熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?6 [' W* |6 B' J' M2 U
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
# ^: H- U3 Z: v' p0 ^1 h琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
% o/ A0 S3 P( y2 @/ L' _/ M5 `個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
* s; {1 v2 I% D# E4 {覺得好空虛* J# n- Z/ d2 R' i
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
% ~2 q( `1 w" C; ?% z6 v: F8 B卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
2 B. J9 _6 R# _. ^" p! r$ W用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,& U( _5 Z! x+ ?+ H7 W8 Q# \& X5 \
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺* Y, T* f! {+ k2 U
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
" H4 b/ H/ Z) X4 K0 h+ P5 F所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,' u4 z" m- T. l
日日有車站,
0 ^4 q9 z* k# ^  R: h/ ^有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
+ Y( `( j- R: L; d, j7 t4 b( y你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:" X3 x1 P5 ^, W5 g5 d  j
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

7 C1 E! y1 f4 t8 M; L我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
) F6 @- G. p# C6 }1 H9 p感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
" J$ Q  S& i- H: @7 |4 o2 b# B玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心., m9 _- R! A# _! X" S7 K0 E9 ]  j
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:. H. Y0 k9 W1 n' _
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,. o/ @- o/ w3 i
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,; t, N# j# C- S- v+ B. e2 {' b+ b
日日有車站,
  B! y0 q1 O! x# s) c有目標!

8 |1 T) H7 V9 Dwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
1 |5 b# U6 M' c) i如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
# ]8 k6 q% c/ u* e+ x9 r& A好唔鍾意呢種感覺+ J. ~! d- n+ J. m
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
! x2 B" M8 F7 o! y8 |+ g# [- o個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣' ]# e" e( R: T, K' P/ H7 c
覺得好空虛0 |/ Y4 v) s; n% T5 o$ Z% T5 ~$ v
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
5 n+ t+ v2 Q* H卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己) y- q/ p6 Y. l& p, ]$ v
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.' {' L# \& i9 O6 B5 m, s/ ?
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.8 i" U8 v; y% D* \) E! D( i
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.4 v: b3 s/ z# r* d

+ J% j1 Q$ @) B+ L! }People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
% ?$ N. U6 T: p; ]3 \7 sa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
, O# {1 k! W& g4 [b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone./ o0 X( Z  }  I0 r: o* g$ V
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.- c5 a& N( W; X$ m
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Just another thought on lonliness:) [( Z: b* a7 {6 U; T* W4 g& y
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
* E% c- P+ ?& u9 IBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～* |9 R4 Q- j0 \, v
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺- K! G7 A! Q5 o! g  u9 s
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影4 G5 F) j1 Q& Y0 K. n
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～' s1 v$ k2 I$ [3 u8 w& Y
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉( d0 b# y( h& c, c0 I
很少會超過一天～- ?$ G! F. s4 C6 x
要期待更好的明天呀！