熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?7 G  _8 Q2 @# ~0 d
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
2 i% I$ @( P+ u8 k$ O( y% a6 B' _8 L琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
3 `/ @, n+ o7 q1 a: I個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣% Y  @) M% F, o" u3 ?# {% o. p
覺得好空虛
. H9 F- X/ m3 a: I其實早幾次都有試過係咁2 |# O8 }# j6 J7 i% Y& e5 O% X
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
9 i4 B* R6 }5 p9 _( ?用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?( R. C. p6 H! E" |0 r8 L( U9 _

: y6 I7 ?% V! |1 s/ e[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,$ s% v" M- K. {0 L* [8 O
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺4 E- h9 v+ z4 b2 Q. [
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
( \) \" i/ ]; k$ N: t9 y0 ~5 ~! Q所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,; y* s5 y! K% E' Q
日日有車站,
4 A8 J  ^" w, O. O9 k有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙3 [) O; Q5 w7 v
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
' C. S" |" b4 R* A  a; D: p如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

& W% n3 H9 s6 A4 n我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.9 E& O0 `8 o9 M$ e; u
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
7 r$ C& a5 t/ K% H1 v! l玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.2 f8 ]% P# M/ `! N9 R
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:1 y4 l6 B. t( n# W2 k2 v5 n
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,  a( ~( }  G# r0 e# s& P
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,) F5 [$ e: j1 ~, B. Q# [
日日有車站,. c- R0 h& M/ B# n
有目標!

" s# |2 z) g3 |  H5 S& |4 N/ K% Kwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:5 `9 X& e: f+ w7 J" g1 @$ W0 P
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?7 e9 A) ~8 H, X, N, f2 D4 l. ~
好唔鍾意呢種感覺, F( @4 H6 L* O1 e) H) B
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心  g0 E7 s( B' r- `2 _
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣4 ^$ l2 ^+ i1 B$ J; D
覺得好空虛3 P! j* o1 A3 F* {% Y- i2 c
其實早幾次都有試過係咁! ?5 ^- V; m$ L/ q
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
( _! S& Q; p8 C5 C/ }6 ~用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
' t  _  u4 a8 ^; `) m- N唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.+ k/ h  t' S7 f- s1 E
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.+ X( @/ E# z- n4 F

$ ~9 U7 A0 t# E/ M  W  g% z$ \' ?" fPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:* N: F* h- P. A" r+ S; d9 w
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long9 A" w, k  h2 ]* Y4 t
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
% {! P) l2 x, m! J; W/ `) S6 w7 O. Mc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.0 }: n) H; ?6 k; T9 d5 N- n

% Q3 k$ e! s4 C9 i! K1 z' j7 DJust another thought on lonliness:- X) @5 B1 j" I* S5 {0 L0 v6 S/ f6 Z
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time....." K; }* v9 `! q: S) p/ @! B
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
7 T/ j* m. _6 o' D# a我會有一種十分空虛的感覺$ F7 z  u0 y2 N. O. b* R
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
+ k" m3 T; g0 Q7 r" L: J" X* K: H- l, L或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
4 k( Q) f* u0 v9 G5 L& |空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
) i9 j4 [: [- ~7 P+ G( x+ S很少會超過一天～$ `0 a0 f0 H# E
要期待更好的明天呀！