熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
0 Z/ L) b0 C' K8 E; @好唔鍾意呢種感覺0 m* w% f5 o8 p+ V
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心: s7 H" B8 G' @8 ^1 T
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣6 r7 b! q( \3 i$ \& Q+ m6 z
覺得好空虛
; R" Y$ m& }( }其實早幾次都有試過係咁/ w- V- e9 M7 a0 X2 A, v4 y
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己7 Z; P# S% r0 K: A5 x# i
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?6 D1 ^+ i+ [! h) s2 z" s  N) v

- \- T2 ?; ^9 L0 l* y8 P[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
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熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
: {( A# k  h/ x1 D4 v2 u' y. a" {所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙" D/ t/ l4 O- S" v
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
1 X. T3 g$ h9 ~! V9 T" C如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.! p& m4 y: T' g% h& ~) s! ?
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
" o; P: v- [' u# y( Z: W5 x玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
% z. C3 C! K+ Q$ T: W3 S總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
, J8 U# h) \7 Y" M9 p- k' V其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,  `( U* i- K" i& ~" _8 W* D# a
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
( z, l( r/ V. ~9 B7 M9 i, Y* t+ r3 z4 o日日有車站,+ q0 I% d$ a" I+ w
有目標!

: T# m; s5 c: }3 swhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:2 v9 A3 B& \) }$ T& z& z
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
4 p, o" f% E3 U1 r好唔鍾意呢種感覺5 _1 [5 E3 C- D+ P% X- ~* W
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心4 K3 ?) J5 y+ r
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
5 o( N1 ^3 H9 C9 p% }+ q: a% \覺得好空虛9 L  q, f8 ?, N2 |+ w
其實早幾次都有試過係咁/ _; C$ Y/ J7 N
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己/ L: J/ F" k  o- l2 f
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.& A1 i8 s* K2 G, G. t
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.5 X2 Z6 A+ r% y; G3 W8 T  F7 U
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.4 |7 b+ e/ h# Y6 q
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:& E1 ^2 ^. X$ y. Q8 e0 g
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long9 g- H9 M: b! h+ h* q
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone./ j) v+ D7 n5 R, i( N
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.  y9 h" M, I  [; ?+ q0 F7 j

: j" |3 `  {. X; e% R9 f: E& ?3 l  eJust another thought on lonliness:3 E" U- w9 D. g# O' E' f
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
( t: q* n1 D1 KBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
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就好似睇完一套好睇的電影1 L, T+ z2 c3 v& d
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～( |1 X/ l/ j0 I+ m9 [
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉, u+ r0 i2 ]4 b" x
很少會超過一天～
  ]' G  L5 u' i: g要期待更好的明天呀！