熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
4 I' O' {# ?# {1 F# i好唔鍾意呢種感覺
" o! _4 v/ h4 J9 \& v+ \+ Q4 c琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
6 n6 C" n0 a; u; h個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣- S- ~  y6 e; |. U
覺得好空虛+ s: t0 _: u6 H+ z3 }: `* Y
其實早幾次都有試過係咁$ e: Y, b. B/ M9 W  _
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己. _/ H) u( [3 r8 ]
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
6 H- p, J: ^) D! r% H* u* V! m# R- @但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺: m: c' C, C/ W) e/ I
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,( c" E- X* N$ @$ r; \
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙0 ~6 T* T. F9 `: `8 m
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:: k3 w. a1 ^( H$ C- f9 k8 s
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

' `  l& _4 _# B' I3 q- I0 b我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.$ [9 R# b2 r  |3 c3 y
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
$ t/ F. X; H% C  q玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心." d0 N5 Q& G4 Z1 s$ s: X
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:9 P" u" x6 P6 P0 {3 j  i: h& i
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
9 B( ^3 {+ f" _$ z6 w- k* Z7 D所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
8 y; F4 B9 ^- O" y+ \) }+ j2 Y1 r  e日日有車站,
/ f) h6 v' F1 B有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
  r5 p; H# K, ?* N: q, c% H8 ~7 q如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?  {/ e. h6 s; T
好唔鍾意呢種感覺6 e7 M" d% f3 }2 e% y. Y+ s
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
8 T! l0 Z- L: [個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
2 f' A, I, y9 s- ~, k覺得好空虛; ~2 q) D& Y  Y5 R7 s
其實早幾次都有試過係咁- o, C1 C# j& ?, E9 V
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己+ I# K( |& \, i2 A/ B: S+ Q2 ~
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?8 M. f# c% E" x: V: L

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8 l/ Q6 k- ~& k% |9 H4 G這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.; e# n. m" A# [  ?, H
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
6 a" b) L; @1 e, c有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
0 f- [' I  }) R1 Ga) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long8 Q8 A" d! [# C* W5 }
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
0 l. w4 ]5 `% LLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....9 T: U: R$ n# F* n
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～; o7 X( ~# [. f. P; [" b- }. d
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺: ]5 P4 g/ k6 |5 Y9 ~+ f* L! V
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
8 q! H* ^, s1 d; E' {或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
. ?1 k2 f- R+ g1 q; Y7 n空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉+ G* r, b4 V, Q* ?. }3 J
很少會超過一天～
' z; _- g2 X% ]" X' l- G, G要期待更好的明天呀！