有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...

Charcoal_henry

有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?.... a! ?* k) C6 b8 H; r

4 U: Z1 B  @! O5 G% C; @感情太豐富一受打撃果陣真係會好辛苦...- h( k  o4 T2 a. E' a
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any suggestions?

迪達拉姑

哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔理智..樓主分享多d你實例同個人心境黎睇下我地似唔似..+ k7 b$ a7 D. u/ z3 B5 C/ P
我諗個性自細培養..我諗..對感情唔重視..就可能係想獨來獨往..最好好似流川楓咁..' b) r% b* C, U9 ?& k! D
咁樣學下功夫,多做事小說話小胡思亂想..嚴重d睇心理醫生./吹眠..純粹個人意見..

john01daly

Anyone can help, I also want to know.

Charcoal_henry

Originally posted by 迪達拉姑 at 2008-2-17 03:06 AM:
. h/ \5 X2 \5 h7 H& h9 O哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔...

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good to hear that someone has got the same feeling with me( @  x1 @. n( T/ r6 a8 ~& ]

8 T, H& |$ ]9 V6 C; N唔係好想講experience...
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不過我自問都係一個性情中人, 好唔捨得一D曾經擁有既野 eg. school life, relationship with gf, close friends etc...., z9 t  y' l* N. n

- ], e0 G" ?! Q# e. }2 {) @0 @, a我唔係想做獨行俠,
- R& B: b! k+ A" Z只係想知道點樣先可以令自己對人與人之間既感情(no matter love or friendship)睇得開D...

escalation

個人分享:
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( ]& ~: g$ e2 u  i. f我自己曾經都好似你呢類人, 十分熱情和感性, 而且鍾意用"性情中人"自居, 其實呢種態度只係唔成熟既表現. 當然, 人地唔會咁好心點醒你, 就算點你都未必醒.
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解決方法: 好簡單, 多經歷一些挫折, 你慢慢會開始"化", 心態亦漸漸穩重起來. 呢個過程好奇妙的, 好難形容, 總之, 你經歷多左, 好多野會在你意料之中, 就唔會再比D小事情小變化影響你情緒.

自由神

Originally posted by escalation at 2008-2-17 08:35 PM:
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我自己曾經都好似你呢類...

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