熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?% n, X- r& X% `# h6 ~* B
好唔鍾意呢種感覺4 n' s' I3 u: n$ O7 t5 W
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
0 A; K& c/ u& l: ?+ Q. f! Q% V個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
- t2 D2 a8 F' I9 q1 ~覺得好空虛  D( K5 t- x9 l. u# G& H* C9 K! c# q
其實早幾次都有試過係咁8 g- ^3 p8 w$ f" d& J" b8 D
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
" }+ V) \. i6 v' I; V9 p用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
9 n1 x6 B) P9 b* Y7 r9 W但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
" Z" p  |& V' n熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
; k* O5 Z4 L7 }; o所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
( j( A& n8 C* r# x' N日日有車站,2 I  T- E, N. A0 s
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙/ ^( B- _) t% ]& I
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
! P# H9 K) {' S( e- W: b" w如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
5 l8 n& d; J; {- s1 ^0 A& u& V( V感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
2 G. r  F) o' v# t2 `' l玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
( f+ v0 R  s  {; z4 `) ]總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:6 |  _4 w+ g( o1 f$ k/ Q3 x
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,/ q# \" ?( D, C) z; f8 o
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
; g  O2 l8 |& s3 y( z( ?( s日日有車站,
5 j+ K4 \, J3 R, B有目標!

9 E/ B' s7 ^  E( ]5 h% X& l% |what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:; U/ M: Z3 Z8 w
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?6 n  j" v6 N" j; o
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
/ h) t  i, Q( t1 K6 A琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
* V, T$ @; E; L1 X0 z個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
- u5 ~4 j3 A& g& S9 B2 q' Q' M覺得好空虛
) i0 Q+ v- o9 Z9 r; |' E  J其實早幾次都有試過係咁+ Q- x2 o4 F2 A) r/ d
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己+ x5 M8 Q/ n4 E8 T% V
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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# V0 g, P  O$ v4 U+ ~這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
9 t+ @# Z7 Z7 J+ P唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
& \" Q/ @/ o* X. I! ?* l; N有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.3 Y. ]( w& d5 x, z2 ?

5 [# z4 }5 G4 D" ^$ F4 f; KPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
, n  f6 A2 r, Ra) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
4 E) y% ]3 ~% Z8 K$ R) Fb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
. |1 Q- P, s0 A5 e1 Hc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:; p; x1 @2 ~; U/ h5 v% `
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
: Y; R$ V- s, G2 ]: A$ V8 yBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～/ i! ]- K. y# |
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
! E, q. W* ?! J, X+ J就好似睇完一套好睇的電影, @3 V) ?2 u# r- j' R* ]" {: U
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
3 W  x6 z7 N: a/ R3 N( x空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉5 `1 q& M) d$ X. M9 A; g
很少會超過一天～
& A; J& ?' d$ g, d要期待更好的明天呀！