熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?) q* S2 i1 N- ~; [
好唔鍾意呢種感覺2 _( j" y" |3 _  N9 R5 H
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心" H& M( Q' ^9 @8 p2 }
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣3 `3 [9 H9 M$ S: E$ ?0 F$ q
覺得好空虛
2 h6 o  s/ O) S* b1 _" ~其實早幾次都有試過係咁/ D# x  l5 N2 |; a. n0 h1 }
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
5 j* y" M, e1 x7 x% X# |( w/ H8 N用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?4 h: P. F2 F) [0 o
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
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熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻," J3 M- T- D# q  H8 |: I' [
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
/ {) A. F3 w* z+ e: S2 `8 A3 t; Y日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
( B! X9 y) @& a% N. k! U0 w你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
- `" U" E5 m- @2 }如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

8 g. n% Z" ], L" j2 P" t1 a9 f) L我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
9 A* j( O+ i) j: v2 P" F. f感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
1 k7 a2 j; d% C+ B玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
; ~; j8 s( J# F0 ]/ D* \4 A總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:& ~- S( T# Q* U; e. K& q
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
6 ^3 ~" M* F# i# I/ ~6 h所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
8 L6 N: o- Q$ ^& G日日有車站,, _, P# I& k( Z$ z9 e6 L
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
+ N. Y% J3 B4 p- O2 ]3 w如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?  W' T4 S  |5 w
好唔鍾意呢種感覺6 Y1 l+ ^# M2 g6 y
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心$ K5 L9 c" H9 N+ F/ J- F* _
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
! l. l! Y% P3 U2 r7 g覺得好空虛3 `- A6 r5 t5 U) G8 O  x" y; x
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
! Y, m* m* c' J, e/ {6 y" Q卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己: f+ W! P9 |& q1 ^, k2 \
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?1 k" R8 ?, h7 x3 s/ }8 t0 k

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6 A6 G0 L, k' b  R5 i( w8 B這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
+ @/ H$ B: W4 C; C7 @3 }% V$ P9 ~唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
" ]1 {! s: X/ `/ V* _有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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( ?/ B' Q$ h$ N9 [# A& l5 ^0 n. cPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:2 o, |* W2 C4 f# L/ j) q
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
- u; `! I3 x! Z, Ub) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.! T) s$ t9 d; f7 e9 c% a+ p
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.9 U/ O, h9 O) a0 K" p4 X
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Just another thought on lonliness:
" g5 E/ g# p, H; ]6 uLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....5 p- e7 z3 u/ O% M9 Y
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
2 \9 ?: v" V1 f! t我會有一種十分空虛的感覺. L. s3 S# W4 O8 w& b' Q) f$ V% ~
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影/ [$ M1 H2 C- w* g- f) l
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～" k# Q1 O! {: M/ x. R+ r0 i$ J
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉' O% Z2 n- P8 X' r5 u4 t
很少會超過一天～8 F+ J% r& b4 P1 }3 h0 G" P
要期待更好的明天呀！