熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?8 V/ @5 v7 ~& J% Q+ u) U; N2 z/ M0 F6 b
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
) M- b5 b7 P! Y7 J- g琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
6 X( E3 I: y% c  z3 c+ B' D" [個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
1 u0 i0 A& i& a# t覺得好空虛
" T- }8 q7 V& h+ d/ O( i其實早幾次都有試過係咁
2 V  F0 k" _2 r1 \: \7 l卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己! v$ A  O) P( N$ Q8 E1 w9 J) S9 z% L# o  m
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
+ M$ O' d" T6 ^0 N* p, Y但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
. `& u8 a8 U! k! [& E/ E4 V! T熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,  y: Q+ T- G) O- d' V
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,9 B$ ~8 |5 N& n/ l" v, |) V' z# g
日日有車站,
5 K8 ?# w; Q2 m! z1 U6 B( b5 A: F有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
+ ]+ F. @! a! g你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:1 z! {! n! N# V3 x' M
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

: }' j# {1 f5 f( h我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶." p4 \6 ~) D) R. b, h) u
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
$ m6 ~5 [% l5 Y. s- i8 z玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.0 ]7 u: a. R2 {7 Q6 F- w0 O) n
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
: {) A1 q& {; t% ]' S: ?, p1 s) t其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
2 ~8 ]( t# l& _+ [. j6 s7 Y& b所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,# u1 J2 ?& |$ c; w7 d- c1 c- ]6 z9 ^
日日有車站," g, Q4 y7 u0 P
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
! g/ o; ?# E( x( d如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
' W6 p$ V+ _0 d! X+ ^+ k好唔鍾意呢種感覺
' e& t, V: f7 c( \# r$ P琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
$ A* q: \' b' F7 @7 Y個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣! g' b6 W" }3 t& z& e& j; e5 a
覺得好空虛
" W$ j. ~+ W* ^  ~5 z: L: K5 C7 \5 \1 r其實早幾次都有試過係咁8 x2 t+ @8 y% ]$ T5 C  y4 h
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己% l; T0 [+ t5 P+ p" Y- X- z
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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, {" {9 A* }* U( q& v這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.% [* S1 F: ^% t8 O5 A4 c; Z4 [
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.. c' k" k* O, t& S% \: c) k
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
" v9 ]6 |9 Y2 Ga) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long& r+ L3 a# T9 `: i- D7 D. a& Y
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.5 Q* z4 F/ h' q, a& s
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.( n* W$ E: B4 }  l( ?

( C, T: L& w+ k. E4 k2 MJust another thought on lonliness:
5 Q" P! w; E" p9 m6 h, S5 p0 ULonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
0 R. J+ Z( Z0 t) W6 L1 o4 fBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～9 _* U+ Z' i" W9 O& m4 W" ~
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
* V% F) A0 ~  X% F& B就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
' [# |+ ]( x9 Q% K9 f& k或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
+ x" Z0 z  r" M7 J空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
5 [3 h* z  u: ~6 X很少會超過一天～: T6 T2 K' T# L& ]1 |: D
要期待更好的明天呀！