熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?0 m, _7 f! T4 E$ [1 m9 K
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
/ }, ^$ c% p4 M$ B" S琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心; ~' e  ?" w/ Y- G5 T
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
3 h; K( o& E! F6 \9 v覺得好空虛; i, s5 u" _" |7 h0 }) p
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
- a; P1 L5 t6 z' o卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己$ w% I& N" [- A& ~" {1 Z
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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8 B6 e2 i; Y3 p. |; h2 l[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,8 ^- A" b' }5 X. o, V
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
) ~3 v" O; K3 I/ q; G& K熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
2 A4 k( w; \: d& s8 j所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,9 B- m, @) w3 W4 W$ [- z: S2 x3 F- i: i
日日有車站,
  T" j* Y1 B2 M有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
& A. F+ n2 A$ k, D. d+ m. Z你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
3 ]6 L( r2 H" s; z( D, y8 r3 K4 M如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

& O( H; k+ C2 P( x我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.; x( y) c8 K' K. u7 {& [
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..5 s2 s' [, L" q
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
4 e0 Y  n) s+ b5 H' D9 H1 x2 I0 l總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:8 f  ]: G9 K8 W
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
5 K  o/ i* ~1 ~' j7 E8 j( f; f2 U所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
: e5 l+ p6 T7 j, b2 k& h% s日日有車站,' H) `5 W3 b5 R7 ^
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
9 G! P  C; l: p4 H1 D" D如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
+ W0 H" k  H9 {- Y% r$ j好唔鍾意呢種感覺* r; p6 j6 z$ \2 |
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
" W0 r% e4 k0 a6 q# g個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣7 K/ d& M1 d2 d& }0 [
覺得好空虛
7 N9 d5 i) \/ b8 U) B0 z2 H其實早幾次都有試過係咁. x0 M7 \2 T0 y, m1 V- b: ?
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
9 |" J+ w% C0 W9 ]0 P用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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: `+ h' ^9 I6 L7 x這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.+ p' \0 A; u$ C8 R
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
. J) T. w) E) ^/ r5 e+ M* B有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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( M/ h( j! d+ R: ?3 P; f5 ?3 R' g4 PPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:$ F; E0 k  [: F0 Z0 X- C% L" b
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long8 S$ |" i, k5 \8 Q" P
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
) }( Q$ ?) o. Z# b8 U/ {. {c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess." \8 Z* f9 w/ g0 E: g

1 B) `6 k5 H  J  D- \Just another thought on lonliness:! q0 e$ G2 J1 Q
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
& g$ F5 w4 m# G0 r3 X+ f1 m9 @But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
8 V7 x9 j% X, T9 i2 q# W我會有一種十分空虛的感覺3 W: N( s' L' e0 e8 m  r& D$ _6 v
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
- \7 A' M3 }2 P+ T. L+ T1 w2 {或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～( k) T, w8 J7 j# [0 K$ c4 e8 K: V
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉7 n0 P5 i. p8 ]6 P5 v- l4 ~8 T
很少會超過一天～
: A3 B4 o: _& ^# p9 b% x! L# g' Q要期待更好的明天呀！