熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?6 }8 m" ~5 L+ c' U8 e
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
9 g0 S0 P- d0 O& V6 Z  V琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
$ H( a3 E* `' P& S  ]9 A6 L% b8 k個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣! m' a+ ]1 l. M& B+ \9 u8 C2 ?/ m
覺得好空虛( @& y) Q/ ~- r4 T* M9 T
其實早幾次都有試過係咁7 z: y+ [, P  p4 w" ^5 r
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
$ q2 o9 ]6 w2 P- `8 z0 {用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
' u* z- O/ ]% N# Y; ~8 e2 w但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
8 C, I! E; `6 M1 F熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,7 m* j5 F* a$ Z8 y0 Y- l
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
/ @4 h2 H6 S/ J- B2 D& j0 t1 u- T# N日日有車站,
6 p" W# L8 @; r* E( O0 ~& v有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
4 M; T2 a% k) E2 W& `3 F! D5 T你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
1 [4 N8 r( O) l" A如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

4 z4 a1 Y6 _7 D0 A, i- x我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
: ^2 N/ W' |- F5 q! X; m0 g感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
  p" b5 h' F. B* ~) N玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心., W) M4 r  i1 h/ B, b  E% r
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
  {( }4 t, [  m9 E: g其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,- Z5 M* d% L1 K/ ?% L/ ^
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,0 r$ @& J* B" S' l' H  a" J# K( E  Z
日日有車站,
7 X! I( ?5 t3 I  Q5 b有目標!

2 O0 s2 f7 s7 a9 d1 k2 g1 [what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:/ W. [9 l* K/ o0 k
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
* P" L0 j" B6 y; D; ]' y. r好唔鍾意呢種感覺3 {4 r( A: }' w! n# D* R
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心+ A) K3 J& |: t. M4 ]9 v  d
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣2 `# S  D* a( c6 L! F% d' W" |
覺得好空虛) N/ _+ F, K) L* X1 l9 |
其實早幾次都有試過係咁# T2 k3 q- N4 _" ^- k8 C0 |7 Z
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
7 o0 K6 n9 B: |; t; S& d. H9 t用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?; L( e0 W- r' y/ T3 I3 V- c+ S

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.+ T; z. Z% i" R6 p9 g5 q; O0 L
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
7 _3 X7 W' X. J$ K% S5 h有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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! X1 t4 q+ g: u/ d" z" vPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
  ^2 C) R( }1 Q0 Z) ]$ T5 [+ @1 }a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long" w+ m- g5 G! W  R4 D
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.5 G& `- r8 _: y
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.7 N0 |" w( ^0 j: P

9 G& m: l5 h/ d" @8 yJust another thought on lonliness:6 ]; X  E/ R! t3 q4 z
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
! G/ |1 r* n' Y" @But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～" ]- L( |) z  c  M
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺% |# g1 W$ m4 T1 ~
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
+ l8 y7 t1 V+ F5 G或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
7 s# ?* s9 R3 f3 d$ g' h/ A空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉. d' e: Q8 W% |" z1 Z- t9 J
很少會超過一天～$ }0 X7 p( L5 `( [$ `" Y
要期待更好的明天呀！