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勸佢收手
6 C* i+ C) ?+ S0 g假如仍不知悔改就要佢負上法律責任
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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way
# V7 |. ]- t3 n) v& }consider in the following (not in order):
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" y/ k" Z/ e! c+ @1st, how close the relationship we are?( k5 h8 D; s; H) \& f, e
2nd, how serious he/she has done?
( J: J) ]( `- C' b* u$ c& `* K0 B8 Y6 F3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?+ z* n/ t, B  c1 a, H8 [! `
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?+ k/ t5 |+ n" O5 f) D

/ r# K; d& w1 s) Q) Lfor me:
( h  H- ~4 h5 l6 gi may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.% E' Y5 @; g0 |2 g
but if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
. P- V  I7 R5 @9 A  X& |. r% U7 K4 _6 Abut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!" f2 m! K( D# T2 R/ a
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。4 R0 d2 _# Y( H7 e, n8 i
第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。
: _  |9 f1 }8 c" a人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個
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