Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 05:39 AM:; B( f! w! ^$ P- h$ T, d3 T+ j
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突然而來既事,當然好難講幫吾幫得上忙,不過非一朝一夕既事,如果攞出黎傾下,或者慢慢會有轉機...........情況就好似電車男追女仔一樣(樂觀).........咁當然,我地最多最多都只係做下軍師,比下意見........而且解鈴還須繫鈴人,就算現實上都有好多問題,難以由第二個人出手代替自己解決問題........所以咩叫真實朋友,咩叫虛擬朋友都冇分別...只在於真實既朋友你可以摸到、見到、掌握到,而令你信心大D,安全感高D.........但幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事,好難講話一定得
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 06:02 AM:
補多句:處理一般問題&非一般問題
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用問題解決問題,並不是問題,因為問題已經解決,但多數有手尾,但D人多數一貫都係咁做.
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但用問題之外既問題去解決問題,結果問題會越变複雜,但卻會出現前所未有既轉機,雖然吉凶難喻,但總比墨守成規好.' t1 v# I: o4 O) h% H4 Z! Y
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故事:墨子長於守城,又因為墨家思想係兼愛﹑非攻,當佢聽到楚國想造雲梯攻打宋國時,就去楚國搵造雲梯既公輸般模擬戰咁較高下(公輸般攻,墨子守),結果公輸般諗極辦法都贏唔到墨子。最後想殺左墨子,點知墨子話,你殺左我,仲有千千萬萬墨家子弟。
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 10:31 AM:
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呢個係一個殘忍ge 事實﹐但我都會覺得換個角度黎講﹐o個d 有形有體ge frds 都未必touch 到ur heart ... 雖然話如果現實中未必真正幫到大家﹐但係我諗如果幫得手ge 都會儘量去幫lor… 呢d 係限制… 係一d 冇辦法ge 事!
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不過如果唔係呢d限制﹐我地又點會係網上面玩得咁放呢? 因為冇形體有可能會令人與人之間完全冇利益衝突﹐所以先隔膜冇咁大… 呢個係我ge 睇法 … 所以都係珍惜大家就好……
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:19 PM:7 o/ \5 w. J' ? [6 X9 g- B
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Quoted from Playbr2
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:16 PM:4 }, } z5 P; x1 J Q
我成日都有呢種感覺:8 T7 y# r8 N3 q8 D# G0 F
覺得大家日日...
Originally posted by 12d3 at 2006-10-18 12:42 PM:
很在於每個人對朋友的定義.+ a; o0 q: N% M8 N; ?
面對網上的朋友, 往往能夠暢所欲言. 你不想給他們知道的, 他們便不會知道, 不用刻意提防.
你認為這是朋友嗎?
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 12:49 PM:
i guess it's quoted from trista_cheong?
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:; G$ k0 M7 L" F1 s
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
我要講既只有咁多
明就明,唔明就算
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:! l. C! k5 l$ z# z Q) O
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
我要講既只有咁多
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:16 PM:" E* f. N8 B" m
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:
ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!4 @- f2 f) G; e5 f& [
你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:34 PM:9 }4 R% u) q: d
聽到呢句說話,真係有d感動
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 03:49 PM:( ]4 W. z8 y2 x2 n' v
我係指真實生活上既朋友,有事揾人幫,你都會先揾佢地.因為你可以見到佢地,咁做起事上黎你會信心大D,因為你可以摸到佢地所以安全感高D,.........但其實,幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事.......而且,反問一句,你對生活上既朋友又有幾深了解,你能踏足他們的內心深處嗎??. C* C; f) C" i/ b! y3 ~( ^
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至於,上網既朋友係虛擬性質的,因為在日常生活上我們未必真正影響到你/控制你........而表面上大家沒有身份地位區別,所以可暢所欲言,講一D平時未必同人講既野(秘密、私隱、赤裸裸的''性''),........但實質上你我双方都有不能越過的防火牆,就好似你既個人資料,身份利益等等............如果知得太詳細,玩得太投入,变左真實朋友,大家就會不其然地想控制/影響對方,咁暢所欲言的空間就會消失........因為虛擬朋友你不能摸透,所以會覺得他們在真正有事時幫不上忙.......但其實在心靈上,他們是唯一可以透達你內心痛處既知己........3 o1 v) E, s$ l0 @' Y
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有一句諷剌既說話,日間上你我是勢不兩立的仇人,晚上(上網)卻成為惺惺相惜的知己
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:. E, @9 c) C' a8 W
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:% V! v. |( ^$ { ~) J9 f
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?
Originally posted by benson00 at 2006-10-18 09:46 PM:) z+ U/ }$ S! ?0 X+ [
大家萍水相逢,岩傾咪講多句,唔會唸做唔做到朋友。
就算傾得好投契,都只係網上虛擬。
識朋友都係要係現實世界中,一齊相處過、覺得投緣、變friend,才是正路
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 10:34 PM:. U' O# N2 q& S0 [
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呢d 只可能係一般網友在一般論壇的想法8 O9 o5 C+ F; P* a) Q9 r
但你知唔知 26FUN 比其它論壇優勝地方4 Y& l& f; \ X
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因此雙對關系都比較一般論壇d網友關系密切
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 11:15 PM:
点關系密切先,Tri姐姐我都未見過你盧山真面目
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 05:51 PM:0 R |7 M3 u! b( N) p
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因為我變左超正常所以我講野原全唔會理人感受
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 01:05 AM:
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唔好啦,
以前有幾個網友2 g- a" p2 {$ \( v" r; V
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一個傻左,
一個都冇見過佢返過黎
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:+ `6 W/ h( e% j" k& Y6 h/ T- ^9 I
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~
Originally posted by BOYDWAN at 2006-10-19 01:23 AM:# [$ T, W# {8 a& y4 F
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trista 講出我心底話!; |; e3 V) v3 s
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加分!個個都加分!
唔理版主定會員都加分!
相比一份緣份一份交情,呢d 分算得係乜?7 ]) R: @. M: z. [
小小心意而已~
Originally posted by pkbrian at 2006-10-18 07:58 PM:6 s7 `+ f: ]0 r7 m1 G$ @
講真啦
我係網上面一向用心去識朋友^^* S+ x/ l* T# C7 l( Z3 Y
雖然係ent fun 同大家唔係好熟
又少講野="=4 H# U5 a* N2 g& N9 V+ y9 ~
但至少識每一個人都係一樣^^
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-19 10:16 PM:
(小弟的愚見)+ J2 G. _ @$ a3 J8 A* D+ e
以心待人,以誠待人...
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:2 B8 @* b! ?, V3 n r& |6 I
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:' J" n4 D! F# M4 T: M
講真句!友情?唔會有!: W3 |8 _/ j8 m9 h3 P5 S2 Z5 T
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!& E- p6 }* v# v+ V2 }/ |- U
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!( B6 B/ X2 A; x; Z" m
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-20 11:57 PM:* g+ i3 u5 u' E# x8 B! l
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以經濟學黎計算:
保持一段寶貴...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 12:23 AM:
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認識朋友的意義各有不同。- M. l+ T' ?4 k: ^. [/ `
如果真系要用。。。經濟學。。。來 作為 認識 朋友 的工具。。$ {% Y! P4 ?4 A, Z
可能就 要 從最初開始,看看對方是否值得投資了。
要不要再用 投資回報率 計算一下。。是否與自己的投資組合相配?
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:03 AM:3 P3 X6 m( n1 t* K$ i2 n
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當然要,并且十分...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:05 AM:1 d* c/ G) d7 f' H0 r a
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叻女!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:08 AM:
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敢網上識朋友你又點睇?
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:11 AM:6 S% H- s8 m* m
駛唔駛 出黎 見面 先?
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唔駛 既 話。。。齋吹。。談天說地。。有乜所謂呢。。
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:16 AM:7 D% x5 G- e: y" Z1 L
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今晚有時間入黎齋吹下+ `+ e/ `, X0 u# H
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 05:19 AM:7 I" w. R) `, X
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多 d 入 [真‧頑童俱樂部] 玩下~2 \4 F8 O7 l+ k# q( \6 M
不過我地有時玩得好 "dean" 家播~6 N4 r7 G& \5 ]9 r4 d& l
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!% `* d( l7 M- [9 R) L# W
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!0 {5 N4 e$ u, D4 c
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:3 @6 g+ Q% O0 @- J; ?9 u6 |
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自由神[/size...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:48 AM:, _3 K+ g' e3 v t) y; j& z, k6 A5 }; L
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TriTri 有唔有发觉到...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:, {' h; _! w F8 i- B5 ]
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自由神[/size...
Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:
我喺ef都唔算好耐~
發言唔算好多~% `# V7 ?" X0 i4 K" n& s& g% _+ z/ {
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Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:, G0 J# `0 J8 }& ~
我喺ef都唔算好耐~7 t2 N* ]6 N1 L1 t; k# ~& }7 o
發言唔算好多~1 s; K; I! B: g" O j! h/ d
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-24 02:47 AM:2 d. X* V! m& B) }! E7 m
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好同意。。) w& s( ~' e1 H
的而且確,有時候。。, ~. K' S2 w6 l& p6 x+ k8 S
真誠對待他人。反而製造左機會比人“揾自己老襯” 5 x5 C1 c4 t+ J9 X
真系“該燴”。
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-24 03:37 AM:
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自己醒d未得 law
Originally posted by stanley_ckc at 2006-10-27 12:10 AM:0 L$ a6 Y2 {, H3 O4 m! {
不過很可惜之後因為一件事令當中有些朋友吵了,這兩年的友誼一夜告吹.......
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 02:37 AM:6 E" e" ^' L4 n* U+ V! I( F
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一夜告吹
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(But the Sad Thing is: It Happen Quite Often To Everyone)
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:$ Q1 j8 I; P6 Q9 H
有時候, 友誼就是這樣。3 U/ v: y0 g; ~2 i2 ?- b5 x+ K
合久必分,分久必合。
有時候,唔見面,保持神秘感,
大家互相有一種,“彼此不要求” 的 保留心態。
未嘗不是一個維繫關係的方法。。8 m( ?4 F6 Y: N4 X I2 Q; r
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15 AM:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,- G% ^( K0 [# }
不過...
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 05:41 AM: K2 Y# ? R+ @: A
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vv1668vv:
你就比我Lucky啦,
合久必分 我就有一大籮
分久必合 就重未遇過
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15:8 x& x: o. V) R- c; Z
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不過...
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-28 12:14 AM:
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抄我
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-28 12:40 AM:
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見係好野先"參考"咋6 C0 `6 J8 ]9 Z, N$ i7 V' \7 y4 n
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:& u$ a. ^$ }: }
很認同
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