熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
- ~& f0 A: L0 `5 i' I好唔鍾意呢種感覺
' o6 R# H7 R* v9 N; _( G( C, s琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心$ X, R9 M8 q8 F1 s" a' g8 A; c
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
* \0 L( _) K8 u# J/ |2 u2 V覺得好空虛
9 U! q% @& i: d其實早幾次都有試過係咁
" D1 p- @* x5 m: P5 U) f卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己6 c7 @  h3 E: r: C
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
" j/ y! k; a: G5 O8 P) \但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
) J& U# p% z( w/ M* l$ s" i熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,3 O; V- ?/ p0 t5 A5 L' a; C
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
8 A. l) \  B* R# t9 l2 F日日有車站,
7 \( g- _2 e" `- n% {0 a& k3 r有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙- ?; {/ Y/ ?, A2 O4 ~& A* s: ~% c
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
4 u, d1 G, R" q* [如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.. d/ e: U' A% F- y: B2 l
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..& {3 ]3 ^& {% Y- v, i7 B! D
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
2 @" g* A: `; y$ h總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
# b6 i  ]  ^" J# h其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,- s3 U4 R. c& K: \2 E/ L4 c9 G
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
* @  v" \- r- ?0 P: l日日有車站,, L+ P4 M: B" v( L; e
有目標!

' I2 w# M5 W. \0 }5 C8 l6 Bwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:) l* a4 K. q7 Y
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?  b! e7 T+ D/ b
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
) G; B+ G2 U! [) c& k) ~: i琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心, R. |4 w0 n' ?9 R5 @" ~& J
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣' p& v8 m9 W" F) `# B1 ~
覺得好空虛
# L5 ~+ p' d9 A, Y/ X. N6 @其實早幾次都有試過係咁8 ?9 T2 J% I7 m
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
7 G# I) z7 K6 Q用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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# v0 s* ]0 Q# w+ P- X& T這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
( N" u8 F) X. E唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
4 g8 c$ X$ ?( u! {# ^有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.* T, w/ y) }; `: {7 ]" {
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:0 _! n( O% L) l9 d6 s8 n( G1 R/ i; q
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
  O2 P, N. W6 W" L% Xb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.: x& c7 J" n- [+ M  j0 g7 C$ V
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.0 Q4 e" a5 @" `

4 l" J6 \3 w) h, j! y) T4 h- q- C; k0 kJust another thought on lonliness:" P! w2 D2 u* g  n
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
1 V7 e4 |: \; @But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
" ]. \2 P" r; c& W( J我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
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或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
6 A: W9 A8 L$ ], R( M" ^: W空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉: n$ s; ?9 @, F. Q3 W) R
很少會超過一天～
! J# ?; R; N) U) N; N要期待更好的明天呀！