有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...

Charcoal_henry

有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...
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感情太豐富一受打撃果陣真係會好辛苦...$ I+ s) K$ T, m1 A- F+ R3 J

6 P5 q" h; A1 a. Q, ~9 E! _any suggestions?

迪達拉姑

哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔理智..樓主分享多d你實例同個人心境黎睇下我地似唔似..5 }7 f3 x8 W# k6 v0 [) x+ z9 g; a
我諗個性自細培養..我諗..對感情唔重視..就可能係想獨來獨往..最好好似流川楓咁..* K1 m/ d& S8 w- }' c
咁樣學下功夫,多做事小說話小胡思亂想..嚴重d睇心理醫生./吹眠..純粹個人意見..

john01daly

Anyone can help, I also want to know.

Charcoal_henry

Originally posted by 迪達拉姑 at 2008-2-17 03:06 AM:8 {+ H  a. H+ d- h$ h
哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔...

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! S$ j( A1 f# }9 x) q+ N# Vgood to hear that someone has got the same feeling with me+ l8 V. v" K$ @* m7 ~9 k6 U6 o
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唔係好想講experience...& p# A. w4 r+ M% K) H. r' `
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不過我自問都係一個性情中人, 好唔捨得一D曾經擁有既野 eg. school life, relationship with gf, close friends etc....3 e) w) E; W# K" z* I
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我唔係想做獨行俠,
1 [( h1 I7 A4 J, O$ b7 V只係想知道點樣先可以令自己對人與人之間既感情(no matter love or friendship)睇得開D...

escalation

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) ~; m/ i3 m; g5 O0 s, O/ \* `我自己曾經都好似你呢類人, 十分熱情和感性, 而且鍾意用"性情中人"自居, 其實呢種態度只係唔成熟既表現. 當然, 人地唔會咁好心點醒你, 就算點你都未必醒.
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解決方法: 好簡單, 多經歷一些挫折, 你慢慢會開始"化", 心態亦漸漸穩重起來. 呢個過程好奇妙的, 好難形容, 總之, 你經歷多左, 好多野會在你意料之中, 就唔會再比D小事情小變化影響你情緒.

自由神

Originally posted by escalation at 2008-2-17 08:35 PM:8 P7 I9 y/ g9 T6 N* [8 W
個人分享:
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, S5 {7 Q% W! |我自己曾經都好似你呢類...

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係呀！
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