熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
' l# O  m: P% k; S- m好唔鍾意呢種感覺, u3 B0 X, j. K! K, M9 K- g
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心7 ~! y8 J( S% V' L2 h* _; B
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣% x1 E' D+ ^+ i' o
覺得好空虛$ ~! S7 l: ?# E! m, S
其實早幾次都有試過係咁* x9 I# a. B- Q
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
& Y1 Q; e& E& A% h' P0 H用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?) P8 m" x/ v0 ~
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
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熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
1 B7 ?, F) F1 W. J所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙4 ?# |; g1 j9 t6 w+ I
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:5 o/ o3 Z9 s% ]( C2 J5 y3 D' ~, d
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.$ N) {& s* |3 P% a  g9 _- o& H
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
+ D2 O% A! r, Q. y, z+ `" U玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.2 k& E8 Q! }  n4 q4 ^8 f0 J8 }
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:/ I3 B0 s  b2 K: s
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,. s; o: V! y! P' h
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,: L* K# M: Z4 d: |4 b7 t8 W# b) T
日日有車站,* h: G; G' v1 a" g
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:  q/ Y! x0 P; s) T; c; D
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
/ V7 `+ m' ], \& o& s5 X' l好唔鍾意呢種感覺1 }- a- ~  D; y
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心' Q* M8 j5 d7 j1 b
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
# k' g+ _5 C9 B& h, Z6 ~% y覺得好空虛6 l1 M& o% q; I! T4 T1 z+ S
其實早幾次都有試過係咁' l- _+ [! g5 C( B' [
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
% ?9 n6 J+ P# W( F$ q9 C用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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; k3 g3 G6 U. i這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.# Z6 w7 m1 ~4 J4 U1 d
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
* q6 s6 \6 Q1 s4 j# B* E; G- z有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.# K. W/ x5 C1 U- g
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:- C/ n9 L& L; g9 Z" n9 D- i% Q
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
, U% l# P  V- [b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.  [! |, {4 N) }+ L+ g* x# l2 k
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:3 B3 Y) k( v! P) u" t; H5 z2 w
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....) p3 S1 C& r1 L. [6 y1 l/ f$ N9 X
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～. V1 b) v2 w$ O5 L
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
. J( V* ^. c6 B& ?* Z$ s3 t+ {就好似睇完一套好睇的電影4 n0 e7 T' m7 B5 d# ]( v
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～7 J& C4 e3 H* N
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉% b3 p7 ^* G* u7 X6 k% e: b8 p
很少會超過一天～2 W5 |% M& K. Z- E2 P
要期待更好的明天呀！