有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...

Charcoal_henry

有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...4 t( ]+ A6 v1 U+ N8 R, G8 N

( `- j$ }9 B7 r: I$ Y% Q感情太豐富一受打撃果陣真係會好辛苦...
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1 q9 J* f* c0 u* d( C+ b6 ~, G& Cany suggestions?

迪達拉姑

哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔理智..樓主分享多d你實例同個人心境黎睇下我地似唔似..
  X" u- i" J# N. ]+ `我諗個性自細培養..我諗..對感情唔重視..就可能係想獨來獨往..最好好似流川楓咁..3 G; k) t: c6 U* Y4 `  M. U/ W
咁樣學下功夫,多做事小說話小胡思亂想..嚴重d睇心理醫生./吹眠..純粹個人意見..

john01daly

Anyone can help, I also want to know.

Charcoal_henry

Originally posted by 迪達拉姑 at 2008-2-17 03:06 AM:% x2 D4 I7 ?$ A
哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔...

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) I8 L& Y6 T; X! [% D' T" a" Mgood to hear that someone has got the same feeling with me* ]5 v8 N% z% s6 s! S: O0 M

+ J( u7 ~& F8 O, V2 f7 D唔係好想講experience...' t: n- {% f+ Z) q' T
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不過我自問都係一個性情中人, 好唔捨得一D曾經擁有既野 eg. school life, relationship with gf, close friends etc....
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我唔係想做獨行俠,
: e, X& _4 b3 g. ?; j: e: f只係想知道點樣先可以令自己對人與人之間既感情(no matter love or friendship)睇得開D...

escalation

個人分享:
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我自己曾經都好似你呢類人, 十分熱情和感性, 而且鍾意用"性情中人"自居, 其實呢種態度只係唔成熟既表現. 當然, 人地唔會咁好心點醒你, 就算點你都未必醒.
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解決方法: 好簡單, 多經歷一些挫折, 你慢慢會開始"化", 心態亦漸漸穩重起來. 呢個過程好奇妙的, 好難形容, 總之, 你經歷多左, 好多野會在你意料之中, 就唔會再比D小事情小變化影響你情緒.

自由神

Originally posted by escalation at 2008-2-17 08:35 PM:
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我自己曾經都好似你呢類...

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