[6/7日兩性加分題]應該和她一齊嗎?

gundamman678

我同一個女仔發展得好好。係我主動識佢既，當時我同佢係完全唔相識。現在發展到佢對我越來越喜歡，只是因為佢年頭才分手，想三個月後先決定同唔同我一齊。現在還有兩個月時間......

但問題就是我並非十分喜歡她! 最初是我主動認識佢，不過當時是對佢初步印象好有好感，所以先至去識佢。但識落左，溝通多左至發覺我同佢唔係好夾得來。佢係一個好靜既人，平時冇乜嗜好，唔鍾意行街買衫，去街怕熱，去遠d又唔搭得車船......但我又鍾意周圍行，去郊外，所以同佢一齊要諗去邊真係覺得好頭痛。而我同佢又無乜共同興趣，佢鍾意的我不喜歡，我喜歡的佢又冇興趣。平時講電話，佢又唔多野講，我講d野，佢又通常只係回應"係咩"之類，所以好多時都講到dead air......可能我本身都唔係咁活躍既人，所以遇到咁"悶"既佢就真係覺得大家一齊時冇乜樂趣。

但而家佢又真係好鍾意我喎，而我對佢都有d鍾意，但就唔係咁強烈......咁我應該俾d時間同佢再發展下，定係斷然拒絕，同佢表明唔想同佢一齊?

係我主動識佢既，而家佢鍾意我先至話唔同佢一齊又好似好衰咁......

[ Last edited by trista_cheong on 2005-6-7 at 08:30 AM ]

kakeidevil

有豬唔食....罪大惡極!!!!
唔理乜野...食左先算啦~~~~~

哈哈^^
講笑.....唔好介意....


我覺得如果係鍾意既咪開始囉....
興趣呢樣野慢慢培養囉....話唔定第時你會好love佢呢....
開始左....大家都開心....如果真係唔夾既先分開囉.....
如果而家冇開始....將來你可能會後悔莫及喇!!!!!!

gundamman678

我好怕開始左之後至同佢分手會hurt到佢......佢話之前拍兩次拖都分手，佢覺得好hurt了，所以今次佢咁小心要俾三個月時間去發展就係咁解。所以其實我都諗可能同佢一齊耐左會越來越夾，應該可以一試掛? 但一諗到如果第時先發現唔夾既話，對佢黎講實在太大傷害了，所以.......

naz124

How old is she?  Don't waste her time if she is near marrying age.

gundamman678

佢25歲，都幾靚女架~~

kakeidevil

Originally posted by gundamman678 at 2005-6-6 08:52 PM:
我好怕開始左之後至同佢分手會hurt到...

成日如果..........
如果未開始過又點知將來會唔夾啫???
唔好咁婆媽啦.....成日都驚怕傷害人.....你係咪男人黎ga???
咁不如你介紹個女仔比我......
我唔會傷害佢既......好冇????
如果你唔同佢一齊.....真係傷害佢喇!!!!



老友...你自己唸清楚喇!!!!
如果第時你見到佢拖住第二個男人...我睇你有咩感受!!!!

johnwu

Originally posted by gundamman678 at 2005-6-6 08:25 PM:
但問題就是我並非十分喜歡她!

There is your answer already...
Don't waste your and her time...

kingamix

她愛你多過你愛他是嗎？   如果你和她在一起了該會很幸福的  信我吧！ 亞門！  有那麽好的女孩你都不珍惜她。。。 太可惜了  不如你介紹我吧好嗎？      我來之馬來西亞的

gundamman678

我就是很怕傷害女孩子嘛!

她不想在感情上再受傷害，而我對感情也不是玩玩下的，我希望黎緊呢次拍拖係結婚對象架啦，所以我要想清楚才和她一起。

smallbox

ok let say if u are nice enough to not hurt her, but then can u protect her from being hurt by millions of other guys out there?

I mean if u yau d feel gei, mai give it a try lor~ Since she yau yau d like u~ Start jor hai give both a chance! don't just think u'll hurt her!! think of the happy times that u'll give her~ even if u two break up later, its still gonna be a good memory between u and her!