| 你話網上有冇真正 既 Friendship 呢 ?|
我成日都有呢種感覺:覺得大家日日係度 Happy, 晚晚 開 Party,L%D*Ki;eq3v%I3H
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Friendship 自然容易產生.
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有人係現實生活中出現問題,或者需要援手,.P OA j8{d,F$d
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面對現實中出現既問題,又可以做既係D乜野呢
答案係:"Absolutely Nothing"
呢種感覺,確實一d都唔好受~
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TriAngel [quote]Originally posted by [i]playbr2[/i] at 2006-10-18 05:39 AM: wxnM2j x1Y
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突然而來既事,當然好難講幫吾幫得上忙,不過非一朝一夕既事,如果攞出黎傾下,或者慢慢會有轉機...........情況就好似電車男追女仔一樣(樂觀).........咁當然,我地最多最多都只係做下軍師,比下意見........而且解鈴還須繫鈴人,就算現實上都有好多問題,難以由第二個人出手代替自己解決問題........所以咩叫真實朋友,咩叫虛擬朋友都冇分別...只在於真實既朋友你可以摸到、見到、掌握到,而令你信心大D,安全感高D.........但幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事,好難講話一定得 [/quote]
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[[i] Last edited by Triangel on 2006-10-18 at 12:21 PM [/i]] [quote]Originally posted by [i]playbr2[/i] at 2006-10-18 06:02 AM:
補多句:處理一般問題&非一般問題
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用問題解決問題,並不是問題,因為問題已經解決,但多數有手尾,但D人多數一貫都係咁做.YKz-[ZZ4gA
但用問題之外既問題去解決問題,結果問題會越变複雜,但卻會出現前所未有既轉機,雖然吉凶難喻,但總比墨守成規好.
故事:墨子長於守城,又因為墨家思想係兼愛﹑非攻,當佢聽到楚國想造雲梯攻打宋國時,就去楚國搵造雲梯既公輸般模擬戰咁較高下(公輸般攻,墨子守),結果公輸般諗極辦法都贏唔到墨子。最後想殺左墨子,點知墨子話,你殺左我,仲有千千萬萬墨家子弟。 [/quote]
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[[i] Last edited by Triangel on 2006-10-18 at 12:22 PM [/i]] [quote]Originally posted by [i]trista_cheong[/i] at 2006-10-18 10:31 AM:dR-~YhX){Z
呢個係一個殘忍ge 事實﹐但我都會覺得換個角度黎講﹐o個d 有形有體ge frds 都未必touch 到ur heart ... 雖然話如果現實中未必真正幫到大家﹐但係我諗如果幫得手ge 都會儘量去幫lor… 呢d 係限制… 係一d 冇辦法ge 事!6x|ff1{ C2L&|/q
不過如果唔係呢d限制﹐我地又點會係網上面玩得咁放呢? 因為冇形體有可能會令人與人之間完全冇利益衝突﹐所以先隔膜冇咁大… 呢個係我ge 睇法 … 所以都係珍惜大家就好…… [/quote]9uzf\C4["v
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[[i] Last edited by Triangel on 2006-10-18 at 12:54 PM [/i]] 自問自己人生經驗尚淺,
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Trista,
你正表達到我想要講既野
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[[i] Last edited by Triangel on 2006-10-18 at 01:33 PM [/i]] 很在於每個人對朋友的定義.
面對網上的朋友, 往往能夠暢所欲言. 你不想給他們知道的, 他們便不會知道, 不用刻意提防.
你認為這是朋友嗎? [quote]Originally posted by [i]Triangel[/i] at 2006-10-18 12:19 PM:
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[[i] Last edited by Triangel on 2006-10-18 at 12:22 PM [/i]] [/quote],Xo Y t D`
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i guess it's quoted from [i][b][color=Red]trista_cheong[/color][/b][/i]:haha::haha:? [quote]Originally posted by [i]Triangel[/i] at 2006-10-18 12:16 PM:
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support [color=Red]TriTri[/color]¬¬:P:P:P [quote]Originally posted by [i]12d3[/i] at 2006-10-18 12:42 PM:L}XJq
很在於每個人對朋友的定義.2v4xQL1lB1g W!P
面對網上的朋友, 往往能夠暢所欲言. 你不想給他們知道的, 他們便不會知道, 不用刻意提防.kghb"z|I*o!U
你認為這是朋友嗎? [/quote]
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[[i] Last edited by Triangel on 2006-10-18 at 01:05 PM [/i]] [quote]Originally posted by [i]trista_cheong[/i] at 2006-10-18 12:49 PM:
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i guess it's quoted from [i][b][color=Red]trista_cheong[/color][/b][/i]:haha::haha:? [/quote]
我覺得呢個 Topic
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希望可以多d Friend 繼續吹水:clap:4v\4YD(B1X
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[[i] Last edited by Triangel on 2006-10-18 at 01:30 PM [/i]] 最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
我要講既只有咁多 [quote]Originally posted by [i]gn00987333[/i] at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友2~#A5k%c1^.n+Wb
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[color=Red]明就明,唔明就算[/color] [/quote]
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[[i] Last edited by Triangel on 2006-10-18 at 01:33 PM [/i]] [quote]Originally posted by [i]gn00987333[/i] at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:"F ^*a O/N+x s
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
我要講既只有咁多 [/quote]:t0CQ joI
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?:confused: 當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過上上黎同朋友仔吹下水,
有咩唔開心,呢到既朋友都會想辦法黎氹返我, P]](G GA?_
之後都會有好多舊友同我say hi~
仲有唔少新朋友比我認識,
估唔到我走左咁耐,都仲有人識我,oBA+NV{
仲有人冇忘記我,真係好開心,
呢個就係ef令我有歸屬感既原因喇:) [quote]Originally posted by [i]左輪仔[/i] at 2006-10-18 03:16 PM:`:Buob
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過... [/quote]
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~:D:P [quote]Originally posted by [i]trista_cheong[/i] at 2006-10-18 15:23:
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~:D:P [/quote]
聽到呢句說話,真係有d感動:cry: [quote]Originally posted by [i]左輪仔[/i] at 2006-10-18 03:34 PM:&J(lx'XB r
聽到呢句說話,真係有d感動:cry: [/quote]
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[quote]Originally posted by [i]playbr2[/i] at 2006-10-18 03:49 PM:O%v`'b\"qb:X
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我係指真實生活上既朋友,有事揾人幫,你都會先揾佢地.因為你可以見到佢地,咁做起事上黎你會信心大D,因為你可以摸到佢地所以安全感高D,.........但其實,幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事.......而且,反問一句,你對生活上既朋友又有幾深了解,你能踏足他們的內心深處嗎??
至於,上網既朋友係虛擬性質的,因為在日常生活上我們未必真正影響到你/控制你........而表面上大家沒有身份地位區別,所以可暢所欲言,講一D平時未必同人講既野(秘密、私隱、赤裸裸的''性''),........但實質上你我双方都有不能越過的防火牆,就好似你既個人資料,身份利益等等............如果知得太詳細,玩得太投入,变左真實朋友,大家就會不其然地想控制/影響對方,咁暢所欲言的空間就會消失........因為虛擬朋友你不能摸透,所以會覺得他們在真正有事時幫不上忙.......但其實在心靈上,他們是唯一可以透達你內心痛處既知己........
有一句諷剌既說話,日間上你我是勢不兩立的仇人,晚上(上網)卻成為惺惺相惜的知己[/quote]
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:agree::agree::agree: [quote]Originally posted by [i]trista_cheong[/i] at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?:confused: [/quote]&j3`p8\6a
因為我變左超正常所以我講野原全唔會理人感受