有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...

Charcoal_henry

有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...0 `; s5 J$ k) A  g

) G+ K! Z5 c- Y# x3 g! `感情太豐富一受打撃果陣真係會好辛苦...
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any suggestions?

迪達拉姑

哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔理智..樓主分享多d你實例同個人心境黎睇下我地似唔似../ W# d$ |* e$ F, b3 c# @
我諗個性自細培養..我諗..對感情唔重視..就可能係想獨來獨往..最好好似流川楓咁..1 i4 K2 _( P2 S; h! I1 J
咁樣學下功夫,多做事小說話小胡思亂想..嚴重d睇心理醫生./吹眠..純粹個人意見..

john01daly

Anyone can help, I also want to know.

Charcoal_henry

Originally posted by 迪達拉姑 at 2008-2-17 03:06 AM:6 `1 r; \" p9 _' }
哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔...

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" _3 @- \4 p" b+ _" u. P: O) Ugood to hear that someone has got the same feeling with me# v5 a" A8 {$ s0 x; V

" D2 D4 K- Q0 y& D& k唔係好想講experience...0 [3 E0 m# Z: H2 Q0 H& H" p

: Z5 t( G# \' G5 U" a+ z; o不過我自問都係一個性情中人, 好唔捨得一D曾經擁有既野 eg. school life, relationship with gf, close friends etc....7 S" @' H+ b. b) ~
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我唔係想做獨行俠,
1 K) Z4 x& f6 i' U( Y8 p, u, {7 q7 C, b只係想知道點樣先可以令自己對人與人之間既感情(no matter love or friendship)睇得開D...

escalation

個人分享:
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我自己曾經都好似你呢類人, 十分熱情和感性, 而且鍾意用"性情中人"自居, 其實呢種態度只係唔成熟既表現. 當然, 人地唔會咁好心點醒你, 就算點你都未必醒.6 {( n5 I# z% ~# O( G/ {
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解決方法: 好簡單, 多經歷一些挫折, 你慢慢會開始"化", 心態亦漸漸穩重起來. 呢個過程好奇妙的, 好難形容, 總之, 你經歷多左, 好多野會在你意料之中, 就唔會再比D小事情小變化影響你情緒.

自由神

Originally posted by escalation at 2008-2-17 08:35 PM:  B4 d2 A8 O0 |4 U
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8 d  z  D% P2 A% y1 t+ H6 ]& @, L我自己曾經都好似你呢類...

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係呀！
1 p  d7 Q0 O2 D只要當一切都係遊戲，咁就會“笑看風雲”