熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
9 k2 o: M: ^$ O, t, g) m/ ^好唔鍾意呢種感覺8 P* }" e) I; ]; P* M, R% P; w
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心2 i! N: J- P  f
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣$ V# I1 W" X8 Z, |5 C3 W$ p: h/ [
覺得好空虛6 w! A/ {& P* Z  m9 Q0 D. u# t
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
1 o, q5 P- e1 D卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己1 R8 w/ c. R1 o
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?" t& R3 S* m* t, E# }

$ E& A$ ~, d% J6 x0 `3 h' p[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
+ J" H# ~3 Z  P但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
! S  v, O# s+ b6 L7 k: N2 l7 c" @熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,! r) m0 I( l6 V, |9 S' f
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
$ z& c3 A' J, i0 P* W5 P& a) u日日有車站,
8 Z" X$ }( q" o; G* m3 D有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙5 A  T# g7 t. @/ s- ^( [2 Q% T6 B1 d
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:' I1 N; K9 a. U6 r' U+ x, g" A
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

5 K! y7 f1 v% ]: L我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.5 a5 N8 o* `& H
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
; ^" R2 H3 N0 |玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.. Y, x9 O7 j$ }- c( l" C+ R% U
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
. w$ s# ]$ H( s7 x其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,0 [3 x- k0 j' U, o/ c. J' N) w5 @
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,0 I% v. ?* r# D" P. O
日日有車站,
1 j1 \* s7 i8 E9 |) |. I% w! M; i+ Q/ c0 S有目標!

. B2 h: U2 h- S3 ]what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:$ }: D. J% I5 y& H
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
5 x' V/ Q1 y+ E( U好唔鍾意呢種感覺
0 p  [  x- l9 R$ D琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心# o) q; G' _7 m+ L0 ~
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣7 f9 z. X0 ]' T  k1 Y
覺得好空虛
9 E' N; T( [$ I6 m9 z其實早幾次都有試過係咁
+ S: T2 k7 m5 K) e. p卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
+ g- d+ W5 T8 ]3 ~* K) @( |用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?, x7 [" R; I0 s5 v: `

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.6 w. F" }# m9 i" j% r' A
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
+ O7 k) N8 U) K9 P% h有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
4 K. d2 K$ C) q  ]5 N% O1 N1 `' la) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
& j6 K2 x9 @& `0 q" D" w* }' l) i2 l) m6 \b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.0 W, G# s& W8 L
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.8 p1 W5 r2 U  W# O9 o6 v

: a0 \2 \3 b! IJust another thought on lonliness:1 X/ o; ~4 H  P! w0 @
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
+ u! U- J# u2 w! X* dBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
7 ^( ~3 S: h' l* _9 k) |我會有一種十分空虛的感覺% [. ~/ u! T2 T" G  _
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
4 T/ W6 p" `- r5 B' Z或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
- J" J. e% ~& x4 M空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
) z5 I9 O' C% A: p. a7 L/ L- h很少會超過一天～- Z0 N) q4 q5 |/ H' C2 n
要期待更好的明天呀！