熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?4 P5 |/ W3 g9 R+ v" a
好唔鍾意呢種感覺. I$ ]$ u0 b6 ~* d
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
* z( s$ E$ v' H0 n4 w個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣7 w: b, v5 k0 N: P
覺得好空虛
4 B+ L6 U, I2 R: w% ?7 K8 J其實早幾次都有試過係咁
' ~7 `" h: }- b" l. {" q卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己$ X5 w3 {& h7 |9 {2 U
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?9 V- B3 z! |5 t6 w4 ?* x2 |

& p+ z0 P; `& g" [& M[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
( N5 B* p( Z0 k# f, y2 y6 X' ~但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
2 f" ~/ k, e" n: f熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,/ R! G. ]% m8 e3 x: o0 ^7 R
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
# {- S4 h0 a5 {" r! A- F2 {* ^日日有車站,( o4 Q5 C$ @$ q* ~' n$ x
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙7 W  j* a$ E- H1 _) e4 R9 L8 }2 F  R
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
7 Z( [0 Q7 {( e! K, t+ B7 V如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
. U' ?! v$ ?9 h+ m! @7 C感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞.." J1 }% I0 l% P/ `) J! @
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.2 a8 P" j  D) r# s- r3 B
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
% A% H/ y" m  G6 v6 p- `其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
5 m& @+ D; e. W6 ^5 I' i- \3 y所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,/ }: o' j+ }& L% ~
日日有車站,& `8 n; q4 V  B# c
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:# i' G, m) R3 l# I
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
( `, ?1 m* Y2 h/ v: J好唔鍾意呢種感覺
# T  L" Q. f; h) t7 x  `琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
3 b; i4 I* L# i# r( r+ t' `: R7 i個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣, O8 \. t! Q9 F4 v* ^3 b
覺得好空虛9 i3 \& {+ V6 i: q2 D2 r
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
/ J' |" L0 x+ s% W, ]卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己: ?) ^% v: b5 z5 C2 q
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?6 a5 t6 j9 w" p

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; }. y- X  F8 f7 U這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
' v0 G) X6 Z3 Y# z- k唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足." ]# ^! P" i- A" _8 [) W& k2 L
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.& Y9 t' z1 Z: z' p4 ~
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
$ }# d% M- T7 w: P$ E7 b) x9 Ra) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long2 n) p$ h3 M% Q! ~+ o
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
0 F5 I' F! u+ X( Vc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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0 b( w: g$ Y4 q% o, G# CJust another thought on lonliness:
" K( j  B% V3 t1 K% Y& YLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
% w; S1 S8 _8 hBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
0 D) |3 u" w# ~/ c我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
( ]# y1 s, a7 Y就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
6 n! Y3 `9 z4 Y或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
7 w$ R+ P2 D4 z& v$ b空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
9 R3 N% P" W, H8 B- J5 q8 n" ~" P很少會超過一天～. K% l7 }- j' Q' W
要期待更好的明天呀！