熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
( e7 R( }3 f) t9 c6 [好唔鍾意呢種感覺
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! i. D; ~4 O* V! N; O7 `個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣5 R" Z6 P; }8 k
覺得好空虛
, d+ c3 ~5 }+ v$ Y( r. g" ?: o其實早幾次都有試過係咁
9 c" G9 a! w/ b卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己# o5 E/ v; k: F
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既," O( b0 U- Z; _- K; }. o8 C
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺2 t  u' @1 _9 m
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,8 f5 t& o0 Y' t4 y* W4 b# [" `) C
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,, ]% i( R6 C# z3 t3 N
日日有車站,
6 W; Y+ f* q3 }- Z0 e有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
2 @* F% B( U, Z你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
% f+ g! M( w' B# y$ a. h, X& ~如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

" b, M9 q/ C) p' {- S1 i& O我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.7 u) P& y) U* d1 l/ ]8 g8 i! ]8 W
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..; }7 b' J4 H# C* m! Y. q& D, e- h
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.& _% D1 k+ _5 t
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:7 J. v# D6 O9 l" _
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,+ j& ?: k; G$ N. ^6 {9 \4 j
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,' Q2 Z; n' A, k0 V2 ?: K
日日有車站,& V& O! m4 l5 x* ]0 R% J
有目標!

- _% d# q6 t- hwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:  G, p+ W5 n0 S5 ~9 \1 N, {/ R5 i
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
4 d' L' N  a9 F) Z) j好唔鍾意呢種感覺" p$ ]% x% b7 J, `8 V9 o. C/ s
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心  c" g6 i1 a4 G3 v/ L: a9 Y6 b, X
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
3 B# x, X! l2 V1 S3 F: w7 W$ z覺得好空虛  R2 a. G8 D3 z% \& k4 Y
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
  g& m& M# q3 ^" j- P卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
5 \' e' z- r0 ?; }7 f5 X$ @用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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- r1 [" n( k/ M, }0 j這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
7 n4 V  H( c; G, Y' M8 A/ o, b# h唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.* n- M# C. Y1 x
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
& `+ ^5 D. _# |9 va) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
4 |9 n5 Y8 E$ s3 Ib) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.' f* T9 t: u  r
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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# A2 X% {$ u1 Z2 SJust another thought on lonliness:( R: y& M4 b8 _. w# A
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....) r* F$ h% t  q8 l$ Y
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
! ^2 d3 N  n1 q4 W; e我會有一種十分空虛的感覺% X; W1 B! S# }7 C
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影- A" }! |3 \& ^4 u0 I( x
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～5 Q# t3 \0 l+ p% O( j. ^
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉7 E) J: c2 J% C7 J7 B+ e
很少會超過一天～; ~3 L! X) }& s- j9 n
要期待更好的明天呀！