熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
8 M* s* ]4 I$ ?, a好唔鍾意呢種感覺) i& ~& F: R( m; e
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
9 B& h! U8 N0 Y1 t0 G! D9 U1 D3 D個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
$ O/ E7 L! Z" c4 g' F# U覺得好空虛* U5 X9 s9 h1 `. N, Z  q
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
2 ]' {- c9 M  y6 U  D6 K8 i卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己7 u3 K1 M5 `- c; Q
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
2 B2 _: s$ y2 U# \% Q- X但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
5 V1 f* w# n- P" Z熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
& E4 V' e' i. [0 _; p+ S9 J所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,; X5 ]" y. r# T# N" ^
日日有車站,
; }6 i& o  K  S. W有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙3 S% Y3 t4 W' z1 R+ {5 G  A
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:4 ?% I5 Q$ i& {; }
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.6 @4 {) }4 K3 _- e
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
6 \0 o) E" v* K; o; ~) ]+ ~  `! H6 V玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.! _" v% z& S, |1 Y* {( n2 \5 r* e
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:  Q6 x8 e7 O+ `7 |: X6 S) z
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,% Y( D/ U6 `2 Y( r/ c
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,$ Q$ @6 y5 g! S) ], E. B: K
日日有車站,( e" G( t( g$ k4 Y
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
( N# }& b; d. H! w) b2 D8 D如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
2 S, [7 m0 \& w* S好唔鍾意呢種感覺$ k1 ?8 {' Y; X, T
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
# y# l# p1 X: i  c. C個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
9 M7 E1 v6 b5 N1 R- E. t: k2 _覺得好空虛
) X0 K% N: o- q0 r其實早幾次都有試過係咁0 g  i; a  z3 `1 i% ~" g1 h6 n( }
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己2 X- h3 \! ^! M; [- M
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
0 ^5 t& ~8 Z1 a1 g. ?唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
1 y" O" S+ M7 d. `; V$ K1 i有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.6 A5 e+ {$ B9 f% e% ?
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
# |" h4 S% l: `) f/ V" w+ Z+ ca) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long5 @- W0 F# m& v
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
. b; q, V/ T. s' c( W+ D4 Pc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.7 v) J! H) J' f3 ~$ x( W" E

* u4 J. z- ~% `# u3 z8 A! |* bJust another thought on lonliness:
! ]" @% R% _+ S8 {; r: ^Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
1 V' S9 m- i# D6 P% @4 F: r# q3 BBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～" h( c% E( f( A- M8 i
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
0 m4 l2 }  Y& ^+ W1 x- O! I$ b就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
* A, ~- `+ U5 Q9 @0 E& d0 A或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～8 t& c" W6 C* U" s% ^+ G2 N) X
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉4 E6 I& E0 U6 p
很少會超過一天～
, E3 }. ~7 y  X9 r; ]+ V0 O$ x要期待更好的明天呀！