熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?* p' J7 I& x8 G! U* |
好唔鍾意呢種感覺6 d6 j- J, A( p- G  |& r5 o# o
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
- b, A  |- U) o- [個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣" i1 _7 C5 k" `) N4 S0 w
覺得好空虛2 h% I# g+ j8 `, X  m+ \
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
9 I- c+ Z. o/ t5 a& I* o/ R7 R卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己- d( Q0 A, v8 S; W
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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: \1 _* P% O( O" |[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,, y. i6 s0 {8 L3 ?
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺5 g: Z+ I: J2 M0 }9 t
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,, Q& x7 l0 N, N" M+ p
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
5 ~" b% R: I2 `  z* t& |6 T3 V日日有車站,, g0 [! H" R9 V4 {; V
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
* x' ~8 b/ g3 U: X% m' F, L你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:( k6 D: v! v2 x* t% v  J$ q& w, E
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

4 a. H1 V  v3 G9 g我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.3 j5 B3 _8 D, t& c" I; i
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
5 l8 B1 _8 T7 Z玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.: c  p; v- w. }+ ]( c/ ^1 E; S
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:$ b: A5 m4 i; H
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,( K, g# f$ R2 b/ d8 W# h+ W
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
, l( w4 C2 a2 a4 ~9 K9 N9 B- A% x日日有車站,! p, N1 v) S- X
有目標!

1 V9 J( S6 h# @0 |3 D3 ]what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
. R. ?8 u$ G1 f( |如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
2 w; X3 i. ?  T2 L8 x) ~% B1 T, v. @好唔鍾意呢種感覺
' d+ k3 k* E) e' P4 X" y5 x+ t: C琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心' ], }' x/ v' i+ V' q
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
% J/ D7 k! U, k) w! W: n& Z3 \; y0 ?覺得好空虛
2 E& z* j2 s( J, k其實早幾次都有試過係咁. X/ t8 J4 }8 t' A/ F4 y0 F9 |$ n/ n3 H
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
! \/ J9 ~9 \2 f) c4 c用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?. i5 N7 S; D+ K

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦." X( m) R7 X5 R
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.. I& \# y- b& T6 B. a
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.2 Z+ A3 ]* ^  v" [" _" q

( D' ]6 W, B  L2 s# BPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
0 [" i& k5 }; \, |2 S9 t1 [a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
0 Z3 V6 \0 s& o# J! G6 [b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
+ x5 D+ N9 l+ w) Z2 ?5 N1 Hc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
6 [) r$ |- S) U8 }* Q  I9 [Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
0 P; x6 k0 S+ f% F3 [# }1 y* L/ XBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～8 }9 |. A- e. f9 m% e* w
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺1 A/ w  i4 i, E8 D' W
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
3 U* R" L+ C% o8 t6 j或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～# s8 s, T3 Z  S8 d3 B
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉# Z  _+ T6 r' T& C
很少會超過一天～9 D7 p$ o/ `8 a7 |
要期待更好的明天呀！