熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
: p6 n% x9 }3 P1 w- m# T3 J) n好唔鍾意呢種感覺3 m4 f1 E8 w! F4 L: T1 Q3 E! m6 W; \
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心2 @5 T4 y7 _+ z2 ^* B
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
7 E  W* K$ D( h4 T1 d+ X覺得好空虛
6 B1 Z& v) X, J$ \+ p2 i% r1 g其實早幾次都有試過係咁
2 L) H1 L& x8 T  l5 D- N; g$ ^卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己9 p$ @/ L5 |* ~
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?1 S4 L# J, P" Z5 r: x* N& i  l' {% s
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,+ G  P9 t# p/ Q9 u0 [3 v* n
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
0 e9 d& q+ Q# Q8 O1 ?* O9 H1 G2 Z$ k熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,) K& b1 k0 q6 s) A5 F+ }
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
, \2 S3 c! ?0 B* o日日有車站,
3 D# Q% }- x5 z; C有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙5 O0 @% q1 C  I' }8 g' V
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
: g1 ]4 {, r9 y4 m; F如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

/ Q( T5 c( Q: @5 n4 p我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.9 J% @6 x- ?- J9 x4 a
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞.." t) r/ c# ~2 n( O
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
( y! p. {2 Y  k9 B6 `% w# F總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:6 J8 R3 E! D. r- ]
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,2 Y( p3 J' I6 d9 {  d
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
$ Z5 J# M1 K9 H. x日日有車站,' o1 ]+ t, c* S
有目標!

' ~1 n( w' r+ zwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:. o$ I0 {9 \  k" P* w& R
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?, ]9 D4 K1 J% A  R1 F4 q
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
. A4 v; g! }2 P$ c" ~# j' N. V琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
% _7 M) C  Y. m6 D8 U個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣  t- g: ^7 V0 Y
覺得好空虛4 N$ _  s3 B! Y* `
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
3 e% U0 E4 Q; c* U7 x卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
+ L3 W4 x4 P, q6 r用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?/ P4 E) z1 k( y9 D3 Z4 R  M" e

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5 t3 l" c( z$ r; z/ b8 v( p/ Q2 Q這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
! X7 I, ?* `# ^8 d: t- [( e唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.6 N; E" a+ b% r* E" B$ u! l
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.# V0 j6 d1 }7 T4 _0 L8 a. p! b

- Q) n0 ]" g1 Z  N3 \! rPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:& x& H9 }& ~" P9 ~$ `
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long4 {; B( V( H1 O' A
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.& s+ L- V6 r" {" f
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.  T/ e3 ?, u! k) v* \- o% Y; Y

  u# I: [, W# B2 b' eJust another thought on lonliness:/ x7 L8 {( k$ B
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....; Q4 w1 ?: u- r6 K
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
$ K' I  R# M& u9 X' ?3 L' ^我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
" G6 J% n8 e: w, _) e) j9 N: v5 Y8 G就好似睇完一套好睇的電影1 i  N/ E7 v5 _. `, `6 R
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～4 N0 b) S) R' j3 f
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
- B' R5 k- o) f- [" O& T& h很少會超過一天～+ R! S% y4 i2 l6 D: R6 r
要期待更好的明天呀！