熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?+ y( k8 z5 J0 e; P; c
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
9 p  L: c* K. ~) k& R8 e# F琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
8 r! ]! M6 B$ [. j9 M' y個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣0 @+ C" r8 s# k% L
覺得好空虛
, p/ C' e# B2 E: D" N# B6 m0 D其實早幾次都有試過係咁& w' U1 d5 K% P8 x9 o3 s
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
. B! C9 j* s& z' U0 v, w9 s用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
( _2 t$ }3 B* D8 ~) C4 ^. p但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
, I, l# C! \' O  l  b5 V. t熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
* H# v* ?8 R5 w/ @9 ~5 h所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,9 U8 ^9 O) p! Y
日日有車站,3 J* z% ~  }! o2 ?+ s4 i. s5 X$ T+ l
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
! o* U1 z# V9 I4 q; K你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
8 m2 R# @. V. w* M如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

8 H6 U; f" h5 u2 T6 S我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.- t# G, M4 z2 \1 S
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..+ k7 C( _% A4 b6 h) y
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
7 H* P. P1 m5 f7 p8 V5 \- `總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:1 X3 o) y5 s) S0 c
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
/ N* W9 K8 L% G% O0 W- D所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
) N- |0 T, Y% B$ |/ _日日有車站,9 N( O# S0 u' i
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:1 W& {# ]( u4 r
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
7 ?- g3 B  c7 E. p/ w* I' Y0 i" @/ W好唔鍾意呢種感覺
2 p* g/ O1 L( `) p6 m/ O+ }* f琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心* w8 i( c+ {& j1 W6 `
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
" @2 Z0 k% Q% q- j$ q覺得好空虛
3 |! N/ r; \- M  ?5 y! c其實早幾次都有試過係咁
6 l" F" ]9 G1 a5 F( S卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
! X9 {3 E: T, b4 R用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?: Y8 K3 t! c9 @

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/ R# x6 g( Z* l/ i/ M) R. M這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.$ y7 g6 _6 o0 d2 b6 W( d
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.& }4 B8 L' v( g: i! N6 s9 Q, R
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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5 b2 V5 u7 s+ `0 o% l, m9 \People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:5 b+ e& k+ Y$ y: i/ ~: \
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
1 y" Y+ m6 ^  ~b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.0 ], R+ k5 S) i1 I5 b. t
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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7 d6 e; N$ e+ G" f& ]Just another thought on lonliness:
, ]" b) j1 m- y! J: F1 VLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
! J% h0 L8 [+ |* GBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～, P% w0 i9 p' ?. F/ `( I
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺6 J4 @# l0 x& |0 j( s  x
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影6 @" }( @8 M- K- g6 g; X2 a
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～5 E& V- [6 Q( I! c( c% E. c
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉  d  r, K0 r1 S! O- c
很少會超過一天～" |% U7 x8 L8 L8 @
要期待更好的明天呀！