熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
# V" J$ y! u9 g$ w. q: B/ x好唔鍾意呢種感覺
5 r- L; G# Q- o+ R9 J5 a琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
3 o1 {+ k. o: f' U, _" N個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣2 ?) a8 T8 d0 R, U" f! A' m
覺得好空虛; ?. o: r2 o$ ?6 S1 j2 O
其實早幾次都有試過係咁& b  L; g. \+ z; n8 G) k3 W0 p# |
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己3 a4 b& t3 Q  c8 Y+ q
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?6 w9 |% [% h) b/ E( P

( p8 A% B% P$ a# n: ~# F% o' n( x[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
$ V1 e2 `' ~- z但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺+ D! y' B% ]2 l! J0 b" h! _' ^
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
# Q8 Y8 I8 Q. U1 E- F3 f所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
" _  X6 }* i0 n日日有車站,$ ~% h) s! d) q7 ^/ I, `# u# J
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
: \1 c. ]+ H- ?3 W你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:) o& \/ @7 |& a
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.  |- p7 ~. B0 n  m5 a( m3 Y4 I
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..6 L. t% ?# w5 S0 o  e. V
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
3 h+ t+ K/ ~: z總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
$ m/ W; j; s: c$ u其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,( h) n1 A: U! ^/ R; e  k% }
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
4 `; z# c( I! D$ i: {) e日日有車站,
( X% B3 [( C7 K, ~, e有目標!

2 ?' \* a+ D8 }2 \# T0 cwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
/ o8 E" y8 g. Q3 w4 W7 J如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?- s, p/ J: W6 C" A7 l
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
  T' q0 ?+ F  p2 x/ `% j! ?+ o琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
. W7 Q' G, d5 O0 f4 v2 |個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
7 c/ }% x! ]& t9 A覺得好空虛
, H4 O* G: V/ J其實早幾次都有試過係咁
9 `& B7 N: @- c0 h. F7 l0 u卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
. Q2 ?, {0 o; v用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?* n" n+ j0 Q/ g

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
* y2 U& Z, P9 ~) n唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.6 P2 y6 N: S  v
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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' W1 b/ r$ b% l- i9 j9 QPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
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b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.) h7 D, h) Q3 q, [& f1 [
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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, T1 U  I0 |0 S" _Just another thought on lonliness:
1 \: ]9 b( R) SLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
3 N; Y2 A: n$ R  Y- ]0 sBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
; u" s+ g! g- R/ S7 _' f我會有一種十分空虛的感覺) P" B7 A4 x' N) V/ W7 |- \
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影/ M) d8 N* i6 b: q* N4 Y
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
; I# Z6 j+ r+ [" i* z空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
3 a1 X: @% v' p8 V9 B; |很少會超過一天～7 B9 b4 q; L9 L, H3 S
要期待更好的明天呀！