熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
# h7 L" u' n" X# z$ x0 t( m- u0 a好唔鍾意呢種感覺
. h9 Q! G3 Y* @" H7 y/ R琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
" H9 c+ u. f, Z0 \2 R個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣( x3 f+ H# D; g2 m) m& E: h) ~
覺得好空虛
! j/ S1 W& p. u: f其實早幾次都有試過係咁
; O4 l4 s- F7 E卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己5 i6 \) F9 I- d- M, Z' ^
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,3 F2 v' f& @5 g& Q5 b
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺; N! H3 s  m+ W% x( m2 ?
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,! W  ~+ U& ]( |5 A
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
+ v3 }5 y( Y: Q# F) w- y, N日日有車站,
8 |4 c  B5 D0 H有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
1 d/ |7 P0 M  n, K7 }) d你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
( K, A) f) l. a/ A* ^5 h( A如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

0 c) l3 ]) q. W& E$ p我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶." X8 `3 G/ L/ r0 `' G1 w4 v
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..' |! Y8 h' [& z6 E8 m% y
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
! G) i- Z4 @6 n. A& _9 y/ c5 Q總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:3 n4 a! R1 C" _; s9 h( M9 |
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,& |: C5 Z* y8 W5 m  }  m+ ~
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
# B3 d  i3 e# y: d  I/ J日日有車站,8 P) t5 P& Z4 c  K
有目標!

8 A* t: V. v8 Swhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:5 B- f5 l% u1 F, ^) B; G2 r5 V: T
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?1 _% G. ~9 Y9 ]) ]
好唔鍾意呢種感覺& i* [; B& U$ D
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心$ j7 [( p4 x& E/ Q7 n0 E
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣0 e8 x$ H$ h: T7 V1 y
覺得好空虛0 l, b* Z2 e% v- T  D# x  U4 N
其實早幾次都有試過係咁0 K. T4 m6 v# c' U, Q5 _- B
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
( V7 q  W- b: O/ \% m5 e  F用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.# i. n+ `6 v# q& P+ F
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.. U0 O. q7 c4 u) X, L& g' n
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
8 c  u& ?0 q" ]% U" @  O0 O. \a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long* [- B' h! x2 H) R5 `9 o
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
. {1 z) `$ s/ @8 z  sc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess." O! ^+ S% j( x4 \

# c- v, x5 X' q# [3 wJust another thought on lonliness:
4 o: C1 A' N+ t& aLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
: U# S& k( b3 _8 A0 S- QBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
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就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
. o" L. E8 D- S* `或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
. h5 q, H  a4 |$ m+ z# e; |空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
( ^1 k  f/ b0 G% U5 z9 Y很少會超過一天～5 |# o0 B2 M& a6 T% r+ M& v( @
要期待更好的明天呀！