熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
* O! N, i1 R3 H4 M4 D0 m+ s2 J好唔鍾意呢種感覺
* t& u- q' s; t: ^1 i3 ^; L# _琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心% q( `% F: |9 f' h  i/ @$ N
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣( h# e  m, X9 W$ U& v1 r+ t2 p3 g5 Z
覺得好空虛
' x8 N1 S4 }& O3 i其實早幾次都有試過係咁- C$ |) N, y! E- H5 P# {
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己$ Y) S2 j3 Z  P
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,0 p, W; d' f- \: q6 [
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺( m6 j% P8 j5 i/ i# m9 j2 @+ E
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,% d6 |! ^" C& u& Q- |7 ]( `
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙# t9 L. ]% A; d: T5 ?% Q; C
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:: Q& C4 M6 U0 E, P
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.: P' m, a8 u2 Z
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
) G# ?( i( a6 |/ Z% P, r% P玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.% B# D' O; R( r/ z
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:) o2 r2 B" \$ H7 f% k& U( _6 \
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,$ R& K- e, @: @9 `' t$ y. p: Y
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
) }/ l: S) `- |5 ^) p! k& F日日有車站,! E- I6 }( w+ d+ ]- U5 J9 U
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:# U3 N) Y( p' W: t& u+ V& f( q& x4 i
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
( d# T  X- s, ?好唔鍾意呢種感覺2 T0 @( B- ^* m- K3 ?
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
0 K7 g5 ~: ]# K4 ~8 X" ~個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
7 I, F; I, F% o# b! ?" k覺得好空虛8 Z! k! C, E9 ?' B% f
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
2 r/ [( _- P. V' ^2 l( ?卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
# Z& X% [& t& W( s; V1 A8 g8 ?4 ~3 ^用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.: T: l" g7 A2 u1 _7 X- R
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.. h$ O: ^% r8 X: m( F& m
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.* R+ @2 k3 m9 k; p- a: q
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:0 ]8 M" l" Z. J; U6 J
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long, H6 J/ i  U$ J
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
2 O1 i9 y+ e9 p* D  i0 o' g  m8 Jc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:3 O% b" ~3 Q0 k! K+ ?% _; U9 _# z
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
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遊戲

真的啦～
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就好似睇完一套好睇的電影- o9 B' e& `2 N% q/ H( s
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～: z& N' ^! Q0 R) Q+ t
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
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要期待更好的明天呀！