熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?3 R+ e; c5 w: q8 j& U& ?& G
好唔鍾意呢種感覺0 [* H7 H0 [  R% b5 {
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
: L4 D7 q: B7 H, T0 x個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣$ t% k( l( J* Q5 p( _
覺得好空虛
* _$ a% ^/ C! I: }其實早幾次都有試過係咁
" @% P1 s# h3 p8 `- I3 E卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己6 D# X# d7 T" k3 q: C* b& A
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?9 B3 k6 g- `! F* X
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,8 g1 q) O7 M9 o) P- N4 {
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
9 H9 M0 ?* E$ X7 o熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
1 J) q' P2 b( p& X* |! _所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
3 b1 X( n8 n! u2 g2 e/ i日日有車站,
" C, n8 J( d8 g  r) ^有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙% N$ d8 w2 F! _  d" ~
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:8 ~+ z3 A: x. a" m* U$ }9 L
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

7 Y) t3 y! }, D我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.! @2 S. H( U8 y& o; N" e% i. B
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
& b" }0 S8 _4 g+ Z5 q) p玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.  [: E* A4 e- c  T' p
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:: r+ _+ {2 ~' R; i
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
6 E& z4 W. O; Z/ \4 i" O9 c; W所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,# z, \; F+ u" }; E$ Q
日日有車站,
) ]: o3 I8 L9 M# `2 }/ w有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:# c* B3 r8 Q/ l/ W2 w
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?. _5 t# j7 K( g  t0 I5 [- X
好唔鍾意呢種感覺: c( T+ i! M3 Q/ I1 s9 w' {+ ]. @9 g
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心( m( R6 ?! q3 M! I) F8 L
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
& C& {- R4 T/ \4 E& e( n8 [* q' {覺得好空虛
( _: F6 W2 H1 y( A; D% v& R$ z; a其實早幾次都有試過係咁
6 g6 t! \/ s! L2 |) K2 J7 _卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己; H8 S5 l" }8 }, e0 [1 t6 M7 `
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?8 S/ F9 o& U6 r& U, M1 W. p" m' s) P

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: e6 K8 n+ A* ?* `這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
6 ^% Q9 @, G4 |& U唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
9 h. U) o- }4 v6 k- K8 i有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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/ d! B8 @0 }. oPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
  e6 Y2 c7 x! qa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
  _* Q8 o( C- E3 wb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
1 ?, R6 i, ~' ~+ k$ s% C( Ec) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
1 w2 S) f! Z9 y2 g$ ?6 x: Q, [Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....2 `9 E3 L- m9 l: W, v$ R
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～2 t$ r8 \% k7 d0 \; b' P
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
+ l& P8 V" ]1 j0 f8 D' j. n就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
7 E* H. H8 u8 r' D9 N, u+ C9 w或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
4 s* i% v. W5 W6 H% I空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
7 M4 e: ?0 z- i" q$ C很少會超過一天～
1 e9 `6 J9 R( h% A8 o要期待更好的明天呀！