[5/26兩性加分題]單身有咩好處? 有得拍拖又有咩唔好處?

trista_cheong

如果你依家唔係單身﹐有個唔錯ge男/女朋友﹐照計日日甜甜蜜蜜咁﹐都好唔錯~
但係你有冇諗過有得拍拖有咩好處? 又有d 咩唔好處?

如果你曾經係單身~有冇試過俾人哦過==> 快d 搵返個男/女朋友?
我諗實有ga wor~~ 咁單身有咩好處? 又有d 咩唔好處呢?

我自己就諗……單身會有好大ge 私人空間﹐但係呢有時有好想有個人錫o下﹐彼此關懷o下wor!!!但係諗黎諗去~~ 越諗就會越產生好大ge 疑問!!

咁你o地又覺得你o地會唔會好享受做個單身貴族呢??


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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-5-25 at 06:54 PM ]

JCer

比個fd 哦過話快D 搵返個女朋友... 重問我:"你係咪性冷感..."  無奈...
單身咪自由D lor, 但唔係咁好, 開心/唔開心 都無人同你分享下
有時睇到D野好好笑,想搵人講下...如果有個女朋友同佢分享下, 大家笑下幾開心~
唔好咪好似比人鎖住咁, 但其實係睇對方lor, 唔係個個都鎖到咁緊既, 如果對方比多D自由你,咁真係會好正
我好唔想單身貴族 ka ,單身唔會係貴族 lor , 只會係.... 唔,你自估下我想講咩la

vivienna

一句就可以講出左好多男仔既心聲﹕單身無得破處

Rika

我細個從未拍拖之前, 只係心思思想試下, 有無都無乜所謂, 因為好free, 唔洗煩:cool:
不過自從我習慣左身邊有個女朋友之後, 單身既話我會覺得好悶, 唔自在, 唔知想點咁
失戀遺証出晒黎, 如果有一個鐘意自己既女友, 實在太好, 開心時更開心, 唔開心時都開心
有人24小時陪, 有人關心你既需要, 生理心理都有好大既滿足, 係生人中一種最快樂既時間
但係開心既時間過得特別快, 要分手時, 其中一方會受到唔同程度既傷害
甜過之後既苦係特別苦架
人生就係要試下各種甜苦, 單身好似係由中學上大學咁
一個過程, 無話停留o係邊個過程到會好D, 最緊要係經歷過

william303

我由14歲開始到宜家32歲都未曾試過單身，反而試過幾個女朋友，但係太過多又係好煩，冇哂所有私人時間，自已生日重慘，重要左避右避，妳話開唔開心？我可以好肯定答妳唔開心，現在只係得一個女朋友反而樂得自在，唔需要再去諗大話，實在太煩啦！不過我請大家唔太多女友，你會感受到咩叫做入不(夫)支，不過我算係幸福一群，我諗如果我單身的話都幾悶，因為我冇咩朋友，以前張所有時間陪哂女朋友，D朋友叫我出去都推哂，Dfd都唔再叫我啦，慘

c2h6ethane

我自從上次拍拖分手之後都4年lu~
其實夜麻麻果時都幾寂寞ga
冇得同女朋友傾電話,玩icq,噓寒問暖,打情罵俏下
但係就真係free左好多law,又唔洗再為左陪佢得罪班fd,又唔洗好眼訓都要陪佢講電話,假期果時又可以自己想去邊就去邊,又可以慳番唔少錢^^又唔會怕失戀wor~
所以習慣左之後都幾enjoy依家單身ga,係某d時間冇野做果時覺得悶law~!

Randyman

以前未拍過拖就成日心思思想試下,但係拍過之後先知係一件好蠢 ga 事~
上次拍拖係一年前 ga 事~
分手之後 ga 單身生活真係好多野都會好好多~
起碼個私人空間大好多,好多野都唔洗交代,好多女人野都唔洗煩~free 好多好多~
時間同 $ 亦都可以慳好多~
其實分手一年話長唔長,話短唔短...但好快就習慣左~
到而家都係覺得單身 ga 生活比較啱我~

catbert

I promised trista I'll write something on this post.  Here you go.  

A lot of the others have already talked about the pros and cons of being single, so I am not going to repeat what they have said.  One thing I would like to say about one pro of being single is less complexity in deciding your own future.  Essentially, you don't have to put your bf/gf into the equation when you are making a decision of your future.

For instance, if there is a great career opportunity but you will have to relocate to another country, this won't be a problem if you're single.  Nevertheless, if you have a bf/gf, the whole situation will become very complicated as you need to consider whether you should take your bf/gf with you, or just leave your bf/gf and go by yourself, or simply give up a great opportunity.

As you could see, life is never perfect and you always ended up in a dilemma.  So it's almost impossible to say whether it's better to be single or not.  It all depends on how one value the importance of having a partner.

gundamman678

我上年年尾甩拖，現在單身中，感覺到單身既好處都有不少。

1.就以我自己來講，多左好多時間做自己野。以往拍拖時有好多時間要抽出來陪女友，如果再加上工作忙，讀書又忙既話，真係可以完全無晒私人時間。

2. 銀錢方面鬆動好多啦! 拍時除左去街食飯娛樂多數我出錢外，仲要同女友一齊儲錢。所以我拍拖時試過一個月連買一件衫俾自己都冇錢! 做男仔就係咁架啦，有時睇到女友有唔少錢可以駛係自己身上，但自己就"仙都唔仙下"，都幾無奈架!

3. 唔駛應酬對方親朋戚友: 我以以前女友個家人都幾麻煩，尤其是佢阿爸，係老粗一個，兼且極度大男人，去到佢屋企時簡直就有下臣見皇上個種感覺。最麻煩係佢乜都唔識又扮代表，好難頂......至於佢個家姐又係麻煩人一名，成個八婆咁......但係上親佢屋企，對住呢d咁難頂既人又要俾面女友，要對佢地好好態度。我就好唔鍾意做人做到咁假，所以好難頂架!

4. 可以毫無顧慮咁約會其他異性朋友囉! 呢點唔駛多講!

5. 可以做一d自己鍾意做既野，唔駛俾人管住。雖然我以前無咁既情況，但相信有些人會經歷過自己鍾意做既野俾女友反對個種無奈吧。

但不好的當然是情感上無滿足感啦，可能自己是個感情豐富d既人，以往好享受戀愛中個種幸福感覺，但而家無，所以都有d空虛感既。始終覺得有愛情既生活係精彩d。所以我雖然覺得單身好處不少，但一直都好想快d拍番拖，脫離單身一族~~

shoot_the_girls

Originally posted by vivienna at 2005-5-25 17:20:
一句就可以講出左好多男仔既心聲﹕單身無得破處

老兄. 沒有嘗過金錢的"愛情" ma?