有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...

Charcoal_henry

有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...; z  g5 L0 ~3 h! j
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感情太豐富一受打撃果陣真係會好辛苦..." m/ v0 g+ Q/ q  D
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any suggestions?

迪達拉姑

哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔理智..樓主分享多d你實例同個人心境黎睇下我地似唔似..
4 x6 s2 }7 A$ Y1 p# Z. S! e# U我諗個性自細培養..我諗..對感情唔重視..就可能係想獨來獨往..最好好似流川楓咁..) H9 e1 V" c+ ]* G: ?, M2 l
咁樣學下功夫,多做事小說話小胡思亂想..嚴重d睇心理醫生./吹眠..純粹個人意見..

john01daly

Anyone can help, I also want to know.

Charcoal_henry

Originally posted by 迪達拉姑 at 2008-2-17 03:06 AM:
# Y, o  ?" Z' K, Q哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔...

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good to hear that someone has got the same feeling with me% q) i% v. C! O' I
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唔係好想講experience...
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, u5 q+ d$ ~+ w- D9 M不過我自問都係一個性情中人, 好唔捨得一D曾經擁有既野 eg. school life, relationship with gf, close friends etc....
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+ I" {7 }) ]# D" P我唔係想做獨行俠,
  h3 k2 o, o% b只係想知道點樣先可以令自己對人與人之間既感情(no matter love or friendship)睇得開D...

escalation

個人分享:, J- I7 }( q$ X* q
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我自己曾經都好似你呢類人, 十分熱情和感性, 而且鍾意用"性情中人"自居, 其實呢種態度只係唔成熟既表現. 當然, 人地唔會咁好心點醒你, 就算點你都未必醒.
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解決方法: 好簡單, 多經歷一些挫折, 你慢慢會開始"化", 心態亦漸漸穩重起來. 呢個過程好奇妙的, 好難形容, 總之, 你經歷多左, 好多野會在你意料之中, 就唔會再比D小事情小變化影響你情緒.

自由神

Originally posted by escalation at 2008-2-17 08:35 PM:
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5 Q% P8 X5 M% }0 ]* m6 v我自己曾經都好似你呢類...

7 _  i' m. p. z  ]8 |3 x4 {係呀！
6 t/ r9 [3 H! X! h# j只要當一切都係遊戲，咁就會“笑看風雲”