熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?( W" s2 r* ]8 {2 {$ U
好唔鍾意呢種感覺/ [: o& L6 a7 f9 N/ p
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心: w: z# w9 \+ I& x* G5 S
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
9 n# P% E* I* s覺得好空虛
5 w5 a& g) n+ I; O( p. V其實早幾次都有試過係咁  ^) J  u# K$ J
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己1 \3 @* \' b* F! d  {2 i
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,: _) }' K* ~) @
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
( M! v4 g2 ~, P! z( T熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,! W' S0 H  n8 s& ]' S
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
& c1 ^" _: g: C: N2 P# Y  d1 R日日有車站,6 x( d5 }, o2 G( j  L, g/ m* B
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙1 O; N  ?9 w# h9 I% [6 w. g/ {
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
7 j& g6 l% a" `* p如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
) M+ F8 E" b; l7 k5 W感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
) l2 L- g8 m5 F玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
3 U/ M0 M0 n; n0 g7 V& h2 H總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:2 |; s+ m1 ?* D1 B# w6 @5 @4 ~
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,: P2 E- D% s# x0 o+ `
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,6 I- e4 y8 y# @  @
日日有車站,
4 e1 m6 @7 Z- E& Z* j有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
7 ^+ Q$ M2 n7 P" U如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
( @6 X, `( ?4 Q8 L; C( C$ r" m好唔鍾意呢種感覺/ i1 q' I3 d0 \4 ?
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
5 f5 M$ E  L/ g* k( I個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣- l$ Y' j# ?+ x( r( ~% `6 V
覺得好空虛8 T: d% ]! h  l
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
/ D; {1 X, Z$ G$ P, n卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
! d4 z+ I, r: \9 ~2 J+ G$ F6 V  Z用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.8 m0 u1 y) ]- N! i; U& N& p
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.. [* l- E% Q7 S$ B8 `$ x
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:0 O: |/ P3 F8 S: J% I# ]
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long- n1 }% @5 l3 ]  m' n0 J
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
* D/ d) ]" u, r. D/ u& Bc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.' S( S  H" f# ?" y. M1 d

4 R# F1 l* O' v# pJust another thought on lonliness:
' E4 ?% f8 H) rLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
6 o+ N. s4 T' H- ZBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
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3 @, E: F# y" J/ Y5 A3 r就好似睇完一套好睇的電影# e9 i9 _7 ]1 C2 v
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
5 R! W5 d+ u4 g. m1 T7 A6 f' s空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉2 A+ n# |" P( g2 @' l1 G$ z
很少會超過一天～- l# v3 Y/ H% Y" J9 d
要期待更好的明天呀！