熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
) x1 C: @# v+ o* F+ ~好唔鍾意呢種感覺! f; T! y1 p" r% D* W
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
! j" ^9 X* y8 L  J/ z個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
" H! D' Y+ L3 `覺得好空虛3 L! X, L. n* t* I6 O. {1 a+ ^: o7 u
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
$ J6 i' h: \$ d% d8 z卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己4 B$ S) A9 Y( E3 Y- U% t2 p% a) e/ `
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?" A# Z  A. F- o/ w* e3 d2 h# i

  @# K. N& I6 s( }& g[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,! H# K$ e' k& G6 F
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
! {: V; J) E, `" Y# E2 @7 Y: z4 n熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,/ R) ]* _) }& ]
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
( y: x4 ]& J# a3 o0 Y. ]( p日日有車站," Y6 o0 y& b6 F! H9 D
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙8 p; u: _. K+ u# Z3 t  g: E
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
2 ~" Q( D1 I: |4 X5 s如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
; A2 s' c$ N! ~0 {感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..6 G- G: y- V5 Y7 [. H  Y
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.0 c, j" I- d6 L" a9 i$ }
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
. h. q7 P: Q) Z. u8 ~$ \7 y, r其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,+ ]9 B$ b5 j4 o; `) s  f/ |( a
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
- K- F+ ~: o1 t6 I/ o8 Z* x* W: N日日有車站,+ L8 \; e8 m$ c% H
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
! t. w" [5 m" V) \$ Q' ^如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
# i+ R! B. t) _+ q2 {6 w  {: J好唔鍾意呢種感覺! [% t6 D/ ~- n& [/ H2 d
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心2 ?; V. U0 p% x  J; V8 x
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
" f5 m/ V8 h5 C$ O覺得好空虛$ _# f- Q7 ~6 x: S1 ~( H7 ^; _2 Y
其實早幾次都有試過係咁- ^' e5 Y- }$ f2 D; d. B& _
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己+ {4 W" m1 v9 t% ]! R( V! K
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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, E4 \8 y: V& d; R, O$ _; [0 p3 B* I這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.# J: n; G& `4 P8 I3 s9 z" `9 \
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.8 `5 o: H/ j. t% v  O
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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3 V* P) F# d/ S* g( ]) o! n$ jPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:. y! ?7 @* ^) v; J; O
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long6 b& I& h$ C, s
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
3 y  n0 ^6 O6 L1 S3 @; I$ oc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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+ ~% V0 d, j1 R5 Z2 W# f) yJust another thought on lonliness:* {6 I2 n! R, _. W8 Y4 x1 |
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....( T: r+ s- v1 L% v8 j
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～7 o5 z; e& `8 x, ?8 M0 T8 h# M
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
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或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
* ~8 D2 D" m$ o& Z) L空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
( ?# y( B) G2 e2 M" D很少會超過一天～$ a2 A( z8 u  i
要期待更好的明天呀！