
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 05:39 AM:! P1 V# [ Y3 I; Q% b5 c
突然而來既事,當然好難講幫吾幫得上忙,不過非一朝一夕既事,如果攞出黎傾下,或者慢慢會有轉機...........情況就好似電車男追女仔一樣(樂觀).........咁當然,我地最多最多都只係做下軍師,比下意見........而且解鈴還須繫鈴人,就算現實上都有好多問題,難以由第二個人出手代替自己解決問題........所以咩叫真實朋友,咩叫虛擬朋友都冇分別...只在於真實既朋友你可以摸到、見到、掌握到,而令你信心大D,安全感高D.........但幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事,好難講話一定得
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 06:02 AM:
補多句:處理一般問題&非一般問題; j2 u4 I2 ~7 J7 H: ^. \
用問題解決問題,並不是問題,因為問題已經解決,但多數有手尾,但D人多數一貫都係咁做.
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但用問題之外既問題去解決問題,結果問題會越变複雜,但卻會出現前所未有既轉機,雖然吉凶難喻,但總比墨守成規好.( y2 m# J' L! |& V
故事:墨子長於守城,又因為墨家思想係兼愛﹑非攻,當佢聽到楚國想造雲梯攻打宋國時,就去楚國搵造雲梯既公輸般模擬戰咁較高下(公輸般攻,墨子守),結果公輸般諗極辦法都贏唔到墨子。最後想殺左墨子,點知墨子話,你殺左我,仲有千千萬萬墨家子弟。
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 10:31 AM:
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呢個係一個殘忍ge 事實﹐但我都會覺得換個角度黎講﹐o個d 有形有體ge frds 都未必touch 到ur heart ... 雖然話如果現實中未必真正幫到大家﹐但係我諗如果幫得手ge 都會儘量去幫lor… 呢d 係限制… 係一d 冇辦法ge 事!
不過如果唔係呢d限制﹐我地又點會係網上面玩得咁放呢? 因為冇形體有可能會令人與人之間完全冇利益衝突﹐所以先隔膜冇咁大… 呢個係我ge 睇法 … 所以都係珍惜大家就好……
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:19 PM:
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:16 PM:5 t% [5 S) |% H% C( m6 o
我成日都有呢種感覺:
覺得大家日日...
Originally posted by 12d3 at 2006-10-18 12:42 PM:7 k; j6 I, A7 b; x+ d2 t
很在於每個人對朋友的定義.
面對網上的朋友, 往往能夠暢所欲言. 你不想給他們知道的, 他們便不會知道, 不用刻意提防.
你認為這是朋友嗎?
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 12:49 PM:
i guess it's quoted from trista_cheong?
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:- C) X' | `4 `, W
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
我要講既只有咁多
明就明,唔明就算
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:: M" m* W0 m5 U8 G
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
我要講既只有咁多

Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:16 PM:2 `0 B& Z* X: x, U) d
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,- C) `7 w+ [% ? x% p& ~" l
不過...
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:
ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:34 PM:) H- G. p3 X% f$ D: Q! K \3 l
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聽到呢句說話,真係有d感動![]()
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 03:49 PM:+ n+ [% s z3 s; z& d/ a! [
我係指真實生活上既朋友,有事揾人幫,你都會先揾佢地.因為你可以見到佢地,咁做起事上黎你會信心大D,因為你可以摸到佢地所以安全感高D,.........但其實,幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事.......而且,反問一句,你對生活上既朋友又有幾深了解,你能踏足他們的內心深處嗎??% r! D% e) t5 {, F" {4 [7 w, C9 d
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至於,上網既朋友係虛擬性質的,因為在日常生活上我們未必真正影響到你/控制你........而表面上大家沒有身份地位區別,所以可暢所欲言,講一D平時未必同人講既野(秘密、私隱、赤裸裸的''性''),........但實質上你我双方都有不能越過的防火牆,就好似你既個人資料,身份利益等等............如果知得太詳細,玩得太投入,变左真實朋友,大家就會不其然地想控制/影響對方,咁暢所欲言的空間就會消失........因為虛擬朋友你不能摸透,所以會覺得他們在真正有事時幫不上忙.......但其實在心靈上,他們是唯一可以透達你內心痛處既知己........
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有一句諷剌既說話,日間上你我是勢不兩立的仇人,晚上(上網)卻成為惺惺相惜的知己
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:: S% I- O1 r8 A5 x3 C
做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()

Originally posted by benson00 at 2006-10-18 09:46 PM:
大家萍水相逢,岩傾咪講多句,唔會唸做唔做到朋友。
就算傾得好投契,都只係網上虛擬。
識朋友都係要係現實世界中,一齊相處過、覺得投緣、變friend,才是正路

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 10:34 PM:
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呢d 只可能係一般網友在一般論壇的想法
但你知唔知 26FUN 比其它論壇優勝地方
因為26FUN內 d 網友 + P9 A8 [% w: a( _0 t0 V
雙對黎講,
比較成熟,
交流比較深入
因此雙對關系都比較一般論壇d網友關系密切
,Tri姐姐


Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 11:15 PM:
点關系密切先,Tri姐姐
我都未見過你盧山真面目
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Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 05:51 PM:
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因為我變左超正常所以我講野原全唔會理人感受

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 01:05 AM:
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唔好啦,. J# \* {, I/ n+ g% m; [
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見過我盧山真面目之後3 `4 c4 n( p& } x% W, L7 k
一個傻左,
一個都冇見過佢返過黎![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:( V/ ~# d; `2 F) o1 ?5 _
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ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!
你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by BOYDWAN at 2006-10-19 01:23 AM:
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trista 講出我心底話!
加分!個個都加分!
唔理版主定會員都加分!8 F# B6 v- Q0 ~6 U$ a
相比一份緣份一份交情,呢d 分算得係乜?
小小心意而已~![]()
Originally posted by pkbrian at 2006-10-18 07:58 PM:
講真啦1 s9 ?. _, Q6 X2 j; r, k3 M9 w
我係網上面一向用心去識朋友^^4 k \7 @) z6 j7 a: {* G( ]) u
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雖然係ent fun 同大家唔係好熟6 H/ M2 o/ q( x. c K
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但至少識每一個人都係一樣^^

Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-19 10:16 PM:
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以心待人,以誠待人...
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:/ ^* f% O- I$ w3 U- E5 j" W* L: Z
講真句!友情?唔會有!5 o* `2 P o8 t% s/ t/ }( V0 R
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:; U( T; F/ g; G9 b S1 x
講真句!友情?唔會有!% d8 o) o3 M- L1 q! O9 G$ y% n
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!/ `8 f7 P: S) M; V
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-20 11:57 PM:$ C! C& x4 e- y T* G. y0 {% `6 {
以經濟學黎計算:
保持一段寶貴...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 12:23 AM:
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認識朋友的意義各有不同。, v4 \4 i7 }$ p
如果真系要用。。。經濟學。。。來 作為 認識 朋友 的工具。。( F1 `* ]( ?* Z$ H% \
可能就 要 從最初開始,看看對方是否值得投資了。" R- K: J, s7 C3 X1 R# N
要不要再用 投資回報率 計算一下。。是否與自己的投資組合相配?
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:03 AM:! q; \! }% q9 `6 |, Y
當然要,并且十分...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:05 AM:
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叻女!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:08 AM:8 J- q$ ~5 Z' Z- z+ |6 p8 f+ z
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敢網上識朋友你又點睇?
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:11 AM:0 }4 X% C- E6 @. ?4 ?
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駛唔駛 出黎 見面 先?
唔駛 既 話。。。齋吹。。談天說地。。有乜所謂呢。。
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:16 AM:
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今晚有時間入黎齋吹下/ b- W- ]6 k3 b
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 05:19 AM:
多 d 入 [真‧頑童俱樂部] 玩下~
不過我地有時玩得好 "dean" 家播~
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!" J4 w" T+ ?. D$ N9 L
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
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自由神[/size...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:48 AM:* ]( N: P" S0 m. j8 e% ?; N
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TriTri 有唔有发觉到...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:
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Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:0 i% o: F# T) R! O! M4 v% S
我喺ef都唔算好耐~/ ?& o. C5 y, C! Q3 t
發言唔算好多~/ [6 u1 C- e$ o/ {
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Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:+ P# }" S1 r2 S$ z: S
我喺ef都唔算好耐~
發言唔算好多~' `; L9 e9 g0 K, R
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-24 02:47 AM:# i. U3 V D) \: b6 B+ j( r
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好同意。。3 p+ a( d, _& y0 c% \
的而且確,有時候。。
真誠對待他人。反而製造左機會比人“揾自己老襯”
真系“該燴”。
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-24 03:37 AM:5 G+ u( i! r9 Z3 l/ l2 j, n! m$ j
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自己醒d未得 law



Originally posted by stanley_ckc at 2006-10-27 12:10 AM:4 M# ?3 ]0 {1 a4 H& \4 B# K
不過很可惜之後因為一件事令當中有些朋友吵了,這兩年的友誼一夜告吹.......
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 02:37 AM:
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一夜告吹
這未免太過可惜
(But the Sad Thing is: It Happen Quite Often To Everyone)
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:; b& D7 m% _5 F0 M: @5 H
有時候, 友誼就是這樣。( J* F0 _3 f2 q1 L) I6 w
合久必分,分久必合。
有時候,唔見面,保持神秘感,& W9 ~6 ^/ {2 r G# o& n V. L' S
大家互相有一種,“彼此不要求” 的 保留心態。
未嘗不是一個維繫關係的方法。。
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15 AM:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...
0 [3 Z$ N3 u5 f' x2 R6 mOriginally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 05:41 AM:
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合久必分 我就有一大籮
分久必合 就重未遇過
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-28 12:14 AM:$ D( h' P- J/ Q
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抄我![]()
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-28 12:40 AM:
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:
很認同
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