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假如仍不知悔改就要佢負上法律責任9 {+ c6 G2 m7 {' P
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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way: t9 Y0 W0 A* ~4 r2 V  B, T: N
consider in the following (not in order):
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7 _/ [: i% @, o1st, how close the relationship we are?% j1 x  o. `) {  I9 O
2nd, how serious he/she has done?4 F, q1 N- k! \1 c6 E3 B
3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?/ r5 N$ N' [. H" d
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?0 ~3 N+ Z% {( W0 F6 g0 N( Z9 j

( N, h6 t: y/ |- Qfor me:( F' p$ P$ b+ B4 v0 U
i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
/ q2 i( R" W2 v/ W  V! t% Tbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
2 g/ d: G6 g! E/ k* Cbut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!1 J. n% I, S+ x9 }" W

5 O, d& M2 n1 d8 |but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。
! _  y+ {1 ?6 R8 n第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。7 U1 x4 E6 K4 f% A8 }
人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個& J9 T* ~- W. ]
只要有數我都會滅