
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 05:39 AM:# g$ j. U/ z# B9 q8 ]: p) v
突然而來既事,當然好難講幫吾幫得上忙,不過非一朝一夕既事,如果攞出黎傾下,或者慢慢會有轉機...........情況就好似電車男追女仔一樣(樂觀).........咁當然,我地最多最多都只係做下軍師,比下意見........而且解鈴還須繫鈴人,就算現實上都有好多問題,難以由第二個人出手代替自己解決問題........所以咩叫真實朋友,咩叫虛擬朋友都冇分別...只在於真實既朋友你可以摸到、見到、掌握到,而令你信心大D,安全感高D.........但幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事,好難講話一定得
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 06:02 AM:4 F" Y6 Q9 |0 I
補多句:處理一般問題&非一般問題5 }0 @4 {) _* L0 a
用問題解決問題,並不是問題,因為問題已經解決,但多數有手尾,但D人多數一貫都係咁做.
但用問題之外既問題去解決問題,結果問題會越变複雜,但卻會出現前所未有既轉機,雖然吉凶難喻,但總比墨守成規好.
故事:墨子長於守城,又因為墨家思想係兼愛﹑非攻,當佢聽到楚國想造雲梯攻打宋國時,就去楚國搵造雲梯既公輸般模擬戰咁較高下(公輸般攻,墨子守),結果公輸般諗極辦法都贏唔到墨子。最後想殺左墨子,點知墨子話,你殺左我,仲有千千萬萬墨家子弟。
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 10:31 AM:
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呢個係一個殘忍ge 事實﹐但我都會覺得換個角度黎講﹐o個d 有形有體ge frds 都未必touch 到ur heart ... 雖然話如果現實中未必真正幫到大家﹐但係我諗如果幫得手ge 都會儘量去幫lor… 呢d 係限制… 係一d 冇辦法ge 事!2 b7 H& p: k- A( V( ]9 A5 u
不過如果唔係呢d限制﹐我地又點會係網上面玩得咁放呢? 因為冇形體有可能會令人與人之間完全冇利益衝突﹐所以先隔膜冇咁大… 呢個係我ge 睇法 … 所以都係珍惜大家就好……
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:19 PM:( N) [+ k' y |9 P1 h" @, p j
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:16 PM:
我成日都有呢種感覺:
覺得大家日日...
Originally posted by 12d3 at 2006-10-18 12:42 PM:
很在於每個人對朋友的定義.
面對網上的朋友, 往往能夠暢所欲言. 你不想給他們知道的, 他們便不會知道, 不用刻意提防.
你認為這是朋友嗎?
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 12:49 PM:+ @( a( Q6 n- w- P4 y
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i guess it's quoted from trista_cheong?
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友# X2 b( ?7 ?" ^- U. v
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明就明,唔明就算
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友8 i9 a9 u% z6 @# E7 f; x. v# ~% J" O
我要講既只有咁多

Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:16 PM:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,, [# T& ] e& U5 ?4 b
不過...
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23: ?' {: T. Q' O% u1 E5 j( V0 ~
ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!2 g+ A9 |$ S% u- u' F0 ~# R
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:34 PM:
聽到呢句說話,真係有d感動![]()
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 03:49 PM:! y& V( \; C+ v7 t" V6 g$ h
我係指真實生活上既朋友,有事揾人幫,你都會先揾佢地.因為你可以見到佢地,咁做起事上黎你會信心大D,因為你可以摸到佢地所以安全感高D,.........但其實,幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事.......而且,反問一句,你對生活上既朋友又有幾深了解,你能踏足他們的內心深處嗎??
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至於,上網既朋友係虛擬性質的,因為在日常生活上我們未必真正影響到你/控制你........而表面上大家沒有身份地位區別,所以可暢所欲言,講一D平時未必同人講既野(秘密、私隱、赤裸裸的''性''),........但實質上你我双方都有不能越過的防火牆,就好似你既個人資料,身份利益等等............如果知得太詳細,玩得太投入,变左真實朋友,大家就會不其然地想控制/影響對方,咁暢所欲言的空間就會消失........因為虛擬朋友你不能摸透,所以會覺得他們在真正有事時幫不上忙.......但其實在心靈上,他們是唯一可以透達你內心痛處既知己........
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Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:. \+ { H4 d1 Z' y
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:
做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()

Originally posted by benson00 at 2006-10-18 09:46 PM:
大家萍水相逢,岩傾咪講多句,唔會唸做唔做到朋友。
就算傾得好投契,都只係網上虛擬。" J( W* \8 m" @1 `& S$ ~2 A
識朋友都係要係現實世界中,一齊相處過、覺得投緣、變friend,才是正路

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 10:34 PM:
呢d 只可能係一般網友在一般論壇的想法
但你知唔知 26FUN 比其它論壇優勝地方
因為26FUN內 d 網友 1 v3 B( |8 y1 k+ Q" X U* p8 ^
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交流比較深入# ]7 N t: f- M5 B
因此雙對關系都比較一般論壇d網友關系密切
,Tri姐姐


Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 11:15 PM:
点關系密切先,Tri姐姐
我都未見過你盧山真面目
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Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 05:51 PM:- U& n8 G6 `4 K$ J0 {$ m
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因為我變左超正常所以我講野原全唔會理人感受

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 01:05 AM:
唔好啦,
以前有幾個網友
見過我盧山真面目之後; y" g$ g, l. m- G, n
一個傻左,1 {! C3 @. K6 C+ f5 |" l% z+ W
一個都冇見過佢返過黎![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:
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ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!( |4 d) @0 I { S9 J8 y& v
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by BOYDWAN at 2006-10-19 01:23 AM:* r; H8 L9 r' }) K4 J
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trista 講出我心底話!
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加分!個個都加分! F: |2 Z& k" w$ s) m' J
唔理版主定會員都加分!
相比一份緣份一份交情,呢d 分算得係乜?+ c; G K+ U3 q7 ]1 E
小小心意而已~![]()
Originally posted by pkbrian at 2006-10-18 07:58 PM:
講真啦
我係網上面一向用心去識朋友^^
雖然係ent fun 同大家唔係好熟
又少講野="=
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但至少識每一個人都係一樣^^

Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-19 10:16 PM:
(小弟的愚見)
以心待人,以誠待人...
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:+ H+ d' z9 O" G. ], r
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!! x1 \3 R' L+ c; w. a' l
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!% ?( A9 a7 ~ \4 P2 l3 g( O3 ^
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!/ \7 s V3 U4 {. A9 P) X
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-20 11:57 PM:$ d; m6 E) h+ \0 V& Z3 T" r
以經濟學黎計算:
保持一段寶貴...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 12:23 AM:
認識朋友的意義各有不同。
如果真系要用。。。經濟學。。。來 作為 認識 朋友 的工具。。! H* a) J" w: Q
可能就 要 從最初開始,看看對方是否值得投資了。
要不要再用 投資回報率 計算一下。。是否與自己的投資組合相配?
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:03 AM:0 U: {* j8 x; G3 e" a1 h6 D
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當然要,并且十分...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:05 AM:
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叻女!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:08 AM:0 y# ~- j. x5 |" t2 A
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敢網上識朋友你又點睇?
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:11 AM:
駛唔駛 出黎 見面 先?
唔駛 既 話。。。齋吹。。談天說地。。有乜所謂呢。。; y" ]3 l' q$ a% x7 |7 J
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:16 AM:
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http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 05:19 AM:
多 d 入 [真‧頑童俱樂部] 玩下~- |0 c) l# [ r" t# v0 e6 _
不過我地有時玩得好 "dean" 家播~
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:& q4 h, d) O D+ @/ z5 H
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!( G6 \9 ?9 R! M* B u* Y* p7 ?
你對人好!你地未必對你好!

0 z. ]( H1 s' ], Y5 {Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:
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自由神[/size...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:48 AM:( J; q# _9 U, q/ e" v$ {. Q; I
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TriTri 有唔有发觉到...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:$ ~; |) ` w% E
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自由神[/size...
Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:1 P9 F& U0 I; a' f6 S' F! H9 T3 r0 ^
我喺ef都唔算好耐~
發言唔算好多~
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Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:
我喺ef都唔算好耐~' d# {8 G3 Z9 Q* ~5 P. P
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-24 02:47 AM:
好同意。。4 S0 A6 Q, b O1 d$ M8 A
的而且確,有時候。。5 C4 h7 Q) R/ ^6 H# u
真誠對待他人。反而製造左機會比人“揾自己老襯”
真系“該燴”。
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-24 03:37 AM:
自己醒d未得 law


% M+ r; D5 Y6 Z3 F e& {Originally posted by stanley_ckc at 2006-10-27 12:10 AM:$ y# T* X) m9 Y- d" e# y& `
不過很可惜之後因為一件事令當中有些朋友吵了,這兩年的友誼一夜告吹.......
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 02:37 AM:% B+ j& _+ M0 ~0 i8 q% U& K
一段長時間建立友誼) |3 p1 S( T3 H6 q, P' H
一夜告吹
這未免太過可惜
(But the Sad Thing is: It Happen Quite Often To Everyone)
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:
有時候, 友誼就是這樣。
合久必分,分久必合。
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未嘗不是一個維繫關係的方法。。7 {0 {' z! B4 M+ q: ?
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15 AM:9 E3 L0 x1 C6 W& r& \0 @
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 05:41 AM:
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vv1668vv:
你就比我Lucky啦,
合久必分 我就有一大籮
分久必合 就重未遇過
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15:
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不過...
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-28 12:14 AM:$ C/ l) c8 b& B
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抄我![]()
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-28 12:40 AM:
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:
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很認同
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