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發表於 2005-4-27 02:01 PM
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in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way9 h, S5 S+ j* F; x! J0 `0 |3 V+ [! M
consider in the following (not in order):/ O- x' `# S) s+ H1 a" K
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1st, how close the relationship we are?: S( X* y' f' ~" ?* K2 Z$ M
2nd, how serious he/she has done?) l1 o8 Q7 q4 p" M" J
3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?
' Z$ n7 H n3 a0 g' l) d2 ?# p' T4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?
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for me:
7 l i. _* {- E) X. pi may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
( c4 q* u* G1 G$ |$ `" tbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
; @, t1 U; e) e% C+ B7 V! [8 ^$ I" \but for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!, g: P! I* b4 F
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!! |
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