熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?) _/ @; E% P, H" Q1 D* ?
好唔鍾意呢種感覺( {8 c: r0 h4 @
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心' o% x% X; r! e; b
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
5 N# c6 D( t  W" h, Q覺得好空虛0 a  G1 }4 {, U/ D% q. m
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
7 ]  F6 t, b, L; g4 i( e卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
# Z7 _, ]" G7 m4 w用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?7 |/ Z- h% |9 |+ Q* E4 c
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
0 @% [+ r2 I3 n, }但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
) O) l, ]$ h4 k熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,& q6 w& V! N( }9 Z% H, ], V7 I
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
: [; l; i- V+ c日日有車站,
. {0 E) F* ^" l, T有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
8 f8 x; \9 S8 [5 r2 P! `! f6 {6 o你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
# `7 v& R& ?( ~6 D- j8 a/ {如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

- H% ?" O$ _- T! ^, G# a我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.( L4 R( o9 @6 v
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
2 G9 z6 D8 m# Q- t! z& y' _) L玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
1 a5 g2 V, R! A$ I! G總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
2 }( t; y: \, c7 g, |) u; M8 D其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,9 X+ q9 h2 v8 u5 p2 M+ s
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,' [, N6 }% \: _& R, v8 ~- i
日日有車站,9 o# q! U1 F0 z5 v( d3 z6 \; K
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
# T4 E) t) L" ?5 |0 e7 ~如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
* O5 R0 F# }. M$ j7 K% q好唔鍾意呢種感覺$ Z: y  Y! v" K+ y4 e
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
1 p& R4 R( x2 \! ~# F$ O4 t個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣$ _# F1 K$ H" Y& y
覺得好空虛( q8 ?4 R3 y* q% m' }
其實早幾次都有試過係咁8 W# ^- H& z3 C
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
2 V0 A) }9 q: |( m& M用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.6 z$ e8 Q7 P3 e& [6 Z4 M
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
% {* [) c% b# `2 Y: p; j% a8 Z; P4 [0 X有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.6 Q4 F1 V* o- a! o1 x- M
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
5 ?+ [+ |) m; K2 l$ Z; T( Ca) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
8 m: U( |! s* D2 w3 Lb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
2 C/ s8 s3 Q: t$ uc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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$ b, \/ Y5 Z+ h/ y) j# f# q$ |* PJust another thought on lonliness:
( f/ T& z! a/ g' p9 g! o  `Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
9 f; G/ r) F' j: g4 DBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～+ r$ [) m2 n9 i' {; u
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
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或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
' U; h, Z  X7 S: n7 Y( ?- F空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
1 d* I: |# O* f' P$ Z很少會超過一天～
+ c1 E' X' C% w: L9 X5 t2 Q要期待更好的明天呀！