
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 05:39 AM:& j6 N1 U0 |/ j [
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突然而來既事,當然好難講幫吾幫得上忙,不過非一朝一夕既事,如果攞出黎傾下,或者慢慢會有轉機...........情況就好似電車男追女仔一樣(樂觀).........咁當然,我地最多最多都只係做下軍師,比下意見........而且解鈴還須繫鈴人,就算現實上都有好多問題,難以由第二個人出手代替自己解決問題........所以咩叫真實朋友,咩叫虛擬朋友都冇分別...只在於真實既朋友你可以摸到、見到、掌握到,而令你信心大D,安全感高D.........但幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事,好難講話一定得
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 06:02 AM:
補多句:處理一般問題&非一般問題
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用問題解決問題,並不是問題,因為問題已經解決,但多數有手尾,但D人多數一貫都係咁做.
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但用問題之外既問題去解決問題,結果問題會越变複雜,但卻會出現前所未有既轉機,雖然吉凶難喻,但總比墨守成規好. ^/ @; y/ |2 S# O @" [
故事:墨子長於守城,又因為墨家思想係兼愛﹑非攻,當佢聽到楚國想造雲梯攻打宋國時,就去楚國搵造雲梯既公輸般模擬戰咁較高下(公輸般攻,墨子守),結果公輸般諗極辦法都贏唔到墨子。最後想殺左墨子,點知墨子話,你殺左我,仲有千千萬萬墨家子弟。
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 10:31 AM:
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呢個係一個殘忍ge 事實﹐但我都會覺得換個角度黎講﹐o個d 有形有體ge frds 都未必touch 到ur heart ... 雖然話如果現實中未必真正幫到大家﹐但係我諗如果幫得手ge 都會儘量去幫lor… 呢d 係限制… 係一d 冇辦法ge 事! C* M$ Y' g0 B, S
不過如果唔係呢d限制﹐我地又點會係網上面玩得咁放呢? 因為冇形體有可能會令人與人之間完全冇利益衝突﹐所以先隔膜冇咁大… 呢個係我ge 睇法 … 所以都係珍惜大家就好……
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:19 PM:5 V0 Q2 P3 B# x0 S' v) O
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Quoted from Playbr2
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[ Last edited by Triangel on 2006-10-18 at 12:22 PM ]
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:16 PM:
我成日都有呢種感覺:6 K& v! e7 P+ I# m( _ [
覺得大家日日...
Originally posted by 12d3 at 2006-10-18 12:42 PM:( P- V0 P6 K2 I6 q# R1 ]0 h
很在於每個人對朋友的定義.' P! G/ E. C( X7 ^
面對網上的朋友, 往往能夠暢所欲言. 你不想給他們知道的, 他們便不會知道, 不用刻意提防.
你認為這是朋友嗎?
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 12:49 PM:
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i guess it's quoted from trista_cheong?
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:' G+ {4 V! ]$ F& y& j1 V" a7 ~2 G
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友2 }% l7 L- c. Y
我要講既只有咁多
明就明,唔明就算
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:0 u/ X8 m" ~' i4 e3 h
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
我要講既只有咁多

Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:16 PM:$ x6 V0 _- L0 Q$ \- @0 W3 R% ^
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,0 k5 Y) j H# a$ F# O2 t
不過...
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:* v$ b0 j9 ^0 t1 Q7 e1 o9 g( D/ D& i
ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:34 PM:
聽到呢句說話,真係有d感動![]()
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 03:49 PM:+ Z: l e6 q o
我係指真實生活上既朋友,有事揾人幫,你都會先揾佢地.因為你可以見到佢地,咁做起事上黎你會信心大D,因為你可以摸到佢地所以安全感高D,.........但其實,幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事.......而且,反問一句,你對生活上既朋友又有幾深了解,你能踏足他們的內心深處嗎??( \/ H8 g- p2 |, D! x5 g
至於,上網既朋友係虛擬性質的,因為在日常生活上我們未必真正影響到你/控制你........而表面上大家沒有身份地位區別,所以可暢所欲言,講一D平時未必同人講既野(秘密、私隱、赤裸裸的''性''),........但實質上你我双方都有不能越過的防火牆,就好似你既個人資料,身份利益等等............如果知得太詳細,玩得太投入,变左真實朋友,大家就會不其然地想控制/影響對方,咁暢所欲言的空間就會消失........因為虛擬朋友你不能摸透,所以會覺得他們在真正有事時幫不上忙.......但其實在心靈上,他們是唯一可以透達你內心痛處既知己........
有一句諷剌既說話,日間上你我是勢不兩立的仇人,晚上(上網)卻成為惺惺相惜的知己
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:" ~$ C; _) z1 E
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()

Originally posted by benson00 at 2006-10-18 09:46 PM:0 J; `8 \$ n7 P4 T, I+ E
大家萍水相逢,岩傾咪講多句,唔會唸做唔做到朋友。
就算傾得好投契,都只係網上虛擬。- [' F- ?! @! a8 g5 {; u+ ~$ q
識朋友都係要係現實世界中,一齊相處過、覺得投緣、變friend,才是正路

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 10:34 PM:7 I- w4 i# X/ v' m& L D
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呢d 只可能係一般網友在一般論壇的想法: }9 p0 e0 j7 V! w
但你知唔知 26FUN 比其它論壇優勝地方
因為26FUN內 d 網友
雙對黎講,
比較成熟,
交流比較深入
因此雙對關系都比較一般論壇d網友關系密切
,Tri姐姐


Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 11:15 PM:
点關系密切先,Tri姐姐
我都未見過你盧山真面目
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Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 05:51 PM:
因為我變左超正常所以我講野原全唔會理人感受

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 01:05 AM:
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唔好啦,
以前有幾個網友/ J# o i* e1 T, M7 L+ ~
見過我盧山真面目之後
一個傻左,3 N% L R$ L& d1 X
一個都冇見過佢返過黎![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:& I. n2 Q, V; a, L! w
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ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by BOYDWAN at 2006-10-19 01:23 AM:
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trista 講出我心底話!
加分!個個都加分!
唔理版主定會員都加分!7 f; q9 F }9 C& t
相比一份緣份一份交情,呢d 分算得係乜?( n" z. A4 _5 X/ c: K" a4 ~) j2 [! Y P
小小心意而已~![]()
Originally posted by pkbrian at 2006-10-18 07:58 PM:. D9 x7 L1 j; W% \. y% f
講真啦: P; P. x8 o, k+ I/ s! I! f' w
我係網上面一向用心去識朋友^^2 ^5 Q$ X7 q3 J Z% I* S9 D. [9 ~; A
雖然係ent fun 同大家唔係好熟
又少講野="=6 d# W8 h( q% f2 z( y
但至少識每一個人都係一樣^^

Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-19 10:16 PM:7 E& t0 D5 _. {
(小弟的愚見)
以心待人,以誠待人...
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!% @/ ]1 x5 t6 D4 V z8 p
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!7 w% d& J( X" V8 H. i$ Y! O
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!7 \4 T* V3 O1 o. B* F5 |
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-20 11:57 PM:
以經濟學黎計算:
保持一段寶貴...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 12:23 AM:
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認識朋友的意義各有不同。
如果真系要用。。。經濟學。。。來 作為 認識 朋友 的工具。。
可能就 要 從最初開始,看看對方是否值得投資了。+ k! z: ]* v$ o% [) M$ {2 r( a
要不要再用 投資回報率 計算一下。。是否與自己的投資組合相配?$ U, f" A* X2 t+ L) D J+ n
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:03 AM:
當然要,并且十分...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:05 AM:
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叻女!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:08 AM:
敢網上識朋友你又點睇?
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:11 AM:# }: m& U0 O: @9 p* L* T
駛唔駛 出黎 見面 先?
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唔駛 既 話。。。齋吹。。談天說地。。有乜所謂呢。。 ~ \# b! g4 I* ^
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:16 AM: N9 _9 W" ^6 f2 p# ?
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今晚有時間入黎齋吹下
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 05:19 AM:6 _( @% o* Q6 F) q' o$ @, O' u" c9 h
多 d 入 [真‧頑童俱樂部] 玩下~
不過我地有時玩得好 "dean" 家播~
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!$ _: P/ I" x) }$ \* S2 y% T% K
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!


Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:
自由神[/size...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:48 AM:
TriTri 有唔有发觉到...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:
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自由神[/size...
Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:( q8 y. m8 b& K! W
我喺ef都唔算好耐~
發言唔算好多~3 p3 P4 r% C& X. [4 t2 y4 g9 k
...
Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:
我喺ef都唔算好耐~' J4 n: W' [9 ]+ p+ q- f6 R
發言唔算好多~- ]6 ?. K1 ~$ W+ X
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-24 02:47 AM:
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好同意。。
的而且確,有時候。。
真誠對待他人。反而製造左機會比人“揾自己老襯” 2 u) }' n: F0 I5 E6 Q0 A& ~+ f
真系“該燴”。
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-24 03:37 AM:
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自己醒d未得 law



Originally posted by stanley_ckc at 2006-10-27 12:10 AM:
不過很可惜之後因為一件事令當中有些朋友吵了,這兩年的友誼一夜告吹.......
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一段長時間建立友誼
一夜告吹
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(But the Sad Thing is: It Happen Quite Often To Everyone)
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:) }- Q6 U8 ]5 ^) C
有時候, 友誼就是這樣。8 t8 g) D6 {$ f' f0 V
合久必分,分久必合。" ?* W# t7 f4 C; O
有時候,唔見面,保持神秘感,% Y0 A" c2 ^8 P% p7 ]2 @& l4 g" f5 p
大家互相有一種,“彼此不要求” 的 保留心態。
未嘗不是一個維繫關係的方法。。7 v! B* Y9 C7 Y
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15 AM:; b1 r4 W, y: K# s' v9 m* _7 V
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,* B' w; q. g% I# |/ n' K2 N9 X% i$ e
不過...
4 k! A2 g' e3 Z/ r9 vOriginally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 05:41 AM:2 B% R" n a2 y8 E2 F: T
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vv1668vv:
你就比我Lucky啦,
合久必分 我就有一大籮# ^/ Q4 u5 j. x5 ~) f4 t i
分久必合 就重未遇過
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15:) L7 k- j. x$ ^6 h- E
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-28 12:14 AM:+ t7 C( n& Q3 Q$ C) c
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抄我![]()
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-28 12:40 AM:* I# ^( A1 x0 ], G
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見係好野先"參考"咋, N& D7 {& \8 j) v) p& v0 L
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:
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很認同
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