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勸佢收手
9 ?  z. d$ g# k假如仍不知悔改就要佢負上法律責任
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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way
. j1 _7 H2 g8 w- B3 E2 dconsider in the following (not in order):
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1st, how close the relationship we are?
3 r5 i% Y& D) x7 g) c2nd, how serious he/she has done?
, n; M$ G8 S0 N8 x8 m' w3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?4 p+ g1 X: Y7 w2 d' i# N
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?# o8 m3 X# b9 x7 c

; x2 ^; E5 g# O1 g# `' bfor me:8 G2 B) r4 f+ L: Q' e, l; U" i
i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
) X7 @1 h" O4 H8 [1 Qbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)" E% C# I2 |4 n( M
but for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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' Y5 u  n# {2 B+ s) h& cbut whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。
8 y( f0 h: E# A5 A第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。# s- h! `$ Q, P; _9 B& {0 K
人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個6 I; `( i% ]5 |- }
只要有數我都會滅