熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?4 O8 r! E7 t& `8 w
好唔鍾意呢種感覺" [  S3 H% ?/ I: L
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心- R8 P# [) G$ z6 T
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣3 o" a4 Y; U" |; g7 j
覺得好空虛# A6 N5 d3 ]5 d; {( d, M# x! Z( q1 g' S
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
: p: P1 D9 J& p卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
! |7 e5 n0 w; K用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
3 l( I$ J9 r3 T1 c* b8 I但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
8 P; R# y7 C, U2 Q  L熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,# R& Q6 z/ u/ g9 c3 H; a
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
0 q! R, u8 }7 E7 b& u日日有車站,- x3 F4 q. n4 l8 Q2 e% v
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙' y* w. x4 R  J* Y
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
0 P: y5 v! {: n" `" O% n% P如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

4 }5 o( _- A# U我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
) S6 q6 U; Y# Z8 H+ `. }4 C  D感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..5 n! y1 M' o# h+ P  w
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
: u1 U3 B/ w& o9 p0 R* @& d' [總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:9 S9 g4 [; U. k  ]
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
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日日有車站,
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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:# f! q5 F5 H1 s3 u) f& ^" _
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?* Y; Q* J8 q, |& F" |6 U8 q' \
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
) G+ }, u6 C# K- w- q- E琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心) G; n1 R: \) I4 N
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣. e& G0 E- A) g* m: \" s# z
覺得好空虛; D, w! n. L% r
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
8 h8 D' `  ~$ T: y: t卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
/ B$ M  F. V$ C用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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# \2 ~  G: o, l7 `這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.. X4 a8 w& a6 ?! l. s! T
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
% U1 ], w3 M% ^4 Y) m% j; h有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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# k7 |0 v0 g( n8 a; S- SPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:3 G  m0 y8 n7 H7 @
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
3 p1 K+ j3 r3 t5 e6 G9 i+ Kb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.7 n: Q  T  J% t4 h
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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2 b) q" ~7 n. S: ~, a2 dJust another thought on lonliness:
$ g0 y( |; \  R. lLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
( p: a5 u& `7 P$ S4 ~But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～( K% ?1 _+ s) C% U6 i* L1 y
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺0 G9 k2 f$ F. N+ [7 Q. d
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
5 X; R) L; S& N或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
0 Z  y) `( ]0 K( W0 i/ E2 l空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉" l6 |* u7 `  `3 {; a" \4 W4 W
很少會超過一天～* ?6 x# a8 Q1 v# @# ~% g
要期待更好的明天呀！