熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
  K7 b/ s# D- V好唔鍾意呢種感覺
' X( f1 }9 Y( s. h$ Y5 o琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
$ p+ K' L/ ]# a個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
5 e4 [5 l4 V! D& t  u覺得好空虛
7 c+ @' ~3 N! _7 {, X3 I% L其實早幾次都有試過係咁% q4 f# F: L. X8 B' N) Z
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己- I9 m2 y+ d! A! ^0 H) c+ c
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?4 E# P2 _1 ?( k" Q& k. r$ b2 r+ e  j

4 f" h. F' `9 P* a! w[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,% e1 t6 D* x% L+ A
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺! a$ R- m% I) y' U9 [. h+ S: B
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,7 I. n* \- J% ]. k, \; j9 W
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,- f1 L6 t% X! G. O* ~
日日有車站,: z2 l4 I1 K) W$ |% |4 ~
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
0 R3 a5 W3 i$ W* M+ g1 `" s你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:  e" k  d" ~$ s6 w0 m" W4 I: K& `4 @
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

% d9 J6 j6 t8 ~8 i" G/ ~我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.2 V  y5 {/ G, ]4 Q0 ]5 g! y3 G
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
$ _4 x( s; b2 p$ f3 n玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
* B( S( h2 g- `+ ~8 Z. }* c總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
4 p" ]- A2 ?9 a4 @- J' f& d其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
( D: s: ^8 B  n5 [! V/ J所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
$ g, \% P3 d8 L日日有車站,1 ?2 e  W# M( s
有目標!

% S! i9 F1 \' C0 `  G" e- fwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:; L) m- p, Z1 L$ c* n1 t8 d
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?, _/ B# x- \2 ^0 L2 \8 ~& A) H6 n, ]
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
/ _$ ]; ~) {: _! ]琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心" @8 K2 Y0 B8 \
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
  E, s  R$ E5 O! p/ W* r覺得好空虛, v7 j' b  d$ f+ a; E1 G- X
其實早幾次都有試過係咁' T0 ~8 H9 c  P& r, L) n( J
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己5 J# }, K# w! u8 r5 a8 D
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?) ^' B* W$ l: K0 F4 n8 M

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
, y  |9 E3 ~3 ]2 l唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
7 N" ^) N8 R8 f2 f# H有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
  |' p5 d4 ?6 S8 d+ {9 U4 S  _( Da) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
3 a& O& T# l0 d# e; Z( U8 ab) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
: K2 t! \; y5 Sc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.- `( {+ q5 r5 `0 ~8 A- Y

1 c, {1 @  ?* s8 r8 l- m: FJust another thought on lonliness:
+ `$ I# g/ A; q& `Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
6 r) q4 |3 Z+ Z6 j) b0 t- qBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
# d8 ^! V: E8 [6 Y8 l我會有一種十分空虛的感覺' t% \: |1 l4 L# X0 w
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
5 Q/ p3 A3 j* t2 d4 n  P或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
8 z: d5 F" m; z* S$ G空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
, a6 y+ g* [7 S) n6 x3 t4 r3 {很少會超過一天～8 {, q- P) ^4 Q4 l( V! P0 L1 j
要期待更好的明天呀！