熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?/ Y6 f0 R) Y1 m5 i; ~
好唔鍾意呢種感覺7 S, m0 s+ I1 X- w) h  @, Z2 p: n
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心+ J7 ^0 b- z+ ~4 A
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣, q2 H. G6 |9 Q) ~: c
覺得好空虛' J/ H3 d( g3 U+ y
其實早幾次都有試過係咁( u( z* k' T1 A, G
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己* U. A: q$ W& d) {9 b
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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3 W9 E4 x+ x, r6 s+ ?: I[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
  p6 O2 h1 [# C4 y" H但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺, v9 o4 [! D- t) T# `" @+ q* c$ \
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,$ ^3 k- ]! q6 ~' c# M
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,$ x; S+ n  |& R1 G
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙9 |0 Y+ b# T5 N- I5 _% h' r* s4 P' D
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:6 h- q5 I9 s# E7 Z& }/ _
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
, @" c. F. P  c感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..' `$ M/ h" c$ q5 ^
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.0 X( @8 w0 y( c8 [, v
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:* D' ~  {: u( H! l
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,4 d5 f# [1 @6 W! q* L
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,$ T2 l1 U# \% q9 R
日日有車站," B& n" Y. e* n2 X! J  ]
有目標!

" E# Y  b7 q3 t' k# a. G6 \8 e% b, Rwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:3 R! C4 R: N' ?2 z
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
: i/ A' w9 b, Y8 W0 @; U+ W8 Q好唔鍾意呢種感覺
; B( c4 C  |5 O7 T' |. \琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心; [1 n/ ^: Z& t3 `! W* z& f
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
9 ~+ L1 B4 \" t1 C: D  z, k覺得好空虛
% ^. Z9 y' d8 ]5 Y  {其實早幾次都有試過係咁' h. o$ p0 d( z% g8 M3 |
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
2 e$ ?4 J/ P: G% V2 Z1 n$ A用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?* v* ?. G' t9 z9 b4 S) O) @! N

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.- L2 @# I, S% J1 ?
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
( m& V1 ?# N* o- k. z有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.) ~2 Z$ d" }4 J. L* M' ?; M3 a& A* d

3 G. o1 X2 |& A8 E4 qPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
0 @5 r) `) j: j  E4 f6 u4 Ha) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
& O5 }/ ~  N* s7 @3 d) Jb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
; Q) W+ U2 x2 \" wc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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/ g. i: j# f* N. D* UJust another thought on lonliness:+ i  }" t) d  {$ n  S" q. J) j
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
, a! J  r7 T& ^7 g& S& ~) [But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～! {( V+ K' U1 f- z7 k( ]0 H- ]
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺1 b9 _/ Z" E' z& J0 ]  K' `/ L
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影1 H8 @' f& y; d1 C: _+ R' |
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～/ F; j; z+ p* K3 Y( Y
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉: r8 O2 @0 G9 S, l9 l0 q
很少會超過一天～: `2 j3 M7 g8 g- M: g. b* e
要期待更好的明天呀！