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發表於 2005-4-27 02:01 PM
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in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way7 }+ E0 ]" R8 C& k$ h3 @2 t
consider in the following (not in order):
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1st, how close the relationship we are?* C/ ~0 a- k3 s) J+ [! W3 f% p3 f
2nd, how serious he/she has done?3 n" s9 S3 H2 a1 D4 e
3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?2 j% z \7 g, L: z& i1 [: j
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?' r- v0 \4 @: N0 S* o
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for me:
# W, s8 {& b6 Ji may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
0 L# s7 \+ T0 w+ O* gbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
3 m3 }# O# v, L; z8 tbut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!' G$ J0 U8 O6 A: z5 q
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!! |
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