Ninka2005

Sorry if I don't understand the question properly but I used a translator to translate the question from chinese to English....hehe6 T$ W3 d# [$ h, z3 c$ ]& t) Q% f

4 V- ]; I" c! `: ^' jI don't think our 'politeness' and 'sincerity' to elders should only be voluntary.   Life is that we should treat people the way we want to be treated ourselves.: h) |7 r2 f0 b5 r# X) n0 `
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I agree that some elder abuse their 'privleges' but I think for the most part they are very nice and deserve the respect.   We all will grow old soon or later and I'm sure we would want that 'favour' return by our young generation.
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% Y5 {5 a) {$ V% l2 U- d9 s7 VIf I encoutered a situation where an elder is not being polite to me.... I would just brush it off and move on.   No pointing aruging with someone that will probably not changed., t% @2 q2 e; M& ]4 w: T

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