熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
  M+ k3 z; x4 _2 j好唔鍾意呢種感覺1 N# W$ o/ o4 O
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
: I) X: b( M2 P% z8 P; S個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣* G+ e. j, t! k7 _6 [
覺得好空虛
2 u$ [; z  m( R* O) V其實早幾次都有試過係咁) b; A/ K# Z8 l, e0 g
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
( K# I! [( y3 W: g/ _用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?* [+ A2 o% x8 S7 g# a' n

" `# b, j9 [& ~8 C[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
% F- b) X2 T6 Z9 t但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
+ e+ o7 C" R' R8 L0 ], {熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
  G. @3 H, B% K6 {7 \所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,4 X8 W) n1 U' m7 C3 q
日日有車站,+ M. I+ r  S3 d+ `& E. x# A4 Z
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
( o; v, ~8 V  W2 h/ k& b你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:( B4 W: n/ B  [( {; j& ?# A
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

. n4 v) L& f; o. D0 i/ f9 d* W  d我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.% A5 X4 J; \; N; m! H: i
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
, {+ {1 s8 e4 g/ R玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.5 `. a+ P' C5 C1 C3 X- L
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:" t7 I- X6 l5 O  P
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
. n" J. T: [% ~6 D/ [所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
, f/ R4 S& T0 k; A5 O4 D  d日日有車站,% `* F% p/ G- y  d9 t
有目標!

7 v  `& N8 v& q( a' owhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
9 h3 u, J* h/ V如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
/ |2 ~9 Z2 H' X; h" N好唔鍾意呢種感覺
$ F0 ?) n4 s5 p: Q) a琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
4 k: t' a! E- @$ c. A個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣$ l1 W+ l+ ~% L% C9 `) I7 C) u7 P
覺得好空虛
. a/ N* r6 b7 Z4 [5 {9 w$ O$ A  W其實早幾次都有試過係咁
' A* c; r! y2 m4 M% Y" U3 U卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己6 ^/ f+ ?+ v, Z: s
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?1 u  G- c" J8 o

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  ]1 a$ q2 v. p- Q$ B這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
1 h1 \6 a1 i! N, `2 \+ ^唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.! F) W) k3 B7 A7 o' X
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
/ M) p7 ^, F! F) U! Ta) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
( l& v- W6 V" q/ @b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
4 B: u8 T, D5 ~/ ]' uc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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3 W) N( ?! o( R4 j) `+ X. JJust another thought on lonliness:
  U. ^% A! O8 F; U3 ]Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time....." |( f9 A' e0 _& o7 Y3 y
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
6 o* l9 ~. h0 I; {6 Z+ i# T我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
& D. K  X' m2 S+ x4 x9 S就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
% U' ^5 {/ p) e( Q0 b  P或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～1 e( }2 L2 w  X! Z" W* f6 B
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉( g& g; \" E/ X% y4 a# x
很少會超過一天～
+ [& k( h! A& t: C要期待更好的明天呀！