熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?2 B9 K- U* X3 r8 P
好唔鍾意呢種感覺. a' U5 ?6 q# n5 f* s1 O
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心% w2 r4 h) j1 u3 ?4 F
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣0 b7 J/ |# M; g2 e& G' B
覺得好空虛
" r/ f+ x% o' d; m5 w0 C8 A4 B其實早幾次都有試過係咁$ P3 z; p- P; v1 w4 N/ @
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己3 `4 i* v! P" j( Q0 U( R
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?/ _2 H( w9 q  j$ U  f

! P9 p8 ^' j, e+ g6 }! ~/ w( P[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,$ ]# ~6 v( {, D# q. c
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
2 v2 [+ p5 U1 E6 C7 D) m熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
. r, b4 Q% Z2 f/ u6 T所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,! U1 x8 Q! g) R
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
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markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:4 t9 z" ]( a* T% R
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

$ u+ i/ D5 N- q* H我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
2 M1 y: }9 g5 A! ~7 f. m& T- {感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..# M  D/ ~( v! g7 k/ [6 {8 U8 z5 r
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.+ E3 X# o  m# w" g6 t# O3 f
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:  W/ U8 Y0 u+ A* I/ ^! n
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,' C9 E# v: Z8 j9 [6 m+ B
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,2 k9 b. L# `' D- ^4 d* A+ v  u
日日有車站,1 O) `; p( f  k" S- O; S4 L
有目標!

9 `; g$ ^+ x' \& A  Lwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
" e; J5 `( i9 h, a如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?7 W' }8 |. `$ L& a8 n+ j2 B
好唔鍾意呢種感覺1 _$ \& }0 c7 n" o
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心0 ?* q6 A+ p) g/ f
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
# R+ x5 ]- M1 g1 s: v! C( v: ?覺得好空虛8 A4 D8 P" P( d
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
2 N" w0 g5 G+ b4 N' @6 A卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己/ H! [; _# ?+ i% C0 R' I0 k, |
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
3 K5 E3 A! t9 F' t; `唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
: S+ h; c# M' K! i  z9 z- n9 G有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.1 V9 `0 C$ L# n" y# M4 l5 \
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
$ J( W4 m. ]6 T+ }# Y# qa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long9 P6 g% {9 C8 r% r/ v! k# R
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
! B! N4 _7 H: V3 r$ [c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:: m7 I% z$ ]8 n/ q
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....+ h1 W- s, G, {1 F" n7 P, V
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
- s3 m0 g2 i; D! c; ~/ ?我會有一種十分空虛的感覺/ d; {1 j3 C, W/ s( Z5 L7 y+ r
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影1 P8 `) g1 ?+ X6 Q, R
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
$ V/ h" k3 q- X! ?0 z/ h空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
  Q$ {# d' R+ \很少會超過一天～
: v# K5 W3 v8 ^- p8 l要期待更好的明天呀！