熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?7 Q3 P8 h# }$ z0 k  m  I4 q/ y
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
$ o; P9 m8 ^0 X( |2 s0 B8 w* B9 y琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
6 D3 q9 q, h. v5 k0 j1 Y( r: |+ @- b個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
2 v' I4 j5 r  E3 o* r8 w+ Q覺得好空虛8 Z/ C& m; ?- ?: y, |* a% y" D3 n
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
6 P; z( Q2 A' ?" @% R7 N+ p卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
  w6 x. F" |0 ?7 r用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?: t! ^8 @+ U. p' e% u3 Q+ h" W

7 x3 k; r  J4 N3 I. N$ v3 q[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,. M; ]8 ]5 W  r$ i5 B
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
4 H& F6 V; p- P6 @8 V$ U熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
6 w/ e8 P; @( P! n. r8 e所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,9 Y/ J$ P! F' B! [* m1 J
日日有車站,6 L* s8 R. \$ E0 [9 l  M
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
: |; N3 A+ I- u! Z- x7 D" |你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:( v$ K1 {% V' K3 Y
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

/ r" E/ B7 i  ^, w& O8 P我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.2 R0 ~. I- B# |3 a4 w* {  v
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
% Q/ ]% d+ D1 p7 R玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.# n. d# U7 r  N0 ?+ Q0 L
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
  ]# @, ]& Y+ r8 x# b其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻," q) g2 t' ?  l0 {$ }5 S, H* h& C
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,) h- E/ b. z) M: y
日日有車站,
' m) E0 P+ y+ }1 h$ ], ^& ]$ P6 Y有目標!

' q' J) z4 {- B& j( g* x1 iwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
# ?* Z! O" f' f7 a" E5 A如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?4 V6 u" ^# Z5 [1 o. z1 D3 f+ p' {& K
好唔鍾意呢種感覺8 ?. l! u# g, a. g5 B" B' {
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心) q+ w0 [/ O( m' q  j
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
( a. a  _# ]3 I覺得好空虛
- p$ \; E% A7 J% q) e( O/ T! A其實早幾次都有試過係咁  a  G6 v/ c) h+ e" c
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己4 w8 y3 @. t7 V8 ~) j
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?* P! h% h  V9 q$ |

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1 ^2 d$ j! r- J2 ?: N/ ]1 O這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.6 J$ M' U' C) t5 H6 K
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.& P3 b9 X6 n3 F+ X% M6 o$ N+ ]" l  D
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own., p$ o7 j1 h3 C1 V' P- O
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:  E" g8 I/ n; |/ M. b
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long# D. `& U7 B8 `1 P: h/ {$ d
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
* V. l- v- n7 [) P9 g  C' ic) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:" l* m- Y7 B6 P% U. m$ P; Q
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....0 O6 d8 g7 o1 [6 W
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～( Y+ C- f7 v2 R' i0 u
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
" t) v; D( G  U9 W' u就好似睇完一套好睇的電影0 g) A) }& Z6 B$ w
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
2 c2 {" w2 o# O1 ~- a空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉2 _1 R; T1 y0 {
很少會超過一天～
* k7 N8 t9 V- T; A6 {! r) N要期待更好的明天呀！