熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?5 ]1 t% v6 M0 S$ z, \; Y; E
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
! ~" C" n3 H$ X: ~( ]琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心, c% F. M# [2 y1 Y
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣+ M2 K! Q6 t/ K4 w
覺得好空虛+ e% H! I" H! x+ g! x' f
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
0 ]2 U$ i- o% u7 w: u) h卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己$ o+ ]9 G/ y4 i+ {% Z& Y
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?6 w: ]4 k# F+ T/ {5 V
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
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熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,; ]6 T$ F6 D) i: R: N* Z. G" K+ x7 {
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,) @# p! U% j$ X0 E' @5 a
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙; p: r( ^  F9 B8 F
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
2 }1 n+ _& R* K6 P: N! R$ W如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
; Z3 r5 X0 i. v2 w8 m5 g# R+ X' S感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..  E5 C; t& O6 ~3 a
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.) G1 ~/ I& z! Y9 L5 U' N0 O
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:* d1 S+ W- Y$ j+ V+ Z6 V
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
- J: n1 @$ o8 b9 E+ X- M所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
- P! ]2 K$ B* {* Z+ n日日有車站,
2 k6 u  e" \& x+ d1 K有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:4 ^$ d' G! M* A% I  `4 l
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
: n! g8 Z3 n! ^6 c" x好唔鍾意呢種感覺
. r' a5 ^) Y( t' n! X5 j琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
1 j* f4 {$ q' R個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣, ^: W2 m6 n0 a2 _9 Y/ _9 V  A
覺得好空虛" U# o8 Q7 J, b/ K
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
( m0 ]4 g- O3 T7 p/ U  U8 G卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
6 {! n! ^( Z  I4 A1 F& _0 R用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?# Y! p" D& y$ h  K9 Z, O2 E: C

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; H; }7 m4 A, F; ~: P! M* c) B. p這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
! r+ X  O' W9 W* r( u) v2 ~) R* Q唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.$ O3 F4 `4 V. a' K- ?& N
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.; r; G: j% I9 Q1 M

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a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
' t. u. w: y7 X2 M$ }7 |- x5 gb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.! J2 q* w) P( `; i/ I/ I
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:7 b4 T( |( T# O
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
9 L1 @" _! y+ B! YBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～% l$ C5 J' P3 G7 R
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺4 b4 C0 z5 H: r* p! g2 ^
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
& k# v+ e# d% z4 d5 T或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
0 C# }: x9 c/ o! w  H空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉# k3 [5 F9 S  Y7 U' P5 y# t
很少會超過一天～1 g" ^/ s, h, y, `
要期待更好的明天呀！