熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?9 x. ?4 Q2 o$ s& P
好唔鍾意呢種感覺5 C' d9 Q1 A. B+ i# C# f  F& B+ D, ^
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心9 C/ E9 ~6 M8 @6 B* N5 d- @- V
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
9 D9 H' J* y4 a1 b/ C覺得好空虛, }* [5 T# M3 `, `8 {9 J
其實早幾次都有試過係咁4 a( L! c6 Q5 ?* i6 F8 {
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
/ k: b. X, |0 v. [( h6 V用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?1 i* N% a- z# x+ ~! n
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,2 I! g0 b. s: u9 Y& \- n
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺* |0 d& y4 S' J! W2 e) _" }+ }1 ^
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
  O$ }+ }+ @# E. U  D) |6 K- s所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,4 [& J9 t# V5 @
日日有車站,- V$ G+ @4 d5 f5 F- {" Z% O' S! b8 w3 }
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙/ ^3 U9 h/ n6 g* b! c
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:9 Q. ^. P8 j7 i+ t8 T' {
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

  W4 P+ e# a6 F! _' M8 f我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.7 I: ~+ @- R9 G6 V
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..6 k( `1 r8 L% b& i. d- g0 H
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
. `' y' x! Y( \4 i8 o) I7 U總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
" x, V, b2 M$ a4 d其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
8 ~9 l) K* h& D! B所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,8 u( q3 C/ I! N. N: A; ^
日日有車站,# p$ ~+ Y# R0 a$ |: G
有目標!

* ^# i# \7 e; h8 pwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:+ ^: C) {& P* N0 c7 q
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?' J. i3 C1 D; X% y  |" }+ P
好唔鍾意呢種感覺* n6 G- I) _$ f7 |& J5 M/ m, E5 q. I9 k
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心# p) C- R# B( ?) {
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣3 o1 X2 `0 P. f- j3 K9 @6 R  r
覺得好空虛4 |1 X* i6 j' B. \
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
$ \7 W% m/ O) W, f. J2 P$ g卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己" R' R  ?* _7 I4 T" R" z
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?3 [3 V5 h/ \/ m( Q8 e& d) a

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.0 F3 P% X" K9 c! E8 ?3 X( U  j
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
$ k2 f' a" B! b3 o( m有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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& S) p4 `6 M* K* I5 P* vPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:7 u8 ]) ?5 E& O1 X" z! n
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long$ }2 j. M4 S& j6 U" p
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone." i; p8 c( K- ?3 d
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.. l) E* i9 \7 J6 _% u

$ M6 S) \' l. X9 I' S1 U3 T; @Just another thought on lonliness:) L1 P  p4 G( o% l
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....! R6 [9 L$ ]6 z" T% Q' |0 g, X2 b
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～& s! C/ ?  [- s% Y  o' x9 i5 R$ z
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺1 ?/ L' L3 v3 h$ R6 A
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
! Z2 Z  W9 L3 t. s& a# a或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～: u; O% m3 D: {6 b& M# Z$ ?3 Y
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
9 F3 y" X) |4 y4 x9 [+ ]很少會超過一天～* w7 J& A% Q% H
要期待更好的明天呀！