
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 05:39 AM:5 G$ J1 s4 | d
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突然而來既事,當然好難講幫吾幫得上忙,不過非一朝一夕既事,如果攞出黎傾下,或者慢慢會有轉機...........情況就好似電車男追女仔一樣(樂觀).........咁當然,我地最多最多都只係做下軍師,比下意見........而且解鈴還須繫鈴人,就算現實上都有好多問題,難以由第二個人出手代替自己解決問題........所以咩叫真實朋友,咩叫虛擬朋友都冇分別...只在於真實既朋友你可以摸到、見到、掌握到,而令你信心大D,安全感高D.........但幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事,好難講話一定得
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 06:02 AM:
補多句:處理一般問題&非一般問題
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用問題解決問題,並不是問題,因為問題已經解決,但多數有手尾,但D人多數一貫都係咁做.
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但用問題之外既問題去解決問題,結果問題會越变複雜,但卻會出現前所未有既轉機,雖然吉凶難喻,但總比墨守成規好.5 v1 S8 [- Q5 F* _" [) N' Z
故事:墨子長於守城,又因為墨家思想係兼愛﹑非攻,當佢聽到楚國想造雲梯攻打宋國時,就去楚國搵造雲梯既公輸般模擬戰咁較高下(公輸般攻,墨子守),結果公輸般諗極辦法都贏唔到墨子。最後想殺左墨子,點知墨子話,你殺左我,仲有千千萬萬墨家子弟。
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 10:31 AM:
呢個係一個殘忍ge 事實﹐但我都會覺得換個角度黎講﹐o個d 有形有體ge frds 都未必touch 到ur heart ... 雖然話如果現實中未必真正幫到大家﹐但係我諗如果幫得手ge 都會儘量去幫lor… 呢d 係限制… 係一d 冇辦法ge 事!
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不過如果唔係呢d限制﹐我地又點會係網上面玩得咁放呢? 因為冇形體有可能會令人與人之間完全冇利益衝突﹐所以先隔膜冇咁大… 呢個係我ge 睇法 … 所以都係珍惜大家就好……
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:19 PM:# o/ e5 G P! z
Quoted from Playbr2
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[ Last edited by Triangel on 2006-10-18 at 12:22 PM ]
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:16 PM:
我成日都有呢種感覺:. V6 p7 `* [; a, ]
覺得大家日日...
Originally posted by 12d3 at 2006-10-18 12:42 PM:0 E2 ]! x1 b6 v$ R( {# m' ] D. [
很在於每個人對朋友的定義.* e3 a0 K7 b0 K4 E1 `2 |% s
面對網上的朋友, 往往能夠暢所欲言. 你不想給他們知道的, 他們便不會知道, 不用刻意提防.8 d/ c, E6 r7 l- L |0 f0 F
你認為這是朋友嗎?
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 12:49 PM:( R5 g ^% P% s! J) \/ F/ V% n
i guess it's quoted from trista_cheong?
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:# p k! U2 ~7 r$ e8 C3 R
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友$ Y- a" T, n' b0 k
我要講既只有咁多
明就明,唔明就算
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:/ G$ X6 \8 U/ O7 ^% o
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
我要講既只有咁多

Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:16 PM:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,! i8 M! x/ Z* G& J* P5 r
不過...
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:
ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:34 PM:
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聽到呢句說話,真係有d感動![]()
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 03:49 PM:4 F4 J2 S% R( Z7 G \) O% b
我係指真實生活上既朋友,有事揾人幫,你都會先揾佢地.因為你可以見到佢地,咁做起事上黎你會信心大D,因為你可以摸到佢地所以安全感高D,.........但其實,幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事.......而且,反問一句,你對生活上既朋友又有幾深了解,你能踏足他們的內心深處嗎??+ U+ U& \4 W( d0 N
至於,上網既朋友係虛擬性質的,因為在日常生活上我們未必真正影響到你/控制你........而表面上大家沒有身份地位區別,所以可暢所欲言,講一D平時未必同人講既野(秘密、私隱、赤裸裸的''性''),........但實質上你我双方都有不能越過的防火牆,就好似你既個人資料,身份利益等等............如果知得太詳細,玩得太投入,变左真實朋友,大家就會不其然地想控制/影響對方,咁暢所欲言的空間就會消失........因為虛擬朋友你不能摸透,所以會覺得他們在真正有事時幫不上忙.......但其實在心靈上,他們是唯一可以透達你內心痛處既知己........
有一句諷剌既說話,日間上你我是勢不兩立的仇人,晚上(上網)卻成為惺惺相惜的知己
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()

Originally posted by benson00 at 2006-10-18 09:46 PM:- c2 Y& _# `; e
大家萍水相逢,岩傾咪講多句,唔會唸做唔做到朋友。8 N, [" ~+ y) i/ I, ]2 ?7 _
就算傾得好投契,都只係網上虛擬。
識朋友都係要係現實世界中,一齊相處過、覺得投緣、變friend,才是正路

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 10:34 PM:8 ]' E3 I3 X2 M* v
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呢d 只可能係一般網友在一般論壇的想法" |' W2 ]# |# b0 ^ d, I) B! v. M
但你知唔知 26FUN 比其它論壇優勝地方5 Y5 I& C4 u q6 Z
因為26FUN內 d 網友
雙對黎講,
比較成熟,8 [4 U# R% O/ O
交流比較深入
因此雙對關系都比較一般論壇d網友關系密切
,Tri姐姐


Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 11:15 PM:# l( O: o& e7 {$ I' c
点關系密切先,Tri姐姐
我都未見過你盧山真面目
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Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 05:51 PM:( H( K# Z3 }8 T3 \ M
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因為我變左超正常所以我講野原全唔會理人感受

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 01:05 AM:/ l, q2 l7 W$ }+ c, e! l6 [0 m
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唔好啦,
以前有幾個網友+ u! [" s2 R1 e5 u/ U
見過我盧山真面目之後5 F9 }# v/ L* L/ s5 T
一個傻左,
一個都冇見過佢返過黎![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:
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ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!
你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by BOYDWAN at 2006-10-19 01:23 AM:
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trista 講出我心底話!
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加分!個個都加分!
唔理版主定會員都加分!
相比一份緣份一份交情,呢d 分算得係乜?
小小心意而已~![]()
Originally posted by pkbrian at 2006-10-18 07:58 PM:
講真啦" x* q) k/ g6 O
我係網上面一向用心去識朋友^^, ]! q- q' y" M0 J( k1 E q0 t
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雖然係ent fun 同大家唔係好熟. ?- k4 ~( l5 i7 h" N0 [
又少講野="=
但至少識每一個人都係一樣^^

Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-19 10:16 PM:+ H. Z; {' v$ o' ~2 [
(小弟的愚見)/ g+ b! K9 d' O+ |3 h1 s8 i
以心待人,以誠待人...
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:* N8 C P. r% q% A; i
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!/ z# v2 g: m1 m( {' |% W
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!* Q& s$ G3 q4 j- r
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:5 M4 A& J6 h a4 n& ~* t' i6 c
講真句!友情?唔會有!' C' q$ n2 w, I& f7 g
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!# _# }- z* v; A. h
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-20 11:57 PM:
以經濟學黎計算: U/ F @! [. S; a
保持一段寶貴...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 12:23 AM:
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認識朋友的意義各有不同。
如果真系要用。。。經濟學。。。來 作為 認識 朋友 的工具。。
可能就 要 從最初開始,看看對方是否值得投資了。3 e" T. N8 H* `6 w' o: U
要不要再用 投資回報率 計算一下。。是否與自己的投資組合相配?
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:03 AM:; D7 B/ o, a9 A5 q$ W
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當然要,并且十分...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:05 AM:
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叻女!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:08 AM:
敢網上識朋友你又點睇?
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:11 AM: o$ ~5 S0 k6 R7 B8 ?+ B3 H; x
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駛唔駛 出黎 見面 先?
唔駛 既 話。。。齋吹。。談天說地。。有乜所謂呢。。
[ Last edited by vv1668vv on 2006-10-21 at 01:13 AM ]
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:16 AM:. ?( C' p! y6 E9 H, }9 F- Y) }8 d
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今晚有時間入黎齋吹下
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 05:19 AM:$ ?! O' \6 p7 G( W' e! p
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多 d 入 [真‧頑童俱樂部] 玩下~
不過我地有時玩得好 "dean" 家播~
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:! t8 x; n; F& D* `5 A/ J7 q
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!) v* M0 Y$ {' g7 }* l
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!" {- _' T2 R5 h4 I: ?3 n: \
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
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自由神[/size...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:48 AM:
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TriTri 有唔有发觉到...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:
自由神[/size...
Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:
我喺ef都唔算好耐~1 Y$ s7 @3 H$ [" n# c6 y
發言唔算好多~5 [0 l( b; I/ [
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Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:9 d% |) S4 g' L( Q) z
我喺ef都唔算好耐~* z7 X# e( L3 f* W
發言唔算好多~
...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-24 02:47 AM:
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好同意。。
的而且確,有時候。。* {4 y( i" r+ T1 ~
真誠對待他人。反而製造左機會比人“揾自己老襯”
真系“該燴”。
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-24 03:37 AM:6 z9 q( D1 {* O& Q8 ]
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自己醒d未得 law



Originally posted by stanley_ckc at 2006-10-27 12:10 AM:
不過很可惜之後因為一件事令當中有些朋友吵了,這兩年的友誼一夜告吹.......
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 02:37 AM:$ T, P* ^7 F( K G8 C3 i
一段長時間建立友誼
一夜告吹
這未免太過可惜0 t4 g! `) l2 n! d" {/ w" w, r
(But the Sad Thing is: It Happen Quite Often To Everyone)
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:
有時候, 友誼就是這樣。6 e" q2 _8 B5 R$ u, S
合久必分,分久必合。
有時候,唔見面,保持神秘感,
大家互相有一種,“彼此不要求” 的 保留心態。
未嘗不是一個維繫關係的方法。。0 i" S8 A# N! p; a; C
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15 AM:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...
s. x$ P8 k) \% tOriginally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 05:41 AM: L! O! ]8 z6 D' G" ?8 N/ @* {
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vv1668vv:
你就比我Lucky啦,2 z% s* X* \1 t. N$ x
合久必分 我就有一大籮
分久必合 就重未遇過
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,: W4 C& g9 ~3 m, z& h
不過...
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-28 12:14 AM:1 {+ u! h- o. O* Z
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抄我![]()
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-28 12:40 AM:4 j! e& U4 B, D# C* D
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見係好野先"參考"咋6 p! J5 p" q: J( L
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:7 m2 d% @: F: a9 y) s
很認同
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