有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...

Charcoal_henry

有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...5 B  a. P' t% y9 J; Y
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感情太豐富一受打撃果陣真係會好辛苦.../ h. K0 c3 g$ v. U$ D+ P" I
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any suggestions?

迪達拉姑

哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔理智..樓主分享多d你實例同個人心境黎睇下我地似唔似..
9 m2 n6 @+ E# p& ]6 Q+ a0 F我諗個性自細培養..我諗..對感情唔重視..就可能係想獨來獨往..最好好似流川楓咁..) R- @! c0 X1 D& k1 w5 O+ ~0 S
咁樣學下功夫,多做事小說話小胡思亂想..嚴重d睇心理醫生./吹眠..純粹個人意見..

john01daly

Anyone can help, I also want to know.

Charcoal_henry

Originally posted by 迪達拉姑 at 2008-2-17 03:06 AM:8 Y& N8 \* Q/ w( s" o
哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔...

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good to hear that someone has got the same feeling with me4 J3 @* s- w) K0 K
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唔係好想講experience...4 N2 v  z; e( Y6 \. X" r& O" q

% k" |6 K+ p$ B; L* c$ ]不過我自問都係一個性情中人, 好唔捨得一D曾經擁有既野 eg. school life, relationship with gf, close friends etc....9 o: B0 f) w! z' s
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我唔係想做獨行俠,
( ~, ]+ @9 `; }6 y- k9 v. ]6 h只係想知道點樣先可以令自己對人與人之間既感情(no matter love or friendship)睇得開D...

escalation

個人分享:
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我自己曾經都好似你呢類人, 十分熱情和感性, 而且鍾意用"性情中人"自居, 其實呢種態度只係唔成熟既表現. 當然, 人地唔會咁好心點醒你, 就算點你都未必醒.
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解決方法: 好簡單, 多經歷一些挫折, 你慢慢會開始"化", 心態亦漸漸穩重起來. 呢個過程好奇妙的, 好難形容, 總之, 你經歷多左, 好多野會在你意料之中, 就唔會再比D小事情小變化影響你情緒.

自由神

Originally posted by escalation at 2008-2-17 08:35 PM:
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- J  w  ]0 N8 V4 c- @( P  ]2 \我自己曾經都好似你呢類...

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係呀！
+ F" f8 g) g* K只要當一切都係遊戲，咁就會“笑看風雲”