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1 q+ }! D1 d2 O, \+ d) U假如仍不知悔改就要佢負上法律責任& K4 M1 D. g! I6 A% b
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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way
0 E; j8 Q/ A8 |0 U, Nconsider in the following (not in order):. M" x; ^. j  ]! \" \3 V, R
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1st, how close the relationship we are?/ H& [4 ^! D3 S1 B: t8 U% m
2nd, how serious he/she has done?
, y1 U0 c: \* e( h5 l5 f& T$ }5 E) e3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?' K, v. w5 h% T1 \! o" {
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?
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5 a; E% N  N8 `( ]% A2 Z" Tfor me:
  n" o7 H+ P2 s7 D/ E' O2 pi may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
1 E* u! c6 p' K$ Z1 A0 zbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
. T3 c9 F/ a; V8 ~9 u1 ~) Ubut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。
5 y3 C" |& r' j5 p6 X第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。7 E' n$ Y5 }3 z" M8 T) E
人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個" {  u6 M3 y  A3 g
只要有數我都會滅