熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
, W- s/ L' h) o6 M  q4 Y' Z好唔鍾意呢種感覺
5 ^4 W2 g. o7 w3 F* s* b琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
7 N5 K8 q  ~: U. S個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣; [; R  o5 {8 a" ]) N" [7 ~
覺得好空虛& p7 q. F( ^3 w/ S' r/ ], p
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
' f/ [+ ]: W2 y. z卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
' ?+ J8 R: A. ~1 \3 v用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,$ Q8 l5 F  p' P/ g; d- N
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺$ l/ K3 t0 b0 ^1 W0 U/ X
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,& c  G1 H3 p+ E- _5 a( q2 ], k
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
2 c: P, N/ x; l( s日日有車站,8 {8 O3 p3 l: y  D
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
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markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
# l  j: M* ~- n* w( ?( m* ?6 q如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶./ {0 k9 P" C, V) ^( B" p; W! g
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞.." W: J" @( B/ N# p! z1 S$ c
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.- b8 u( P- E: W' w( V
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:1 ~' `4 i5 X* y% ]* D7 y+ ~
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
) s  F% w+ E7 ~所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,/ H0 {9 \0 L. u2 S8 g
日日有車站,, F  d6 P. Q# T
有目標!

& D" R6 ?- T9 k$ K$ k3 ^9 xwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
9 w# G, S% s5 |. E# v: v如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
: f; x# T3 F1 ]6 }4 N9 o; _好唔鍾意呢種感覺* A$ \0 u' P  g3 ~8 e* p9 x
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心; S- I0 I1 \" r5 U
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣1 K: |8 P& M9 }; X
覺得好空虛9 b  v( ]- W7 l& h( m  b. j
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
- K3 q. |  D, o4 l/ m  j卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己. w/ L  s+ d& {/ V% I$ T
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
: g. b2 ~, ^+ A唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.6 u, C! Y) A( }7 x
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own." u$ Q- S, e# d8 x4 g/ M

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a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long3 }, D8 r/ a1 ^  R/ H0 V* X2 I
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.3 [: y7 d3 ^0 N" [4 I6 {" ?  \8 u
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.; A+ r) Z& Y% i: e

& K9 o  T4 ^# f& Y# g+ x$ MJust another thought on lonliness:, K" y/ [% f3 {  A0 Y( _
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
7 Q' [+ e9 ?4 X, i1 mBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～/ p0 @8 f( C3 ^5 S3 T  w7 M( D6 V
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺2 _3 n8 r9 `8 N. U
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
+ \+ k$ Z+ c9 {0 m或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～* f% o& o: L) D3 [0 W
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉) h0 n" m5 q! m7 {* n; @% u
很少會超過一天～
) [* e9 L+ E+ E/ d3 B$ G  o要期待更好的明天呀！