熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
! v3 `& R+ |  J) o; {$ B+ y% b- i0 F好唔鍾意呢種感覺4 t7 q  P3 I/ `; I. K
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
4 c2 p! }; {/ k- [0 I+ t個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
% [* L1 e( C4 n7 E& k覺得好空虛* [9 U2 V/ J6 m4 K7 ^
其實早幾次都有試過係咁% p; {) o7 u- g) A+ C' n7 m
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
7 Q+ p3 b; k( j用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?2 S) d- {& [& u1 G1 U% A% q
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
% e% g! |9 Y% G0 J2 s) Y: _但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
9 E1 u; G1 T, A/ p8 C" {熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,& r, H' d8 H: o, p
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
# ]* _  s0 E5 j4 k' P日日有車站,
6 x& L7 M$ F. d- d8 V8 |* m/ k! a有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
* W$ w4 R3 B' o你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:; j; S' I! b! \& `) Q8 J, `! }
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.5 U" X' \: b/ X, J. c7 u
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
4 u4 I; B- _/ g玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.$ v- A0 M+ u0 o
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
) z+ e( W) O0 S, n. p! c其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,( W5 p$ f. x2 L5 F
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
4 q; y* h" p) E5 g' R% Y& n' [% Y日日有車站,
2 d* R8 f0 b1 W; \2 M% ^3 z/ z0 y有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
# _' Q- F4 \4 N. q如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?; `! J1 [; S$ x( g) p) e
好唔鍾意呢種感覺% N0 l& _) O) P  }" F
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心' C8 G4 A0 d! d  |
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
/ ]: n/ n# ]: {7 T* @7 i) @覺得好空虛
8 H+ T6 l! {8 J2 `; }5 z+ [- F" X其實早幾次都有試過係咁, E* _, G8 x2 u$ W; w
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
$ d2 d& j  m5 e( c! Z" k/ ~( Q用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?( D5 R( g* R* Y* _

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3 P" j9 ]0 o: X這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
5 x" i" C7 o5 Z# n( m: e+ ]唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
0 j$ V( D2 F3 u2 o; o- @2 Z有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.+ h9 b/ i# b8 }' q. T2 N% j2 M8 I

  C! b/ W0 j# Q) F0 D2 @+ pPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
" Z1 a  O7 t+ z* Fa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long/ k: V0 [, L" f7 u6 \8 Y
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
$ ^+ O( b8 X2 S0 N' G9 }- S# Q' a+ Hc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.# T3 i7 Z6 e% k9 l# w  r. m

/ p3 n" g3 a5 _* r2 V" j8 GJust another thought on lonliness:! ^& J* w2 }7 j
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....$ W& M: U! q# W8 N1 {9 h
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
( h2 V) \* Z; f- f' g; Z; M我會有一種十分空虛的感覺; z! G8 o& _6 _' h7 V9 q
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影. O6 O4 p$ G. ]
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
# n8 [( B5 s- Q) y8 s8 v3 A, }" B$ e空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
0 s* ]) E0 t# l% F% `  F很少會超過一天～
+ Y" D6 R5 [9 W1 }6 h" F要期待更好的明天呀！