熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?9 c( p% ]1 u! w- W1 `; G) e
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
* {/ d2 q: V& \/ H" r1 U& L9 q# R琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
1 I$ ~1 V  d$ a4 G* u個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣7 K: |( [, f! {9 |% T
覺得好空虛; Y1 s1 L2 }9 c
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
, l4 j) {* e+ N+ j7 |# `$ p. P; m卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己! H: Y9 ]* V  ^& H) X3 \3 f" S
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,) m8 J6 l8 t; m" f3 O! J' j
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺3 U# O5 ?: K) |  g" y9 r3 J  _
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,% B- b( K( P" E+ ^
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,  q- h# @+ r9 F6 P$ @  Y
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
! ?! n/ T: L: H你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:+ I7 W- w( P4 i$ [0 f! t3 q
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

% Q! w0 G  u) m* e; Y7 A我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.$ C" z* R; ~; \) o4 @: R" M) g4 g
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
" D8 t+ t! N" g& Y3 q: f* B- L玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.6 u$ Q7 S1 \. N' Y
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:* ]; k$ q; _! ~4 O2 p# X
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻," G. R, K0 c" c. r2 c( U% ]
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,$ K' u: }- e5 c& W  V
日日有車站,4 @' j  y% g% M: @: S/ |% _
有目標!

2 A/ ~1 Y$ ]- X, {; ^+ I& Mwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
0 I& V3 R; u8 U- I5 C$ y0 F$ v# p1 G如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?6 C* P( w) v( v# ]& S( w
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
2 @! K8 W( W" U8 c/ A琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心/ i' i/ J9 H3 y' i2 c/ c. s
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
$ t' Z+ w( D( F7 U2 r7 Y; B5 z! w覺得好空虛0 [8 v; _' p9 s
其實早幾次都有試過係咁/ p8 k, R7 m9 ?; M( @* x& v
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己* G& e& y" w- B7 f( o* W
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
, `6 b3 h- G# X$ K; a6 V唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.7 }# j5 A/ e( d5 o% G7 {7 w
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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4 J# `& f9 {+ v" c' h+ k. WPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:- V) s, x/ `1 {( U) b1 ?' ]
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long/ C% K8 c7 m0 {, ]- I/ [1 k. j
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
) d7 }- V* I0 G% ?8 wc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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( `# C& O* A1 E0 PJust another thought on lonliness:; Q$ D# U, f6 S: P1 Q" Z$ Z6 `- @! ?/ z6 B
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
' s: x# k# S# `9 j" mBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～) c0 y; }, t+ x4 t3 Z- U
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺0 z% |9 `+ i5 }% g
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影: U3 v* l$ m0 T- Y( F  K- s
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
  v9 S/ H: @0 s: f5 o2 e空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
  S1 d: [( a6 g7 s' R1 U很少會超過一天～8 s8 S0 X: S( n& ?% G
要期待更好的明天呀！