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標題: 熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+] [打印本頁]
作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-6 12:38 AM     標題: 熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?9 T3 W0 Z2 ]8 s
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
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個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
' W7 Z/ v1 Y) a覺得好空虛, s8 q' k* j: ~7 l/ L( G) J* {
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
7 k& G8 w  v- W' Q卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己1 F% S3 t7 g% v! n: W. S) e
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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0 ]; N  l$ m9 V/ t; D[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]
作者: funnygay    時間: 2005-6-6 12:45 AM

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
; i5 r5 E* f9 ~/ T4 n2 R但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
6 M5 x( q: c( ^( @- @熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面
作者: Christy~呀華    時間: 2005-6-6 01:31 AM

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
6 e( b: p# w1 m8 f: E* \所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,; J5 C4 C1 \7 n4 u9 I& \3 T
日日有車站,
: p+ y% b: g2 a' I8 _有目標!
作者: taipotse    時間: 2005-6-6 01:56 AM

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
# f. F! y& |0 U' B& h你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?
作者: markmk    時間: 2005-6-6 03:03 AM     標題: ..

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
1 Z: U% [4 p$ D; G; J2 |% b如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...
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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
7 g, [: g- B9 Y" f感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..2 v. a! A0 I. w8 I
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.9 G( _( t6 ^" d. g. M
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.
作者: 本篤十六世    時間: 2005-6-6 03:22 AM

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:4 O5 k# ]! ^, D# n
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
8 X. J( |; r) B/ @5 e所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,8 i+ K: y% ^% I) Q" ?7 Y
日日有車站,6 {" H& {, F8 H  p. Y& o5 }, y" D
有目標!
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作者: rest365days    時間: 2005-6-6 10:49 AM

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:4 L% _6 I, R2 C" \, _' a; K5 x8 V
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
. U4 U0 ~0 w, E6 D; G$ E' g好唔鍾意呢種感覺  Q" k1 x' }3 V! u7 x. E
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心1 V  o& V  w' D8 a: |
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
7 K/ o# p/ x7 Y- g" g/ _覺得好空虛
) p* B; f& `$ R* I9 [3 }& I其實早幾次都有試過係咁# a0 w4 q+ Q6 B6 k. j
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
2 d0 ~4 X- m3 g! Q% D: E- ]用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?7 H( R5 F" x5 H, f: ^8 c% p/ D
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.1 A. X; ^- q, Z$ ~" u! r- [
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足., c( c) g# [+ W2 h2 J- M
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:
作者: Gretzky    時間: 2005-6-6 02:00 PM

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:: ]# O4 {7 D2 S& q
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long5 S' V' u& a  }( n
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
$ j3 t; M4 _; n- ~% E8 ec) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.& [" h" W0 R# b/ w* `0 r" ^

  n0 Q% `3 e9 `Just another thought on lonliness:8 U  j- l: y- C: M/ B5 j
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.
作者: Jho808    時間: 2005-6-6 02:20 PM

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
; ^9 A- b6 A6 @$ tBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!
作者: 遊戲    時間: 2005-6-6 03:39 PM

真的啦～
$ f  G) M# P9 u3 p9 \; [: M& R我會有一種十分空虛的感覺5 b7 }3 `8 c# b8 c5 c. o3 Z5 s
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
% T8 ^0 [. v9 y) R. O; k5 x或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～- c! |4 A' H: {" p
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
* Q; q( E, q7 |9 d! C! _& O6 z很少會超過一天～
0 w0 @! ^& Q6 I7 p& G要期待更好的明天呀！
作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-7 02:06 AM

Originally posted by markmk at 2005-6-6 03:03 AM:
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# y. p# n5 [* T; K% f! t我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想...
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其實我有諗過一個問題1 p4 F7 ^( T- j3 _! I# @& O
如果我唔覺得空虛8 J; g5 g: D( G* x$ H$ {3 Z: p; r
又點顯得出我果晚特別開心+ S  B- N* n' T
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正如冇醜女點顯得出其他係靚女一樣
作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-7 02:10 AM

Originally posted by rest365days at 2005-6-6 10:49 AM:  G6 @  F- }4 ~
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/ ~7 q+ \, r. A這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲...
3 i5 q" N8 G8 o/ v- Y2 |可能你有少少misunderstand左my meaning呢
7 y; O  j( R4 x4 w其實我呢班fd全部都識左十年0 J& l' ?, M* c5 Z* M+ G
每次出黎大家都真係拎個心出黎) f) @' b4 j7 b; r6 f/ J" g8 s
而唔會大家有d咩私心利益衝突4 w* ^( C# g, B2 |
但因為e家大家都要做野ge關係
  [0 V; ?8 F6 h: A3 qso好難約埋時間係咁arm全部人都得閒  M# \+ l7 n9 ^; _
cos我地有人做野係輪班的8 ]7 ^8 G& U( B* a0 x0 o

5 h; [& z% r9 \0 w3 V7 L: @同埋可能你都講中左d( Z  t' }" u4 R* t% \$ r1 C+ l
就係人生目標....呢樣野真係好深奧
5 S, z: `# Z  ~# c2 f8 t  N- o有d人可能讀緊中學就有..有d人可能搵一世都搵唔到
3 @/ N7 y5 n( ?; p: ~我e家黎緊下兩個禮拜22歲都未搵到呢..
作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-7 02:11 AM

Originally posted by Gretzky at 2005-6-6 02:00 PM:$ Q3 R; m1 V8 [. M
Solitude is part of life....we long...
9 c/ X: {  T6 B  W2 d- mthat's the reality...
8 g. K/ b' k+ G! r你講出左現實殘酷ge一面..
作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-7 02:12 AM

Originally posted by Jho808 at 2005-6-6 02:20 PM:! i( ^5 ^0 q2 G4 G+ K- d
Actually........u feel lonely is it...
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i know..i know my fds won't leave me
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maybe that's my characteristic...i'm somehow a bit pessimistic
作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-7 02:16 AM

首先thx all開解先
* k7 L( U. x$ R  _4 hbut i hv some questions..6 W; K9 r9 t6 e- }; P
其實會唔會係同我星座有關呢: y8 z4 k) i. F; J) g$ n0 F
因為我係雙子...忽冷忽熱得好緊要- o* i9 w7 o) R; v/ R+ F
我真係可以o係呢一刻好開心..但一分鐘後可以好down..完全唔出聲) ~* f. n0 @; @, ?
係極度情緒化..但其實果一分鐘係冇發生過任何事..可能只係諗到d野5 X2 i& b$ Q3 v
呢度有冇星座高手?



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