熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
* N) P3 f) A$ ?+ b& a+ Z5 R好唔鍾意呢種感覺
+ t4 T3 E( U; p4 B# d& A$ d% e琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心" g) L, H7 z, T& \3 y% h
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣9 w7 |4 c8 R/ U- e0 n
覺得好空虛; w7 U& u3 o! Q# i# ~
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
0 l& ^% U" ~( L3 p6 ?% g; k卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
) m% U9 N) a* u  v' g# }+ q用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?7 h  S3 H; [7 h

  r4 |. F. J- t[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,: k: Q3 Q" G* ?) {! l8 `. A
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
5 Q; }% c: C& i" i6 M; R: K熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻," F+ u& Z' P7 b
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,$ J3 I1 N; p( E2 W( u" U  s! {6 ~
日日有車站,. h$ a7 O/ p& E; g0 N
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙# z! [, \) r/ F: H( y9 k
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
0 V/ P" T/ b4 [( G如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

7 f  z) q5 M% N$ o  {/ j. R  _我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
8 H& n" I! M" d# Q2 J7 m感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..1 j- B1 U' i* D( O7 `3 K1 B. O
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.2 u# H) S) O0 U: c1 D9 m  F4 w
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:/ B: q4 v; D0 f2 _
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,4 U6 l3 j; N& j) C
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
7 _9 j, Y. w8 m0 w日日有車站,
2 v! P( v7 Y, o+ f$ q) d, P9 q  G有目標!

4 z" Q% S5 M8 }1 E1 A( o/ fwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:4 S4 E# a* n1 I. ]/ o* |. c
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?3 P! Z. T$ Y8 i5 J
好唔鍾意呢種感覺) g0 _3 ]+ U; w; i6 \3 S" Z
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心1 J" b( X9 {& w
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
  n* F  @/ r( N% ]( ]覺得好空虛& ]/ {" A+ t$ a4 f& {* c
其實早幾次都有試過係咁: o9 j' e! C1 [7 U; z' F! Z' X
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己1 Y4 @/ c* f5 w8 N( K3 Z
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
, f9 r* j8 q- V( s" }9 ^+ t

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. V! _5 @$ g9 I5 u% \6 J這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
/ O/ n4 G! ~& |. b: B; G- s唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
+ C( R$ c, v, I8 l有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own." N/ B' R% r- L7 n$ ]( w8 s* z0 j

8 X3 h6 G7 j+ J, c/ m# hPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
& T7 h/ L  {2 p. {% b- h/ v2 _7 Na) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long0 T+ \: y( b. f4 T7 \
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.. J5 Y' z# v; h4 t
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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* S6 Y) Y: L% T" DJust another thought on lonliness:
9 M* `( u# J' ?" y/ PLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....% G3 W" b- |: t. v# t
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～* }, s- ?' _6 j( b! y; @
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺( _" s+ [; h: P8 Y
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影/ J8 |, o8 \8 C* ~5 S& s; `
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～0 N: ?: r8 l) e+ l, B. z
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
2 q+ |( s6 D& H, l; {很少會超過一天～
9 @! A/ p, }3 |" _要期待更好的明天呀！