熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
# }$ x. \' h0 _好唔鍾意呢種感覺
* B& g* w2 d6 Y* j+ B琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心" A; X" ?8 w/ F* i& M$ ]# m
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣1 v5 r; T! W3 b$ m% F( h
覺得好空虛9 ^' P# m; Y+ x
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
' D5 h8 z/ V1 L7 \: }卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
4 J+ F* U, T# ?0 g& [, p用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
5 B& j5 Q/ h0 b2 r# ]但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺- X3 ^5 ?: Q2 C: i- l& F( T% O: N
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
9 C2 c, i  B6 u2 D, z7 |所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
. b9 f+ `8 p% i6 _/ o- ?: B日日有車站,
* X8 [. \4 s4 @& Q有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙/ U1 f0 G4 P, |3 P) w$ n
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
* z6 H& Y: r% x* v8 D2 M如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

/ {, i7 b  R# J9 \' X我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
+ N: C$ M& d+ X感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
6 s3 L. ^# u" x& K玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
& |4 i4 e8 [/ \3 o1 Q總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
1 {! w$ F4 X/ o9 M4 I. V* H其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
* T9 \& ?7 l. N1 d  s6 }8 P+ _* _所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,9 f, s2 l$ q4 `1 b( I: @
日日有車站,
0 o# R4 O2 l% G8 M+ I2 y1 [有目標!

# C$ {7 ?; n3 `- }# m( twhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:' n& l7 V& f+ z0 \3 W. q( ]) X! H8 t
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?3 A6 M. D* F$ F& a3 }4 e8 B0 L( @
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
  ^+ ~* ]# g0 }: x8 f琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
5 B* E3 o4 z( B個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
% a8 w6 b& G) n5 ]覺得好空虛" I! s* t0 h2 {9 L$ S! X
其實早幾次都有試過係咁5 S1 M9 J* E6 r3 ^% H/ P- }3 m
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己6 V) x* p  c! t; Y5 H
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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, n6 }  @2 y3 C- U# g4 y這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
$ @! h: k) C$ v& Y0 c7 _( G唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足., Q& f" ~$ j$ h$ x8 Y# T
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.: a" Z* R: o; x( g: Q  T
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:0 Y7 l; m/ C' ]$ h) P
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
$ S/ u4 v' R8 V8 Nb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
; n* g' v! J/ v( Y$ g. ic) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
5 [2 s( x# {+ M- m3 K- }7 w" h- uLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
2 }$ e$ G9 p; ZBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～+ Z" \( ?3 Z7 |5 I
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺1 o- k! p9 U; P4 C  a- k
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影/ T* K0 O( y5 h7 I) x/ d
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
, w1 ?% `0 s4 z& w7 x; W空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
2 i: U) v1 p* P5 ~& v  Y很少會超過一天～2 s& E6 d$ J+ [
要期待更好的明天呀！