
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 05:39 AM:
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突然而來既事,當然好難講幫吾幫得上忙,不過非一朝一夕既事,如果攞出黎傾下,或者慢慢會有轉機...........情況就好似電車男追女仔一樣(樂觀).........咁當然,我地最多最多都只係做下軍師,比下意見........而且解鈴還須繫鈴人,就算現實上都有好多問題,難以由第二個人出手代替自己解決問題........所以咩叫真實朋友,咩叫虛擬朋友都冇分別...只在於真實既朋友你可以摸到、見到、掌握到,而令你信心大D,安全感高D.........但幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事,好難講話一定得
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 06:02 AM:
補多句:處理一般問題&非一般問題
用問題解決問題,並不是問題,因為問題已經解決,但多數有手尾,但D人多數一貫都係咁做.& O" P7 k" S |; u5 ]- q5 ^
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但用問題之外既問題去解決問題,結果問題會越变複雜,但卻會出現前所未有既轉機,雖然吉凶難喻,但總比墨守成規好.1 q+ a, u* [, ]! p9 P
故事:墨子長於守城,又因為墨家思想係兼愛﹑非攻,當佢聽到楚國想造雲梯攻打宋國時,就去楚國搵造雲梯既公輸般模擬戰咁較高下(公輸般攻,墨子守),結果公輸般諗極辦法都贏唔到墨子。最後想殺左墨子,點知墨子話,你殺左我,仲有千千萬萬墨家子弟。
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 10:31 AM:
呢個係一個殘忍ge 事實﹐但我都會覺得換個角度黎講﹐o個d 有形有體ge frds 都未必touch 到ur heart ... 雖然話如果現實中未必真正幫到大家﹐但係我諗如果幫得手ge 都會儘量去幫lor… 呢d 係限制… 係一d 冇辦法ge 事!
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不過如果唔係呢d限制﹐我地又點會係網上面玩得咁放呢? 因為冇形體有可能會令人與人之間完全冇利益衝突﹐所以先隔膜冇咁大… 呢個係我ge 睇法 … 所以都係珍惜大家就好……
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:19 PM:$ m: _9 F! O8 X0 o5 r' I
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Quoted from Playbr2
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:16 PM:
我成日都有呢種感覺:" @! n$ t; v4 L! f+ v
覺得大家日日...
Originally posted by 12d3 at 2006-10-18 12:42 PM:5 K" I0 N; s" ]: \) C# g& I# h& q
很在於每個人對朋友的定義.
面對網上的朋友, 往往能夠暢所欲言. 你不想給他們知道的, 他們便不會知道, 不用刻意提防.
你認為這是朋友嗎?
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 12:49 PM:
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i guess it's quoted from trista_cheong?
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
我要講既只有咁多
明就明,唔明就算
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
我要講既只有咁多

Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:16 PM:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,7 T% B s# u" q* K6 U
不過...
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:) P. ]2 d# K0 }, @5 u- g( ]; }
ef 係講心﹐唔係講金! c* M9 X! r. C2 {
你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:34 PM:( V( s& O. C" D6 K9 n2 `$ Z
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聽到呢句說話,真係有d感動![]()
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 03:49 PM:
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我係指真實生活上既朋友,有事揾人幫,你都會先揾佢地.因為你可以見到佢地,咁做起事上黎你會信心大D,因為你可以摸到佢地所以安全感高D,.........但其實,幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事.......而且,反問一句,你對生活上既朋友又有幾深了解,你能踏足他們的內心深處嗎??
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至於,上網既朋友係虛擬性質的,因為在日常生活上我們未必真正影響到你/控制你........而表面上大家沒有身份地位區別,所以可暢所欲言,講一D平時未必同人講既野(秘密、私隱、赤裸裸的''性''),........但實質上你我双方都有不能越過的防火牆,就好似你既個人資料,身份利益等等............如果知得太詳細,玩得太投入,变左真實朋友,大家就會不其然地想控制/影響對方,咁暢所欲言的空間就會消失........因為虛擬朋友你不能摸透,所以會覺得他們在真正有事時幫不上忙.......但其實在心靈上,他們是唯一可以透達你內心痛處既知己........% \: X& W# _1 @) Q2 \: U% Q
有一句諷剌既說話,日間上你我是勢不兩立的仇人,晚上(上網)卻成為惺惺相惜的知己
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:8 i; k4 `" S: P5 e+ }: e
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()

Originally posted by benson00 at 2006-10-18 09:46 PM:0 }, c9 z% u6 q* F9 c9 ~: ]8 B
大家萍水相逢,岩傾咪講多句,唔會唸做唔做到朋友。' R5 Z8 z5 c; \3 _# d2 a
就算傾得好投契,都只係網上虛擬。# G' g3 U! U4 n N) q3 E# J
識朋友都係要係現實世界中,一齊相處過、覺得投緣、變friend,才是正路

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 10:34 PM:7 Y. Z3 f3 q9 k! _) a( |! f
呢d 只可能係一般網友在一般論壇的想法
但你知唔知 26FUN 比其它論壇優勝地方
因為26FUN內 d 網友
雙對黎講,1 n! ~" S* w$ F1 |" y$ u+ ?6 V
比較成熟,! |# ?( z# w6 I1 _- V4 O; o
交流比較深入$ n2 s1 B, X; b( Z I- P
因此雙對關系都比較一般論壇d網友關系密切
,Tri姐姐


Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 11:15 PM:
点關系密切先,Tri姐姐
我都未見過你盧山真面目
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Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 05:51 PM:) E ]5 R6 q' I7 Q
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因為我變左超正常所以我講野原全唔會理人感受

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 01:05 AM:
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唔好啦,! a7 G2 G; h- x L/ v! I
以前有幾個網友$ J, q! u$ Z: ~. x! a8 P
見過我盧山真面目之後" Q. f* k ^7 P& ], ~& u% j* s3 P
一個傻左,7 Q& s6 J9 g) f
一個都冇見過佢返過黎![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:
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ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!
你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by BOYDWAN at 2006-10-19 01:23 AM:% [7 b- n% G F6 ^: o$ q4 q G
trista 講出我心底話!9 |0 V0 f0 f' ~7 Q
加分!個個都加分!9 @, |' E* y i
唔理版主定會員都加分!4 p2 d" u/ d: W9 h1 ?! E$ M
相比一份緣份一份交情,呢d 分算得係乜?" M. b; E2 m u& a) R9 y
小小心意而已~![]()
Originally posted by pkbrian at 2006-10-18 07:58 PM:% k# @3 s K" D# W- ]
講真啦9 B/ y3 R5 y! K
我係網上面一向用心去識朋友^^
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雖然係ent fun 同大家唔係好熟
又少講野="=9 P! z- I4 }+ F
但至少識每一個人都係一樣^^

Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-19 10:16 PM:
(小弟的愚見)* ]0 Q" U& D# U O5 r
以心待人,以誠待人...
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:* y/ _$ K: w9 m) d( g8 r) S) l1 M; I
講真句!友情?唔會有!, N! X# R0 K: f6 l/ b
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!9 F5 Y: f# K' ~7 Q' @' R1 \
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!- E: ^; m0 P, d! i7 N
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!: Z- S+ G& q. p
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-20 11:57 PM:
以經濟學黎計算:5 v4 D9 E, d4 m$ X2 S& Z) i5 K- ~
保持一段寶貴...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 12:23 AM:
認識朋友的意義各有不同。. h, Y: O x1 G1 g
如果真系要用。。。經濟學。。。來 作為 認識 朋友 的工具。。
可能就 要 從最初開始,看看對方是否值得投資了。& R( D4 U* j" E
要不要再用 投資回報率 計算一下。。是否與自己的投資組合相配?
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:03 AM:8 X, w& P0 [6 Q2 ?( o
當然要,并且十分...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:05 AM: N7 |+ u9 b/ |2 [* P
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叻女!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:08 AM:/ z. z2 T; Y# O1 N: g4 U
敢網上識朋友你又點睇?
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:11 AM:
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駛唔駛 出黎 見面 先?
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唔駛 既 話。。。齋吹。。談天說地。。有乜所謂呢。。2 P q- f$ B" \
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:16 AM:
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今晚有時間入黎齋吹下! ], v/ c: A* H
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 05:19 AM:! e4 R9 v" F+ K
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多 d 入 [真‧頑童俱樂部] 玩下~8 Z% S$ `0 U/ G
不過我地有時玩得好 "dean" 家播~# w) i0 T8 x: H$ H9 b+ u! l
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:4 u; F/ q$ U0 j* D( M
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!8 k' W4 j$ ~) s) { U% J+ D8 {5 ]
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
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自由神[/size...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:48 AM:' p" Q( e" `4 ?
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TriTri 有唔有发觉到...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:
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自由神[/size...
Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:
我喺ef都唔算好耐~# m9 `+ e2 K9 c: p$ x
發言唔算好多~; O" H' b/ _" U! y! S4 ~% C# X" z
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Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:
我喺ef都唔算好耐~3 Y g+ J: B/ i, i
發言唔算好多~
...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-24 02:47 AM:0 L) O) e- K# h2 L
好同意。。6 c& i$ p1 z4 s8 | L+ f& G
的而且確,有時候。。
真誠對待他人。反而製造左機會比人“揾自己老襯”
真系“該燴”。
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-24 03:37 AM:
自己醒d未得 law



Originally posted by stanley_ckc at 2006-10-27 12:10 AM:
不過很可惜之後因為一件事令當中有些朋友吵了,這兩年的友誼一夜告吹.......
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 02:37 AM:0 ]$ g1 v9 L- j$ m1 y' y
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一段長時間建立友誼
一夜告吹
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(But the Sad Thing is: It Happen Quite Often To Everyone)
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:
有時候, 友誼就是這樣。. v1 t3 F7 D( q- d4 m
合久必分,分久必合。
有時候,唔見面,保持神秘感,
大家互相有一種,“彼此不要求” 的 保留心態。. ?' b" @1 F" {
未嘗不是一個維繫關係的方法。。
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15 AM:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...
& W% c |) l, c- ?3 [3 d" l0 Z6 ?Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 05:41 AM:
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vv1668vv:
你就比我Lucky啦,2 R) E1 r0 W7 {3 Y
合久必分 我就有一大籮* [7 Z2 d5 Q: {) \
分久必合 就重未遇過
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15:
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不過...
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-28 12:14 AM:- I' u+ v4 `4 }& J H0 o
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抄我![]()
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-28 12:40 AM:
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見係好野先"參考"咋# f1 i. Y0 r0 D" w
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:8 R+ W4 m6 f6 i c3 f( d
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很認同
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