熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
, q1 Z3 m1 O/ F' `, p; B好唔鍾意呢種感覺! u# _, y0 s9 o( J( I
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
4 u( Q' b( W1 y% w個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣$ k  R2 O7 L% c& i% P3 r
覺得好空虛
5 |7 \2 D8 Q5 }其實早幾次都有試過係咁$ y6 R" L+ R% G& v. w8 H
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
# _% m% F3 j  i用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?7 v# d0 |  |3 I% L8 A+ A+ S
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
' w% G, p0 L* @! I) C4 @( F* J但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
; t  `! j; L9 N5 ^9 u6 c熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,, R* a$ W1 c& f
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
1 i& g" H# C0 c; j8 R# E日日有車站,4 A8 j) q3 q7 G  _" r2 v* t
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
; H. |, [3 L( x4 M你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:, S/ g! s7 d+ q
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

5 |1 F) A; b' V我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.% o: h  {( w3 i7 w- J: C
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
' X+ H6 p! Q8 G4 r1 M玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.: F8 N9 t% i3 I. ~
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:4 _2 n9 v5 m1 t7 t
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,3 M' s9 U8 k0 K
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
  G. r+ D; p/ Q' U  U, v日日有車站," f4 l4 z/ {- k1 `1 z% C* _
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
* X  k( s" T: o如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
% y9 v1 a" F) s) E" \- h好唔鍾意呢種感覺
% d8 F$ t- ]/ m, g& O$ d. {  `琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心- u/ o' A' p" l4 @! x3 q. _& b# u+ e
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣" s* k' {" d# U6 J% k4 M
覺得好空虛/ Y% J+ p0 o9 Z2 A
其實早幾次都有試過係咁9 m& g2 |" D, P* W$ L3 n$ V
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
1 U" R4 I) w$ Y- j' O  f用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?' q* r/ x/ q. a6 F  u7 l9 F- j

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! R7 d" n3 l) i! J# c3 A這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
& Z% [# [' O' g0 Y! k/ p唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足., @" e& M/ C, C. m, b9 L! u
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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4 e0 k# a/ |8 F% R  i  n! `People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:7 W6 A) x4 k6 P# E' c* m0 X
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long' M0 v$ ?# |3 a
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.# g! }9 H* }# _; t& ~4 b8 f
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:- ?# h5 ?0 r3 N4 ]5 C
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....! o& }* A9 p. v6 m) A9 J* B
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～  C: Q" m. }8 s- f  F+ _) _; U% b3 O4 ^
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺2 ~7 ?4 l7 t( t2 p3 Y1 |' {
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影7 X9 s' \8 d! u1 q
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
1 ?% I' O0 N7 d, T+ p空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
0 P/ _' e: N7 X$ x很少會超過一天～
; @/ p3 M) k0 a; J# C' o: l要期待更好的明天呀！