熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?7 q' z7 t1 l: N% D& k" R
好唔鍾意呢種感覺  l" P+ {  H. d
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
) M! O) B; j/ d9 [& Z" |個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣# b9 T/ P* w* P5 I' V3 ?- h
覺得好空虛' _' K5 ?$ R) ~2 l
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
8 Y1 m- x: u3 x1 H, J卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己9 n* D* I' p5 a7 I% j/ }$ W9 s3 ^" _8 z
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?4 |; N" j% `. U4 k2 n8 q
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
8 a- d5 G  O3 ~3 R1 @3 n/ u0 d- ~但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
. q* o5 p  w! q. I& t  U熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
3 b6 q+ Y* }. r" c所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
7 R1 k/ _* K* ^, V9 J6 i日日有車站,
1 K+ {4 A% @6 r+ s% H* d有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
' O* \& F. @5 {, ~- t4 F你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:; ]1 t1 q9 I% f1 y4 B3 M
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

' ~: J' r0 ]7 R4 @8 O: a我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
# [, x5 h# R* @- s6 u2 q感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
3 S7 f% E7 C6 c- ^1 o1 x+ c2 U玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
& I5 g  I$ M) [7 }* n總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:2 T) g1 X+ \9 M) x
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
* k- v& D* l9 B所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,' h& p! C% i: \+ l3 n
日日有車站,
& Q& ^2 T/ w; t7 L/ J7 ^1 Z- c有目標!

3 N& |  t' j7 g9 @5 J; t0 Jwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
' C6 P* U- o3 _+ H如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?2 ]4 j# D2 X& i/ ^
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
+ @* H! j, Q$ |9 X; ]6 V琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
7 `' m& k# {1 Q+ C8 W8 V$ ^個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
+ V  d0 w/ W0 f: D  m: \覺得好空虛
( D# U1 A- l/ @) s其實早幾次都有試過係咁4 K. y: x' g& R. o6 g
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己/ d3 J6 I& z$ j" E  k; ?
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
, T# V% D/ `5 v1 L唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
9 W) t% G0 |( k) t' q' w有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.2 s4 \) _6 P. q3 T

3 r. P9 [1 _( [7 f& uPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
, }, A1 |) q5 Ca) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long+ L; F) t+ w* Q2 A+ L/ |4 M
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.9 w! K  q6 u. ?' P) V6 r
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.6 X+ q8 {) @4 W& e+ `

1 ~2 v' ^5 n* A2 T4 s0 uJust another thought on lonliness:9 `, W3 k- \' K/ ^
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....( l/ K7 U) T$ {1 K; F# G
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～. S- _3 w: n  r
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺( e$ g9 o) k) {( {  a
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影# Y8 |" u  N* S1 }# x, L5 `9 h
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
7 s3 t: \9 k' [空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉2 j0 A% p& I+ Y5 Z* e
很少會超過一天～
+ X( b' F% c9 C' C7 B) e要期待更好的明天呀！