熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
# b0 G9 q$ }9 P6 S好唔鍾意呢種感覺
/ {4 j7 \* O7 Z+ p9 _琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
0 ^3 r5 }( {4 u+ L- d- ]# w8 x個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
9 U( _6 f$ F. ?( Z/ i9 t" l覺得好空虛
4 {+ P' j3 d; r3 L# P1 z4 `其實早幾次都有試過係咁
1 H  A, Y% o1 T卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
: Y; l4 M/ G( K用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?) M2 A- A: {& E1 g) M3 `

# O# I/ Y# e2 g[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
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熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,* m* P/ Y" U( ?7 ~. G1 R: ~' r
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
2 f/ q: N% s5 U8 _1 \- q& X. l* a你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:: _. @4 E, f. H' D" ]# U! u
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
8 M1 ^) [  b" \感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞.., G$ D: |: x5 r
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
, @: h, b0 n: T% l8 l總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
- Z/ t* N$ I' j' h; }" f其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
2 }) j2 d- x+ i. ]% g- v所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
1 X+ K) O5 D& Q, Y8 _6 h: H& g; Q日日有車站,
. h, |+ U; I) N, f. {- L有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
* K! j: l9 \) X% h如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
6 z; `% D$ {" _/ o: l好唔鍾意呢種感覺
) E* T7 @) m1 K9 }/ y琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心( x+ u3 v* T6 ^
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
' j( ~3 z5 x; }; R3 u- R6 D覺得好空虛
# E8 ]9 l  N) P# k8 [7 D8 l其實早幾次都有試過係咁
; N8 }0 m: @% a1 Y" b2 [卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
  C$ {. c6 P, J, x5 B$ l' q( n用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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+ C5 w- |# b5 p! v這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.; P2 k+ M. s* T. l) J. P
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
, I0 i4 @. I2 C) B; Z+ D8 d有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.& J9 [& B5 J2 O0 ^5 x" v
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
" Y% h9 D4 F! b6 r) s) Ba) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
& }) ]) O( |3 D: cb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.: ^' _4 K  g' W' b3 n* |
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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# a3 v8 _5 E- v' E) J! r7 _2 lJust another thought on lonliness:
6 L, K- N/ k: l- }+ f8 ^: ZLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
1 H. d' ^. u; R7 y7 ]6 @But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～% a0 R+ t7 J* H
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
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或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～  a. c  u2 Q$ |+ R7 _
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
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要期待更好的明天呀！