熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
7 O7 c. [. F/ _% K6 l* }好唔鍾意呢種感覺
4 F$ K8 W. Z0 g; }+ ^琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
  `' C2 a4 |2 m+ K9 v個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣! O, ]  t: h! I
覺得好空虛( c1 O* X( w# x. x& k
其實早幾次都有試過係咁4 A6 {& \; {  B, u. J! n7 P
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己( E7 `) m, R& L
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,% @/ Q( m2 w$ R1 K* H
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺& l! K8 B+ `) a$ d  |1 U8 p% K
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,' U, U7 o5 C& ~. R0 Y$ o" C
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,% H9 I5 A& j8 ?1 D9 e# P! @
日日有車站,- j6 ~- J0 o. u) A
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙& h. f0 l3 [: o% }8 X. w+ o
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
% ?& ?4 X' W2 F% [' ^如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

# d3 `8 b6 m' {5 J7 ^我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.; c) X' c. f, i2 r% C
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..7 v# C5 H9 `7 T. c
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
4 B0 n4 F- t, ~3 a, P7 F$ V$ \總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
1 _! Q9 i1 l% n2 B" t0 G' m3 x其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,, [$ o$ r. E. I* Z  _( w! m
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,% X; y7 l0 E& Y5 V$ N% Z+ ^9 L
日日有車站,9 R3 X! o7 n6 h1 p" Q# y8 Y  h- |
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:7 s% M7 a& ]& U# _/ ?
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
; f& |" S7 o6 m2 C/ d+ ^+ A好唔鍾意呢種感覺
$ p& @" a2 E% m6 z2 u2 G( f琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
$ K3 ]( \; r( L1 W9 B! `個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
- P3 {/ v/ n% L: a覺得好空虛* J- z% l: v5 j0 b
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
) b1 @+ W' k* X+ d卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己8 k6 l  n; v' [, b
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
! L: ], z$ J$ O3 }: k* V( A. o4 ]

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, j- ?. t" D! }$ E* d/ @這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
+ m. I( g7 x7 Q5 Q% z2 O! h唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
( O+ h+ L; d' d+ s有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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! X/ ?/ \4 ^: Z2 Z0 N. UPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
+ x# Y+ m, ?0 e) T5 aa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long0 ^5 e# q' S% m1 K8 i  @9 t! l
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
) ?2 s# C/ @% e8 q. n* l' S" Jc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.% ]  S( r( _6 }1 G

1 s1 D# ~7 @% y! E: [3 N& \Just another thought on lonliness:# }: e) F: }$ s6 s8 k, ~% I
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....+ R8 a+ z. D- Y: g$ C9 F
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
1 o( y; V3 I+ \3 f6 ?6 d0 W我會有一種十分空虛的感覺, z2 g& B# i. _1 f) {$ X9 P
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影4 M. s! Q+ \& D1 K) J; q
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～0 K7 A7 j, K: s+ Z4 ?
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉3 k2 l0 E3 M: \) u( w0 U, f
很少會超過一天～; ^- s! \- [5 a3 V- a  w
要期待更好的明天呀！