熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?, Q* N* O# E- E6 F+ a
好唔鍾意呢種感覺, M1 W* n6 x+ s+ U- v- E
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
" F& Z. e- h" l個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
8 }# v% r6 L9 u! u) v覺得好空虛- i" l( F! S; N
其實早幾次都有試過係咁$ F" U+ B) V7 r" r
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
' }& O8 y4 P: Y' F, T7 g用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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5 Q4 g: Z" E! w[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
9 n, M  G& _5 I但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺+ k- }4 [5 I% V9 W) g
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,  m" f% u  |( \3 z# ^- s! ~0 a
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
7 u$ W6 W9 O( b日日有車站,  s, [7 S& |) r. d3 Q" j# `
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
2 t) C( |. b0 y& M# c3 F% H$ p5 `你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
3 w+ |: L& f. S1 O如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

, _& S* Q7 M0 b3 v0 D9 Y我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶./ C" S1 `6 ^( N% V6 u4 I
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..+ [3 h# ^) o( K! P$ x( K/ r# E4 f
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
( q/ O* i2 v2 O9 ^3 X8 Y總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:: d- u' I+ t3 J  s% Z
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
+ R1 j  q( E9 ^8 W; o. S所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
4 n3 K1 A( ^8 Y日日有車站,
3 c$ z" K  M1 t+ @有目標!

9 a) f" a" T. E& {. a% h. K) Qwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
/ ?) v& f+ l1 u5 u如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
) a' i( k9 [! ]7 M好唔鍾意呢種感覺
/ m- A) P- Z* O- h- q! A) o2 O: ~琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心6 C( O4 }6 \3 b( L( m/ h0 U
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
5 D2 q4 I7 h& Y8 c, D. o( i覺得好空虛
$ Z4 [  F' p/ U7 |) D  @/ [其實早幾次都有試過係咁3 o3 V* T5 H& F8 \, @0 ?7 h, T
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己; j. K) t- S; l8 \; K7 M2 d& C* [
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?9 T  `/ t9 p( f9 D; E* |

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8 g, L5 l) k' K這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
" v! e1 V- |  H+ }" m) F3 ?唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
# b+ L6 G7 Y& L7 L有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.* V+ g# y- G) R$ w6 J. e

$ m& E9 K) B  g6 hPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:! W/ V. i3 @' }
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long! h' ~6 W6 T$ ?1 m' |
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
  J; p( X3 ~3 e) Z0 v5 mc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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4 M8 Z  o: S/ b) s: ?# V* vJust another thought on lonliness:! C1 Z* H  [* M: E+ N
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....8 A8 H+ K0 t3 `2 \% H1 `, X8 c5 S- t# q
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
8 l; }# r+ ]4 f7 R6 o( [# j我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
% ]4 c. J5 u- _. v6 \. I就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
) M- S1 |6 U1 M6 I. x: l或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～. i: K  [" D9 ~% [+ ^
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉2 l. [) J( x% x4 g
很少會超過一天～
/ e* v) i- P+ m要期待更好的明天呀！