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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way% A5 g# |) _( k
consider in the following (not in order):7 ^& U- H/ x  ]7 `9 c& v  V
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1st, how close the relationship we are?
! C& ~3 G- y: q" P: z2nd, how serious he/she has done?
/ X0 a; L+ g% w+ e  a( N3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?' l" r/ i- k6 Q2 [2 T3 ^9 d5 ~7 u
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?
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( C9 e6 y( d6 y, p, e4 |( G9 n% Hfor me:, L3 o( `2 @$ x* }2 t/ K0 M9 f
i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
: ^) c0 Q/ I/ x9 l: w1 D$ pbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation). q* q: A7 Y1 J0 j
but for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!! x3 Y( B: b- G- s/ K4 j3 N( d, m# i% U
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。6 D0 _: T7 }9 S3 d$ C7 Q
第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。
! t5 m/ U  i1 c) y5 G( ^- Y  H* J人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個/ ]& r3 k/ C5 U/ E
只要有數我都會滅