熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?/ _$ Q4 j& L# [2 s1 b4 J
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
: ]' U5 S7 z5 @& b- U- Y. D% G琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心  u; k4 h9 e' Y/ z
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣; `7 u/ g  `" A% ^
覺得好空虛
% B: u8 c8 j, n9 P6 L% T# v其實早幾次都有試過係咁
3 F: N. ^* B& q* J4 E卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
* i% A8 k  P5 H; w$ D用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?- F) d* }8 m. r) V. m6 |
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
, i6 [8 R3 W7 }1 o1 Q& m+ d6 @$ O但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺3 D$ t9 f9 X& |2 J" ]5 s
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
$ w  d/ e; I( s  \1 |% R+ x! Y# u4 z所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,, Z% t' B8 h4 F& i
日日有車站,) G$ T( J* d' v9 v7 B' ?
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
: Q% `/ R( u' }- F4 p4 P6 K' _# K你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
' f0 C( M: z: ^1 _3 O" _% p, R) H如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
1 N8 Y! L( P$ W: H感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..4 @: Q# a* i8 z/ `7 L8 W. Y. ^+ W9 y
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心./ b& ]+ I$ s1 [2 M, E  P
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
' o* m7 ]$ b" s  L其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
8 N0 l) d6 x5 i8 X8 r所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
" d- g5 g1 H2 ]- T9 T日日有車站,
* k% _; X! z. _/ `5 D3 e& [有目標!

8 e. a) Z: H" K; G5 N4 \& vwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:( e. l9 p/ o) J# I5 K. B
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
2 ^: e4 U9 K6 S, E. ~" N5 \好唔鍾意呢種感覺& w! ~+ \+ e# m# u1 K" d
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
- v7 [/ X' @, H& j$ ?' ~個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣- j, K9 T, }- P1 ]: `, G
覺得好空虛
7 S6 {$ F/ A  Z" O8 T8 s, r# R其實早幾次都有試過係咁
( i% L7 m# s( X# ?卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
$ K' e: n+ {1 p7 K用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
3 h* w' Y, L. w$ o  W唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.+ p1 Q- J, y4 a  d8 L! e, v
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
8 \5 e; ~) k5 W% {% {. Wa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
; ^, Z% S: x+ Q' V/ H. ]. vb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
  \- c" r7 V; {c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.8 q1 U6 v0 a3 Z$ e9 j

+ Y7 c* q( @' ?Just another thought on lonliness:
+ x/ A7 k5 s* ]! ?Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
9 f7 z1 x# l6 {) W6 Y) SBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～% Z4 ^# V1 y7 X  G! `7 W  T% h
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
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或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
! E  J. `2 o  R/ A- P; U空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
% d* {2 e0 x8 W) C( z* L$ L很少會超過一天～* m; h) }5 u0 J2 F! D
要期待更好的明天呀！