有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...

Charcoal_henry

有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...
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& e2 D5 [9 O% q4 L# S9 T感情太豐富一受打撃果陣真係會好辛苦...0 G% C& v+ Z- i& K9 P9 H* G

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迪達拉姑

哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔理智..樓主分享多d你實例同個人心境黎睇下我地似唔似..0 @& p# C7 h8 G2 _6 K7 n! q
我諗個性自細培養..我諗..對感情唔重視..就可能係想獨來獨往..最好好似流川楓咁..8 g2 b( I* ~' l- `# Q# x
咁樣學下功夫,多做事小說話小胡思亂想..嚴重d睇心理醫生./吹眠..純粹個人意見..

john01daly

Anyone can help, I also want to know.

Charcoal_henry

Originally posted by 迪達拉姑 at 2008-2-17 03:06 AM:
, c4 r/ a4 f* k8 `% I5 F* ~哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔...

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1 J5 f& R$ J: Z% H- n) m" a2 Y3 _- kgood to hear that someone has got the same feeling with me
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# y5 F* G. V6 X$ L3 I* c4 o不過我自問都係一個性情中人, 好唔捨得一D曾經擁有既野 eg. school life, relationship with gf, close friends etc....
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我唔係想做獨行俠, 6 g- p# v/ O) r/ i+ Z, d+ p3 A1 g7 V3 s
只係想知道點樣先可以令自己對人與人之間既感情(no matter love or friendship)睇得開D...

escalation

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- l0 ^- I! k! s- D# ~  U我自己曾經都好似你呢類人, 十分熱情和感性, 而且鍾意用"性情中人"自居, 其實呢種態度只係唔成熟既表現. 當然, 人地唔會咁好心點醒你, 就算點你都未必醒.# T% L+ m5 R7 G7 N+ Y/ t7 F
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解決方法: 好簡單, 多經歷一些挫折, 你慢慢會開始"化", 心態亦漸漸穩重起來. 呢個過程好奇妙的, 好難形容, 總之, 你經歷多左, 好多野會在你意料之中, 就唔會再比D小事情小變化影響你情緒.

自由神

Originally posted by escalation at 2008-2-17 08:35 PM:
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我自己曾經都好似你呢類...

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