熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?: D. i: i+ h- l3 `0 J
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
7 @' h4 g  X/ q  ?* S琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
* _/ E* k- `9 U% d3 Z個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣! N9 [/ n$ X8 i
覺得好空虛! k, r5 n8 C9 Z2 i" a
其實早幾次都有試過係咁4 j1 S+ J; G/ v0 N- e# P$ i6 N5 |
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
) ~5 e9 o3 Y4 }1 c+ w, D用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?& R$ O4 J/ z" l( P# `3 y
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
! i) }' v3 a) Q/ A& P: j  x" k4 u但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺) I1 ?7 @" O# ]. G, P; B1 j
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,) {) D  T( l# H7 t" y: X, s
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,  ^# W# g3 U: @5 p6 [4 O# }
日日有車站,# g+ b" }0 u) {, B! F& {1 }" ]
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
. J. v6 E9 j$ w' F你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:; w& p* {1 A- H/ m1 ^2 N
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
9 \- ?  X$ j0 d: Z感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..# s: D& K) l* N& E" F* e( }
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
: G. E* ]3 ~, l( [, M總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:# d: B3 f) }( X0 c! v& F, j
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,' ?) @8 F: m1 T+ w3 M8 _
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,4 k& J/ J  j' T" p- M" p
日日有車站,2 \% o' X: T/ }0 g: \3 T* ^
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
. M6 E) J  Y2 b4 Z如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?- D# s6 o/ I: U; z; _8 L
好唔鍾意呢種感覺" V+ H5 ^: j; o6 K# Z
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心$ G% C2 U. Q( X6 y. R  K8 c
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣1 l" c& m7 S7 `1 a+ |: P( M
覺得好空虛8 x' K- L9 y( I( h; }! g
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
8 N; w- f; P5 F0 p卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
5 @7 O# q7 c1 _4 n- j, w用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?/ Q3 K# r: \/ |+ m; Y! H' ]7 L

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% {( L) w0 R" m  H$ ]/ i) d( u' r這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
+ q6 z' i4 ], n% `2 c3 Z3 y: ?7 s唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
8 z% s& I% h* Q2 a% R$ e' H有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.# J- b2 j$ U3 b, h% ]' O

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a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
% g7 O0 o8 `& e+ H3 ub) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.. ~! z, D7 w0 T% P, a  \
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.* H2 ]( ?. x4 i3 J" M. R

6 z8 W4 y, _# A8 iJust another thought on lonliness:
" O8 E0 m% K9 x7 A9 ELonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time....., j( N) @. ]" H0 K
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～! b6 w6 }. r5 z, ^' C9 W1 L% ]
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺; n2 w/ G" `1 f' _2 _0 j# [
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
! o% n, i& |0 Z! A2 S或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～) D$ [- @/ Q- b7 g, A% e  |( H* D4 ~) q
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
7 L+ m, k9 r. a. }+ h很少會超過一天～
0 I$ l, j; K4 J% i, u要期待更好的明天呀！