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作者: advvda 時間: 2005-4-27 01:06 AM 標題: 覺唔覺得拍拖好無癮 [toro +]

有時候回想起以前的感情，覺得真的是入心入骨，中意一個人係真係中意她。

大個之後戀愛裏面參雜了太多的功利因素，男女都有，各取所需而已。散了就散了，過兩天又找下一個填補空虛。

對這些“托“，我很厭倦

[ Last edited by toro on 2005-4-27 at 02:41 AM ]

作者: toro 時間: 2005-4-27 01:13 AM

Originally posted by advvda at 2005-4-27 01:06 AM:
有時候回想起以前的感情，覺得真的是入心 ...

你所講嘅功利因素可否再講詳細d呢？

作者: toro 時間: 2005-4-27 01:28 AM

Originally posted by advvda at 2005-4-27 01:06 AM:
有時候回想起以前的感情，覺得真的是入心 ...

你所講嘅散左就散左，第日常又搵個第個，其實呢個就睇人嘅，而家我都有見過天長地久，不過少d囉。但係如果你自己都唔信愛情嘅，你會好難搵到一個對你真心對你嘅人ga，因為人哋都會感受到你有幾認真ga嘛。

到你遇到一個愛你嘅人，你就唔會咁諗ga喇。你對手唔放開，成日捉緊個拳頭，無人拖得到你隻手ga，知嘛？

努力呀！

作者: Asurada129 時間: 2005-4-27 01:38 AM

Originally posted by advvda at 2005-4-27 01:06 AM:
有時候回想起以前的感情，覺得真的是入心 ...

我就冇d甘既感覺喎

....好似你話嘅功利因素各取所需甘...會唔會就係將感情複雜化以致男女們太過著重自己利益而取完所需後再搵另一個既原因呢

.....其實2個人走在一起...我個人認為心態上不應是互惠互利...而是互補不足互相扶持的....需則此話比較general並有點老土甘:cool:...但亦正正因為這個心態(散了就散了，過兩天又找下一個填補空虛)以致男女間再不會有無私之心去對待別人...在這個男/女友身上搵唔到既野就會去第2個度身上搵....乃成為現時既散拖也

有任何意見...請各位指點指點

...

作者: Lincoln 時間: 2005-4-27 01:43 AM

冇諗過喎我!

好自然咁拍同分心咋!

作者: advvda 時間: 2005-4-27 01:44 AM

Originally posted by toro at 2005-4-27 01:13 AM:

你所講嘅功利因素可否再講詳細d呢？

其實我唔覺咖，不過聼落朋友講，同埋上黎E度睇，會覺得，男人都為性，女人都為錢gum樣。

好多謝你咖建議，只係就算遇到自己中意的人又再好好彩有得戀愛，又要成日擔心維持到與否的問題，ED嘢細個就覺得無所謂，大個就覺得好無謂！

但你講得好0岩咖一點我覺得係，你對人咖感覺係點，別人都感覺到。

作者: Rika 時間: 2005-4-27 01:52 AM

Originally posted by advvda at 2005-4-27 01:06 AM:
有時候回想起以前的感情，覺得真的是入心 ...

I think you loved someone deeply before and somehow you finish up with her. Is that correct?
I can see you did not wanna finish up with her somehow you could not stop her. right?
I guess you are still in shock and disappointing, that's why I can feel you are so depress.
You might had sad experience. But You should not bring the bad thing from the past to your future.
She hurted you, a right person won't hurt you badly.
It's no point to be sad for a wrong person.
You had loved someone deeply. You know this feeling well. You gain! You learn something from your her.
If one day, you find someone is loving you deeply. You will be so glad.
Because you know what love is.
If you don't love what love is. You won't teasure anyone's love.
Don't be depress just by one sad ending.
The best is yet to come~

作者: 左輪仔 時間: 2005-4-27 01:55 AM

Originally posted by advvda at 2005-4-27 01:06:
有時候回想起以前的感情，覺得真的是入心 ...

唔~~~
可能你巳經睇化左愛情啦,如果咁樣講得出既話
我諗....其實你心內巳有一個多年既意中人...
不過唔知係咩原因,你唔可以或,你未發覺鍾意佢咋
無錯,每個人都想玩嫁啦,但係有時感情玩得多,受苦既係自己呀
其實你知你自己想點嫁,係你過唔到自己果關咋,是嘛??
(一切都係亂講,與事實出錯,勿怪)

作者: advvda 時間: 2005-4-27 02:13 AM

Originally posted by Rika at 2005-4-27 01:52 AM:

I think you loved someone deeply before and somehow you finish up with her. Is that correct?
I can see you did not wanna finish up with her somehow you could not stop her. right?
I guess you are still in shock and disappointing, that's why I can feel you are so depress.
You might had sad experience. But You should not bring the bad thing from the past to your future.
She hurted you, a right person won't hurt you badly.
It's no point to be sad for a wrong person.
You had loved someone deeply. You know this feeling well. You gain! You learn something from your her.
If one day, you find someone is loving you deeply. You will be so glad.
Because you know what love is.
If you don't love what love is. You won't teasure anyone's love.
Don't be depress just by one sad ending.
The best is yet to come~

Gosh,incrediblly correct.
The only mistake is I am shock by u but not her.haha...
How can u know me bloody well?

In fact,it has been a year since we broke up.and that was my first relationship.
well ,i donnt want to continue it anymore eventhough i've got NO feeling with her anymore.

She did affect my attitude to this sort of"relationship".maybe its the reason why i posted this topic.

作者: Rika 時間: 2005-4-27 02:13 AM

Originally posted by advvda at 2005-4-27 01:06 AM:
有時候回想起以前的感情，覺得真的是入心 ...

兩句有D意思的句子
1. 可能神要我們在遇到那位對的人之前先遇上一些錯的人，讓我們遇到那位對先生/對小姐時懂得珍惜。

2. 這個世界永遠也會有一些傷害你的人，你要做的就是繼續去信人和小心你下次信的人。

Maybe it helps you to change your attitude

作者: toro 時間: 2005-4-27 02:15 AM

advvad 帶起討論氣氛 +5
rika 積極回應 +5

作者: Rika 時間: 2005-4-27 02:20 AM

Originally posted by advvda at 2005-4-27 02:13 AM:

Gosh,incrediblly correct.
The only mistake is I am shock by u but not her.haha...
How can u know me bloody well?

In fact,it has been a year since we broke up.and that was my first relationship.
well ,i donnt want to continue it anymore eventhough i've got NO feeling with her anymore.

She did affect my attitude to this sort of"relationship".maybe its the reason why i posted this topic.

The memory of first love, first hurt will be forever in your heart
For now, you might take it seriously. This memory still drive you mad, drive you sad
Maybe ten, twenty or forty years later. You look back, it might be just a joke for you.
So why you are so depress just for a joke?
come on, be cool, be tough! you are man!
Look forward the future, don't live in the past

作者: Rika 時間: 2005-4-27 02:28 AM

Originally posted by toro at 2005-4-27 02:15 AM:
advvad 帶起討論氣氛 +5
rika 積極回應 +5

Thanks toro

作者: advvda 時間: 2005-4-27 02:34 AM

Originally posted by Rika at 2005-4-27 02:20 AM:

The memory of first love, first hurt will be forever in your heart
For now, you might take it seriously. This memory still drive you mad, drive you sad
Maybe ten, twenty or forty years later. You look back, it might be just a joke for you.
So why you are so depress just for a joke?
come on, be cool, be tough! you are man!
Look forward the future, don't live in the past

說真的，不需要10年20年的時間，我已經覺得像一個笑話，也已經覺得已經很夠了。
或許不同的人會有不同的方法去對待，我相信我不是一蹶不振的那種人，這個我自己知道，事實上也做到。

會不會我tough到，已經沒有什麽所謂的感情可以打動到自己呢？
你說得很對，從過去學到很多東西，知道深愛的感覺以後，可以分辨到他人是否真心。
但對我來講，我學到的是，就算是真心，又如何，正如前面bro說的，看得很透。

作者: toro 時間: 2005-4-27 02:42 AM

Originally posted by advvda at 2005-4-27 02:34 AM:

說真的，不需要10年20年的時間，我 ...

我反而覺得係你自己收埋左自己囉

作者: Rika 時間: 2005-4-27 02:48 AM

Originally posted by advvda at 2005-4-27 02:34 AM:

說真的，不需要10年20年的時間，我已經覺得像一個笑話，也已經覺得已經很夠了。
或許不同的人會有不同的方法去對待，我相信我不是一蹶不振的那種人，這個我自己知道，事實上也做到。

會不會我tough到，已經沒有什麽所謂的感情可以打動到自己呢？
你說得很對，從過去學到很多東西，知道深愛的感覺以後，可以分辨到他人是否真心。
但對我來講，我學到的是，就算是真心，又如何，正如前面bro說的，看得很透。

Tough is to overcome problems, stand up and recover from the sadness.
Tough is not the excuse to protect yourself by avoiding new relationship

If you find the true love, you should be brave to try. Don't miss it.
You never know when is the second chance.
Some people spend their whole life but still cannot find the true love.
Some people regret forever because they miss the chance to catch it.
True love is one of the most treasurable thing in the world

A man need to be tough. Except tough, you gotta be brave too
Be brave to have new challenge and start the new relationship

作者: Rika 時間: 2005-4-27 08:48 PM

Originally posted by advvda at 2005-4-27 02:13 AM:

Gosh,incrediblly correct.
The only mistake is I am shock by u but not her.haha...
How can u know me bloody well?

一睇就知, I'm suffering the same problem too. haha~

作者: Rika 時間: 2005-4-27 08:57 PM

Originally posted by toro at 2005-4-27 02:42 AM:

我反而覺得係你自己收埋左自己囉

大忌, 收埋自己, 收一陣都OK, 當冷靜, 收太耐唔係禁好

作者: Crapcake 時間: 2005-4-27 09:32 PM

其實我覺得每一段感情都有得著既~..以我為例~
一開始同條女一齊係因為佢中意我~我都係抱住玩下咁~
但一個月之後,我發覺佢係好女仔~想投入呢段感情~點知佢中意左第二個..痛左我好耐
我成日同FD講~~~愛情一定要投入~唔係一定後悔莫及~
但係我唔會覺得好冇癮~~當吸收經驗咁~~為一段長長九九既愛情作ready je~~

作者: toro 時間: 2005-4-27 10:42 PM

Originally posted by Crapcake at 2005-4-27 09:32 PM:
其實我覺得每一段感情都有得著既~..以 ...

good reply +5 by toro

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