熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?( ~4 U- v9 ~, R! j1 [+ H
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
8 k! H$ c4 `8 U5 f+ }, Z" Y琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心) d  M8 ?7 P5 X
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
0 Z4 {; n3 k! j) g覺得好空虛
8 r5 Q0 b) t8 i* m2 L/ E. g其實早幾次都有試過係咁! X5 S' Y' t" a0 v
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
5 D# V+ f" q0 K用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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5 }, m( L/ W, X  ?9 v9 w[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
/ Z: W* q3 N5 k" V$ a5 @- r! h但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
: Y- T5 }0 I3 y6 z) u, p2 I熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,9 I6 c+ y  W8 P! q9 R$ f
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,6 f5 S. C: p; d" A* g8 r6 o$ K* E
日日有車站,
; r$ S& Z/ Y. ^- A, ?: h有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙. m1 |* H& e5 Q$ i1 @
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
. ^2 ?3 y6 z# x如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.9 t+ m8 z0 l/ w7 \2 K7 D1 E! h
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..5 t" u  D4 W. R0 Z2 d* k* h3 M/ y
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
1 D& D' l4 e  z' |, e* ~/ L$ p總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
& ^8 E2 D- M% {9 t; o) ~0 ^其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
% {: [8 g! d& \' Q! _' R- Z所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,9 h* e+ A( Q7 \: ?6 K
日日有車站,
+ ]: ^! k! N( a8 ?0 m有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
1 X% l3 B0 |$ I" W  v如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?% h+ N# F. m( I- P6 O8 k. o* g0 o9 L' X
好唔鍾意呢種感覺" C# K  ]5 ^" k, W" r: I& T$ k% c7 \
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
( }, i2 _' T- @* y+ J, [2 J個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣: ^2 `3 H0 O$ I
覺得好空虛
" _) k3 G% D, S3 Z( v2 y% ~- Y其實早幾次都有試過係咁' w9 Q1 t( A% L2 c/ j
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
: T) d7 n8 H, w用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?7 B4 X- E; T$ ]7 B& a- T

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
1 M3 L" G( _4 n" F1 I! ^唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.& ?' V9 U# f6 c; \; ?$ k
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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+ U9 \& {2 h% ~People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
; }, |, D+ n  Z* ?, Qa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long4 N/ p9 w# i/ T
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.: z, g2 t  ^% H' E, m0 P5 y3 o
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.6 s7 G9 L2 b+ \! E+ v4 i

2 e+ y3 F& N6 L2 YJust another thought on lonliness:3 L4 P' x. w% M; j; I
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....3 ]6 y% h; g/ s
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～9 P% V( O+ L" [- b, S
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
4 h1 h, e1 y( U$ N: l" I' C就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
" B" h2 `% ^4 D+ H, N* X1 b或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
' ]0 D& D% P  X$ N8 C空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
6 a3 G- P6 H, }很少會超過一天～! m: H7 @* f. _! B8 C( V( {, h+ e
要期待更好的明天呀！