熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?: s0 c5 s6 i: k! e: {9 z% Q/ j7 K
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
: f, G& M% i2 K+ L" _琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心2 k% W" H" I& n) [- D% i+ t: E2 \
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
$ X: _" B$ N; ?: [2 ?覺得好空虛- Q+ J7 l" M& R9 s/ [% o" k
其實早幾次都有試過係咁: U- G' C- ?4 g. U0 w6 O0 n
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己7 @( ^* k1 l2 y  C! W
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
1 p' k8 \+ K, L" Q5 m但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺9 D6 [% j1 [/ T+ r' z) c
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
$ u+ c1 p) o9 z! _; f1 P所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,+ M& w+ ^% `0 Y# X- v$ w& \& I
日日有車站,- D: D% x- l; F6 a5 `* m
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
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markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
% M2 h# s6 [9 S1 `9 e% h6 V- @8 ^如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
3 M" X* H! L3 D9 Q/ C( a感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
0 [7 K$ q* s$ i/ V8 y* a! l) F* X玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
2 _9 B: V# F5 ?" b. `總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:7 h; b$ H% J; D* e' L7 S  N
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
9 f8 {# l0 G: w& ~- u& L# R所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,8 }' o# @; @0 M! [. m
日日有車站,# x  K4 u/ _9 J- l% H$ g9 h
有目標!

+ e7 N. Y0 }8 e0 v/ H: uwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
3 o! C6 f8 d4 r3 c& P如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
# H' r' o* x8 Y# L* V, H9 y好唔鍾意呢種感覺
0 x& w  a9 p; f/ f琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
3 F4 ?! P! I8 u4 D: _) p% {8 |, t! V個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣  W' f% v- ~" v, K  F' a5 I* O
覺得好空虛# I) Z+ m# m3 f$ g% n1 ~0 C4 z
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
, Q- _( _& C, _: i& T! ]/ x卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
2 _0 ?+ C( c( a$ x% a4 {用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?; ^# h. |: A4 e

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.$ U% j, r$ W1 `/ T. [2 v" K+ z
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.* |2 D3 G5 k, O2 P. S0 y/ D
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.- _' S1 p" j6 N# k) {) r4 j' D

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0 s# h* q) c6 y; U* V$ K2 Ca) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long+ s( S. E- T6 f$ e3 R" k  |7 Q& s
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.  N, h' J# f* a, r( t
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.1 x) |( X' y' c$ K1 g
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Just another thought on lonliness:
* \  y) {; l' m; |Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
4 E' L1 A+ T( ~* H, O+ w# U. f( \But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～6 r4 J; E. V5 u9 L! @) H/ ?
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺3 ]1 e. w4 O. u. ]
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
6 C6 [0 G. S5 p' U或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
3 H7 E# N- d' }8 j空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
6 V/ a; h. ?" k6 }' B+ k) ^6 Q很少會超過一天～, q1 @0 D& |2 u9 ~% D7 B0 z9 i2 j
要期待更好的明天呀！