熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?2 |' f# C5 B9 K
好唔鍾意呢種感覺/ y5 W2 X: g- i( k  L7 d
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心& x  W4 P! E! }
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
% v0 J4 N- |' A9 H0 [覺得好空虛
$ w9 P$ I/ X, y3 z! X) Y其實早幾次都有試過係咁
& D8 I5 ]# |% X. i卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己& w" F* _7 ~8 b  f2 Q5 f5 N
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?' u  l  N7 x0 r4 m  K$ f& a

! a9 D. U( h' Q1 p[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既," Y; B( `6 x9 G9 O* X9 x4 i
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺5 _3 }, h( Q3 M. s5 @) `8 _0 x8 `
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
+ e- @7 N4 L% j* e" E! M, S' D8 C8 P所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
" [% e6 v2 O+ `/ a' C  @日日有車站,
) v8 W/ C& T+ e" d/ A+ D0 c/ H有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
7 W/ _; r( d7 G" _  V你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:9 u0 a) ~* \6 T- A0 j2 m
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

7 r- K  r/ q% g/ U5 m2 U我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.- L' b9 W+ }2 d* A, ?  V
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
) Y( h& S$ T, G8 H) K. I* c3 F" b# p玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.; ?( T5 F& U+ q  @5 z
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
2 e5 q, I1 t2 t: W其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
3 |8 ~4 G& @- n# ]* a! F所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
6 y& H0 ?8 h' T6 \! s日日有車站,& R4 y6 I8 k$ T7 D' F' f* s
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:0 s# A  l1 D) V4 L( @2 N) [
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?% D4 H0 D( z" T  N: T, z8 ?7 _( ?
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
2 e% n8 {% ^- j, P* O. z: P3 }琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
) s/ r! _4 o. @: B! ~# M' h個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
5 K* f1 \! @" y0 C3 s: a; O覺得好空虛8 P( F  L& ]+ \: c8 _( m
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
! _5 u9 M% x% ?2 C& x' @( e卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己. E# d$ G+ T$ f" ^( Y$ K0 f
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
% l7 ^; s  k1 r/ Z; l1 k% X! }

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.* d) O% P: s, Y. Z7 P
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.- t& j7 G7 I( h9 R& I
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:* i) k% ]4 A. h* D; u' {! _6 x
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long. Q. c" o6 {2 F- C& p" n
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
% A; s7 |# ^% o' p5 k. y- Ec) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess./ b+ ?  ?8 ]. j  N

7 ?( p) e$ [% jJust another thought on lonliness:0 i* i7 C" \2 l* `
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
3 H: X7 [# w! u1 c0 HBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～9 R$ J+ k: ~( c0 r. B, X( t. K
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺7 V% B9 S( n/ @* d/ B1 {
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影# H* m7 \' f. s/ f
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
# v0 k+ I/ ]: X7 u$ k$ r空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
- E) b+ X8 G" E% K/ c很少會超過一天～$ ]- j6 S# N5 v- d' ^3 E- T' W
要期待更好的明天呀！