熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
4 _2 @# t* l, M5 G/ A0 G好唔鍾意呢種感覺
) ^& P3 x6 D* O, f5 O  e7 L$ ]% {琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
' O' Y0 v8 f! u. c$ ~6 j' g個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣3 ?8 q0 }4 M5 F' i# g
覺得好空虛
0 x9 {$ J) L% f+ E5 _2 ^4 Y其實早幾次都有試過係咁
- L7 |3 z8 l6 t1 I! Z$ ~, \) m卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己. N' R- A9 e" b) W; D% X
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?) m, ?( T! X& L" Y- a
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,4 A6 \9 N' ~3 V
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
# L7 `  P. `. e4 v/ }4 C  i% }! E熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
' b  l- @: K( P" I; I6 c/ F& d# n" ]所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
- ^& b: u$ C; @日日有車站,
8 _& m% D/ O' A2 R; \  d有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
( q/ D- L0 q; e你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
) ~7 i8 ?) I, Q* g% {1 s如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.7 _  }4 e. T: l5 C5 S' |
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞.." `* A; a' G  ]6 E( j: Q
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.; u8 f) _9 i- F, D7 l9 V" n; G
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
* A' _- k, Z+ `+ h其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,8 j  f2 x2 u" A' I6 K# o9 G+ P+ _
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
) T9 T0 T4 Q% S4 T: q日日有車站,
& c2 O( r0 |$ L* e! F5 x/ O3 G有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:1 Z0 P. v( H0 W6 w9 A" @) N
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?& U' M  C/ s" {4 e& b$ M& U# ]- A$ l% q* @
好唔鍾意呢種感覺4 x3 \" y5 a; c7 O9 B( N' o
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心, [, q. v: s" o3 E% M" |6 e
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
4 ?4 x0 Z# z: C. d6 |覺得好空虛$ ~6 [; G8 d6 K7 o! D$ _* R4 o
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
2 ~5 H( W( v3 b6 L6 q卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己% L: U6 F! w3 r3 }; d; K
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?+ V2 c9 r. x+ w4 E: r" [

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" h! D! y: f- n$ Z; Y這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
$ }. |% Y/ n$ U' ^4 U唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.3 b2 P0 K- ^  k  E$ |- S
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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. }0 Y+ y8 R. oPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
# H5 I# k& u, T6 x% k* ?+ va) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
& |) h" W' w8 }- }5 t" sb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.& f! s$ a& d- o1 b  z) F
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.2 y! P, p" u) k

. u! e# \; B5 b$ z9 DJust another thought on lonliness:5 |( i7 S0 M  x8 S4 c
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....: a6 M7 l2 o+ Y0 z% I
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
" [. [1 _& f. H  ^# l我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
; B0 M, N$ ?2 }! X6 `+ i0 i就好似睇完一套好睇的電影, l( M: s7 p8 }. S2 V! i
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
3 Y0 I# ?% \) T6 `空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉  J( E5 x3 {6 s$ X2 B5 I
很少會超過一天～
/ T7 S) h3 x) y' d( `. l( @要期待更好的明天呀！