熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?5 _; I# m0 U( U( I
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
/ v5 e% D$ e5 y  E6 E) n琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
0 o$ s* b( T& x* [3 g) a- i+ N個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
* W- N+ t, g! F6 l$ P. a覺得好空虛
" ]/ e; Q' {+ |) ~, b其實早幾次都有試過係咁
4 W& O9 o! d) \: }, c$ i卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己. c8 |0 S7 d) a
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
) m+ o7 Y; s& j- V/ }. t' u$ T但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
7 c: t+ [* h" B, H% B6 u' Z, z熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
0 N' |. E9 |4 k1 ^' D所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,2 k, S" @  h2 e& m( w
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙. m0 h5 I9 J" i- u
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
+ A8 X8 }- [. C* ]如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
; e8 |1 j9 `4 M9 a# F. F: o感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..% n+ ?$ a- K- D4 |7 J! r
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
2 i9 ~, @% Q6 |總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:  C) d/ |  g+ r& }. z
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
$ v1 K+ m, Z! a7 _  Y所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,: W! T; z- l3 c
日日有車站,
! e( Q4 ?8 O, r9 Y: d. ]有目標!

9 F) k7 P+ c# c4 y) W5 swhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
# G8 u* J) S, l' Q  {5 D% S如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?/ {* ^! o9 i, }! ~+ F+ }1 S
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
& o6 j: n2 h% O. b5 {琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心; X5 W$ H, ^3 P: c9 j( f% Q3 D
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣9 Q* t) A( X+ h/ D" W
覺得好空虛
% d( ]4 n% k/ m0 i) H) P其實早幾次都有試過係咁
% Y) x. ]. o4 T卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
6 R+ _9 ^& j) C$ T  g3 R7 `) v用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.1 {) I& S. b0 p  H3 e/ `
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.. o+ h# b8 N0 h6 |: @
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.: _0 {1 g5 B9 {5 J
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
! }' y% ^0 ?6 D2 s7 ia) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
( r  i# N7 E, {6 X/ ?& sb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
  x' }$ o  m, T, ^2 g9 @c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.  n3 u2 L+ R3 J, j& q

7 K( ]% l1 {/ \Just another thought on lonliness:" w, ?, k7 L  t! [. z8 ~
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....& C0 p0 o, P2 H% l' w
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
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就好似睇完一套好睇的電影# n0 l7 I; o# w* L6 }& d
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
% f/ p3 w% c, y( |空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉/ H  H* N/ Q: [1 {
很少會超過一天～  Y" v. t7 Y$ ]& {
要期待更好的明天呀！