buengland

記得做人, 工作上, 拍拖 etc...... 就算見到江澤民 都吾好咁卑躬屈膝

你乜都就佢, 好似水泡咁, 佢就當你係契弟...

一個女仔, 有乜咁巴屎閉, 講真靚女街上大巴, 我要你托咩

有時做人要自我一啲

佢咩都俾吾到你, 你要佢嚟托咩

buengland

Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2007-1-16 02:21:
有時候， 踢踢下 ，表現好的話，可以 ...

Hey, you are wrong,

If you think if you are performance well, then the girl will turn to you, you will be absolutely wrong.

If the girl treats you as second choice, or even a buoy, then don't dream that you will suddenly be her first choice in short term.

It's simply because if she go dating with other boy, and you still standing by all the time for her, you will become valueless in her mind.

It's a natural psychological tendency that if she has got you, and without any fear that you will leave away from her even though she hold hand with other boy, then she don't need to do anything and treat you anything to keep you.

So, even if you are as handsome as andy lau, you will lose out

Trust me!

Leave her away, work well on your own and get another girl

You will soon get a bit of her heart back, at least she will feel that you are somebody with great guts and not being cheap

This is important as being a man  

buengland

Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2007-1-16 12:44:



每每說人於不是，你又對嗎？

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Totally agree

人地個心吾係你果度, 就根本吾駛話做啲咩嚟改變佢對你既睇法

短期之內我肯定你得吾到佢 (吾好介意啊兄弟, 實話實說)

你要得到佢, 只有兩個可能性

1) (short term) 佢同條仔突然有啲咩問題, 吾開心之下揾你"登"腳 (not preferable)

2) (long term) 不過咁, 長線嚟講都吾係無可能一齊既
你知啦, 啲後生女讀書時, 讀大學時 同出嚟做野時對伴侶既要求好吾同
讀書時鍾意啲玩得下野, 型, 俾到佢刺激
做野時鍾意啲成熟可以lead到佢, 同俾到佢承諾安全感 (你知個個女仔都驚嫁吾出)

所以你可以保持好既friend關係

讀好啲書, 或做好啲你既工作, 到2,3,4年後再相遇既時候可能你係佢眼中係一個煥然一新既男仔都未定

另外講開又講, 我都見吾少後生時同啲好型, 好in, we we wet wet 既型仔拍拖

但到出嚟做野, 好多都分手收場, 因為呢啲男仔年青時掛住玩, 年到25,26時仍然一事無成, 女仔覺得佢地俾吾到幸福同將來佢, 以前的激情一下子可以忘記得一乾二淨

所以亦都有機會你們將來相遇時會覺得對方係合適的人選

努力努力吧