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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way
9 m  r. v, r, y% Fconsider in the following (not in order):) I0 K3 U  j) Y+ b3 \% A, r5 i- c
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1st, how close the relationship we are?( _: e# b. Z# F# R/ b. C' U$ ~
2nd, how serious he/she has done?
4 P" |7 N9 o( r% {3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?) v5 d) l( c) W3 Z- s
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?! d+ b1 c% i% c% K" m

, @- k2 Q7 ?' vfor me:
" L& d7 S6 }+ Y4 B/ c2 Y, Ci may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.& u9 K% f9 V4 z! f/ P0 A
but if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)" w' z9 s# q9 X4 r. s
but for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。& s' I4 {+ n% E! x. V
第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。, o$ C3 p" [7 V7 G
人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個
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