熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?' J; D. {/ M: B9 n& g' n# K0 V" {
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
/ z3 \/ s( c2 y6 |* V% C+ A琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
  W4 K3 Y3 e" P+ R. ^個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣" b7 i+ T& o% S  b0 C
覺得好空虛
$ Y7 x& L5 n) I9 N其實早幾次都有試過係咁, Z( l* {8 d2 W1 N, v
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
4 b- t1 p( P9 g% f用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?; [( a; @+ @) p1 `$ @8 G3 i
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,- M* M6 Y& Q& n9 Q1 L( m* Z! B6 S
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺! M# P- \: ]0 I1 {( f$ W1 R" }. F
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
: U, t/ K7 V  Q9 Z; R所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
* R* O# n, V, W- q% f日日有車站,
+ K1 M3 K( u+ @. f1 _' c% @$ a有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙# }7 ~! b& w) v9 R0 U
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:1 f# i, R' ^# Y6 c$ z/ M9 Z* u
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.3 \( q8 [% u0 c1 F) }( ^
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
9 |$ @8 [! q( r; M3 f玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.* x% S! ~! \! _, `7 j7 `6 k
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
1 f% \3 n, ^# W, T& g3 @其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,- {1 d. \+ k+ T, ]+ o- D9 @5 J% G# Z
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,3 U* z, W# I$ s( d
日日有車站,2 H9 I& M0 ~- ^; {
有目標!

4 o- _) S5 Y: ~, t7 V$ Z$ k$ hwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:& k- T- E3 ^9 [
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?/ @; o' x9 y3 j3 u9 r
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
& |5 @% [$ O. ?5 x. f琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
+ @( h8 `9 i7 P' ~個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣! H, z6 r4 p4 ?# s" Y
覺得好空虛3 H: h5 V# n9 W, `7 z* l
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
9 R  D1 F5 Y9 D; w卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
, C* w- F' F$ ^, B% `6 r7 s用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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/ d3 J5 [( X) v2 \- `3 L這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.& a" V' f6 s& q% m5 f- o. I6 B
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
1 e6 a4 q' T: |( e7 T0 H有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.) x6 E  h* w% ?( }; v- Q
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:$ z! t' a7 N6 Z! }% ~: T
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long) K! I! ~4 i! X# _6 B+ {/ o
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.) d" o3 R. P- e$ B/ W
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.) r# T0 C! T) @0 ?$ R

2 L% W# C# W* q% jJust another thought on lonliness:1 d7 A6 n; Q# }( W/ r
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
5 n/ q; g. R$ c$ l) mBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
% F: k3 P; X$ B' X我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
# ~8 e' c! s+ p2 {就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
  Z4 y' L' @. ^# L' e& w0 X' b8 i或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
  ]6 W+ v. H3 @" Q- U' T空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉5 u4 k5 ^! c9 R5 {
很少會超過一天～7 c+ X+ B5 j# O# ]2 r
要期待更好的明天呀！