熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
. e. z' e# n7 [: R; r好唔鍾意呢種感覺
% r" [( ~- K' m- T' w琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
; r/ ^2 A) e4 O1 ^; V. P6 J個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣( A( m/ G8 U" h) h
覺得好空虛6 D; ^- }. R: D+ t
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
8 d% H  L9 s0 t* q% R* V$ Z0 o, s卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
9 X/ }8 U0 R& s5 l" l# B. z用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?5 ^% M4 S  p5 s/ ^
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,3 m# K$ p2 u! c' Y8 j+ V1 }
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
9 S7 Y( d$ G; u: A+ L; T& ^' J, f熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,; t$ i5 q# o+ B! C+ P: r# @& H0 |
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
5 B6 ?# D, H! x" H日日有車站,) I, v  A( X; h1 Q" f7 ]
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙8 X) r( }2 e4 ]0 R
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
& |0 o, S, T- C& ^  I' I如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

. h, F! H* l7 d5 x我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
3 n* n5 i1 ~3 D( M感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
" t/ t; [8 t- y0 J玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
, W) U2 c0 y7 }4 j總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
4 L$ i! Y+ r' D( K其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,5 Q! {4 J$ P# G9 \
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
; [7 ?+ U8 r3 ~. X5 [. u# E日日有車站,
0 f8 i# O8 C" w9 c# f) W有目標!

$ |, |' A3 w! awhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:; g) x: S1 ]# ]$ b
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?- z% S1 |. R& c7 h) K% j% P: ]' o( o
好唔鍾意呢種感覺9 X( j+ R0 A5 U: @+ R# x
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心4 o* b4 Q' t+ F. y" d5 b' ^
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
3 q$ X, V) W) o1 c! Y' }( B" E8 x覺得好空虛
" B, X$ B/ U" g1 A# W1 S其實早幾次都有試過係咁
) [* v5 K5 K2 K卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己" E! p4 g. X* s" P' p' G. t. f
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?; h) ?# f, ]' W6 c4 c8 C! [/ }

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1 I4 _# T/ a2 o1 f$ {這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.0 G7 B9 @7 Y' x& @. K
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
) ~8 ?& Q  D- B+ b' C有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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$ e# U% }4 n* ]; z' dPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:8 @% o- Y& ~% z& ^( A0 d8 N6 O7 t
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long. W0 Q5 C, O; V$ u- u
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.6 x$ w; D6 t- p8 w$ N
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.5 N8 j4 ^6 ^# k5 r7 A

+ u9 Z; N9 r  d5 v: d" zJust another thought on lonliness:8 {/ f: u6 j5 E- i+ r
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
# A) n$ J. f+ L6 `But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～7 y' e1 R0 D- r# c1 }3 a
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
( k! L7 x- \8 }! N0 l7 N就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
- E, E/ D; y. N+ X0 t' }5 ?+ h* t或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～. Q: Y- m9 g6 o* Y/ g
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉* C( I- G5 e7 s! r
很少會超過一天～
7 X# N6 A& B% }' R要期待更好的明天呀！