
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 05:39 AM:
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突然而來既事,當然好難講幫吾幫得上忙,不過非一朝一夕既事,如果攞出黎傾下,或者慢慢會有轉機...........情況就好似電車男追女仔一樣(樂觀).........咁當然,我地最多最多都只係做下軍師,比下意見........而且解鈴還須繫鈴人,就算現實上都有好多問題,難以由第二個人出手代替自己解決問題........所以咩叫真實朋友,咩叫虛擬朋友都冇分別...只在於真實既朋友你可以摸到、見到、掌握到,而令你信心大D,安全感高D.........但幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事,好難講話一定得
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 06:02 AM:
補多句:處理一般問題&非一般問題1 A% e0 T$ ^3 k, U# T; B
用問題解決問題,並不是問題,因為問題已經解決,但多數有手尾,但D人多數一貫都係咁做.
但用問題之外既問題去解決問題,結果問題會越变複雜,但卻會出現前所未有既轉機,雖然吉凶難喻,但總比墨守成規好./ f1 y1 s C5 A9 F1 \
故事:墨子長於守城,又因為墨家思想係兼愛﹑非攻,當佢聽到楚國想造雲梯攻打宋國時,就去楚國搵造雲梯既公輸般模擬戰咁較高下(公輸般攻,墨子守),結果公輸般諗極辦法都贏唔到墨子。最後想殺左墨子,點知墨子話,你殺左我,仲有千千萬萬墨家子弟。
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 10:31 AM:/ B& u7 H; m8 P. q/ @/ L; c
呢個係一個殘忍ge 事實﹐但我都會覺得換個角度黎講﹐o個d 有形有體ge frds 都未必touch 到ur heart ... 雖然話如果現實中未必真正幫到大家﹐但係我諗如果幫得手ge 都會儘量去幫lor… 呢d 係限制… 係一d 冇辦法ge 事!; i; v5 S$ t5 z4 I4 m' X
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不過如果唔係呢d限制﹐我地又點會係網上面玩得咁放呢? 因為冇形體有可能會令人與人之間完全冇利益衝突﹐所以先隔膜冇咁大… 呢個係我ge 睇法 … 所以都係珍惜大家就好……
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:19 PM:" z/ v/ D# I! d0 N6 Y, S
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Quoted from Playbr2
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:16 PM:
我成日都有呢種感覺:
覺得大家日日...
Originally posted by 12d3 at 2006-10-18 12:42 PM:' q( R0 O6 @1 u6 c( ?
很在於每個人對朋友的定義.
面對網上的朋友, 往往能夠暢所欲言. 你不想給他們知道的, 他們便不會知道, 不用刻意提防.
你認為這是朋友嗎?
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 12:49 PM:3 M6 x& U( N3 D( |: b+ Z
i guess it's quoted from trista_cheong?
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友6 A3 O% N+ f3 \' a) w6 T
我要講既只有咁多
明就明,唔明就算
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:( B6 r' ]* B' f- C
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
我要講既只有咁多

Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:16 PM:: E2 x8 a! X4 p0 l' ?: L
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,+ @. c1 W, T3 p) W
不過...
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:/ u3 f( g; I/ @7 h& p% u7 G
ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:34 PM: U# y& E9 \$ m$ E# x
聽到呢句說話,真係有d感動![]()
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 03:49 PM:' a+ `( ?) ~/ A, d
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我係指真實生活上既朋友,有事揾人幫,你都會先揾佢地.因為你可以見到佢地,咁做起事上黎你會信心大D,因為你可以摸到佢地所以安全感高D,.........但其實,幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事.......而且,反問一句,你對生活上既朋友又有幾深了解,你能踏足他們的內心深處嗎??
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至於,上網既朋友係虛擬性質的,因為在日常生活上我們未必真正影響到你/控制你........而表面上大家沒有身份地位區別,所以可暢所欲言,講一D平時未必同人講既野(秘密、私隱、赤裸裸的''性''),........但實質上你我双方都有不能越過的防火牆,就好似你既個人資料,身份利益等等............如果知得太詳細,玩得太投入,变左真實朋友,大家就會不其然地想控制/影響對方,咁暢所欲言的空間就會消失........因為虛擬朋友你不能摸透,所以會覺得他們在真正有事時幫不上忙.......但其實在心靈上,他們是唯一可以透達你內心痛處既知己........ J9 x* g' A+ q/ q3 y2 H
有一句諷剌既說話,日間上你我是勢不兩立的仇人,晚上(上網)卻成為惺惺相惜的知己
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:: w d8 E ~8 {. U; P2 |
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:6 L6 x5 Y. t- Q6 o, M9 `; R+ G% @
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()

Originally posted by benson00 at 2006-10-18 09:46 PM:
大家萍水相逢,岩傾咪講多句,唔會唸做唔做到朋友。9 y9 A; u' a' [ {! Z
就算傾得好投契,都只係網上虛擬。
識朋友都係要係現實世界中,一齊相處過、覺得投緣、變friend,才是正路

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 10:34 PM:( |- w! \" A. x8 V) P
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呢d 只可能係一般網友在一般論壇的想法$ h2 K8 Q# p: |4 E! G
但你知唔知 26FUN 比其它論壇優勝地方: f$ d5 ~# K7 K5 h8 c( `; L
因為26FUN內 d 網友
雙對黎講,
比較成熟,
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因此雙對關系都比較一般論壇d網友關系密切
,Tri姐姐


Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 11:15 PM:
点關系密切先,Tri姐姐
我都未見過你盧山真面目
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Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 05:51 PM:
因為我變左超正常所以我講野原全唔會理人感受

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 01:05 AM:
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唔好啦,. A" w- `, a3 n' I' D+ n5 L
以前有幾個網友' Q) C$ Z; p/ s8 n
見過我盧山真面目之後- B! Q" y% L$ X+ M+ p r
一個傻左,
一個都冇見過佢返過黎![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:
ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!
你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by BOYDWAN at 2006-10-19 01:23 AM:) x$ U y: n2 Q: s% k% u, y- x
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trista 講出我心底話!g* g1 P0 t L& M0 v& n$ U/ s
加分!個個都加分!
唔理版主定會員都加分! L/ p' W; A+ R. d/ E
相比一份緣份一份交情,呢d 分算得係乜?" B6 B! { V7 P: f6 o2 o$ g/ F
小小心意而已~![]()
Originally posted by pkbrian at 2006-10-18 07:58 PM:
講真啦" j: B7 g+ o& D7 Q! h
我係網上面一向用心去識朋友^^& J) I z8 A E- G3 _: o; M( b0 u
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但至少識每一個人都係一樣^^

Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-19 10:16 PM:
(小弟的愚見)
以心待人,以誠待人...
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!; s% z- I, b+ l% z4 P
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:0 X3 S$ l3 Q3 }% {5 ^9 W3 Q
講真句!友情?唔會有!7 `, j+ C* E( X
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!1 Q- L1 d- e1 _ F
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-20 11:57 PM:
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以經濟學黎計算:! {* @ |) I; A7 n, |
保持一段寶貴...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 12:23 AM:
認識朋友的意義各有不同。 X' m& ?( G) Z: c2 ~8 }
如果真系要用。。。經濟學。。。來 作為 認識 朋友 的工具。。
可能就 要 從最初開始,看看對方是否值得投資了。& T# X. m* E( @. T. n; R
要不要再用 投資回報率 計算一下。。是否與自己的投資組合相配?
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:03 AM:
當然要,并且十分...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:05 AM:
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叻女!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:08 AM:
敢網上識朋友你又點睇?
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:11 AM:
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駛唔駛 出黎 見面 先?5 j, A3 q! Y2 u/ z* L
唔駛 既 話。。。齋吹。。談天說地。。有乜所謂呢。。1 K E8 U% m& E: @% s* v/ W
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:16 AM:5 a5 ^/ {: j1 M6 j& U( g9 J0 ?
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今晚有時間入黎齋吹下
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 05:19 AM:
多 d 入 [真‧頑童俱樂部] 玩下~
不過我地有時玩得好 "dean" 家播~O5 L; r+ v+ }) P
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:4 F9 ^/ n6 Z9 S
講真句!友情?唔會有!0 ~& e9 b/ N0 \/ ?
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!8 `/ A. k; E$ c
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!

1 a$ e, D* r# K! DOriginally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:$ G# w1 E/ c' ~- J8 v! ~5 u
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Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:48 AM:+ g) T# o) I7 g. j4 }% n
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TriTri 有唔有发觉到...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:+ X5 i6 N% [3 P" v G+ ]# I
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自由神[/size...
Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:: |- y. v- s/ z4 u
我喺ef都唔算好耐~2 ]/ e& W& H4 z$ {1 i
發言唔算好多~
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Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:! y0 ^9 B. r0 @4 ~
我喺ef都唔算好耐~7 b& P4 g: }. }; q: b) j, @. ^
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-24 02:47 AM:; c1 g, g5 U& [5 ?
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的而且確,有時候。。' e& L& k! `3 Q9 u
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真系“該燴”。
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-24 03:37 AM:) o6 S8 i8 l* B) \4 G5 Y/ `
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自己醒d未得 law


# o; x7 t$ y: }: JOriginally posted by stanley_ckc at 2006-10-27 12:10 AM: ~( E! T/ M. t- I. ]
不過很可惜之後因為一件事令當中有些朋友吵了,這兩年的友誼一夜告吹.......
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 02:37 AM:
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一段長時間建立友誼
一夜告吹
這未免太過可惜
(But the Sad Thing is: It Happen Quite Often To Everyone)
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:
有時候, 友誼就是這樣。" |5 n+ }, p" `3 c' W8 |
合久必分,分久必合。
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未嘗不是一個維繫關係的方法。。
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15 AM:, k. s& u9 ~6 l. g5 ?0 h
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,' C7 ?1 R- ?4 Y! u2 r, H
不過...
- W& I$ d, y/ cOriginally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 05:41 AM:
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vv1668vv:
你就比我Lucky啦,
合久必分 我就有一大籮
分久必合 就重未遇過
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15:* L* ~; o. e; M' C
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-28 12:14 AM:
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抄我![]()
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-28 12:40 AM:8 m2 x e; `- g
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見係好野先"參考"咋
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:$ M- [ z3 S/ p n, X: N
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很認同
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