有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...

Charcoal_henry

有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...3 z; T: @! Q/ p. o9 q- V9 H6 s
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感情太豐富一受打撃果陣真係會好辛苦...
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any suggestions?

迪達拉姑

哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔理智..樓主分享多d你實例同個人心境黎睇下我地似唔似..
- f5 A, C+ C0 Z5 V# M1 Z我諗個性自細培養..我諗..對感情唔重視..就可能係想獨來獨往..最好好似流川楓咁..
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john01daly

Anyone can help, I also want to know.

Charcoal_henry

Originally posted by 迪達拉姑 at 2008-2-17 03:06 AM:/ _, I# G' r# v; [* G" n6 R
哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔...

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good to hear that someone has got the same feeling with me) _$ }: t9 d) ^/ F8 t* o
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唔係好想講experience...
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% \3 Y# k( K7 y) M不過我自問都係一個性情中人, 好唔捨得一D曾經擁有既野 eg. school life, relationship with gf, close friends etc....
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我唔係想做獨行俠, 9 C* R/ e, C/ C" R9 C# ^
只係想知道點樣先可以令自己對人與人之間既感情(no matter love or friendship)睇得開D...

escalation

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2 u' s1 m: N( |3 Q我自己曾經都好似你呢類人, 十分熱情和感性, 而且鍾意用"性情中人"自居, 其實呢種態度只係唔成熟既表現. 當然, 人地唔會咁好心點醒你, 就算點你都未必醒.) }1 A+ x- _* H' j1 P2 S
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解決方法: 好簡單, 多經歷一些挫折, 你慢慢會開始"化", 心態亦漸漸穩重起來. 呢個過程好奇妙的, 好難形容, 總之, 你經歷多左, 好多野會在你意料之中, 就唔會再比D小事情小變化影響你情緒.

自由神

Originally posted by escalation at 2008-2-17 08:35 PM:
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係呀！
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