熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
& |) _' @2 |  C; Z, T9 F5 i. d好唔鍾意呢種感覺! d5 s+ N# R' b: |+ h$ F
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心2 P( o. Y- o+ q! I
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
& _7 o$ j4 L/ J. K; k& W( k覺得好空虛
3 x' L) s) U) S2 T9 W0 [% K其實早幾次都有試過係咁
& |: G+ P- V! k% u1 c卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己/ {; ]: g( Z" F* L
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
& L3 a  e, S( X9 q: y0 y但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
3 y( }1 `$ \: d- e- g2 q1 p熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,7 i+ N1 v4 d, O" U. h. x) ?
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
+ N  `8 \+ Q, h3 B, ]% W* A* }日日有車站,1 i% v' Y/ Y! r) C  G3 A
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙: Z+ g& Z% {9 {4 D# C( G/ l2 _8 d
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:8 X) r! a" ^5 K1 L! g; X# V
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

2 A7 Y1 ~* S4 I我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.) t) v/ s9 q* C5 Y3 |1 O/ [! H
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
8 a1 i9 E. X7 j9 |1 b5 x: M玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
7 Q8 C  v2 X# u- k7 _總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:3 Y7 j) O5 ^6 A
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,& k9 B4 k" C% ?: n- m& N6 O
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,( \7 l) L6 l, p8 l9 U! h
日日有車站,! ?) I7 h5 U9 `: f& m) W
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:& @' I8 n9 F% T# |: }) V
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?+ D( J3 r7 t$ h
好唔鍾意呢種感覺( q) T9 d6 I! c
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
4 B" b  K' n# u8 r7 t7 E2 ~6 ?個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
7 r  ^) F5 G6 w7 m1 r覺得好空虛! y& N7 c. k7 }! e9 x0 f
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
/ @8 P$ |9 @: z2 B8 X卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
" R1 M6 z6 N0 E$ @( V用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
" s6 e. W7 t5 O

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3 [: E; d3 Y3 P6 B這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
) ^+ a9 [! v9 g& p唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.% K( Z& C2 J1 ]
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.# k4 c* Q; e) Q. d

- W9 d) P; V/ v2 q  o& @# R. ]3 TPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
$ ^8 _1 b$ `* Ka) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
' e/ p  v! J7 \0 j* t$ A5 n/ }b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
( }8 {2 Q5 `. N0 t8 |c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.% |+ `% O1 Y& V# D0 D$ v

" o. y9 M5 y! e# Q2 QJust another thought on lonliness:& b. ?- `% `" [* L' K; G
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
+ ~3 ?; N2 M3 O1 ZBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～1 E, N+ g& @0 {. \
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺6 C# c" C1 z, R- s
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影+ ~8 A& v0 N, ?% U+ Q( V) S3 K
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
. }- T0 P* i+ K, p7 k0 l空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉4 v9 P: K/ U  [' O! S
很少會超過一天～
' J2 C% M/ n2 [( L7 h# T要期待更好的明天呀！