熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?( X, s' b) p) n" L/ W
好唔鍾意呢種感覺; X6 d6 W2 e2 G' v1 q+ l6 I! j! V# _  Z
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
0 f" H9 f; c$ Q7 @1 `0 N; \個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
. U! `, T" @8 n& I2 Y覺得好空虛9 B5 a3 \3 U2 Z" O
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
' y: o1 {5 B, y2 `卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
  O  {2 F0 m8 x) i5 h& F: n; R用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
7 v4 V% g& r) b6 o, r, X但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
9 i# E: Q/ \1 T  N熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,. ~, ^1 b5 ]! z# r; A2 Q
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
# V' P& b3 {& \9 K$ b$ _日日有車站,
9 c) [- c7 n6 ]1 Z; v有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
. r* _) l* t2 ]6 ~9 Y, K你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
1 t0 Z2 T$ q; \7 E/ |+ E3 Z0 Z如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

- a" `# i4 c4 v8 B: c# T5 K. F7 q我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.4 b6 F$ C/ j- n6 A" b- x! Q% r/ `
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
; |: r  {6 `6 d! W+ p, U玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
! V- X. o9 K) r+ f* Z1 T總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:6 U( Z3 W# r! M
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,4 H% X" C5 \1 ?/ O) v$ G$ c
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
! y/ K9 p  J" w( o6 \日日有車站,! c* O. R5 r* l. L. |: K8 G) x( X
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
& y2 I/ m# [) V& C+ P; i如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?$ Y. X# r# v3 R- x* s0 V! @
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
4 u7 C9 n* m3 A+ |- R9 k9 {琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
' c2 v" S7 B1 [2 z5 {個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
( A5 b0 J: `+ E! V! r* z, H覺得好空虛! t2 O4 [7 f( F5 a6 n% v
其實早幾次都有試過係咁8 a6 u9 I/ A( [9 W5 c5 T3 n0 [! N
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
& p7 k' I. q% U0 j用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?  B  f4 a, ^" K0 k. Q6 j, ^- ~4 O

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.9 q4 ]5 }) k# C7 E6 A" a
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
4 n) k) \* s& s, s" T有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.0 [9 {/ Z4 c' c

% t; B: ]6 w0 V% x( z% P& g0 _People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
/ ~* f2 w4 y' z" Ra) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
$ k( p# i# c/ r; o7 pb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.: Z3 z! f: q+ N+ ]+ v
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.' v. l# u  ?' f7 a' ]- S  f
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Just another thought on lonliness:3 {; S. N* B% g4 @+ W/ P2 A
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
; k* e* k6 R% N* M# A& QBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
3 [& J* q3 u5 X% F我會有一種十分空虛的感覺1 s. i7 v/ D/ D* ^9 _/ v
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影1 J$ J' [# i/ |& g! c/ t3 n! A
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～3 `+ C- i- ^  a9 C1 K- g
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉6 P0 U) J& @5 ]7 O+ N# d- d
很少會超過一天～
. l0 P* c) P2 Q& k- o要期待更好的明天呀！