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作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-6 12:38 AM     標題: 熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?7 ^) C% i+ P1 `
好唔鍾意呢種感覺& x6 `; F: H% n; v2 _: `( `
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心' [1 L, w: y4 n( h+ k
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
% S& K/ }/ D; F3 \覺得好空虛
; U5 |8 ^* x; A+ {其實早幾次都有試過係咁2 b$ S$ ]3 u& T3 p' u, f) X
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
  f4 l) w6 ~6 t, W" q' B) _用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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7 b5 Q* l0 `. [" h' V[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]
作者: funnygay    時間: 2005-6-6 12:45 AM

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,) {$ n5 z$ k0 R0 {9 V$ Q1 `
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺0 E& W! U9 v0 W& T
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面
作者: Christy~呀華    時間: 2005-6-6 01:31 AM

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,- K9 J% a7 T: Q; _, {7 x
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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有目標!
作者: taipotse    時間: 2005-6-6 01:56 AM

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
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作者: markmk    時間: 2005-6-6 03:03 AM     標題: ..

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:5 V  B' H0 s. M
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...
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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
3 [# o/ R/ S. A0 I/ z: \0 _* b感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
( N5 F7 R5 |8 J8 r7 x玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.+ y; Q2 Q4 @1 C8 M' }
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.
作者: 本篤十六世    時間: 2005-6-6 03:22 AM

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
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所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
/ U0 C3 E; r9 c3 T1 i" V日日有車站,9 j+ v4 k2 ]9 F) S, l- |
有目標!
" R  y! S+ [4 h) J( ?. x) Swhat does he mean ar?no point
作者: rest365days    時間: 2005-6-6 10:49 AM

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
& l7 ~5 M! }; i6 u  H( ~& e如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?+ a5 B3 f: }+ f% e( H. ?4 ~
好唔鍾意呢種感覺6 E0 E: v9 P' a9 v; M
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心' B+ u" V; J) x0 m( n
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣4 ~$ C* _1 M  |3 k" O
覺得好空虛
# h' N0 W+ @: G其實早幾次都有試過係咁3 j. g# f- v* u% }& H9 T
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
0 M, P+ f. l5 y- h用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.# \  f+ t; D4 m% H2 y5 i% j( C: }' w
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
: E7 C' b4 d% @/ U$ g4 z有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:
作者: Gretzky    時間: 2005-6-6 02:00 PM

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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- Z- R( u) p6 A, C( ~People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
& J, F* v) x% Z( aa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long9 H& A; P% n( P  D' Y
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.8 h3 H/ V7 ]: E; [5 `  ?
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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/ P+ _) }, t7 A6 z1 G: ^% p* [2 v2 ?Just another thought on lonliness:6 r0 W/ e2 L; X! O! u5 n
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.
作者: Jho808    時間: 2005-6-6 02:20 PM

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....& ?+ F' I/ i$ ?: G$ U/ q0 V: r
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!
作者: 遊戲    時間: 2005-6-6 03:39 PM

真的啦～
$ t. T5 H: h+ I: ^9 Z- K5 d, E我會有一種十分空虛的感覺- U1 E7 O( p0 m
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
8 o6 V" z: \/ q9 O/ W* r或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
# F. T, I# A" q空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
2 H6 U( Y+ _' y5 x& M* J4 e很少會超過一天～$ y; v- A# I1 k/ F5 G! B6 E3 q  r
要期待更好的明天呀！
作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-7 02:06 AM

Originally posted by markmk at 2005-6-6 03:03 AM:
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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想...
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其實我有諗過一個問題, t$ \' w& ^9 e: Q# K$ n: K0 W
如果我唔覺得空虛
5 Y. Z5 V# U$ P3 w: S, A1 _2 f又點顯得出我果晚特別開心
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+ G  a7 E7 j5 m& _+ P" T正如冇醜女點顯得出其他係靚女一樣
作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-7 02:10 AM

Originally posted by rest365days at 2005-6-6 10:49 AM:
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: s* q/ b9 N# L) l8 `1 O這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲...
8 r$ q* x2 i' T- c& l, c/ X可能你有少少misunderstand左my meaning呢
, ~$ r: L- s' U1 J, W: m其實我呢班fd全部都識左十年
, Q* `: @% O$ {$ n/ U每次出黎大家都真係拎個心出黎
. R9 ~! W/ f- X. |4 j3 Q而唔會大家有d咩私心利益衝突
8 j5 f  E; [, j7 c但因為e家大家都要做野ge關係2 c' i* Q% H$ N
so好難約埋時間係咁arm全部人都得閒; @* X% }7 x; q3 \5 _# W8 j
cos我地有人做野係輪班的
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" g. [% k5 X' x2 n  x同埋可能你都講中左d
' z4 U# {8 }0 I4 S就係人生目標....呢樣野真係好深奧5 Q7 n% [* R3 w: G9 i" D2 [+ K% Q
有d人可能讀緊中學就有..有d人可能搵一世都搵唔到
* r* j: j6 m) T# e( v我e家黎緊下兩個禮拜22歲都未搵到呢..
作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-7 02:11 AM

Originally posted by Gretzky at 2005-6-6 02:00 PM:
9 N( n4 a  ]* q3 q! K' Y- @+ \Solitude is part of life....we long...
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that's the reality...
2 K  G: s) t4 Z* L8 v: H! X# t你講出左現實殘酷ge一面..
作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-7 02:12 AM

Originally posted by Jho808 at 2005-6-6 02:20 PM:5 J2 H. x# j0 w6 d
Actually........u feel lonely is it...
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i know..i know my fds won't leave me
5 i+ @5 T- p$ m  b; l: e4 ^  v' |but i juz can't control my feeling
% m$ `, F! r3 m( t/ amaybe that's my characteristic...i'm somehow a bit pessimistic
作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-7 02:16 AM

首先thx all開解先. U6 i6 {. x6 X7 a
but i hv some questions..
$ Y$ S& U1 D* S; u其實會唔會係同我星座有關呢
( x2 h5 ]2 X% z  C8 O6 b因為我係雙子...忽冷忽熱得好緊要
0 @' e- |  ~! t5 g我真係可以o係呢一刻好開心..但一分鐘後可以好down..完全唔出聲
$ z' j0 p6 b" G7 k( ~' M係極度情緒化..但其實果一分鐘係冇發生過任何事..可能只係諗到d野
0 {% v  T! {& ^0 M5 @: ]+ x呢度有冇星座高手?



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