熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
0 }- X: G! H3 `  z" O好唔鍾意呢種感覺
8 q7 l: x# j: t5 k/ h琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心6 a4 c8 z2 {6 V$ n& D
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
0 s+ Q" |6 g/ _; k+ c4 o2 M* Y' c/ Z覺得好空虛
( v6 g8 c7 ?  \" @. h其實早幾次都有試過係咁4 k4 P. x5 ]  a2 G
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
. J7 O( V6 Q7 Z5 S$ D用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?8 P% C7 k7 o5 M. s1 ?; ?# R
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
; I& D; K" \8 X  h但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺2 }, j  S5 ~% Z9 K5 V/ M% J! M
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,/ k: A4 A* P0 Q: t2 {
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
) y, a# p' x: W& \日日有車站,
8 L$ R& i4 f) l有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙- D9 F  P( M( t, a  @% P
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:- R/ e$ m/ g' Y; h8 L
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

, F: P1 w, \2 l) G我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
% k/ a6 |1 i9 M; m& c: z* [3 C. D感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..6 ]( {2 y# r6 T$ c; M& I
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.: I" c$ }% h, e9 a6 v: G, x% S$ L; K
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:' b6 f0 X+ q6 @- M! G% i5 f
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,4 D7 @" D. p* O8 @, m/ R' q+ K
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
( t% V+ Y# N2 r2 X* ]日日有車站,& d+ j( C- U2 k% J* k
有目標!

% ~. o2 d& |+ |what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
) x+ {' H" H# |( M5 {如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?  q' @9 n7 E' N  F  H
好唔鍾意呢種感覺  f8 ?( m( H: m; Y8 H0 R; A
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心6 w* [/ e7 N1 E& P: u2 t: {0 n" R
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣9 N4 H. M0 T4 C# Y6 k
覺得好空虛
. f1 T3 ]) z# y$ B其實早幾次都有試過係咁) r$ M# L/ y, E; |0 H+ g
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己$ y. T- @4 @! l4 B
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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' w$ v6 p9 i9 X. N" w" I這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.+ M' W; _; k$ H* I" U0 J
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.: q- o) J7 R2 p" ~
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own./ t. T" x9 O6 z4 I! ^6 g2 S% X

: p: X4 K7 g# |* H4 O( i9 d( s7 ?People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
( J# N6 v; J- d) g6 ya) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long/ s& p% Q: H; X7 K+ c; E
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone./ w- @/ ^; M! q( R/ r
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.+ {3 n. F6 r) U, y6 z8 @
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Just another thought on lonliness:
% G* u( m4 j/ A, ]Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....1 }( h- f; T4 b6 ?+ O' Y# U
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～! j- \6 u; m" \: {
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺9 y6 X$ F! i9 i% U
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
4 n7 \+ [/ H" h: ^1 X! S+ z) X; E1 i或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
0 ]0 F0 ^% N/ C空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
" V! A' S" B3 F  S% x很少會超過一天～
" {% L+ n0 |' ?+ Y要期待更好的明天呀！