有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...

Charcoal_henry

有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...1 Z; h5 t7 Q( ], i* f2 W, b

9 z; y' f0 I$ {/ J" ?( s( U感情太豐富一受打撃果陣真係會好辛苦...4 P; j* j5 m% t# z$ R1 d

1 o" b2 c3 ?: y; a2 |. p9 P9 k8 Wany suggestions?

迪達拉姑

哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔理智..樓主分享多d你實例同個人心境黎睇下我地似唔似..
7 Q5 f5 O$ G! R$ v+ R+ I# r+ u4 S* \我諗個性自細培養..我諗..對感情唔重視..就可能係想獨來獨往..最好好似流川楓咁..
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john01daly

Anyone can help, I also want to know.

Charcoal_henry

Originally posted by 迪達拉姑 at 2008-2-17 03:06 AM:
  p0 `2 I. y2 |哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔...

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good to hear that someone has got the same feeling with me- j  d; R0 |5 w, G; C& j& Y; W/ f# E

. q: U: H1 V# w% c唔係好想講experience...* B$ c  u, X. x3 R- [, g" a/ X

% W  b- L( v( L不過我自問都係一個性情中人, 好唔捨得一D曾經擁有既野 eg. school life, relationship with gf, close friends etc..... F$ U) ~7 x: G$ H7 J

% e+ L' z. e! t* N! N4 g* [& X我唔係想做獨行俠, " N, a# f1 X2 m  q8 L& d
只係想知道點樣先可以令自己對人與人之間既感情(no matter love or friendship)睇得開D...

escalation

個人分享:
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我自己曾經都好似你呢類人, 十分熱情和感性, 而且鍾意用"性情中人"自居, 其實呢種態度只係唔成熟既表現. 當然, 人地唔會咁好心點醒你, 就算點你都未必醒.
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解決方法: 好簡單, 多經歷一些挫折, 你慢慢會開始"化", 心態亦漸漸穩重起來. 呢個過程好奇妙的, 好難形容, 總之, 你經歷多左, 好多野會在你意料之中, 就唔會再比D小事情小變化影響你情緒.

自由神

Originally posted by escalation at 2008-2-17 08:35 PM:  `' `: K- K4 j& O( ^" O1 ?
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7 B% Q# _- g% F- T8 h+ C9 R我自己曾經都好似你呢類...

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係呀！
/ s5 m* f# ^7 w. @# l只要當一切都係遊戲，咁就會“笑看風雲”