人與人之間既感情(no matter love or friendship)睇得開D...

escalation

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9 \0 A: R9 @4 x6 k: u我自己曾經都好似你呢類人, 十分熱情和感性, 而且鍾意用"性情中人"自居, 其實呢種態度只係唔成熟既表現. 當然, 人地唔會咁好心點醒你, 就算點你都未必醒.
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8 z# H, }* l/ [4 y9 u% H6 U) S解決方法: 好簡單, 多經歷一些挫折, 你慢慢會開始"化", 心態亦漸漸穩重起來. 呢個過程好奇妙的, 好難形容, 總之, 你經歷多左, 好多野會在你意料之中, 就唔會再比D小事情小變化影響你情緒.

自由神

Originally posted by escalation at 2008-2-17 08:35 PM:+ r6 h; S2 c" N2 b8 j
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8 E# g4 s# P, D5 S我自己曾經都好似你呢類...

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