熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
% K* ^, D5 ]' `; ~/ Z, d! n! T好唔鍾意呢種感覺0 p2 t( M" Z( y: v6 I5 Y
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心9 e7 V. h" R( f" Q6 O
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣$ R7 r# H7 ~; ]3 `
覺得好空虛
+ s& W' Z3 S3 e5 O0 g, L  V其實早幾次都有試過係咁
5 I' o+ A$ U- K8 c4 T; I卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
0 U) D/ i! j$ j8 Y: f但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺9 ]. c3 q- q8 }
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,8 A3 w; |. u; |
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
: x# H% z) \4 s( \$ y1 |日日有車站,0 b0 _% n2 u* [0 l' S5 n1 v
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
6 l( ^" F/ z4 k你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
7 w4 _, m4 v" B: m7 v如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

% G. ^* U( X& Y0 y我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.% {5 Q# K4 R4 Q6 ?0 ]* c
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..$ Q' s) R% M) C5 l
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.( ?0 X& Z  `2 A& G) g
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
* F( `1 T1 [1 J其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,7 K, s" M" [0 I( G
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,% d' t" s: @1 W) Q- g) B; G, E0 {
日日有車站,
9 I( I/ l# G0 w有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:( x" Q- ?( K9 k3 d
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
' j' K% d7 U2 M  {/ U好唔鍾意呢種感覺
2 f8 n: W0 i  r9 K3 f琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
0 p1 d" x7 d6 ?9 V" p5 j個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣2 d  B# d! R' q! p3 e
覺得好空虛- t* Z$ Z5 Z* e3 r/ @" n7 e
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
8 ^& ~* ]7 {) k. k, ]- d: Z, a卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己7 @5 I# h6 G; u( W. f
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
6 I' |8 U7 u+ K; I3 S6 g唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
1 i" v  ^4 x+ n$ l有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
* @2 }: m4 [' _0 M$ ca) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long: a2 }) u( V, P- g8 h" ~0 O
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.& F4 e3 H1 ?: J# E
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.3 t) h* a' l- i6 B) _
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Just another thought on lonliness:: g, K/ N- |5 F# K0 d" {( D
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....& q5 j( q9 u1 B! l( h# ~
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～5 d% }3 }. \( ?. k
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺: u2 S; y; C$ K- \
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影. J$ _' q6 E1 g! j+ }
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
. k4 P; x  m3 m' W空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉5 J# s" S, a) Q- a+ F0 K/ X
很少會超過一天～4 S* y, f, d' g
要期待更好的明天呀！