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作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-6 12:38 AM 標題: 熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?4 d4 b7 I9 n' E# F+ t
好唔鍾意呢種感覺/ \/ M: f w. I! _6 S
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心! z2 s/ ?) E: H" w4 j
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣) m5 M* M2 K- k: _
覺得好空虛

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其實早幾次都有試過係咁
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己4 p! H- g0 Z& x( b D
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?

[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

作者: funnygay 時間: 2005-6-6 12:45 AM

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺% J5 E+ X/ Z( z
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

作者: Christy~呀華 時間: 2005-6-6 01:31 AM

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,

所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,

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日日有車站,

有目標!

作者: taipotse 時間: 2005-6-6 01:56 AM

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

作者: markmk 時間: 2005-6-6 03:03 AM 標題: ..

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:4 u+ j; r6 u4 H0 C4 j9 Z6 f( g9 l' [
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.9 D4 E. |' ?4 ]
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

作者: 本篤十六世 時間: 2005-6-6 03:22 AM

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
. J! w4 x2 w( ?其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,7 P, h" h. s F2 ?
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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what does he mean ar?no point

作者: rest365days 時間: 2005-6-6 10:49 AM

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
/ p, _, I  [1 \6 S/ l/ T/ R6 q3 @9 ^如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?$ f/ z% s- `  l4 f
好唔鍾意呢種感覺& [5 W' V& V4 F; ^# I$ h
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
2 B, U1 ?1 H- _: n, R個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣# [9 L- ]  u7 H; J
覺得好空虛' p( @) G. r- U  Y5 |* o6 `* I# D
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
; X3 j6 N/ D9 \) h. u卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
; L' i( m8 ^" u用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.4 a/ o1 W& a5 j) n. d% o
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

作者: Gretzky 時間: 2005-6-6 02:00 PM

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.+ f* M6 G$ d9 j) D

People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:6 Y4 I( O8 x5 x' V
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long* W' ~; u. j M& k4 Z
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.& `- \" C9 S. l2 H5 K" j
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.

Just another thought on lonliness:
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

作者: Jho808 時間: 2005-6-6 02:20 PM

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want to keep up the happy time.....
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

作者: 遊戲 時間: 2005-6-6 03:39 PM

真的啦～
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺' y2 S$ {% _! \! v
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影2 X. m" D: P+ S7 A$ f
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～( E9 |8 W) d2 G1 h, m) x
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉. z! O' @) K3 U3 v' s/ @' f& v" w
很少會超過一天～
要期待更好的明天呀！

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:06 AM

Originally posted by markmk at 2005-6-6 03:03 AM:
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( y1 P2 f6 F/ M+ K3 {. Q我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想...

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其實我有諗過一個問題$ u& a( f; j/ G5 N: V
如果我唔覺得空虛
又點顯得出我果晚特別開心! I. e7 S+ V n" D4 k( `4 d$ M
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正如冇醜女點顯得出其他係靚女一樣

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:10 AM

Originally posted by rest365days at 2005-6-6 10:49 AM:
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3 }0 U6 p; E1 |這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲...

可能你有少少misunderstand左my meaning呢3 W3 g1 L3 [$ S) y$ |
其實我呢班fd全部都識左十年
每次出黎大家都真係拎個心出黎+ I' }+ w# j+ i, D
而唔會大家有d咩私心利益衝突
但因為e家大家都要做野ge關係1 C; c9 M5 d' \3 [7 E
so好難約埋時間係咁arm全部人都得閒 J2 y% P3 H- \6 w+ C5 |
cos我地有人做野係輪班的

同埋可能你都講中左d& ?! X# N- @& a+ _) \3 v. e
就係人生目標....呢樣野真係好深奧
有d人可能讀緊中學就有..有d人可能搵一世都搵唔到5 i# P' _% @( U; e$ W2 B7 r- ?
我e家黎緊下兩個禮拜22歲都未搵到呢..

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:11 AM

Originally posted by Gretzky at 2005-6-6 02:00 PM:; L4 A. p# p( t5 D: a6 O! |
Solitude is part of life....we long...

that's the reality...
你講出左現實殘酷ge一面..

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:12 AM

Originally posted by Jho808 at 2005-6-6 02:20 PM:( R* x: }( ~2 b2 `* r
Actually........u feel lonely is it...

i know..i know my fds won't leave me
but i juz can't control my feeling
maybe that's my characteristic...i'm somehow a bit pessimistic

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:16 AM

首先thx all開解先

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but i hv some questions..' G  f: ~, f+ e+ C8 w
其實會唔會係同我星座有關呢( l9 i' {' G% z7 G9 ~) l( D
因為我係雙子...忽冷忽熱得好緊要
我真係可以o係呢一刻好開心..但一分鐘後可以好down..完全唔出聲1 m9 o  _/ R- t* W
係極度情緒化..但其實果一分鐘係冇發生過任何事..可能只係諗到d野
呢度有冇星座高手?

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