JLo

Yes, I met a female colleague of mine during training overseas and we fell in love with each other at first sight.  But we are both married...she has a son and I have a daughter.

Sometimes things turn out this way...you thought you have married the love of your life but he/she turns out not to be the one.  Then do you continue?  It's a matter of responsibility vs. love.  We have decided to accept our responsibility to our family.

很愛，卻不能相愛...we still feel sad that we can't be together but we wish each other a happy life.  Love should not be about owning someone.  It should be about making sure the one you love has a happy life!  At the end of the day, you want to be with him/her because you feel that you can give him/her happiness, right?