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: p) s# z3 J% B) \. h8 _" K3 f' ~假如仍不知悔改就要佢負上法律責任
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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way4 B& b3 w( ?' F) {
consider in the following (not in order):4 X0 J$ D8 o) q1 s* Q
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1st, how close the relationship we are?- X* Q, X* t- c/ y
2nd, how serious he/she has done?
8 A% A. X) s1 v3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?
) }5 V( q/ I* m: h/ Y4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?
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+ y- W. A5 j3 l# a7 }5 J. O4 b9 pfor me:
4 y- F: _- ?9 S7 `* _& mi may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
9 t) w3 P  z& m. g0 q: U, @but if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
! {" ^$ _: j/ y; Q6 H* U; gbut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!2 }5 M1 x/ @( P: k( m  ^4 U7 K8 P

9 Z2 U" `: d7 S: S* k) M! ibut whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。
, P2 n) R4 Y. r; e0 F第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。
) J/ i- ?0 y8 Y$ i+ g& H人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個4 t3 Z% L" z3 I
只要有數我都會滅