有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...

Charcoal_henry

有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...6 H" q! r$ q( V1 J# _

, |2 r! }4 T7 G! S$ e% b) J感情太豐富一受打撃果陣真係會好辛苦...
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any suggestions?

迪達拉姑

哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔理智..樓主分享多d你實例同個人心境黎睇下我地似唔似..
. [; h7 u+ ?, e  Z' i6 a我諗個性自細培養..我諗..對感情唔重視..就可能係想獨來獨往..最好好似流川楓咁..
$ s7 B% [. I5 j8 z+ ?咁樣學下功夫,多做事小說話小胡思亂想..嚴重d睇心理醫生./吹眠..純粹個人意見..

john01daly

Anyone can help, I also want to know.

Charcoal_henry

Originally posted by 迪達拉姑 at 2008-2-17 03:06 AM:0 E1 I; M: Z& I
哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔...

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good to hear that someone has got the same feeling with me
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0 @, \2 k$ |5 {" A唔係好想講experience...
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. D+ @$ F$ j: ~! W不過我自問都係一個性情中人, 好唔捨得一D曾經擁有既野 eg. school life, relationship with gf, close friends etc....9 r$ y+ w& ~4 r' w' ]2 n; _" V
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我唔係想做獨行俠,
  {6 u' {3 z+ }& n6 W只係想知道點樣先可以令自己對人與人之間既感情(no matter love or friendship)睇得開D...

escalation

個人分享:
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我自己曾經都好似你呢類人, 十分熱情和感性, 而且鍾意用"性情中人"自居, 其實呢種態度只係唔成熟既表現. 當然, 人地唔會咁好心點醒你, 就算點你都未必醒.; i; N8 K8 t1 m9 ]4 }7 A: w
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解決方法: 好簡單, 多經歷一些挫折, 你慢慢會開始"化", 心態亦漸漸穩重起來. 呢個過程好奇妙的, 好難形容, 總之, 你經歷多左, 好多野會在你意料之中, 就唔會再比D小事情小變化影響你情緒.

自由神

Originally posted by escalation at 2008-2-17 08:35 PM:2 l: ~5 B5 H2 ^- w' D- g
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係呀！
- ~" ~0 K! T$ j# m9 U' \只要當一切都係遊戲，咁就會“笑看風雲”