熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
* K, R/ C5 n( d: g. h' U( @- c+ d1 [好唔鍾意呢種感覺
& r8 l% B/ ^# e8 C1 I! Q/ y琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心5 t2 J# B; K0 m& X% B: z+ U7 J. \
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣% z& s/ N/ p) z0 ]! ~
覺得好空虛
6 E- r5 e+ F* N* c  C8 L2 N8 k( }- ?其實早幾次都有試過係咁
7 R8 ?5 A/ ^1 \! C, p8 E卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
% [( d% w; v0 Q1 K( T* L6 L用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?& I4 w  X& S5 B* x  T; N& B

- W0 N: l. b* c$ o3 f; F[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
6 K7 \1 A: z2 ~7 F. m但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺/ }: T9 i$ h! p. O& C/ d, G
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,6 X4 I- h' ^! x3 H; q
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,& s# P5 j+ u1 o' K+ [
日日有車站,) [  ^8 C! H) k. k: L$ N
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
% z4 ?# \0 M. d. f' ^你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:) X7 J" l; i, m) q" f$ ~; u& W
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

( ]* C8 ?3 @  t我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
& n) a8 \. v& P  G' C感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
1 z  n3 n1 B1 s0 \$ @2 K0 ?" w( i* W玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.7 C+ Y7 D" r9 d, k3 g6 M
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:" m. ?' s% y5 G! x. C
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,& o* W# f) W; f% y% g+ ?! X
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
' y, }. e, q( v- _7 n4 |  H' l日日有車站,
5 h! S7 c5 C# z1 H% A! K有目標!

5 A( x& ?5 p) rwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:6 Q, F1 |$ d3 P. V% W! d4 W+ @
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?; j1 H# v# [) U- R* ]& d  Q
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
  z: c0 I+ b+ b0 Y+ ]+ p: A琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
3 a- R4 i: ^2 g7 ~/ |1 k$ i個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣% B5 R9 c. A3 ?' h9 }
覺得好空虛
; i% y6 P* y6 I) E$ L+ {* g$ t其實早幾次都有試過係咁
' b" r- J/ b" a8 @6 I6 d. c( y卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
. s, S6 R, p: T5 {+ f# @用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?' K. a# s. U; f1 C; B' {

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: L# k. o3 W6 o" f& c這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.% L3 F" n8 v  Y. W1 P) N
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
9 b' `& e9 q, V% d, z有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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9 U1 y8 [4 W( ZPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:/ z) x, @- `* D- p
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long3 U9 ^# y+ ~& l" H8 O
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.# {/ I; e3 ~( p
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:0 q: {( `. |5 C
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
4 ~+ W2 r. A+ E2 L" eBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
$ ]4 i3 C6 T0 ?) i我會有一種十分空虛的感覺6 W. p- ]4 ]" V( F
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
" g" n5 ~+ P6 f' B: a% H或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～% a6 o! K4 H) W' L
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
) z" U& c! A' r+ M, l8 h很少會超過一天～# x5 h4 z5 L0 v1 A' C: i$ V
要期待更好的明天呀！