熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
* O8 r0 K. _8 a" S/ Z4 G好唔鍾意呢種感覺2 `  S! p3 ^8 x3 W9 e
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
1 ]8 Z& H/ T1 p$ V個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
3 S" m* Y3 T; o+ B- ]$ l: t覺得好空虛
8 i/ j8 @% z; s1 Y其實早幾次都有試過係咁
4 d. v% y4 Y4 S# D/ \卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
6 ^# u& ]" `) I2 e* J$ U用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
2 k7 }) |6 `( q. R/ {  v  Y( x' r$ n但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺4 m; }! E2 a9 f1 O1 T* V1 I
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
. J9 ~) r- S, b所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
. s7 K9 E  ~7 D5 |4 r  f# `; |日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
/ e+ o. j% B3 y. ?: x& M. q你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
5 \0 c& o7 s# B& e- ~( @如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

! q1 u$ ~1 S6 \- O; |/ k, }7 Y1 l8 }我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
4 _1 n. U- l) s( R. A7 d感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
9 D, @: D) _7 O) T( h- [玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
  C  l, A3 J" [, d9 t2 h總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:& U% W4 q! X' H. z2 G& F8 {" q) X
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
, g9 Q/ A* U! g: T5 J8 [6 k所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,4 n2 i) l$ H2 |; v& B7 o  [! ^" C  t
日日有車站," c. ]+ w+ {# g9 @
有目標!

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rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:4 g* f% H9 |1 n9 s5 X
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
" v4 Q8 f8 r" h* R# m( j8 K9 I好唔鍾意呢種感覺: r1 S6 J6 Q( l4 A, y1 |
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
& z" X4 Y- ~& _個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣' i; J, [4 m1 f5 i; E8 A
覺得好空虛! o' P" v  K* b% K4 N* [8 `% D. E
其實早幾次都有試過係咁7 j  a9 m$ H) c! m8 l- i) s
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己/ m- @2 |! Z: Y9 k& b5 f! [6 I: K
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?$ N% n7 C% B& P8 V/ A5 p- g2 c

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
8 ?5 n, ~, s7 ?) S: n唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
9 @; N2 g; G9 M, V有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.* q& o% f/ K+ J) {- [
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
- C. g- |$ w) Ga) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long8 s! Q& W& W. D- K& G1 W7 w+ N
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone./ F* g4 X. o% f% _& o) R
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.3 D) o5 y# {% p( h
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Just another thought on lonliness:0 \- P8 m+ [; J
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
6 M3 ?; ?' I2 u1 U7 O' jBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
) g% V, U2 Y$ z: F8 V我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
9 G: i9 A0 H8 z/ z; }! g就好似睇完一套好睇的電影8 U+ I% f! t# ], t1 z) |1 i
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
6 o4 {7 v# v; V. v0 K空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
* S4 I: G' [" a1 L很少會超過一天～
, C( a0 Z: T" V$ W( M* C2 S% }, c3 \要期待更好的明天呀！