熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?0 y5 I# @, A& B& \: D. @
好唔鍾意呢種感覺* r: ~5 [8 n# k9 R/ i
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心! x/ ~# Y4 {; A$ N. a/ f! x
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣% G# d7 Y0 b1 V7 V+ I
覺得好空虛
5 W( x/ e; k& ?. f/ T* z) _9 f+ T其實早幾次都有試過係咁
- Z! g3 W; d0 C# C卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己8 t4 i; I# e% @: I+ }- o
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,6 b8 e1 e3 X5 ^# |9 t5 u8 d
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
) e$ C) Q! N- H( x- [熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
! h/ h- V$ p% U2 t所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,$ y; C  M, ~8 ?; R
日日有車站,, |$ }% W8 K2 D- {: q# T" m9 z
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙# L- b8 P  D) `( r( Q
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
4 R4 E# {' u; Z如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

& f1 }" E6 Y% I1 z+ f我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.4 r4 E9 k0 o0 h3 R; ?& E2 o
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..9 Q) n- G. S2 m" g9 Q- E$ c
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.* b9 f$ h2 U1 Q, U4 g9 n6 S/ V
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:5 e+ h( ?* V! J3 \" D( S8 J
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,. ~1 z4 M7 O7 H& W
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
2 l$ r0 Q8 N9 _2 C日日有車站,
* T8 V) p6 D. |1 W  w2 C) ~4 o有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
, O- w* D( L' i3 I! h* z如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?8 o  P1 v8 e- |8 c4 G8 W! g0 k  u
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
1 X2 r7 [4 K5 l4 V3 m  P6 q% V琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心- x7 B# y5 G% l+ q% e
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
% E2 l: A" t7 W5 ~) C% k$ O覺得好空虛
2 u* M4 N% {7 Y' N0 a* g5 I& [, }) L1 n其實早幾次都有試過係咁
& P4 M; l; F2 i- M: i卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己3 Z0 ?0 K! C, e$ w* M% y( y
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?* C* z% Q  M3 }$ P9 L

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.4 W; {* Z0 `/ t) }! G3 V" H
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.. u4 m+ O2 e' o2 R+ Y! h
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.3 p  o& ~9 x9 w. m

8 E6 G/ D! K9 _: K5 DPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
. J# e' C& a- _  C* Ka) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
& O/ G, D6 p( n% wb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
; I3 F- K& H* J; D) C. Hc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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6 `" p: J7 m9 P( T0 k, F0 PJust another thought on lonliness:
  J# O$ R* G# r  u! v/ ~Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
# F/ ]; n/ W7 P! x  H. GBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～( M$ w6 K) |4 S1 L+ L" p
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
# t; Q" Z4 D3 [就好似睇完一套好睇的電影, j7 F" E. K4 T: ?
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～+ h# d. {2 s# T0 ^. `
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
7 e* n# J" }0 \0 c1 e很少會超過一天～
+ G& u4 Z0 t$ v5 A! H6 o; c要期待更好的明天呀！