熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
- X- T5 [5 k1 b% n8 \7 r$ v4 M- m好唔鍾意呢種感覺
- V. M' c4 x9 ^8 z" F9 k琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心) t- r' K: L7 p! o% P
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣5 N& T6 n3 q4 i9 M6 E: v* ^) U
覺得好空虛
+ m9 Z! x- h' m0 ]& l其實早幾次都有試過係咁
; t( k5 i# I% P3 V' G* j, p卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己1 U- r; z. {& {
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?! a: ]3 R, z: o( D" R- ?5 p
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,2 A; T2 [% Z/ D0 B
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
2 [3 Y- l+ Z1 [+ F3 \( Y熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,4 S0 N8 X5 W/ T; x" \3 {+ ]4 l7 ^
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
9 e- A2 b) S4 V; I日日有車站,
9 j1 U: ~5 {; A: `有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
  j3 U/ s& _( Z4 C) F: M你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
: n/ E, e, h. }' N, [如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

- w/ h  g7 J0 u; M2 c) u% t+ g我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.# Y+ q: h9 L' |( b; E
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
7 F2 T3 i- [4 c+ U- ]- U! m玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心., m0 N; J+ @. Y- n3 s7 ~3 X$ `: E
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
+ X  A$ J& \/ l" \4 ^* h其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
% Z4 I) n2 k5 @& F; f+ D' M/ g所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
0 k! U& k+ b3 E- l) T日日有車站,
* O8 d  r* Y+ I1 b5 z' |有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
& ?5 V6 F% G. n, |) W, c如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?/ F, o1 @8 g+ A6 S+ R( L
好唔鍾意呢種感覺) C9 t3 ~: U2 H/ y  {/ {5 k
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心, I* n; _* f1 t  J
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣4 w4 H$ ?, T% C0 X
覺得好空虛# m6 _  L) e3 }1 ]
其實早幾次都有試過係咁$ |. b- T4 ^: J: g( h/ I& f
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
# `% }4 q! q9 U+ Q用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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( W+ d; s% g. g# L0 g0 W4 a這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.' @6 T) X" A& e8 }- x/ g. w$ a2 g# ?
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.6 |% x/ |" M) }% L: a
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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  ~! Q8 x+ }5 W8 r# U* \People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
" L; e" V# I8 X' la) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long2 \0 A$ A$ o$ |3 r0 g6 [
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.  F6 `. [  }8 N3 J5 T7 ]
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.8 I8 s0 `- p7 P9 {: U5 `8 ]

1 I3 Q3 ^2 ?' l8 a! D. ?  p8 vJust another thought on lonliness:
% V, N5 U& r3 b8 \% A& ELonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
" ~* G0 N9 O" b2 JBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～/ w  J) [3 ^5 l1 O! r, f% D
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺8 h0 Z6 T. j. g$ {& v7 P/ f- ?% j' W
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影" N. f. X# s4 r, t6 [7 H+ _
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
# ~7 B* [& X; n4 c; Q空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
5 `* q$ ]% F0 k/ e& G很少會超過一天～
3 k, ~7 A* X. l2 R# A* z要期待更好的明天呀！