熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?% N) \: E; O1 q4 O/ B) |) G" @
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
0 |3 |  \0 a4 F! w/ V琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
  |$ p8 Y% c7 w* f, v" |個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
0 ]* e0 h8 _4 R覺得好空虛: ~! `) _  M: J- n
其實早幾次都有試過係咁6 |, ?) s" l, S! R7 P& S. J
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
) s; I+ b) M- `/ F2 W; R用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?) [! I; {" w  P: e9 M0 C4 w

7 C  a  b/ h" Z/ {0 M[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
- M$ l4 T/ W- R% u7 M: t但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
, x3 m1 l- b/ R4 m! f+ J熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
* x. o( _* p) L& {' f所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,. V  V7 j4 J6 M
日日有車站,
) _% z( _/ A. [) }; ~有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙; o, [" @* A5 p% p. Z8 J
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
4 K  g0 t$ m% q如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
4 h( e0 K$ n+ ?  k) D! K感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
- R8 r: K9 u6 {/ m( r( a+ m玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.- x$ @8 I" ]( X- e
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:8 N0 V% V, c$ B$ z5 E+ i# W. M! m5 |' @
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
  |+ D3 }% P4 Z* R- h2 D- E) W所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,2 f8 R: u: ]+ z) F4 r- X# s5 T
日日有車站,1 o: V4 b- ^* b" @8 n
有目標!

" h' e$ ^5 d- t6 m* W# Lwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:, i2 H( Q8 S6 I
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
, }! o7 _: G' Q. z好唔鍾意呢種感覺
& ~9 C  w# {* c6 o& S琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
# h2 S; j# Q; U/ ?. X! g1 T個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣* W  E+ c+ [, w+ I
覺得好空虛
7 M* V1 j8 k' S+ a其實早幾次都有試過係咁" @. j( F0 V* |/ H; i$ _5 q0 E* o$ j
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己6 h3 z* Y- N4 o$ }
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?9 M; F/ p9 t8 ^

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
& L+ z& X( [. u  H+ z1 Q1 U7 N唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.+ i; t3 M# o6 _! T( J
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
7 U' d; C8 t% u+ B) L, W: wa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long' X4 |8 P4 J% C/ O! x& U+ G; x* ]
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.( \8 }' ~* Y! G1 k
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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! N' c$ i) `; B8 `4 g! P! ?Just another thought on lonliness:, a; b5 x$ P& `5 ]1 F* n( w
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
/ d* j; G! f6 f' u+ E/ PBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～3 L% b0 m8 F4 p9 @0 [- l4 Z. V% Q
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
2 ?0 ]  D2 c2 a- o3 e) M' \* z. }, y- t就好似睇完一套好睇的電影) M$ Y: U! s* z1 L! x1 n6 [6 o
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
$ ]7 k* C& I$ k( }" y空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
# p! D# t$ E7 d! Q8 a' A  G很少會超過一天～4 A+ P$ E$ y+ V0 |9 {# Z' i' \- i
要期待更好的明天呀！