熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
; F/ S5 r! B$ t4 f" J! D好唔鍾意呢種感覺
  k; F  w( @( p: Y琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心* `3 v5 f# N7 j" d& l# U
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
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其實早幾次都有試過係咁
% ?3 ]. ~9 M9 Y3 J+ t2 H! Z# W1 L卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
  ^# l  p) Z% d+ V2 w8 O! r7 F用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?& {. U4 L. ?4 \% W" _
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,% ~. T1 s; R& }# u0 p7 R
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
7 d) ?' v- M6 d! ^8 O熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,: U/ W3 e# o/ t. u3 `
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
9 A8 O0 T3 ~) y2 _/ t( j日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
+ j4 o- Y+ g& _$ f( N( `; k2 K; q你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
% u( K' F% q, }1 I4 w/ w. ^* W如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.0 }. Z% ?6 G/ j; {$ R- ?; g" u
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
2 d0 W9 t- e1 R7 H5 t9 ?' N玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
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本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:7 T: A) ^* Q. p, v5 L2 m
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,6 I" z$ |5 r+ Q! p
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
" Z7 Z2 m8 M0 [% M; q- H! X日日有車站,- J- I5 `4 ?8 u
有目標!

: d& p9 t/ W7 R% q# y' uwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:1 K1 `0 h( F% ~3 I' p& |( z
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?/ G" a  [" `( `/ X+ [2 h6 E: S
好唔鍾意呢種感覺; r+ c% B! C6 T& o, f9 a7 j# |4 Y
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
" q$ U# [- X8 F1 n+ f, d: Y) T個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣$ @. }$ k# `, u; i
覺得好空虛
' @8 M, W. L$ A8 E6 ^4 y8 _5 D) N其實早幾次都有試過係咁2 H. a0 X. V: K5 F( P7 P) v
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己! N- K7 C6 X' v4 l( e+ y
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?9 t9 L7 T$ G) _8 H+ L& y

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) b6 f# z1 H/ q9 I% q9 e' h0 `這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
6 {: b4 e; V8 h唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.. ?3 V% H& A6 {
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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- i, A( R8 |  a6 C! p9 ?# ?People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
( t2 q7 z. f* n, la) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
' c) o$ u* W( Fb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone./ ?, X9 V: h( N0 l
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.- C. J8 A0 ?" e5 S+ H1 `4 O& w6 X0 h
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Just another thought on lonliness:& y8 F5 O5 }0 O  R  Y. \1 n
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....; e9 h! _( q4 m0 z/ `- N, U. m) V
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～) h6 j# q$ }3 m: ]  {5 J! I$ U9 x
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺8 ~! P1 M1 i7 M' a3 U
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
; z  d* K. g, `- k, S9 u0 t或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
1 W; E, N' ^. m5 h0 `# q) B空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
/ k' R& T4 r- ]" \; O很少會超過一天～$ O2 B7 p# w1 T. A* Y
要期待更好的明天呀！