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1 r7 V# W2 M2 e, w: w+ I假如仍不知悔改就要佢負上法律責任$ e" N( d9 o/ O6 n% n
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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way) a6 n- }7 ?5 I
consider in the following (not in order):) G- X" _* D4 S* F
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1st, how close the relationship we are?
* s8 c: s+ o7 g2nd, how serious he/she has done?
. c; q, I% R5 M# a$ V" C5 i3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?& n( ?8 M7 c$ j
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?9 a$ w6 H6 ~- V8 Y

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i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.; h! J, v; V3 B' G; e7 f
but if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)! B" X0 E2 D$ v! Z- z! P! `2 g
but for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。* h/ S5 ~, P/ v
第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。
9 g# ]0 }) A. _5 o人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個6 M" R. \* n5 P+ P0 h
只要有數我都會滅