熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?* @6 ]! \; O3 R% Q6 y. Z+ A
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
7 ~# f6 y8 n  ^2 G! R1 u) c琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
6 I2 Q& V, \, W0 y8 T5 L個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣8 b' `8 i5 H! n1 P( t% P
覺得好空虛
! Z4 w* x/ A! ~6 X其實早幾次都有試過係咁& V0 @, w/ i5 K/ X1 @0 x
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
+ r& A. y, c; T, c8 K- o用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?# W7 w' l, @* C2 g* z7 Q( r

0 A1 o' Z* M  S1 S' p[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
* j5 k$ N0 }; m8 e8 m" M0 o但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
/ i! e/ Q8 v) A; ~9 W" }熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
9 `7 {" w" T- \1 d; i1 y所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,; ^" `  O! X: P4 v! C! x, S: Z6 z" c
日日有車站,
5 K) T6 i8 s: R( ?# r6 u有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙6 {6 H/ `3 `: X& S
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
% k  H& L: U; f) N如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.: y; L" _% W# f: z  _
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
5 w& g' T* F" [; p5 U) z, x" k玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.! N- _% O5 D1 }
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
' g1 B( T6 T  J* O$ d' L  X其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
0 V% x1 `" f! w$ `所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
: t/ A* x  A; K2 ]% u2 y1 k& G  {日日有車站,
- K1 J% V1 A: L0 m4 D有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
% p/ r% H; C- O如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
* W4 j; n# L/ e; M$ c, Z9 d好唔鍾意呢種感覺  `0 f9 d6 [8 a& C- M" b  h
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心/ c  X; \8 l: U6 Y
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣8 a( z( C# t2 L3 M" Z5 {
覺得好空虛: O3 ^0 O1 E/ x) z
其實早幾次都有試過係咁. x" ?8 D% C; p. y
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己) u' S  ]- X: [* R; ^5 D7 z* X
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
3 V3 b* ?8 K# V1 r' O* g# e1 A# M唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.& Z5 E% {8 ]# i6 w+ O
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
* ^1 X( j4 \& l) r4 W# ?1 _/ O8 A1 Ya) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long% [4 R6 Y) Z* V% I  s$ P) @
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
5 ?/ P% [& N8 v  |c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.: U+ |  w6 A0 H8 ?9 j0 [

, F/ H- q& `% _; U2 @" l2 gJust another thought on lonliness:& t( j( k# J7 t$ J
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....5 y; R7 b; {& L- d; h
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～: E% k: r8 C% D2 ?9 J: {5 [
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
5 B, y) k5 _+ c9 Q. B就好似睇完一套好睇的電影( n- R0 O! m+ w/ [# D) o, ?6 X
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～) j2 {! B. g2 v
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
$ Y' k0 V# q5 h' g* l, j! |5 c9 c很少會超過一天～
$ ]1 \/ U+ L. J1 A( m# C要期待更好的明天呀！