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作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-6 12:38 AM     標題: 熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?  \$ }' \9 r2 P; D. u4 d& o
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
( t, f9 K* q; f1 W' `  l琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心! T6 V* \& g2 I" D
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
- Q: ~! L" n9 J' s! \2 d! w! R覺得好空虛
3 U( Q8 t: W* X其實早幾次都有試過係咁
9 J5 ~2 \. ]! ~# m3 |卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
% s% M9 `# E' N用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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作者: funnygay    時間: 2005-6-6 12:45 AM

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
  a: B. a7 s; d* h% _2 g0 c* a% Q但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
" |( Q1 M/ j4 |  E' I8 M% G熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面
作者: Christy~呀華    時間: 2005-6-6 01:31 AM

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
0 f/ z/ n5 l8 e& N2 b; H+ B所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
; g/ v! X  P  Q" L) B; b日日有車站,
* y3 S6 [0 v* X, n  j/ G有目標!
作者: taipotse    時間: 2005-6-6 01:56 AM

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
  S. N$ O" p- j. T  Y你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?
作者: markmk    時間: 2005-6-6 03:03 AM     標題: ..

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:) I( H4 h. L6 B' l3 o
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...
) G: q; @& y, V9 Q) ~我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.9 K# M6 b; k2 J& g# a5 {
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..) X) B% v8 d% E
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
% {. H5 u  x" G: w; L. Y9 e- ^總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.
作者: 本篤十六世    時間: 2005-6-6 03:22 AM

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:0 \2 r4 d3 I- k3 C" S8 X
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
$ W2 D7 J/ t( f4 f" S所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,/ D' T4 A5 |9 d- ~: Z
日日有車站,
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: n, o$ b* r- }* h9 g  G! gwhat does he mean ar?no point
作者: rest365days    時間: 2005-6-6 10:49 AM

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
0 r7 a0 V* O- k" r如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
  E0 N3 T5 S1 r3 h好唔鍾意呢種感覺
. N0 @3 B. H  o- \, n9 E  S琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心% H2 p" t, c  a* `' V" C0 a
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣' W# @. I+ B+ |; h
覺得好空虛
2 Y) n8 B6 K8 D5 d其實早幾次都有試過係咁
% o1 z" R# U" ]3 i4 }卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
$ I; _" |! E- u2 ?用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
9 c0 @3 w( Y2 @7 s4 e# _+ m唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.; g+ j# r. Y: @9 p' k
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:
作者: Gretzky    時間: 2005-6-6 02:00 PM

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
! u3 G$ d- g0 ^2 Y/ k" Q* ma) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
, |4 H# h+ F! S0 jb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
' Z* `$ {& m! m. Hc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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. B: v8 J% {  _4 C! iJust another thought on lonliness:
( l5 j) S1 R3 g8 T4 [- o, `, ZLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.
作者: Jho808    時間: 2005-6-6 02:20 PM

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
5 C9 p! F& j( h+ G' gBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!
作者: 遊戲    時間: 2005-6-6 03:39 PM

真的啦~! x3 L9 d: {# |, i4 G
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺2 J3 s4 c' V, h$ L8 O: d
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影4 ?* c- J/ e" e4 D" f
或是打爆一隻得好玩的RPG咁囉~
: z! c2 C3 [( p. z空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
% a+ T; |, Q) S: T2 H0 w& S很少會超過一天~
+ M" D/ ~) Y" O5 R+ |8 q要期待更好的明天呀!
作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-7 02:06 AM

Originally posted by markmk at 2005-6-6 03:03 AM:# X) a- e  D! H/ t1 \7 x  w) q% I

7 E; `2 R$ k0 H- q0 d4 _! u! t我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想...
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其實我有諗過一個問題
: Z! j2 c. V  ^5 i如果我唔覺得空虛# c: U2 u+ ~+ s* F9 o
又點顯得出我果晚特別開心
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正如冇醜女點顯得出其他係靚女一樣
作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-7 02:10 AM

Originally posted by rest365days at 2005-6-6 10:49 AM:
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, t7 i8 Q, i0 D8 K/ D這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲...
$ F0 o. ?; V: l3 A( l可能你有少少misunderstand左my meaning呢
7 J6 h, m' ?; C% k# i  p其實我呢班fd全部都識左十年
3 Z: f. y8 M0 b* B# P  ~每次出黎大家都真係拎個心出黎
2 }1 r/ e: ]0 m& D( o; M5 h+ M而唔會大家有d咩私心利益衝突5 o5 `6 {( q8 x$ B* y2 _
但因為e家大家都要做野ge關係
: |7 b* }1 y( q& a1 p0 Z" D) F; M  }, qso好難約埋時間係咁arm全部人都得閒
$ S  T% x" L, t' i9 C, ^5 A, N/ Rcos我地有人做野係輪班的2 W( K1 T0 M' l4 X6 K- K4 m4 ]

: U+ ^, @+ u; k2 x# w同埋可能你都講中左d
4 x; z! t" f  ]就係人生目標....呢樣野真係好深奧
+ }3 r5 R2 y8 W有d人可能讀緊中學就有..有d人可能搵一世都搵唔到8 D" [2 T$ c3 k1 ~- N& I
我e家黎緊下兩個禮拜22歲都未搵到呢..
作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-7 02:11 AM

Originally posted by Gretzky at 2005-6-6 02:00 PM:
* r$ o7 F. I  sSolitude is part of life....we long...
1 j6 u: V, c, z! y: l7 B0 cthat's the reality...
$ B4 ?0 `- y7 f1 m$ F你講出左現實殘酷ge一面..
作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-7 02:12 AM

Originally posted by Jho808 at 2005-6-6 02:20 PM:
+ h" r. ~: p9 i* D* |5 FActually........u feel lonely is it...
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i know..i know my fds won't leave me0 }0 Q  Z; ~0 y/ O% c; U
but i juz can't control my feeling1 u! J1 `" s, @6 [  Y0 p5 X* }
maybe that's my characteristic...i'm somehow a bit pessimistic
作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-7 02:16 AM

首先thx all開解先
8 j- T/ D9 m( h* m+ P  Jbut i hv some questions..
+ d/ f7 _2 L9 }$ W1 B; n3 X  g其實會唔會係同我星座有關呢
3 v0 t) U$ u6 f: E+ ^因為我係雙子...忽冷忽熱得好緊要
9 c# w: v0 k7 f6 l! h, V4 |5 g我真係可以o係呢一刻好開心..但一分鐘後可以好down..完全唔出聲" \2 ^4 V* C* U5 I+ }: c+ E) |
係極度情緒化..但其實果一分鐘係冇發生過任何事..可能只係諗到d野3 l9 O1 B7 R9 r, c; p9 u, M/ D
呢度有冇星座高手?




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