熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
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琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心3 A6 W% K7 ^  ~5 F5 S" U/ Z1 v
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣% z% a$ \1 f  `5 [( y1 t7 A% e
覺得好空虛
5 Z" E1 T" E9 Y/ |1 O+ G% b其實早幾次都有試過係咁
) L! ]: }7 ^# `, [( j; j) j  u2 A卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己/ |" N: K0 J% [0 B
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
0 f$ q2 j  X6 \) ^1 Y但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
0 \( g9 u3 [& \# k1 A熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
; m+ H* g6 r* o+ T; |' e所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
9 F  k% K" R- Y% R$ n0 m7 Q日日有車站,
) k- P8 G2 |. }+ Q有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
- r3 {/ T2 a+ ^( b1 B5 `! M- J你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:/ `. A% F* [$ u. f, Y: ]1 R
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.8 I  s6 E- O# h  W
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
5 h7 E/ ~5 X) t" y) ?3 U) L  A% L玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
: Q4 ?  {9 Q" y; |" l) x總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
) b3 ?& P; A$ [/ T/ O其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
) D6 x# x3 M4 P所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,3 Y. z8 Q3 x2 U; j2 A
日日有車站,
- K( y0 ~, c6 @& j. k有目標!

5 q5 [/ u% d3 F4 A3 ~* v1 fwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:$ |, w) B( w/ p% W% l7 f
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?/ U& {' M$ [: a. `( D2 m
好唔鍾意呢種感覺+ ^7 f3 }: d: J/ B- N
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心' z2 ], C8 H" J; g! d* J
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣+ V% [. d: B1 u* e+ `* c
覺得好空虛
8 @' c2 l5 j* j* G其實早幾次都有試過係咁
* w2 R1 S  J1 ~. r! J. r卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
  K* J7 X$ i! k用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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9 x/ A) r# Y7 `這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦., f+ h/ ]% Z8 B4 G
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.8 D/ ^6 f" I( y8 x/ z5 I
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
8 `# q# c1 {. `8 L" q* Va) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
6 O- K' A3 T6 m2 @b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
+ [* d$ a- L: g4 l0 q1 z5 X3 dc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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  D9 e" |0 N, e! Q( C0 k  t1 ^6 _! J- tJust another thought on lonliness:
  W1 G/ b3 P2 I; l4 P. `. ^+ V& _Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time....." h& G8 z2 C( c! z+ @, ?  m/ z3 u
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～! L  F% h1 W  Q) U* j5 |4 y
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺, @" w7 {- V% j1 K. _, V
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
$ ~/ `" q2 X. {  n或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
4 G$ A! p+ u  Q! N8 z/ N3 ?空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
+ Q( l2 w$ k+ s8 e0 D6 d0 D. M很少會超過一天～1 i3 k, f. H0 g
要期待更好的明天呀！