熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
6 m( M6 c+ y2 x0 h5 z好唔鍾意呢種感覺# P# \( V2 z$ |: |5 s
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
0 F7 }4 n  H0 J3 U) K# x個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
( x  d. `( @" R0 g( u. W覺得好空虛( V% Y1 ~- y! c" [$ f
其實早幾次都有試過係咁5 O3 Z1 u+ o% [  {! D  \
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
. e- S3 f* D# _0 f9 o用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?( n4 t. f5 d1 @( N, G7 o

6 Z" R) o' g" C8 w. N[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,7 e) x) N" F, W5 y' L' k4 `
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺. j7 n& P/ J! j' p* `
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
8 h4 U6 }9 \! D2 G  a, ]3 m/ K( N' P, I所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,' B/ O1 M2 I' o; F3 q/ B
日日有車站,# N* k- T0 f* Y  p8 L; I2 q
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙5 W5 u7 C" s. ?5 F
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:) G. R8 N2 _5 U/ v
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

2 m; P. J5 X. H8 f& p* l我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
8 w  q8 r( E. `4 e  l0 ?感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..- N8 ]# X3 A( X$ a% ]
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.+ n6 i) S" B5 y" [/ x5 e: G5 @& C
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
* g, s4 N1 G5 C# B1 A其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,% L! @$ V/ w% z! u( |
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,5 x  e: m6 D/ g0 V$ I
日日有車站,& f2 \( R% G) e
有目標!

2 t* v( ^2 a! P: a: B/ g* k1 `what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:0 @4 x+ V; n, X& M, p/ v& {
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
7 e, G' V- t# F& o( {好唔鍾意呢種感覺
! F! ~/ ^0 K2 Z  x琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
- M+ l: n$ N! W, t) y% c9 U個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
2 d# R0 G( W5 y8 J3 {/ W/ R覺得好空虛* s+ a0 B8 q5 s) m
其實早幾次都有試過係咁  o7 i; O$ p$ p& I" j8 o' b) |
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己' q/ D/ J) ~4 @, l
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.: T! y7 f- Z, U% g. ~0 n) y! _
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.( t  n7 `0 L5 W5 G3 G3 t
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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$ s# Y3 c) z1 x1 JPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
# k; \, {+ h3 ?a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long) N+ n* A) w; B) r
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.0 p8 V8 j) K* w; }5 ^3 ^, M
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:2 @9 @9 Q) K! l( V4 Z) y+ Y* N7 e
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
' `& x7 n: J: d! kBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～% a) N) D" m$ ^' X9 z5 y- d
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
: V+ ~7 e- L3 u1 H就好似睇完一套好睇的電影0 b# t0 S1 B% v" s! r& p
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～* Y/ y9 C8 a* W% c! l% r
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉9 x. u" ]* Z8 f) [2 O" {
很少會超過一天～: U5 m. C( P4 w, x( F# w
要期待更好的明天呀！